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lazeal:
Bro, I forked up. I met her on facebook, called her within same day she responded. I got her number from her profile. Well, she was calm and cool on phone. She even said we can meet as I requested.

So, I had the urge to open up to her. I spoke to a lady friend and she advised that I tell the girl what I had in mind. I was very reluctant about it because it isn't even up to 3 weeks yet.

Yesterday, I told her there is something I wanted to discuss with her when I come around to her base as I am currently in another state. She said why not on facebook. I told her I would prefer she gets to know me first before that and would prefer we keep communicating. She said okay.

However, I still opened up to her today and she said "hmmmmm wao. Well I am in a relationship" I know her type can't be single cos she is very pretty. I know I made huge mistake opening up too quickly. Well, a few minutes later after she said those, I asked if we can still be friends. she said sure and she requested for my pic because the ones on my profile was too scary.

I am very convince I CAN never go wrong with this girl but at the same time, I am tired of chasing girls who say they are in a relationship. Any hope? I really want her and even told her this isn't a case of just dating but a huge possibility of me marrying her. I know I made a mistake already. The lady who advised that I opened up to the girl said since she said she is in a relationship, I should move on and that if I had delayed, I would have been friendzoned. I actually wanted to wait a little while... before revealing anything to her.

okwypascal:
bros harddon, baba for ur gals
how far some lil help, about one Bae way we jus do small stuffs but now I want 2 jam her for the main stuff. is taking her 2 an hotel OK? what re the dos and dont. and abeg I just want 2 make her 2 desperate that she could even pay the hotel bills

hustleranthem:
Hi Brothers..there is this cute girl that just moved to my area I wud love to date..bt i have not done area paroles before..any tips on how to go about it?

liljboy:
why go through school just to get a job.... stay at home and depend on your parents forever... fowl.

alch3mist:
You mean all these material on how to be a player?... Too bulky. Why the hell will I want to read all these and memorize it just to get laid? Who e help?

SOLARPOWER1:
Promised 1 swt girl a date dat I didnt honour, ve ignored her for sometime now, chatted her recently perceived her response was not friendly. Called her

She: why is it dat when I dont respond properly to your chat that's only when you call

Me: This 1 u are blowing hot dis nyt did u take pepper soup or what.

She: Yes I took pepper soup. D outing/date u said u would take me out on, is it when I leave town u would take me out or what. (she would soon leave my locality)

Me: laughing, ve been too busy, and u know dat, but nothing stopped u from calling me to talk to me about it.

She: ok o I hear u


Me: I will call u within dis week as regards what I promised when am less busy.


Me: but ve not forgotten ur purnishment, just put dat at d back of ur mind. (I gave her various options of purnishment for what she did d last time and she has not yet fulfilled my requirement)

She: Nigeria Men!!

Me :Anyway, like ve told u b4 if u miss somebody, just pick up ur phone and communicate it not blowing hot like u re doing dis nyt.

She: .You re just feeling like a god.You re d 1 missing me. what re u feeling like self.

Me: laughing, d last time u said AUTHORITATIVE, now like a god, God will help me in ur hands, u re just firing shots dis nyt.......


This is like d second time she is using these kind of words like authoritative/ acting like a god to describe me.Guys hope I nor de over do d thing (boss ball)?


cc @Harddon, SerRento and all d senior men in d house help ease my ministration to dis girl. This babe de try resist all my INJECTIONS.

Akposb:
@Skykid1208
Man I should not be in the best place to advise you but I will be talking from experience.
I am just an introvert like you and yes all I deduce from your story is a girl giving you green lights. I had such an experience which I ran away from because of inability to converse especially on phone or private. Man the main thing is you are afraid of being awkward or bereft of confidence. If you like her and you see something you both share in common, make the move and everything else will take care of itself.

natsuDragneel:
Oh, that's easy...
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Just be yourself

However, that will only work if
Your profile pic is moderately okay...
You speak good English
You're not the social media stalker type... it's creepy AF

cantona2015:
Thumb up guys , how should one start cold chatting with a gurl you like on Facebook bearing in mind they are alway on self defense against strange guys , please help out on this

Skykid1208:
There is this girl in ma class I like a lot and she have been showing some green lights from afar even though I've spoken to her just once ( don't even know her name). I want to get into a relationship with her but don't even know where to start ( have NO female friend and am d introvert and a lilbit shy kinda guy).

We've been seeing each other in class nd around my faculty but we don't talk not even a Hi, ( am this kind of guy that ignores girls a lot ). About 4 months back I was going to ma guys lodge and I saw her on my way coming in the opposite direction, I wanted to pass her by without even as much as say Hi but she greeted me ( while smiling as if she just won a scholarship to study in London), we shook hands and had a lil conversation b4 I went on my way.

Since then I've seen her many time in class but did'nt say a word or even look at her, but I've noticed she keeps staring at me.

Now I don't know how to start a convo with her and get her number afterwards, any help pls?


cc: HARDDON, DaviddaGEEK etc

peterpen:
There is this girl i met 9 months ago we clicked almost instantly, got talking and i gave her my number before we parted ways buh she never called, 9 months later we meet again, she apologised profusely for not calling saying she lost Mah number nd wuld love to spend time with me....gave her the time i wuld be free the next day and told her to call me......she never called dat day buh the next day she texted exactly the time dat was agreed we are gonna meet saying she was busy and will not be able to make it.....and since then she hasn't called and I haven't called either..... My question is dat wat shuld be my next line of action and how to i make her appease me for opting out at the last minute......All experienced bosses on the thread I need your advise on this on, dnt wanna appear clingy a d needy.... ,

cc: HARDDON, DaviddaGEEK etc

footprintD55:
1)she is ova demanding i told her nt everytin she ask for i cn gv her and she label me as the stingin type nd she walkd out on me,2)she was once stayn at my lodge be4 she relocatd to d new lodge dats how we meant me nd dsame guy buh i was d dat show interest 1st.3)nt upto 20min

Bluetooth2:

Fallacy of Hasty Generalization

HARDDON:
You must be in d know also about all bra types out there, where their hooks r n ....... whether or not they got hooks.


This is one of my maming lines: that is 38A u are wearing (say that staring @ her b00bs)...they just off momentarily, out of breath n words, ....then u kill it off with a surprise look saying "oh u dont know ur size do u?"


Some might call u bad guy/boy , to hat u say: yea i know, heard that alot, but u wudnt blame me, ive got 8 sisters n tons of gurl friends

footprintD55:
baba harddon help me reason this matter there is this gurl that i have been
dating for more than six
months.along the line we had a
quarrel and we havnt cald each
oda for smday now, buh today she
came to my lodge nd to my surprise she entered my guy next
rum without saying hi.The
question is: (1)is she trying to
check on me if am dating another
gurl ? (2)is the guy next door
having an affair with her or she is trying to get back at me

pretydiva:
Wey all those tatafo bloggers. He has put u all 2 shame

firstking01:
Break up with her.

HARDDON:
a lil vid is worth a thousand words..... so watch and make sure you practice until you pro out


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Z9oQcqRt4Q




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hu_nJbvc3Q

WackyJ1:
i meant Expanciating on the making love to her on the phone or chat!

WackyJ1:
You never expanciated on this Sense Pill Boss

lovelygurl:
Sounds like sth I will do

youngfocus:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]nice one following still d end
;Dnice one following still d end

yeyeboi:
FTC

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