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frank317:
Why should u say if people don't believe in the bible, they shouldn't discuss it. How then can it be debunked if it is not discussed?

How it then be proven to be correct if not discussed? Aside from the usual "faith". And like other stories god promised not to destroy the world again so there is no way he can get angry and thus this generation can't witness it to take pictures. At least

What I believe simply is that there probably was a flood. Something like you would see in Lekki on a rainy day and due to lack of drainages and good roads there was a flood. The ancient jews, probably after smoking some jay, decided it was sooo huge that it MUST have happened all over the world. The "world" in this context refers to their village because they were oblivious of the fact that there were people also living in Asia and they were too myopic to comprehend what they were saying would imply.

There's really no point arguing with people who believed that bathing with salt water could cure/prevent ebola

Teespice:
my apologies.

your comment is a breath of fresh air from all the ones I have seen so far.

the post was actually sarcastic.

Its cool

I'm aware it was meant to be sarcastic but there are some guys who actually expect such things from their relationships

trapQ:
Jesus is real. repent and be saved.

science has proven the existence of the human soul, and how it leaves the body after death.

a word is enough for the wise

Smd

FrancisTony:
Teespice, this dude isn't an average family section male - I have read his posts.

He's married and post reasonably.

Thanks for the compliment

I agree with all the points. Speaking from experience

naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours.

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Teespice:
are you serious?

tell me something I don't know. I was thinking that I gave a definition of a real woman.

Nairaland dudes be talking from both sides of the mouth like a swinging pendulum.

First of all, I'm not a "nairaland dude"

I'm married and it would seem totally unrealistic to subject my wife to such standards

They are both super heroes from comic books of ancient/primitive people who happen not to be Africans therefore ,as an African, they also share the similarities of being irrelevant to me

2CatWoman:
It wasn't till I came to NL that I came across this submission stuff. I asked my hubby if he thought I was submissive and he just laughed.

Then he went back to cooking the dinner whilst I watched my program.

Your analogy of two ship captains or two car drivers doesn't really add up for me in the modern world. The wife may have expertise in what

may have traditionally been the mans domain, this might have even been what attracted him to her in the first place.

I guess the reason why "submission" is an issue in an African setting is because the woman is expected to be seen and not heard and should only be concerned about what goes on in the kitchen.

But what most people have failed to realise is that most of these "opinions" originated at a time when women couldn't get basic education or didn't pursue careers and dreams of their own.

Still, I guess you first have to understand what an unsubmissive wife is to get the whole picture

I believe in any relationship both parties have to be submissive. Basically, being submissive is about respecting the other person's opinion.

I guess the reason why men make much of an issue about our wives being submissive is because women make a lot of emotional decisions and thus it is necessary for men, who are more rational in our decision making, to take the lead in most situations. Still, any man who intends to have a peaceful marriage will always seeks his wife's opinion on issues before taking the final decision and vice versa.

Submission should be the ability to agree with your spouse's opinion even when you feel your opinion is better. Both ways

plaetton:
That someone can actually have the guts to write this on a public forum just shows the ver low the general IQ has plunged over the past few decades.

The first question that anyone, I mean anyone with the minimal of an education would ask is :

How exactly did does anyone determine that a mad man has been cured ?

What kind of mental illness did the mad have in the first place ? Was it an inherited mental illness or a different type ?

What type of clinical evaluation did anyone perform to determine that the said man is mentally sober enough to be considered cured ?


This was obviously staged by a another hungry fraudster who wants to join the big leagues of Evangelical fraudster role models.

Despite being known worldwide as a nation of fraudster, it amazes me that Nigerians are ever eager to be scammed at every moment by another person holding the bible.

Why is Christianity such a scam religion ?

The real question should be, why are Nigerians so gullible? And to think that such a crappy story made FP says a lot about the people in this country.

Well, what do you expect from people who believed that drinking/bathing in salt water would cure ebola? You won't believe that when I sent the "confession" as a bc someone actually told me that god probably used the "fake news" so people can get healed via their faith. And the fvckery continues....

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Teespice:
Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

This is not the definition of a real woman. You just defined a robot

johnydon22:
No one is really acting as if its the first, it is not wrong to point out barbaric acts meted out on humanity

Yep

There are a lot of things NOT RIGHT in this country. The Kano9 is just one. Y'all acting like this is the first time such is happening.

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Chef Taryour, I am fine o. Busy trying to put peanut butter on my bread, ordinary butter no do me again.....


Thanks for your concerns. [/color]

Have you tried peanut butter and nutella mix in your bread?

But this na real falling hand o. 5 hours before the show? They probably did that because of African timing. They are actually expecting y'all to come 5 hours late

I remember when Brandy came to Nigeria. The show was supposed to start by 5pm but ended up starting by 10pm

adeh39:
Heeehehehe

You no fit do anything jare, Where you wan beat for my body?

He can beat up your pvssy

bellong:
How deep is the shit? What type of shit is it? Is it atomic or AK47 shit... How does it smell? If it is nice smelling shit, it is a good shit and if not, call the services of shit removal, Yorubas call them "agbepo".



