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@K0be
I wonder o i fear my head. before e no be like that for yankee o, na now adays them start to frown upon am cos most gay guys wey dey toast like to do physical contact like holding and touching to drive home the point say them want to do runs with you naim make men for there no dey like make another man touch them and them too no dey like touch other men so that the guy no go miss interprete the touch to mean another thing. if faggotry dey kill them there them come carry their gospel come meet nigerian bobos wey like babes and get clean minds concernning sex.abi dem don hear of transvestile abi wetin dem dey call am for nigeria before? our men like to be men and them like to sleep with women their mentality no dey twated or twisted.

@ OBIRIN
NO bro is a typical player who sees women as matress he has eaten the forbidden fruit a zillion times o he just wants a fresh matress to sleep on that no man hes slept on before. He is loking for a lady in white silk to stain with his danshiki he has used to roll in every kind of mud.

@ cute n hot
Its not effeminate it is normal and acceptable who told you real men are not allowed to show emmotions? and since when has huging and holding hands on a good day become emmotions that betray masculinity? I beg you people should stop preaching gospels that come from your heads as if you did research jare if your people dont hold hands because there are gays every where around you who oppenly show their homosexuality by holding hands the same rule does not apply here o the next thing you people will say now is that girls holding hands are lesbians dont worry very soon no body will give hugs or hold hands in western countries for fear of beign labbeled gay.

No min oll of them that are spoke inglis like they not go scull I trying to capsure what they spoke most time but I cannot fit undastand. I ferry appi dat one persin has spoke of it now I hope corektion will be took by all the inglish killers.Nonesense and ingrident pipul them.

@ A.B.A4 life
I dont know why but that pic looks kinda fabricated you look like a small, sitting at the wheel. I will like to see another photo of the real you outside the ride o. Tell me what do you do to fetch you enough money to buy such a car within a month? You talked about killing somebody here if you grab his addy MP007 to be precise are you an assasin over there? Doing all them things your ma will not be proud of if she gets to know bout it?
Take it easy ma bro insulting people will do you no good cool down for Jesus.

@ Poster
You are so americanised that you dont even shake hands with a felow man? what is wrong with holding hands in the first place? Maybe some people dont because in the society where they are most men who hold hands are gay and they dont want people to see them in that light not because it is a bad thing to hold hands but society miss interprets it to be something else something to be ashamed of and embarssing.In a society where gays are rare people dont see men holoding or hugging each other as been gay they see friendship and oneness.If you dont like it its your problem and people who do it should not be made to feel bad bout it your culture is your culture and should be respected even as other peoples way of life should be respected and not treated as disgusting cos you dont do things their way.

I know of a lady like that who steals like hell .One day a bro came to visit her and took her to mr bigs along okigwe road in owerri while they were eating he excused himself to visit the gents and she nabbed his GSM handset and went to the ladies when bro returned my girl was also comming outta the ladies he asked her for his phone she said she left it on the table so my bro declared opperation search all presnt he raise a lot of dust and threatened fire and brim stone so the security searched customers but did not find nothing they wanted to search his babe but he stoped them that if she wanted to steal it she would have done so a long time ago at his place so they asked him to give them the number and one of the customers with credit in his phone called it behold the phone rang from his babes pant she stole it and went to hide it in the toilet but couldnt figure out how to switch it off. the guy was so embarassed he just left the chick there and went home people started spreading the news like wild fire when she came out of mr biggs no okada man agreed to carry her so she had to walk amidst jeers and mockery .I dont advise any body to marry a klepto at all they can embarass you any time

Hm I wonder why guys link virginity to goodness in girls.True its a good thing when a lady keps her legs closed from all the wayward boys who are up to no good but it doesnt mean the girl is a saint and will be the best of wife cos she was a virgin when you married her. There are lots of decent ladies who fell in love with players and gave up their virginity to keep him now they realize how wrong they were and can handle relationships well it doesnt mean they are bad or thay are bitches they may give a man more joy as wives than a virgin bride. virginity is lost the first night you guys do it and then the man is left with the personality of the woman thats what matters if a bro can find a virgin bride with good character fine but its better to marry a none virgin whom you know her character than to marry one that will give you headach the rest of your life.

Its mot money that is her problem its how to manage money that is the problem here. the fact that she got a good job should make their lives sweeter and more peaceful as they wont have to think of what to eat or how much will remain if they buy something they need.The husband should ignore her actions and talk to her about spoiling their kids the way she indulges them even when it is clear they dont use money wisely he should talk to his kids too so that in future they wont blame him for letting then rot in ignorance if they refuse to listen to word themn he should let them be they will realize their folly in future.

