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[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=371744.msg5192022#msg5192022 date=1261874105]naija women are da bomb haters can go jump out of their windows.[/quote]and naija men?

chich what happened yesterday is your fault.
i hope the boston shitsticks crumble like they did last season.

f-ags.


anabel piss away

Why you ain't a Lakers fan? pssht

What I would have posted in response was wiped off completely when my battery died, but I guess I can give it another go.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5191371#msg5191371 date=1261866867]The venom with which some people post replies is enuff to earn the word hate.[/quote]I agree with some of that assessment. However, did you thoroughly evaluate the surrounding concerns that catalyzed that outcry, or did those involved in those bashings specifically say they hate Naija women and only wanna date white babes? It's infact the opposite if you look closely.
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5191349#msg5191349 date=1261866630]@H2O2:
Come now where are your comprehension skills man?[/quote]If you refuse to acknowledge your own lapse in logic, I'm not going to crucify you for it like I did earlier . . . . There's no need flogging this dead horse any further.
If you expected the reader to discern that "lack of extension" from your intial entry, then you failed miserably. That aside, I don't see how your bolded statement subtracts from the fact that outcry and "dissatisfaction" with the deviants in a group is not enough evidence for you to conclude or convince people that "it means they would rather date white women". I already explained this to you.


Daat's all frm me sha

Home Alone.

proably The Great Debaters

The akata chick I went to see that movie with was sobbing like a spanked child. The tears wouldn't stop rolling down her cheeks.
Oh man, I could have scored that night. Good thing she was a good goalie and I was a defensive player on that day sha.

ay! yea u right ravenzford.  ibk and chich were probably shitting in diapers when that sorta thing came out    

Goodness gracious @ reed.  It's a stretch and a logical fallacy for you to bifurcate like it's all "white" and "black like that.  The point here is that there are bad apples within the mass that the men are not particularly intrested in dating.  I don't see why you feel the need to misconstrue that as Naija men "Hating" Naija women, or "automatically" wanting to worship the "white" serpent as a result.  There are those who are fed up and would swiftly date white women, and in contrast there are those who are fed up who still refuse to mess with anything but Naija women.  The latter is more of the case than the former.


Nehows sha, ain't got nuttn further to input as an addendum . . . don't wanna partake in spitting out long-winded circular posts.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5191033#msg5191033 date=1261863249]Besides I did not contradict myself. I said 'almost all' (implying a good numba of) which is very different from all (implying a totality). So please do your 'comprehension' before replying.[/quote]Lord_Reed, I don't feel the need to stress or fuel the disparity in your post any further than it already is.

It was you who wrote, "Sometimes it seems to me that this so called discrimination occurs only on Nairaland's pages cos I as a Nigerian WILL NOT marry a 'white' woman I don't even consider them as attractive as 'black' women."

You cited yourself as reason why you think the discrimination only occurs only as a cyber-realism on nairaland, before later citing your friends.  And quite frankly that's not ample reason to believe it does not exist.  As they say, evidence of absence is not absence of evidence.  The fact that you even noted the exceptions amongst your friends is sufficient reason for you to debunk that myth, to know that "seeming" one way is entirely different from "being" one way.  I'm sure you've read countless stories about them on NL.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5191001#msg5191001 date=1261862861]U know I could start trading insults with u but am going to keep my kool n respond to u. U say am dyslexic and can't read but did u even read my post?

Anyway to answer your questions. The generalisation is obvious all over this romance section and as a case in point this very thread. The OP says we are all ugly both female and male. Implying that the 9ja female is undesirable and vice versa. Is this not 'hate'?

Several of the posters have made reference to other topics where this same issues keep popping up. Is this not sufficient to suggest a generalisation?

If u say I went of the board did u see where I brought forward my personal experience? How does that constitute 'a going off board'?[/quote]I understand you better now that you have made some clarifications, thank God.  You should have acknowledged your inference to those other threads to begin with, instead of leaving open an ambiguous window for the reader to connect the widely separated dots.  It was not that evident.  I agree about the excessive generalizations and bashings of sorts that colonize these boards.  

