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If we look at what happened from a mans angle the guy would have been dumped long ago. I wonder if he would have takken his wife back had he caught her with another man in their bed on st vals day but as we all know this world is full of men who think they are so special and expect a woman to latch on to them because "husband scarce" no matter what they do.So based on that i would recomend that you go back to him if you can bear to sleep with him and not feel like one of his sluts he picks up and sleep with on that same bed, if you can still trust him when he says honney i wont be home today ive got this meeting to attend tonight in abuja and if you can believe that he has a female cousine youve never met until the day you run into them in a supermarket doing some shopping and if his new secretary wont cause you to have heart attack especially when they go on his co called meetings in abuja together.

I think any youth who looks forward to help ease the burden on his poor parent will see the NYSC thing as a waste of time if the FG wants to help then they should organise interviews in place of NYSC every so so months to give graduates who pass jobs not steal them from their parents to "serve' a government who dint know how the parents struggle to train them in the first place. I believe youth service can be imposed if the FG trains sends Poeple to higher institution on scholarship if the govern ment wants to help they should convert the NYSC to a 3 weeks training workshop on self empleyment and give the youths the ALAWI for the 1 year period to start off somthing since it seems FG cant provide jobs not take a poor graduate to a bush in the name of service to the father land without water, housing, transportation and medical facilites a father land that does not serve its children give me the opportunity i will stick my foot into the spot where the sun dosent shine of the person who dreamed of NYSC al them thieves they use good name to cover bad thing who tell them i need to waste 1 year of my life to know people from other tribes?Only pickin wey papa get plenty go support 1 year NYSC as im no go worry for anything some copers even recieve money from home they are the lucky ones who want to serve everyday of their lives.

Just listen to the small still voice inside you it sure works for me when in doubt or confusion i just sit down close my eyes and ask any question and then listen to the small voice that anserws me back though i must confess sometimes it tells me to work things out myself. For years it worked for me i could know my results in exam and i tell my siblings what to expect when they are nervous about something and then it happens now they told me not to tell them anything again cos it kills the fun. Also in your dreams but you have to be pure to have the real thing cos the moment you fall into sin the voice and the dream wont give correct anserws you will know this because what you dream about wont come to pass and the small voicewont say the truth no more.

Those UBA guys almost cause me not to buy the goods i traveled abroad to buy i had their credit card and the idiot at the bank told me i could withdraw any amount anytime i wanted luckily for me i decided to make the purchase a few days earlier only to discover that i can only withdraw a certain amount at a time and i needed 3times the amount they allow me withdraw i had to go to the market everydey for 3 days to buy one item at a time. I wonder what if i had taken things forgranted and decided to pay for the goods 1 day before my return i would have been totaly fu, ked.
YeYe people al of them idiots. I guess i dint learn from my past experience with them i thought shit happens once in a while but with the credit card shit happening twice i had to close my account with them idiots it was 1 shit too many.

@ daiper cool

You remind me of a tap with faulty knob it rushes without control listen to yourself who ever heard of sretch marks where you mentioned what trash you spit out from that gutter you call a mouth post a pic of my ass it shows how slack you are your ignorance knows no bounds . Decency my dear you have non anyway i am tired of replying you. Maybe i am one of those my mates you mentioned married with 3 kids and living a good life I am not frustrated in anyway i hope you get my point here.

By the way you yab like a f, ggot no substance and the sooner you change the thought that nigerian women are cheap the better for you i am nigerian and my dear i dont come cheap.Non sense. was that the real diaper cool you talked about showing me? Try again maybe this time your woman wrapper mouth and brain will spit out more immorality.

Big shit.

@daiper cool


oh yeah you werent reffering to me and you quote me in your first response mr big brains too big for his head maybe your big male brain should tell you to be precise when next you want to spitt trash out of that mouth you use to insult nigerian women. Wait a minuite is your sis a nigerian?I still insist grow up daiper cool i am waiting for your woman wrapper quarell give me a shot let me see what youve got. Big shit once again.

