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Jamesokut:
Help: My Husband Wants To Kill Me With Sex


It's not been long since I married Niyi. I married him shortly after I divorced my first husband. I divorced him because he was always beating me and he was not always taking good care of me and our two kids.

I lived as a single mother of two for about a year until Niyi came along and swept me off my feet.

To cut the long story short, we got married about six weeks ago and I am regretting marrying him already. His (something is very big) and he likes to have sex. In short, he wants to kill me with sex.

All my body aches and I barely have time for my two kids, Niyi is always spending time demanding rounds after rounds of sex.

I can't continue like this. I had peace of mind the short time when I was a single mother. I want out of this marriage. I can't continue to live my life hooked on sex. I have my health to think of, I also have to take care of my kids too

Please advice me Nigeria

You already took an advise. Follow it and stop disturbing the meaningful conversation we are having here.

Sabadon:
I know it might sound awkward, but wearing uniforms has a way of instilling a culture of professionalism.


For example in medical school you are meant to dress a certain way, likewise lawyers. It becomes easier adapting to such dress code even after graduation. My thoughts tho

It sounds awkward really. In the university, you are allowed to grow. You have started to develop a mind of your own and take some limited decisions. All that the person requires is a level of guidance. You cannot continue to micro manage a young adult as you end up making him deficient in decision making. In fact in my time, its your problem whether you attended lectures or not. Attendance were not even taken, all the lecturers did was set tests unannounced. These days of treating young adults as overgrown kids is just never gonna make sense to me. Kids will make mistakes and learn from them, just ensure they do not make life damaging mistakes. Uniform does not make a better child, if it did, secondary school students won't be fu.c.king themselves randomly and forming cults anyhow. Let the young men be their age. I did not live a strait jacketed life of white and black in the Uni. Even at the law school i don't recall we were compelled to look like trainee lawyers but of course you saw what others wore and quickly adapted. Today, even without those mandated dressing code, I have since grown to dress as the occasion demands, formal, informal, semi formal, business meeting, court, office, swimming, football, evening outing.....etc.

Trutherme:
[s]There you go!. Thanks for confirming that you are a struggling and frustrated charge and bail lawyer. I know empty barrels when I see them.
I am not a lawyer but I have a couple of them on my payroll. I don't need to be a lawyer because it's a dirty and creepy profession.
Take a look at yourself and see the reason why I never desired to be a lawyer. Anytime you need to change that tired suit and worn out shoes, send your account details and I will do my best. Until then, just shut up and be quiet because there's nothing good about your being a lawyer.[/s]

Dumb as.s. Forever below me.

Trutherme:
[s]You are a very confused and biased man who has faith in the Nigerian police because you may be aiding and abetting them. The Nigerian Police need serious restructure and reform but it's not for losers and ignorant minds like you to acknowledge. So, continue to write rubbish about what you don't know. That's typical of half-baked Nigerian lawyers like you who think they know it all when they actually don't.

Keep yapping hardboy. Empty barrels make the most noise, they say[/s].

I can neither make head nor tail of this gibberish. Next time check well, I am not a boy and never claimed to be hardboy. Does this explain your retarded brain development?

Trutherme:
[s]The more you quote me, the more you expose yourself as a loser.
So, keep it coming until you leave me with no option than to burn the little data you struggle to buy.
The choice is yours. Life is not about the number of garbage you write on social media.
I can slow you down financially if you know what I mean. So, keep the insults coming

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Is this kid aware I am online 24/7 and the cost is borne by my employers because it is part of my JD? Kindergarten kid slowing me down financially . I might probably be able to sponsor your entire family from primary 1 to graduation from university in any course of their choice, well that is if any one of them has the mental ability to go through school, using you as a test case. The only delay I will ever have in responding to you if i choose is when I am busy on other channels.

Spontaneous007:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders,

I hope you guys are safe and sound wherever you are?
Please let's continue to be watchful.

Today, I saw death with my naked eyes.

It all started around some minutes after 4 when we heard gunshots fired into the air. I was at work at that moment and we had to stop everything we were doing and move out immediately. Though before today, we were warned that there will be cults clash in Ojota on the 7th of July because that day was known to be the aiye confraternity day.

My boss volunteered to take us home in his car and drop us at the nearest stop to our house. On our way, the atmosphere was tensed and everyone was running helter skelter. We could hear sporadic shootings Faraway. When my boss dropped us at our nearest bustop, I amd my colleague took a bike going to our street. On our way down the street, a police bus hit our bike so hard that we fell to theground. They shot at us but we had gotten to the ground before the bullets could get to us. My colleague was badly injured but I wasn't. Though I was the must vulnerable because I was sitting behind him.

They pursued us thinking we were cult members. Omo come and see race ... I never know I could run so fast. I threw away my phone and bag... I later went back to carry it after they left. Thank God for life.

