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Words of Wisdom for the gladiators in Rivers supported by various parties from Abuja.
The fact is that most Nigerian youths are agitated and it gets more annoying watching people who do not measure to your intellect fighting in the hallowed chambers of State Assembly; spending less than 30 mins to analyse a budget that impacts on the lives of millions of Rivers citizens. One cant help feeling like going into that house line up all the dis-honourables with Amaechi, GEJ and PEJ in front and other them to a serious Frog Jump and with koboko lash them all for causing us huge embarrassment.
I hope that what happened in Egypy against Morsi who refused to listen to advice will not happen in Nigeria.

Bipi dey claim strong guy, but when Lloyd came at Bipi with Bipis fake mace, the guy gree no borrow leg and abandoned his co-participant while almost falling as he was jumping down from the speakers seat ojigbijigbijigbi!

iamsaved: Before this thread was moved to the front page, i already finalized on what to do but all the same I have picked more advice, tips and suggestions from the recent posts.

Once again, thanks everyone for your various contributions. It is well.

Please can you summarise the most important tips and suggestions (contributions from Nlers you like most) so that others can learn from them. Dont just walk away like that after Nlers have spent their time on your issue. Thanks as you do so.

iamsaved: Before this thread was moved to the front page, i already finalized on what to do but all the same I have picked more advice, tips and suggestions from the recent posts.

Once again, thanks everyone for your various contributions. It is well.

Please can you summarise the most important tips and suggestions you picked up so that others can learn from them. Dont just walk away like that after Nlers have spent their time on your issue. Thanks as you do so.

peclint: When something is broken, the natural way to fix it is by identifying what caused the break, what factors have been causing it to break, what are the possible solutions, you try different strategies to see if they could work, not planning an exit strategy.

As a christian, stop asking for solution to your problem from people who do not share the same christian values with you.
Read your bible, it tells you how to build your home and be a wife. Also pick up christian books on marriages.

Finally anyone reading this, forgive me for my long epistle

I just hope she listens and save her marriage by being a submissive wife. Its in the the womans hand to build the home and men are easy to control.
When he is hot, be the coolant and dont inflame the situation the more.
Matured women know that men will not release what they possess without asking questions and vibrating and shouting which makes them think they are in control even when they are wrong; if you dont talk or shout back at him, he will surely do your bidding at the end. Every sincere married man here knows that after the vibration and shouting you still end up doing the womans request sometimes bitterly once you feel she respects you as the head.

mother28: Am so sorry in what you are passing through. Howerver, it seems like you married an immature and irresponsible man. I understands that every relationship has issues but living for months at a time is not acceptable. I advised you to report this issue to your parents and his parents so they can caution him one final time. If he runs away again, you may want to consider other options. Is better to be single and happy than to be married and depressed,Angery, high blood pressure and take may lead to other health issues like stroke or early death.My sister, your children needs you so do whatever is good for the kids and you.

You dont call a man immature and irresponsible without hearing his part of the story.

I can observe that you are a very proud woman, claiming all the good part without giving any credit to your husband. Woman! reduce your pride and try another system by being really submissive, talk to him gently even when there is an argument. Try not to order him around and call him names because he refused to do a particular chore. Try to always put him in a good mood and with time he will surely change.
- Do you declare your income to him or you hide it from him.

- Have you ever asked him if he will need your assistance in anyway to help him start saving and cutting costs since you said he spends money lavishly and has no savings. (perhaps your own or his lifestyles might be contributing to that)

- Do you commend him as a wonderful husband and father in front of his and your own family?

- Do you jointly plan your income for the good of the family or you play the wise one who can handle it better i.e go out there and buy whatever you need without his consent.

- What kind of abuses do you rain on him?

- Are you the violent type and sometimes think of slapping him across the face but restrain yourself?

- Do you think by yourself that you have a deadly tongue or people have told you that?

- Do you call him when he is not at home and tell him how much you love him and that you just prepared his favourite dish and that after eating he must reward you with good lovemaking for the night?

- Do you pray together? if yes, are you among the women who would say 'I come against any woman that is after or interested in my husband and wait for the man to say Amen!.

- Do you tell others how irresponsible you think your husband is?

- Do you tell him that you think you can do without him afterall you have a profession and a job?

- Do you bring your profession to the home and doesnt know where to draw the line e.g are you are a lawyer who sees everything in the home from a legal perspective or an accountant who thinks everything should be numerically correct or a medical personnel who thinks that the man is sick in the head?