@ dapsycoo


I dont have time for immature guys when you grow up i will know by your reasonning and we can talk about this topic till then go take some Pap and watch teletubies or barney.


what nonsense get a man and manage his troubles why should i manage someones troubles when i can find someone to manage mine do i look like your mama? dapsycool i guess its the short for daipers cool has gone gaga spitting all that trash about something wrong with a woman who seals her legs till the right time comes i will definately want to know what he thinks will happen. Big shit

Men sef na wa for una o.A babe sleeps with you out of love una go cry cheap, she sleeps with una for money una cry cheap, she does it for nothing una still cry cheap what must a woman do to please guys? Men flash wealth at a desperate babe and she goes for it dont blame her cos you both know that its strictly business and dont pretend to be better than her afteral you are a party to the business you as the money miss road bobo are the buyer.Men should stop thinking they can sleep with the so called cheap womanand then see themselves in a better light that the girl.MEN, MEN. Men should know that to get a good woman is an expensive business you dont show love on an empty pocket .Whats the big deal if you spend on a babe sef?Una too stingy men of these days every cent and kobo you spend you write down and want payback.Most men treat babes that love them without money like shit and go about yapping how they sleept with a babe without spending a dime on her so i guess babes have steped up to you guys by making sure they grab somthing from you so that you wont yap that stinking mouth of yours that you just dint do her but you did her for free cos the game was chop me i chop you.

At least titilayos case is fair on a good day in nigeria we believe that 365 days is not a joke and people expect you to give those older than you are respect be it a relative or a stranger.The only problem is when people think that they did the woman a favour by allowing their son marry her and to show apreciation she should kiss asses i had a friend whose brother got married he takes control of the house and wife when egbon no dey.He gives order and tells her what to do foe the day even his younger sis was angry that iyawo dint fetch bathing water for her on time to crown it all this girl pass them for age with like 5 yrs o.Yoruba's are the worse culprits in this kind of thing where Iyawo is expected to be a glorified house help.

Kai woman don suffer for this world all in the name of marriage.Tell that lousy in law that you cant call anyone younger than you bro or sister that its a taboo in your tribe rather they should call you sister afterall na marry you come marry no be to lick asses.

I will only marry a divorcee if i am one myself.

As for your babe my dear the woman is a gold digger tell her youv forgotten about her and now you need someone special who will stand by you through thick and thin.Dont see her as another mans remnant there are lots of deccent women who walk out of violent or unhappy marriages they deserve another chance to take a shot at happy marriage and there is nothing wrong with them.But for a woman who will leave you when the going gets tough and now that she smells honey she wants in.Please give her the boot.

@blue sky

Its all good ma sister dont mind that bro gaylord me dey toast person him come dey take im reggae spoil my blues.Im wan make i marry am me i no want after one o.Tell him if you know am to be fore warned is to carry catapault o.Me I want to marry Femo gbam.


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gay if you ready make you make sure say you no be one of those bobo wey be woman investors wey dey collect back only inbetween a womans legs me if you put anything there to say you wan collect your investment returns I go chop am off i promise.

Its her loss.Dont flog yourself she is not even thinking of you i know its hard to forget believe me ive been there it took me time to get over it.You will fell used,stupid,daft for trusting soo much and worse of all the one you once loved will be parrading her new catch to make the i am tru with you point clear. Take heart talk to someone you can trust about how you feel.Remember that she is happy now dont let her pull down your spirit too.Tell yourself youv mourned enough now its time to be happy listen to music that will not remind you of romance so you dont flash back.make friends and spend time with them.If you can try to find out the bad things that has happened to her since she left you i.e if her guy beats her up, if he is a drunkard etc it may seem wicked but it does a lot of good when you feel God is paying her back.If nothing bad dont worry you are still in charge of your life.Write her name on a piece of tissue paper and all her negative part read them out throw it into the toilet and flush.Its good riddiance to bad rubbish.Then forget her for real and move on with life.