We know the story. No MAN will fall before his time. Remain safe. Next time don't run away from police. stand and explain yourself. You are not who you are not.

Trutherme:
Shut Up. Go back school and tutor your village people when you graduate. Loser

Kids everywhere.

Trutherme:
You are probably a charge and bail lawyer who is proud of our ineffectual toothless 'judiciary'.
The Nigerian judicial system is fundamentally flawed. Mention me again and I will insult you.
Mr motor park tutor

Your insult doesn't make me any less of me. I simply explained what you are ignorant about and you take to insults. Whether a charge and bail lawyer or a high flying advocate and solicitor, bottom line remains, I am a lawyer and you are not, so I am better positioned to educate you in matters relating to the legal profession and it's services. You may be more knowledgeable in your field, if you have any. Oya insult me.

Sooo happy ooooo

Denmark scored

Trutherme:
Gutter Nigeria Judiciary

I need to tutor you. There are civil and criminal matters. kemi approached the court to interprete and clarify. That is civil. The courts will not raise issues that you did not canvass, not even orders sought that were not stated or canvassed in your statement of claim. On the other hand, criminal matters are instituted under the criminal law and prosecuted by the state against the accused. Kemi may be charged with the crime of forgery. If charged and tried and found culpable, she pays the price for that.

The court will not give you what you did not specifically ask for in civil suits.

Spare our Judiciary your ignorance and stick to what you know

DenreleDave:

Difference BTW kemi and Diezani madueke..
One resigned and went to court while the latter was sacked and ran away to another country.
Now that kemi is settled... Pls my igbó brothers should call that frog eyes looking Looter Diezani madueke to come and return our money......
Madueke, come. Back and return our oil money....




On a separate note, medical practitioners... This thing just started scratching me yesterday and only to see it today, e don red. See picture.. Pls what can I use? "

Go and beg Deziani and be made whole. Choice is yours.

I wish Spain did not mess up their chances last night It would have been Spain for the Cup. For what England did to us by merging this entity called niger area into one, I will pray and fast for them to lose. I don't care who takes the cup home, so long as it is not England. Ndi werreey.

tomilayomi:
Here is my advice

Well said, but I am not sure contract staff enjoy bank loans. At the salary benchmark he mentioned, he is a contract staff and not a full fledged staff. In any case, no full fledged bank staff will reason this question, in my own time, i only asked whether i should take up the telecoms or bank job that came at the same time.

majamajic:
Can u believe that no single road project happened around Alagbado , akute , oke aro , matogun and ajuwen during his 8 yrs in office ? Lagos State did from Berger to Akute , Amosun couldn't continue his own part , then from akute in Ogun state u be looking at Berger Lagos State , but come and go , it will take u 3 hours again , for a 1kilometre journey

But talk about it , Ogun person will remind u how bad Aba roads are , I have been to the 2 places , these areas in mentioned in Ogun state has the worst roads in Nigeria , u can't compare with any roads in Africa as a whole , talk more of Abia state , try go Aba or Umuahia now and confirm

You are looking at the metropolitan city. Go to the hinterland. Even Abeokuta is paradise per their roads, but you cant say the same about the Alagbado, Akute, Alagbole, etc. The same about Aba and Umuahia. The towns will be decent, but try the hinterland. Both guvs are f.u.cked and those that vote for them are even more f.u.cked.

majamajic:
Aba and umahia have far better roads than roads in matogun, alagbado , oke aro , ajuwon and akute combined , go and check . I ve been in the 2 states

Boss, I have a personal house in Matogun...I abandoned the house. I have used oke-aro/ajuwon/ etc to link Iju/Ogba and VI (where I work). I have used alagbado severally going to OTA. I lived at Alagbole and frequented Akute.

My point is, I know these environments like the back of my palms but those are the worst neglected parts of that state. In Abia, you cannot access my place except you detour through Akwa Ibom state. There is no sane road to Arochukwu except you pass through Akwa Ibom state (either Ikot Ekpene or Itumbunuzo (Off Bende). It is so bad that we don't fly through Owerri Airport any longer, we basically fly through Uyo and take cabs that take you through Uyo- Ikot - Ekpene - Arochukwu. Interestingly, the roads are good till you get to the boundary of Akwa Ibom and Arochukwu in Abia State.

As for Aba, after my last experience more than 6 years ago, I vowed to never revisit that town and I haven't. If i need anything from there, i place an order, pay and it is waybilled to me. If my folks want to see me, they either meet up in the village or come to Lagos. Aba is a No No.