As long as the lady is not overweight and a total pain to the eyes I see no reason why she shouldnt feel sexy bout herself and be seen as such by them boys

@ poster

So you think at 29 a woman is old with grey hair eh. You are quite naive probably you dont go out enough to see many beautiful young ladies who are 29 or 34 years old looking sexy and if they tell you their age you will drag with them from here reach heaven. The only problem with guys is that they have phobia for age when they see a lovely lady they cant guess the age and they go for her but when they find out her age they shrink and withdraw so its not so much about how she looks(in the first place it was her looks that attracted him) its about the perception that when a woman reaches a certain age she is old especialy if the boy is still a kid age wise(20-26 yrs )

All them female dogs wont mind him hanging around them

@ siena

ma ga re?
Hello bro how things kicking with ya hope alls well
love
Hannydarl

@ babyosisi
no vex o na my keyboard get small skan for head yesterday me sef I shock when I see all the space wey my talk carry as if na only me get to type for the forum. I just dey wait for those wey never commit any erroir for typing like you to cast the first stone of accusation and the stone don land. Anyway I don rectify the trouble as you can see so I no go bombard una eyes with empty spaces again Nnu?

@ Siena
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@ Toshman

Good luck bro enjoy your princess I guess to you she is like an elegant gazzel in an african forest smoth like honey and soft spoken like a feather with voice flowing like warm honey help me greet am o
I beg I go like come chop una wedding rice o.

@N-joy

sorry for the miss quote I dint mean to insult or cause fire on the thread I was only trying to make people know that there is never a time when Viral load will be reduced in a person who is HIV positive to allow a healthy person have unprotected sex with themwithout any risks. I just want to make sure that people understand that if they choose to marry a HIV + person there is every chance that they may be infected too and so should know that they are taking risks when they have unprotected sex with their patners .The society needs to respect HIv+ people and PLWA s but at the same time it is not wise to take risks with them just because we want to show them that we dont discriminate against them.for example we cant take blood from them or share the same piercing instunments such as needles or even clippers at the barbers shop PLWA will understand and wont take it as discrimination if you ask for an instrument to be sterilized after they use it before the instrument is used on HIV free people we should learn to remove emmotion from facts sickness doesnt know brother or sister we just have to be wise.
Its true a person who is healthy can marry a person infected with HIV just as a seeing man can marry a blind person and the hearing man can marry a deaf person anybody can marry anybody as long as the law does not say otherwise but those proposing to marry people with HIV its wise too know that there are risks involved and so they will be better prepared to deal with their partners in health and sickness till death do them part they should know that they have responsibility to take care of their spouse in case their health takes a negative turn.

All I know is that those who have HIV+ spouses and want to marry them good luck to you I hope you and your HIV partner will live long like metuselah o.BUT REALY i see nothing wrong if a healthy persdon intends to marry a leper,or HIV+ person the only area I am worried about is the preaching that HIV is not transfered through unprotected sex if the infected person is recieving treatment as N-joy believes that her positive boyfriend cant pass the virus cos he is taking the anti retroviral drugs that is fa fa fa fa foul. Those friends married for 8 years and the husband is still negative ask the guy very well if he does it with his wife without protection. The fact that she got pregnant doesnt mean he penetrated her to make. one can get pregnant only when sperm is introduced into the va gina and it fertelizes an egg and couples can introduce the sperm artificialy even the finger deeped into semen and introduced into the vagina can lead to pregnancy.
I know its hard to be HIV+ but the truth is if I was HIV + I wont expect my fiance to go ahead with the marriage plans he has a right to choose to live and insisting that he sticks with me will be the most selfish thing to do.Those who are HIV positive deserve to be treated like humans but they have a duty to help prevent spreading the virus and so should understand if people out of concern dont want to marry them.