Please answer the questions which you have consistently dodged in this thread. But most of all, if you start showing him respect and love and treating him as the head of the home and avoiding telling him things and words that you will not use or utter to your boss or employer he will never be tempted to leave home again.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Stories like these make the MrBrownJays and their attitudes to pregnant women look acceptable.

@OP, why should you be having mild to heavy arguments with your spouse frequently? Sounds like you instigate them. Please explain 'heavy arguments'. Do you get violent? Throw things around? Do you have a sharp, caustic tongue that's quick to insult the hell out of the man??

You're pregnant. The least you can do is respect yourself and keep your mouth shut. Why must you have an argument with your husband? Pls don't give the excuse of being hormonal this and hormonal that! Aren't you aware of the complications that can arise from having a high bp, which can be induced from unnecessary arguments?

I'm sorry to say this, but your husband sounds like the more mature one here. Rather than entangle himself with a battle of words, he chooses to walk out of the situation till things cool down. Or what do you expect him to do? Sit down quietly while you heap insult upon insult upon his head? Do you even know what might happen if he snaps?

Or maybe, you really are one of those who has a fetish for violence and only feel loved if your husband plummets the living daylights out of you.

Sorry, but from what you've posted, I support your husband 100%. You on the other hand haven't learnt your lesson. If sitting down to discuss amicably, and keeping your mouth shut while he airs his grievances is too much for you to bear, then don't blame him the day he walks out on you for good... straight into the arms of a more accommodating missus.

Oh, and I need to ask this of you: Didn't you guys date at all before getting hitched? Didn't you study the man before tying the knot and saying "I do"?[/quote]Thank you for this beautiful analysis. This woman surely has a killer tongue even from her brief write up and seems to suffer from excessive uncontrollable anger. The husband is a matured man who walks away from his pregnant wife who may be a violent type, instead of staying behind and allowing himself to snap and the next thing will be inflicting injury on his wife or even death and the first question asked whenever we hear such news is why didnt you just leave the house for her.
Madam I will advise you examine yourself by keeping your tongue in check, respect, respect and respect your husband. Allow him to be the man of the house. Like my mum will do to dad whenever she asks him for money for our school fees, feeding or for anything, he will vibrate and shout and ask her what she did with the last money he gave her the other day, she keeps quiet and allows him to express himself as the man, at the end before he leaves the house in the morning, the money will be lying on the table for her to pick. But some other women will start exchanging words and talk back at their husband and give him and make him dread coming back home.
Your husband from your explanation seems to be a real gentleman, who would rather walk away than inflict harm on you or get his BP rising.
You are the problem here am sorry from your explanations.
Pray for God to help you overcome the spirit of not being in control of your emotions and temper which leads to constant arguments and quarrels before he falls into the hands of another accommodating woman. Dont leave him because you will be carrying this same problem to another man if you think you can remarry as you are.

indigene: Your uncle of whatever you call him, is himself a greedy man, it takes two greedy persons to scam and be scammed.
Did he tell you about the dream windfall of profit he was promised before parting away such sum of money?
Did he consults anyone, concerning the business deal? those to be scammed who re greedy never do.from housewives to country presidents, kings and businessmen and women.
Remember the bail bond for scammers no matter the amount of money of whatever you re scammed off is eqivalent to #200. All these noise the EFFC re doing against scammers whatever forms, is just because of laundring the country's image
Protection against been scammed is be wary about any business that seems so golden and glittering to be true

Forget about his uncle being greedy; his uncle wrongly trusted somebody and got scammed. If you have any info about the scammer call and or inform the Police.

[quote author=olajide_07]Has an Igwe title ship ever been past to another person, apart from a royal blood, In your land?, some statements are subjective and how does his daughter being installed as iyaoloja of lagos affect the price of garri in another state, more so its not an elective office its based on the Oba of lagos -will, the beauty of it is he tinubu didn't install her, she was installed by the oba of lagos as his eyes amongst the market women, so like I said look right and hug the closet transformer to you.[/quote]This is why PDP will continue to rule Nigeria. They are the only National party not affiliated to any single individual, tribe or religion compared to CPC, ACN or APGA. Though I dont like their manner of running the country but it is a conglomeration of diverse people across Nigeria.
Tinubus daughter is political and ceremonial Iyaloja, when the opportunity comes the traders will choose their true Iyaloja!

How do i post this pictures to Gov T. A Orji of Abia State? That guy is just wasting the time of the good people of Abia State. With this kind of schools in Rivers State why would northern nijeriya not ask for 2 marks for admission into unity schools while Rivers and Anambra are made to score 130 plus marks. Anyway this more beautiful than unity schools so Rivers students dont need unity schools.

