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Realtruth2023:
Are you really on drugs?

No am in my Perfect state of mind......We are watching the developments of people from GRV to Akeredolus wife even at some point ate Ajimobis own was already fighting Oyo state government for some properties in Choice areas at Ibadan....

Very soon if you aren't married to a Yoruba woman or your mother is not Yoruba no Governorship Local Government Chairman for you ....
It's a matter of time we start making it clear ..A Yoruba woman can't try what that Ondo governors tried elsewhere but our simplicity gives room for Arrogant people to throw their weight

Happy New Year to all my friends on this platform

mascot87:
This people are the most foolish imbeciles on planet earth. Enugu state government demolished properties in Enugu last week and the f00ls didn't say a word. Now the owners of the Properties who happens to be Yorubas and rented to the imbeciles want the building down and see them crying and making videos like hardened criminals like say na there papa get the building demolished. Crying more than the bereaved

Landlord say he wan bring him building down wey him use him money take build o. Na tenant dey cry pass. Ozuors

Tejuosho market in Yaba was demolished by Fashola many old markets dominated by Yorubas were demolished especially by Ambode .....No Yoruba group came out ....But this way of trying play victim at any move by the Government is perceived as ethnic cleansing .....

It has helped Alot of women in Nigeria escape SAPA .,

onuman:
You don't know what love and marriage entails.

Igbos marry far away Oyibo women. Igbo man marriage to nearby Yoruba woman should be like eating jollof rice.

We all know why they do that!!!!that's another story ...Why majority of their women not also marrying Oyinbo men as they marry Yoruba men...
Korra Obidi is a good example she's an ex Oyinbo wife..Uche Jombo, Kate Henshaw all ex Oyinbo wife's but am very sure if they had a Yoruba man they would still be married till today...

Nonexisting1:
I will better build a home from the scratch with you because I want to have a say in my home"
Vaginarians from my state have this mentality of building with a man which is why they are still better than the rest today even with this current wave of hookups. You can never hear us call wives oriaku like Anambra people do. If you want a wife that will not come with urgent 2k mentality, come to Imo state and marry. It's that simple.

I had met a imo lady they do have that mentality indeed ..

Edusouls:
go tell am ur dead brother wey marry Igbo woman and became a very successful man in life u think ur wiser than him? Surely he would not be happy with the share disrespect of calling his own kids ugly, u just justified what I said about Yorubas, una tribalism, wickedness and divisive attitude is the worst in the whole nation, chameleon’s

Please don't respond to Some callous comments by some people they're not normal..
We are proud of his wife and her children and grateful to the wife for playing a great role in his life ...

Edusouls:
she is an Igbo woman keeping his family together for him till death, what most Yoruba women can’t even do, one reason most successful Yoruba men go for Igbo woman don’t mind Yorubas their tribalism is the worst in the whole Nigeria, I pity all those naive Igbo young women marrying there, in future they would understand their mistakes not now

Is she regretting ithow many Igbo women are regretting marriage to Yoruba men ...In my family None I can say ...
Makinde is married to a Kalabari woman for many years and they are still married
Ajimobi was married to also a Kalabari woman too
Davidos uncle is married to Ibo
Davido is married to ibo
Even one of Tinubu's son is also married to Ibo
What's the problem with you people ....
We all know what Psquare wife Lola faced in your hands if not for Peter taking his Stand she's gone for just being Yoruba

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

This is rare not the norm now....

Tetraozonaitera:
You are both daydreamers.

"Without US Israel is nothing"

Are you saying the Iron Dome that Israel created US made it for them or they financed it. When US itself doesn't have the technology yet.

No hate can bring Israel down. You all are just analysing ignorantly.

Without the US Israel will defeat Arab nations. The best Scientists of the world are Israelis. That gives them an edge over many countries mostly the Arab nations.

Stop day dreaming my guy

He just crammed a quote and recite it without Verification.....

Ghali Umar NaAbba was an Obj Protegy...Those who fought objs third term

"U be mumu" according to Sabinus

orohbirodeysmel:
No Governor have ever died in power in the South East...it is always the North and now the South West...

This is because of lack of good health care in the North and South West. The west resort to agbo too much, part of what deteriorated Aketi's health. When I heard that an erudite legal luminary like him was taking I was shocked.

An Erudite legal Luminary take Agbo kaii

Beware of people baring lucky....If you go use Goodluck, Fortune, Lucky as deputy na you know

Coolsat:
You are right on this, but it's also bad on his side to keep flogging this issue for over ten years. He wanted to promote his movie but he doesn't necessarily have to bring his family affairs into it and in all honesty this woman has kept quiet for over ten years till this very moment. I don't support bringing marital issues to the public irrespective of who is at fault.

Very true it would been left that way ..The woman had accused him of Domestic Violence but bringing out the boy to proof a point against his father is not right she's trying to do the right thing the wrong way just look at what she has caused on that boys life.......
Emeka Ike would most likely definitely pass before that boy but the effects of this folly doesn't leave easily it would reflect in whatever he does on the earth be it marriage, Jobs or Business He won't be stable even with women ...
Very soon as the same women that support him would call him mamas boy (women are not stable )when the mother start exhibiting her own on the ones trying to date him or on his future wife ...This go be life film ...
She just want to take full control of him now he's old that's what women do ...My brother I know you understand what I am talking

Coolsat:
You are right on this, but it's also bad on his side to keep flogging this issue for over ten years. He wanted to promote his movie but he doesn't necessarily have to bring his family affairs into it and in all honesty this woman has kept quiet for over ten years till this very moment. I don't support bringing marital issues to the public irrespective of who is at fault.

