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Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Leece:
i have tried all the tactics that i can to avoid this woman, but i always have something or a document to submit in her office. my salary scale is 100k upwards plus bonuses, even if i want to quit this job can i get a job like this ?

aimmoney9:
POLICE REALLY NEEDS TO GO AND LEARN FROM RRS HOW TO BE PROFESSIONAL IN THEIR CONDUCT

Saifulah:
This is for those claiming he had died before yesterday. It is forbidden in Islam to keep the dead unburried.

In the state house statement, it said funeral arrangements will be announced. That will definitely be today but most likely low key burial.

If he dies, are we then immortal? hope for a good ending yourself rather than musing on that of others.

Yenefer:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/03/25/covid-19-nigerians-told-not-to-accept-test-kits-from-chinese-billionaire-jack-ma/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

HallaDaTruth:
Are women scarce ?

Crayonforest:
Guy you have a caring boss and you are here talking rubbish. Don't follow her with harshness because she might go the extreme and set you up. Just ask your girl friend to be coming as much as she can to the office. Most especially on the days she will be around and make sure you introduce her to the Lady in front of your boss.

borngeologist:
My story might be lengthy with a lot of grammatical blunders.. But my elders Abeg help me just manage read am and advice me because am really confused..

I have a boss who actually loves me. He likes me like a son and he always wants me to go out with him. We are actually very close pal.

There was a day he went out with his girklfriend. I was at home when my phone rang. He told me to bring 3k to where he was with his girlfriend. When I got there he told me to sit down and drink and eat dog meat with them. But I don't eat dog so I only drank one bottle. The lady and I later talked and I left them.

She came to our place this Wednesday. I was inside my room, she was just insisting that she wanted to see me. When I got there, she was just telling me my boss drinks a lot which is quite true but he dosent misbehave. That it is too much. As a guy man I covered up for my boss. And I left her and my boss.

Today we went to her shop. My boss ordered for drink for us. We started drinking. Later I went out, she followed me. We sat together and started talking. She started telling me that If she actually saw me first she would have dated me that she loves me that she doesn't like my boss. I was quite shocked and told her that since she is already dating my boss it is not possible. Then my boss and one of my other colleague with a lady came out and joined us. That was how we started gisting again. I had an important call to pick so I later entered her shop because the outside was noisy. That was how this lady came inside and kissed me. I was really shocked I have to run outside.

My boss and I later left her place for a burial where a friend of his (a lady) invited us to a burial. When I got there this lady started saying she really likes me that she wish she meet me earlier that she would have dated me.. That she really likes me a lot. My boss now jokingly asked me that I want to take all his girls from him. Mind you that my boss girlfriend calls me her husband even people close to her shop call me her husband.. And these ladies are way older than Me..

Please all I need from you guys is advice on what to do cause am confused.

There is also a married lady too that told me she wished she met me earlier that she would have dated me. And other older beautiful ladies. In their early and middle thirties and am just 23.

Fasindo:


Do u mean well for this country at all.
Or maybe u are on weed.













They should free them.

Where the caught with any kidnapped person, if the answer is no y beating them?

If they ar cultist they should free them cos some cult group ar well registered nd have legal backing like NBM.


The boys should charge both the villagers nd SARS to Court. They will easily win the case.

alonzoiv:
What a country. But I think the Police got served in this case. As this is exactly what the Police does to ordinary civilians. Killing innocent civilians, and nothing is heard about the killer cop after a few months.
Rest in Peace to the dead. You reaped the benefits of what your colleagues do to others.

TGM2015:
For Sanusi case, Yes. He was dethroned for not attending official state government functions.

If he was dethroned based on financial misappropriation or any corruption related offences, then, he MAY not be able to contest until after 10 years.

blinking001:
This Sanusi news is getting boring abeg. Ya'll noticed our darling president has been quiet about this whole joke? PMB doesn't interfare in other peoples businesses. He's a great role model indeed.

sarrki:
Please don’t let us see everything on religious perspectives

Ebenezar2020:
enough of this man's news abeg.
he don die, he don die or was he of any use to Nigeria's economy that you guys won't allow us rest

Shuaib90:
I can remember the Chinese one !!!

ornicus:
@ op

these are the relevant abuja frsc contacts

info@frsc.gov.ng

rs7.1.fct@frsc.gov.ng
08077690701


https://frsc.gov.ng/zonal-commands/

RS7HQ, ABUJA UG IBRAHIM (ACM)

rs7hq.gwarinpa@frsc.gov.ng
08077690700

you can consider taking it up - since the action of the officers contravenes what their superiors have said in the media
unfortunately, you do not have a video, so they will almost definitely lie

good luck

Vykinx:
Ronaldo left man u because of bigger fame not challenge and he left real Madrid because the president didn't respect him. so next time before you post rubbish, show it to your younger ones and ask if it's sensible before posting

obinna58:
I'm surprised

lincsnuel:
They just killed this snake in my area right now. Don't really know the name. Looks like python

food don done ooo

ct2:
the Nigeria police needs a total overhaul