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Tuface see what your inability to keep your third leg under control is causing. Now many young artistes are copying your footstep by having 'Baby Mamas' instead of waiting for the day they will mature to get married and start a family.
You have turned these ladies into second hand materials and finally ran to the center of the sea in Dubai to marry Annie Macaulay because you dey fear say the retinue of Baby Mamas wey you scatter all around the country will storm your wedding and give several reasons why your wedding should not hold.
I also learnt from rumour that the service was conducted in Arabic so that even if any of your Baby Mamas sneaks into the wedding, they would not understand when the Arabic Pastor pops the question 'if anyone here knows why this couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, let him/her speak-out now or remain quiet forever'
Tuface, I think you need to be castrated for one year and you will only receive your detached instrument of mass baby production after we observe changes.
Anyway Tubaba, na which trick you dey take get all this pretty Baby Mamas to just dey born pikin for you uncontrollably across the various tribes in Nigeria when many guys for this forum no fit even toast babes for their neighbourhood?

i have diligently followed the contributions because I am currently facing the same crisis in my marriage. Where my wife assaults me after coming home very late. After that she ran to the police station with crocodile tears that I assaulted her with all the embarrassment of neighbours watching unfolding events.

The fact of the matter is that many ladies today want to bear the tag 'married woman' but still wants live the life of a spinster in their matrimonial home with little regard for their spouses and sees saying sorry to their partners who feel hurt as demeaning their pride and that can not give them a happy home.

I’m not angry that I was arrested but I feel terribly bad that someone could cheat me in that manner.”
How can a man cheat his fellow man like this.
Typical Warri guy, who doesnt cry because he lost his wallet and money at the bus-stop but cries because he falled his own hand

To avoid scam go with a Soldier in combat gear to pay. Tell them he is your brother who just returned from operation against BH in Maiduguri and a sharp shooter who knows how to locate criminals and eliminate them and now on his way to Mali. Tell the agent that it is him who is paying the rent for you. if they are scammers they will never touch your money.

Please there should be no attack or threat to innocent Hausas anywhere in the SE. Let us show some restraint and tell them that we are not baberians, many people in the North also share the pain from this senseless killings and attacks.

[quote author=nwabumal@yahoo.]the gates of hell, boko haram cant prevail aganist the goodnews(gospel of Christ Jesus). vengence is Mine says the LORD of the BIble[/quote]Even Israelis believe that vengeance is the lords; meaning God will give you what you need to take vengeance on this kind of people by hitting them very hard as that is the only language they understand.
Help them to quicken their passage to the 72 virgins reward by hitting them before they strike.

Abeg any Local Television Station show that Grammy Award she attended?
I learnt from NL that Super Eagles won the Nations Cup after 19 years because it was not shown on Local TV and the witches and wizards have not deviced the kind of 'okpo and jazz' required to enter through satellite to and tie their legs.
RIP Goldie!!!

The 'gbagaun' contained in the report distorted the news. I hope the MASSOB guys are not taking revenge over the dumping of bodies claimed to be their members in Ezu River by SARS?

Heatblast: So the ediot withdrew 200k from the bank and decided to go and watch a monkey show in a crowded place shortly after
Its either this story is exagerated/fake or that guy is a complete morooon

Thats exactly the same thing we said to my friend and still use it to make fun of him anytime we are together. That a man on suit like him came to Berger junction Abuja to watch monkeys and lost N25K.

My friend suffered a similar fate at the popular Berger Junction in Abuja. The monkeys were released on him by the handlers and while he thought he was having fun and laughing and trying to move away from the monkeys, it was later he started to shout about his N25,000 being stolen from his pocket and we were making jest of him for allowing pickpockets to rob him.
But now I can really understand from this story that it was actually the monkey that has being trained to pick his pocket and either swallow the money or hand it over to their handlers.
I will call him now and tell him that I have found out what actually happened that day about how he lost his money 3 years ago.

What will the core North call this one? Marginalization of the Core North by the North.
Mallam Abba Moro is from the same tribe as Mark

What will the core North call this one? Marginalization of the Core North by the North.
Mallam Abba Moro is from the

What will the core North call this one? Marginalization of the Core North by the North.
Mallam

What will the core North call this one? Marginalization of the Core North by the North.

We are always good at praying that someone will beat some for us to qualify.

OilSubsidy: How TB JOSHUA call this one

1-1 goaless draw??

floriana: If only we knew, we should have left Siasia to continue. See the crap Keshi has built after 2 years.

Why do you call them crap? These guys are probably trained by Keshi to play at Inter-House Sports