Ladie,lets shame this guy no replies please.Im dey find our mouth.
PLS IGNORE

@ blue sky
Why you feel say i dey look for Oyinbo? me am not picky o anywhere wey love and happiness dey there i pitch ma tent.



@gay lord
dat ya name dey freak me i dont want to share my man with other men o if not i for consider you.

Court her MARRY me

My sister as jidebiz said you should pick a good location not just an area but also a good building ,you should have your target clients on mind as that will determine the cost of clothes you will sell if you chose the average person up then your price range should be what people who want quality at afordable prices can afford not too cheap and not too expensive.If you target big boys and babes thats a different ball game as you will need to do much more publicity to woo them from their former customers by giving them the same quality goods at a more subsidised price or offer them better quality and more unique designs you have to be up to date with fashion trends as most people want to get styles or designs that are not common yet in vogue. As for prices, the clothes should range from #2500 to #15000 and above, Good luck

It depends on why she is sharing a room with him.When I was in school I had accomodation problems things were tough and tight at home and a kind friend of mine allowed me stay with him.We stayed together till we both left school in total say for 1 year.At first it was tough but with time people around us got used to it they realized we were just friends they started reffering to us as brother and sister.Maybe she doesnt have money to rent an appartment and her female friends did not offer to squat her try find out why she is with that guy and see what you can do to bring her out of his house maybe by offering to get her a house you dont expect her to moveout and stay under a bridge because her guy doesnt want her to live with a guy.

Being unmarried at almost 40 is strange but not unheard of maybe he was just too lazy to settle down.You should get to know him better get close to some of his friends especially thhe ones that have genuine concern for you as those are the ones that wil tell you the truth about him.Dont rush into anything that will make you feel used later move at your own pace dont be pushed to do anything you are not ready for that way you wont be too hurt if you find out he was not real. with time you learn to trust him and maybe both of you will end up living happily ever after.Wish you luck

Babs, Babs sometimes you make me want to join in the earlymornning call to go to a mosque and pray(if an infidel will be allowed to enter) I like you i guess your hummility has endeared you to me.It seems you are an epitome of what a moslem should be all these while no insults from you to another.I admire your courage and simplicity keep it up.If all muslems can be like this and christians keep the faith there will be less trouble in the world.My hand shake will go to only those muslems that have proven themselves worthy by their words and action even though we dont have the same beliefs we can at least live together in peace respecting each others religion and right to live.Me davidylan and others like us just want peace we want to raise our feet we want to relax and not having fear when our people travel around other countries for fear of 911 style of attack.WE just wonder why our loved ones get killed for no good reason in this day and age we are just looking for anserws.Its just sad that i think you and a few like you may be considerd softies by your fellow brothers who believe in the violent part of islam.Regards

@ jen33
Jesus never encouraged people to capture slaves.Nowadays his advise to servants to obey their masters goes to househelps or those under the authority of another to serve his/her master with a pure heart.If you realy read your bible properly you will find that jesus did not support the stonning of the woman caught furnicating and the woman by the well who had plenty husbands and was then living with her lover was also taught about repentance and never condemned he encouraged chritians to treat eachothr with respect and dignity irrespective of class,race or colour he also encouraged love for onse neighbour and tought christians not to retalliate when been treated unjustly as you know he taught us to turn the other cheek and also to allow anyone who takes our cloak to take the second one.Jesus was a fine leader and his lifestyle made the jews to wonder if he was the true mesiah because even though he had the power he never fought back.Now dont mistake jewish laws for christian laws .