That Ikpeazu is, aside from roads, owing teachers, civil servants, retirees, etc. He is absolutely good for nothing, trust me.

majamajic:
Amosu is worst governor in Nigeria history

After Okezie Ikpeazu of Abia State. Please do not defraud that man of his well deserved title and position.

iwaeda:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/06/bandits-kill-nigerian-army-commanding-officer-highway-while-returning-family

RIP "Bandit"

[quote author= post=103428772]If You are a fake Yoruba here following all sane members posts on NL 24/7,
and you rejoice when we all blast Nnamdi Cownu the murderer and fool alongside his IPOB group,
but you attack us when we blast Sunday Igboho and his PDP sponsored Oduduwa group.

We just want to tell you that you are MAD.
No cap!


If you want to be unfortunate in life and you want your mothers to cry like the mothers of the innocent lives lost to this criminals cum terrorists,
Quote this post to say rubbish....[/quote]I usually do not quote you because i am never able to make sense of the gibberish you type. I only thought to respond to this because of your silly threat which i have tried to embolden, what makes you think or believe that quoting you will lead to death or suffering? Have you too gone mad?

iwaeda:
He is a military personnel. Let us respect!

Respect what exactly The fact they are killing innocent easterners? Abegi. Respect is earned.

Rissamenti:
Tell me something. Did these fuc...king idiots actually send our home based Eagles to play the Mexican FIRST TEAM?

Tell me that did not happen.

I tuned in late, which, going from the results, is fine. The match just ended but from the commentary, the Mexicans came with an experienced side going by the cumulative caps of the team as compared to Nigeria. So it will seem that while the win was deserved, Nigeria just went for an exposure game and Rohr appeared satisfied with the outing.

Mastakija:
Nigerians are blessed
Our leaders are cursed

Are your leaders not Nigerians? Logic hard oo

Cof1ex:
Lol...
Bad things de always funny pass..
Na person papa, husband, sugar daddy, uncle, role model una carry like taata....

You no well ooo. I have been laughing since I read your comment, visualizing all those people you mentioned looking at their father, uncle, sugar daddy, etc being carried like a taata..

benzene00:
as at this moment, Tell me how school has helped him?

For starters, he came out to recieve the certificate, a breath of fresh air...

Then he changed into new clothes, even if it for that moment

Then he took pictures with correctional centre officials

Finally, he is positioned to start a good life when he is reintegrated into the society.

There will be no chance on the last point if he came out the way he went in.

And incase no one employs him, he may just be able to create employment for himself and others.

Please as an aside and let's not fight, would you have been in a position to write this question you just asked me if you did not attend formal education?

Lastly, will you send your kids to school? If yes why? If No, there is no need to answer.

Righteousness2:
Very Interesting move..

If man in his Sinful and evil state will put a car in the air, then I laugh in POWER & MYSTERY at the scoffers and Mockers of the RAPTURE of the Church.

If human being will put a car in the air, then get ready and don't let anyone confuse you. Very soon Millions and billions of people, all over the world, Saved and Washed in Blood of JESUS Christ will Suddenly disappear from this earth , to Meet Jesus Christ in the air.

Wetin una dey go do dia? No be the same bible wey u dey quote talk say heaven is God's abode and he made the earth as his footstool for humans? No be the same bible talk say the earth was created to be inhabited? why una dey confuse like this sef? If all of una fly go heaven, who wan remain here? Abi the person wey first create Adam and Eve make mistake ni?

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1394432/awka-prison-inmate-bags-pgd-msc-information-technology-photos/

Later some people walking free and being fed by their parents and relatives will be asking, "who university epp". This man just provided a succinct, clear and unambiguous answer to that silly rhetoric of a question.

On a lighter note, who wants to employ an "ex convict"

Boudiccao:
Your last sentence is true. However this whole story of meeting women is a cock and bull story that has no evidence to back it up.
There is no point mocking him with it as you did in your comment.

@ bolded...This is well taken. Perhaps my emotions betrayed my real intentions.

Daboomb:
The day Bull-hari will send the military to kill TOW of your Households, in your House, at night, may it be described as 'small harassment".
Traitors and Saboteurs always chant "they are for no one and everyone"

I hope you got your fleeting fame. I generally do not bandy words, but we will know soon, very soon, who the real traitor and saboteur is. When the truth manifests, remember these words of mine.

Boudiccao:
Can you show us the women Kanu was following? Or you want to tell me you believe that rubbish news about him and an unknown woman. He is the only one that can say what happened.

Not that I believe that story, it may just be a ruse. I am just sad that if this is true, then its a shame. I have just been given a version that says he went to Kenya on a promise of some additional support. If this is true, it is also very cheap. If you are gonna help me on a matter such as this, we will probably meet where my taproot is strongest.

First MNK allowed himself to be taken in, following women around.

Second, Sunday Igboho chickens out of a planned rally because of small harassment.

Third....The state is succeeding in shutting everyone up and WE the people are busy clapping for the misfortune that has befallen us.

Me, i am for no one and i am for everyone.

The future is clear in my head even though it is not looking good.