You are right on this, but it's also bad on his side to keep flogging this issue for over ten years. He wanted to promote his movie but he doesn't necessarily have to bring his family affairs into it and in all honesty this woman has kept quiet for over ten years till this very moment. I don't support bringing marital issues to the public irrespective of who is at fault.[/quote]Very true it would been left that way ..The woman had accused him of Domestic Violence but bringing out the boy to proof a point against his father is not right she's trying to do the right thing the wrong way just look at what she has caused on that boys life.......
Emeka Ike would most likely definitely pass before that boy but the effects of this folly doesn't leave easily it would reflect in whatever he does on the earth be it marriage, Jobs or Business He won't be stable even with women ...
Very soon as the same women that would call him mamas boy when the mother start exhibiting her own on the ones trying to date him or on his future wife ...This go be life film ...
She just want to take full control of him now he's old that's what women do ...My brother I know you understand what I am talking

Coolsat:
Something very deep is wrong somewhere and it's more than what we are reading here. In the full interview on YouTube the kids revealed to their mom about their dad's drug addiction, it's obvious they had it very rough with their dad and tend to easily pitch their tent with their mom as a result. Children won't forgive you if you abandon them to elope another woman, the full interview on YouTube is very emotional and I won't take side, it's really deep. I'm more concerned about the mental health of the kids, it's sad and heartbreaking.

Don't talk about your father's weaknesses in Public whether be it a drunk,addict, womaniser or whatever it's not in his Place to change him or correct him I am sure Emeka Ike won't Tolerate his bad behaviors from his Son the fact you see me drunk doesn't mean you should drunk tok...Keep honoring him as your father There is a reason why it is so especially in this matter .....

Holluwhakemmy:
The man has transferred his marital problem to the son. Emeka Ike must be a wicked husband and father at the same time

Wicked to have fed that boy all his life now with the mother ..He sent the mum through school to masters level...Built a School for the mum ....It's like your definition of wickedness needs to look into ....
I am staying on my own now I understand how it feels to feed work and feed another human being

Coolsat:
Guy has been living with the father just recently reunited with the mum and the first thing he told his mom was that he hate his father, I think the boy is traumatized and didn't have good experience and moment all the while he lived with the dad. May God heal them

Normally teeenagers tend to hate their fathers discipline even me until I grew up to realise they actually meant well... Immediately he unites with the Mum ...
They would pamper him feed him with Love and demonstrate how they're better than their father
...It's like you don't know women ...My brother raise Boys and see how difficult it is to instill discipline when they're teens beyond which it's usually a lost game ..
That

Micheal you be mumu
Micheal wait till when you're 30yrs old na your mama you hate pass ...Just wait it's still fresh all those women supporting would still end up blaming you for listening your mum against your father

creativehubb:
They are a money hungry, shallow minded, vain bunch, a disgrace to political class obtainable in thriving countries, weak minded bunch, just consuming...how do we end up with the worst of us in our political space?

The first things they did is allocate billions for themselves for vehicles, a wasteful bunch, small minded and myopic.

Yet shamelessly display ostentatious lifestyle to poor people.... People without principles but have money....I don't envy them

At 41 yours thinking like a Teenager...Make I just tell you my quote "Just dey play u here dey play ooo"....You can't tell me with over 3billion men options in the world you can't settle with one

GeneralDae:
A few have extended their successes to Ghana and other countries though e.g Dangote, Adenuga, Elumelu.

That's a good one.....
I see

creativehubb:
It's a wrong mentality, serious people talk of ideas and how to have better political class, and system, if we don't brainstorm, and have serious debate and discussions about our system and polity, we will simply keep wasting all the value and resources we have, as is presently happening in Nigeria now. Our present political class keep wasting all the money and value we have because, all they want is money, no will, idea or positive energy to make things better for the society and people.

I have said this before I barely consider Nigeria elite class a Successful one they hardly invent, Write a book, Win a Nobel Prize, Solve a Global problem, Astute Politician or Technocrats but all they have is Money from a System that they have mastered how to manipulate and cheat it ......Please can this people just extent their Success to Ghana or UK. and repeat it there let's Widen our Success Horizon

The money worshipping culture without values so far you make money you're Good to go for chieftaincy there .....Let's be wary of what we call Success

Merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄 to you

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

Please I beg you don't listen to Feminist to Leave your Husband ....Women that endurea like this raise great Children ........You would enjoy in old age ....Your children knows what your their father is doing is wrong but this would toughen them up to face bigger challenges and overcome them ....
Boys needs both Parents just the presence of their father is enough He won't allow his children adopt his own vices though he might not provide but he knows those Sons are his Hope ....
Please make the sacrifices now you would reap it in old age ....As for him he would still Apologize and serve your interest later ...
Love conquers All

marienl:
I have had many experience interacting with people who need work
They like to Show their CV and certification which at the end they cant even follow simple instructions right
I wonder how many of them get their qualification?
This nation has a very long way to go no wonder we will even prefer to hire white man to come do work here because of experience.
You people should go and change

My brother they're are bumblers every where ..People are all you've got
work with what you have .....
Train them to your taste and make them sign to work.for you for atleast 5years......

Soludo must be a Yellow bar Muslim he's from Ogbomosho trying to claim Anambra....

Congratulations ma ..I would like to emulate your Kind of Success