Thank you lord
oh lord I thank you
Thank you lord
oh lord I thank
thank you lord
Oh lord I thank you for the rest of my life.
my whole existence and more is by your grace jehovah my God a million tongues are not enough to speak of your goodness toward me.Ride on jehovah let the world know that you are my God indeed

@poster
thank for giving me the opportunity to thank my God

Please when eating with the devil use a long spoon and babyosisi do be careful that the hand shake dosent go beyound the elbow you know what our elders say.
I believe that handshakes wont stop moslem fanatics from killing you and your relatives in the north when the imam blows the wistle lets stop decieving ourselves.I respect moslems as individuals and i will never hurt one no matter what because i know not all of them are core terrorists but i wonder why if you look closely youll find that all terrorists are moslems.

Just for clarity the point of focus is not on the Female genital mutilation as it is a common though criticized practice even in a frica and is not carried out by moslems alone.

@ belloti Better still the islam moslems show me i never concorted anything all my points were based on what i saw.Anyway i respect moslems who truly shun violence and respect life every man has a right to any religion of his choice as long as it doesnt harm others around him.

@ belluti when i was young i loved islam in fact i was thinking of becomming a moslem when I become an adult.I remember my father didnot mind he bought me a scarf(hope you notice how good christian parents react to such serious issues? i was not llocked in a room or given mercy killing) to pretend i was one.Then i grew up and found out that islam is not as peaceful as i thought i realised that if i became one i wont have a right in the moslem society cos I am a woman,My husband will be allowed by religion to abbandon me and marry a new wife(now dont give me that shit about the prophet saying as long as he loves them equally) we all know that its not possible for a man to love 4 women equally if he loved the first one why the hell will he go for another?Dont think women cant love four men equally too.I also learnt that as a woman the men believe i cant think and as such i have to be under their authourity as they think for me and make decissions for me.I think hard core islam evolves around a womans VAGINA all their laws if you look deeply have to do with sexual matter they do everything to keep their womens viginas safe their wives dont go out without male suppervission and the daughters are married off prematurely to keep them from furnication.women not hanging around men, women not showing their hands or body,the man marrying more than 1 wife, the ease of divorce. if there were no women islam will be borring.Anyway now i know better i know i am a strong woman who can achieve greatness I dont need a man to think for me i need a man to reason with me and advise me i dont need a lord over my life i need a strong compannion.Islam is a relligion of ego not a relligion of serving God where men show that they are in charge of power.

Leaders are the bllod or heart beat of any reloigion so i believe they hold the key to teach their followers how to truly love and live in peace with others and also to respect other peoples religion no matter how it contradicts theirs and to allow their neghbours freedom of speach.If leaders words are not important why do moslems ask for appology from the church leaders when they think their religion has been blasphemed? Iwont believe a single word of peace preached by those islamic books cos i believe they are all propaganda materials which say one thing and does the opposite show me somthing concrete I dont have to read a book to understand my neighbour let his works and deed speak for him if my neighbour in the north is a moslem i believe his character should speak for him i dont need a book to tell me that moslems will kill anybody that airs any negative view about them in short i believe that if i were to be in the north i would have been set up by you to be killed cos i said mohamed preached violence you are not better you wont mind your friends killing me the only good thing about you perharps is that you cant do the killing yourself but you wont mind others doing it as ussual your peace speach is just a cover up for what is happening underground.

Circumcision is bad it was invented as the case always is by men of old times who want monopoly when it comes to rulling the womans life.They want to enjoy sex and they dont expect a woman to do the same.it was a toboo for a decent woman to ask her husband for sex cos he will think she was loose and bigin to suspect her so it was decided that she be circumcised to avoid any future embarassment to her family.Mothers support it because they fear for their daughters future in the society.If men in their pride dont insist on marrying circumcised girls mothers wont insist on having their daughters circumcised i believe since circumcised women get a beter chance of marrying and the uncircumcised dispised; its only normal for a loving mother to present or encourage her daughter to do it to enable her fit into the society.If men dont demand for circumcised brides the trend will pass.I am uncircumcised and i dont feel my private part is ugly likewise the male organ circumcised or not so stop that crap about vaginal beauty besides women no dey display their vaginas for people to see how fine e dey and i never hear about prety ones .