I don't post to involve myself in petty insults and barb-trading - okay, maybe I do once in a while.  I was only intersested in addressing the part of your post that dealt with white women, especially since it immediately followed my post.  You initially considered it a falsity when it fact it is true.    Since that is now corrected there's no need to lord over this any further.  My sincere apologies if you feel insulted.

my gosh ibukun you are a goof ball

Nevermind chich there's no link for that movie.

chiogo:
Oh but do you know the name of the author(assuming that's a book)?
Who's you guys? Take ya time oo.

Terry McMillan.  Or just watch the movie instead.  I'll find you a link LOL.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5190869#msg5190869 date=1261861261]Look am not ignorant if thats wat u are implying. I have friends (Nigerian men) who live in UK, Europe and America they did not marry 'white' women (except for 1 or 2). If all the Naija men around u prefer 'white' women dats fyne but to generalise and say Naija men hate Naija women is patently false and baseless except in small groups as far as I am concerned.[/quote]I don't understand who made that generalization you're referring to. It must be you. You are contradicting yourself on several levels. Considering that at first you claimed that the men you know in reality do not date white women, only to retract that statement by implying that only 1 or 2 of them do. I wouldn't call you ignorant, just rather dyslexic. In comprehension you not on ly have to read, you should be able to understand and interpret what you read very well. Where was it implied that all Naija men around here "hate" Naija women and prefer "white" women? and again where did you see the generalization that you are parroting?

Maybe you should refer to your earlier post to see where you went off board. You would prefer to pretend it doesn't exist, when it fact it does.

it's hard

chiogo:
Who's WTE?

Waiting to Exhale
Ish, I'm waiting to exhale right about now. You guys are a piece of work.

The women complaing about a lack of good men generally do not understand the authority they have in managing the choice of men they elope with.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=371744.msg5190666#msg5190666 date=1261859357]Sometimes it seems to me that this so called discrimination occurs only on Nairaland's pages cos I as a Nigerian WILL NOT marry a 'white' woman I don't even consider them as attractive as 'black' women. As it is I am not the only one who holds this view in my neck of the woods here in Naija. Almost all my friends and people I know will not or are not married to 'white' women even wen they had opportunity to do so.

It baffles me that people come here with statistics or words like all or many to describe how 'hated' the 'black' woman is. I say only on the pages of Nairaland Romance section is this vehemence obvious.[/quote]That's obviously not true, considering how widespread a phenomenon it is.  It would serve you well to familiarize yourself with what's really going on out there.  It might not be prevalent in your neck of the woods, but it does occur more often than you think.

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You black b!tches are all the same.

Y'all always complaining about how nobody don't want your a$s, don't nobody know how to treat ya! Then you meet a man, a brother, with genuine interest in ya, and you gotta act simple. Then you wonder why we date white women.  - WTE 1995.  

Great,

The quick-fingered, hate-mongering hausa bashers have infiltrated the thread.

Hey folk,

What common food are rich in Zinc?  Pills? I want to find a way to increase my zinc consumption.
Any suggestions?
Thanks

amaka what's the matter with you.
no reason to blow up like that at him, he was being jovial with you.

@pc guru
As long as you're satisfied with how you spent the day brother man, it's all good.
I didn't do too much either, but had great fun being with the family, watching movies, eating etc . .
awesome day.

lol
soo if i'm correct, you dey fancy am for that site but you no sabi tell am. o ga o

[quote author=THE.AMAKA link=topic=368508.msg5185732#msg5185732 date=1261785870]you are more than bosoms my dear, but of course that would always be a boost in the campaign.
(in the male department)[/quote]

hahaha @ plat, great job boobing your way to victory.

0hsisi:
obviously there was none here and I haven't passed through any
can you focus on the news please Mr H2so4

Has this been confirmed somewhere by someone?  This is a focus on the news.   Just get your story is straight is all I'm saying.

0hsisi:
did I say he was on a direct flight?
he obviously didn't have to go out and check in again did he?

You do not have to go out and check-in again for a security check to occur.