Congratulations on your new age... What values did you add to yourself during this relationship hiatus?



To start with, what is your definition for a right man? What is it in those coming to qualify them as wrong?
I hope you were stingy enough not to let everyone that comes your way to be having a feel of your "sweet body"? Between, picture of the sweet body or .....


Abraham Lincoln and Pa Buhari must be this brother's mentors.....


This is maturity. Defining your relationship from onset. Kudos



Yes, you told him, you didn't have that emotional/butterfly thingy feeling for him but what you didn't tell him is the reason why you weren't having it. You should have told him that you never dreamt of being in a relationship with a broke nigga. Your taste in guys is rich and handsome. You can't be proud of him because he is not looking good despite having a good heart. He has failed in all ramifications of your assessment. You only told the poor brother half truth. This is what is called being economical with the truth.

I must say your real problem lies in this paragraph. Your desired qualities in men are parochial and vanity. You are not looking out for something that can last you for a lifetime. Vain beauty and empty pocket... It may be why "providence" is not yet smiling on you. You lack the desired wisdom and skill to identify a good man outside his look and pocket. Before you misinterprete me, I am not saying you should be watching out for a poor person but if your motivation is money, it is the foundation of failure.

A broke guy today with passion, vision and ambition can never be broke forever. If you lack the Eagle's eyes, you can never see potentials in a gold mine. Diamond, Gold and every precious metal does not come shinning until they pass through fire.

My question is, if you call someone broke, why are you broke yourself? I thought some of you ladies are of the opinion that you are not marrying any guy for his money.



In this, it is this guy that I have pity for. He doesn't know why you don't like him. If he suddenly becomes rich tomorrow, I am sure your love will come so strong for the poor dude... The guy likes you and he thinks he can't get someone better than you. It is why he is hopelessly waiting. When I was very much younger and of no experience, I waited endlessly and hopelessly for a girl like this till heavens borrowed me brain...



He knows you will soon become desperate as you approach that age women loathe with passion. He will remind you that your biological clock is ticking and it s good for you to take the option you have before becoming a prayer point in your church or mosque.



You are asking the wrong question. Nobody can tell you who to say yes to but yourself. You never liked this guy and you still don't like him, it is not reasonable saying yes. Love is not emotion but decision. You have decided not to ever love him and there is no point beating a dead bush. Free him and let him find his wife elsewhere. Saying yes will only make his life miserable if situation does not change when you want it.

I plead with you, free the ugly and broke guy please.

I wish you well in your search for an houseband...

Lovely response. I really enjoyed reading this.

I don't mean to be rude to the op but the truth is she is not marriage material herself. A woman that can't see any potential in herself asides from her "sweet body" is definitely not what any man would want to end up with as a wife. She's also as broke or even broker than the dude in question but still feels she is better because other guy's use her sweet body albeit only to dump it afterwards.

Op, I'd advice you to re evaluate your parameters for a happy life. Those men who use and dump you have definitely seen that you have nothing to offer aside from a free fvck and probably see you as cheap.

Please, do the brother a favour and tell him you can't date him because you feel he's a loser, broke and ugly. Be "brutally blunt" in your speech and I hope that he will be able to see you for what you really are and be motivated to work harder to become successful and set greater standards for himself. I'm so certain he is younger than you. @29 you don't earn up to 50k monthly? Well

I hope in the future the "ugly and broke" guy will be able to look back and be thankful that you rejected him. He obviously deserves better

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tosyne2much:
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You managed to kill two birds with one stone with this write up. These are also the problems that religion claims to profer solutions to and what is used to attract gullible followers thereby creating a steady source of income. You just gave me an idea.

Thanks

MaziOmenuko:
inasmuch as I collect rent, I'm still a tenant in someone else's house here at Lagos; I don't owe rent. I have a tenant that has refused to pay rent since this year (6months now) and has bluntly told my barrister to give him a quit notice if he can't have patience. Now this tenant obvious knows what the law stipulates and most likely wants to take advantage of the 6months duration, add that to the 6monnths he has stayed and move out at the end of the year without paying rent.

So when people try to demonize landlords, I don't seem to get it. Some tenants are just devil in human clothing.

I agree with you. I have a friend whose mom has a client that has been owing 2 years rent and walked the woman out of the apartment and another one who was owing a year's rent but travelled and locked the house with all his stuff in it for more than 2 years now. Some tenants can be mean so I understand where yourming from.

Some lanlords can be mean as well. Its a two way thing I guess. My landlord is just plain silly. I still regret renewing my rent because at the time he was still pretending to be nice but now he's just being plain annoying. And we've settled our issue. I just needed advice in case I'm ever in that kind of situation again

sukkot:
HMMM thanks for the enlightenment brother. wow we are truly blessed with cursed leaders. but hey to a wicked people is wicked leaders given to so i guess its a big cycle of wicked people and wicked leaders

Exactly