There is no such thing as lowering viral load to enable the healthy partner have unprotected sex without catching the virus. once a person has HIV it is risky to have unprotected sex witjh him or her wether viral load is high or low the only difference is that with high viral load in the system its much easier to catch it but with low viral load its a bit lower chances of a healthy person catching it the viral level does not stop one from catching HIV from an infected sexual partner so I dont buy Aisha's theory at all the only right thing she said is the prevention of transfer of the HIV virus from mother to child and even that is not 100% effective as the baby might contact HIV during child birth and the mother should also avoid breast feeding as the virus can also be transfered through breast milk.
Also, Its a different thing to be married before finding out one's partner is infected in which case the healthy patner may still want to remain in the marriage but why risk ones life if one finds out before marriage that the intended partner is HIV positive.
I know verry well that practicising safe sex reduces HIV infection thats why they encourage people who are sexsually active to use the condom but what joy is there when a husband has to make love with his wife always with a condom on and also considering the fact that condom is not 100% safe? Come on lets face the fact it is totaly foolish for a healthy person who enjoys living to marry a person who is HIV positive.
Those wanting to marry HIV positive persons are
1) HIV positive themselves
2) Are tired of life
3) Are love blind( They may wake up to reality when they catch it from the infected partner and start wondering if the sacrifice was worth it in the first place)
4)Marry out of pity for the infected partner
5) Are ignorant about HIV and AIDS.
I am not saying that HIV+ people should not marry I am just considering the facts from the angle of a HIV- person marrying an HIV+ person as long as the healthy person knows the risks involved I dont see anything wrong in it but I dont buy the Idea of some ignorant people saying there is no risk involved and so its okay and safe for a healthy person to marry and relate sexually with an infected partner.No mater how sophisticated the treatment is there are stil risks involved.Poison is poison and there is no use telling one that poison does not kill and its ok to eat it. Better for anyone handling it to know the dangers involved so they can take precautioneven if they decide to go ahead with handling it.

Its not advisable to marry a person with HIV or AIDS except it was passed to them from you if not I think its stupidity to involve ones self in such a relationship.I mean whats the point in taking such a risk?

If you intend to get an abortion I sugest you go early to see a doctor to determine if you are pregnant or not cos if you are the earlier you get a D&C done the safer it is for you just make sure you dont risk your life this time around again by going to a quack doctor.

I believe nigerian women realy work hard to keep the home together even though their hubbys believe in cheating on them all the time some days ago I met some guys who believe that a guy can cheat on his wife all his life but it doesnt mean he doesnt love her and I asked them if it will be fair for a wife to sleep with another guy and tell her husband she still loves him even though she slept with someone else they said God forbid and that its unimaginable that why would I say such a thing the mere mention of it makes them want to kill somebody.
I know some women who took back straying husbands one wife took a guy that left her with two kids after 25 years and she gave testimony in the church that her husband who went frolicking with another woman for 25 years was back and I wondered if the guy will take her back had the case been reversed.the other two took their guys back after 15 and 12 years respectively the sad thing is that these idiot husbands left the wives with kids all those years and someguy is busy saying black women are trouble anyway na him get im mouth so he can say as he likes.
It is a pity no mater how hard women try to make a home happy one the men just wander off and blame it on the wives saying she is not sexy, she let herself go , some even go as far as blaming the fact that she gave birth to their children made her Vagina too free so they dont enjoy sex with her anymore and she is to be blamed for that I think women should stop trying too hard afterrall the guy will still find excuse to go outside the mariage and have fun anyway.

If na the type wey go spoil naija name you for no see my comment here.Business does not have to be only between nigerians and the bad rep of our people dey make people no trust us again when it comes to money mater.
No worry I am a good nigerian not the banza type.

My brother the thing tire me o.Last year I travelled out and at the airport in the transit countyr come see how them dey sarch us nigerians now you will be ashamed to be one if you were there. But on my return they dint even care to search us since the plane was not comming from nigeria we just disembarked and went straight to the desk without any qualms.
I guess we have our corrupt brothers to blame not that nigeria is the only corrupt country in the world its just that our own get more degree pass others just as iraq is not the only country that has violence in the world but them own get degree pas others. I dont want to sound unpatriotic o but I am looking forward to get a new citizenship so that I will jump and pass all the nigerian stigma I face when leaving the country and when trying to get deals done with foriegners .

@ OLUTOMIWA

Now I know the true meaning of Educated illiterate cos I have met one in the person of TOMIWA I pity nigeria with people like tomiwa whom the country is looking up to be the future generation you be real okobo I pity that aunty of yours how her photo take enter your hand? I promised myself I wont say much to you but please I beg you take shame carry your pornography comot here you hear.
I don give you where you go go post her put I no talk say make you no post her o in fact I will like to see nude photos of the rest of the family but I wish to see them at the sexuality corner not here thats all what I am trying to say.

Tomiwa we all have the right to post what we want but the should be constructive and if you must post the photo of your naked aunty dont do it on this section go to the sexuality section and advertise her blue film capability ok if I want to brouse your aunty unclothedness I will go there and prepare ma mind that I want to see maters concernning sex but here on culture forum I want to discuss things concernning nigerian culture and not see naked pussy.
Sorry your foot? when last did you wash it?

Why should it always be the woman trying hard to keep the marriage going? You dont want to work to make the marriage work abi so my niger sis ters get to lick your but to keep you at home. look for your omugo wife well o and when you find am keep am you hear cos not all women take shit these days.

It means PAMPERD BY THE CROWM maybe the father is a royal father or something like that to give his princess that sweet name.

Change it to REPUBLIC of BIAFRA