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 Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:40pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
DRILL NUGGET 23 Marriage Light; Proposal, Deal Day, Understanding the difference between wify and gf, Planning life, Finances, handling Both Families, Kids, How to handle misunderstanding and resolution, effective ways to communicate, Ignoring her once in a while. Husband; Roles and responsibilities. |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 5:10pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
Dating Drills Reloaded loading..... Features: 1. Pro drills ( Life, Love and Lust) laced with real-life tales (in-depth) 2. True stories( Inspirational, Life, Education, Ladies etc) 3. Loads of other freebies/giveaways ( recharge cards, Data Bundles, Money Transfer, Ebooks about all works of life etc) both on this thread and on our blog (datingdrill) etc.... Wondering why I am doing all these.... for free? well, wonder no further, take a look at my life's taglines: a. Life consists not on the abundance of wealth you possess nor on the number of days you live but on the lives you touched POSITIVELY while on earth you tread. b. You will be remembered for two things when your time here is over: the lives you touched or the chaos you caused. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Health › Re: COVID-19: Buring Bodies Of Victims From Around The World (Photos) by HARDDON: 2:56pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
it is well |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls From Rich Homes More Appreciative? by HARDDON: 6:35pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
LandMann:  Sense Pill: it is not about the size of daddy's pocket but the content of characters 1 Like |
| Poems For Review › Re: A Sweet Reality. by HARDDON: 3:00am On Apr 17, 2020 |
Ariadne:happy bday in Arears.... Had fun? |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:03am On Apr 17, 2020 |
HARDDON:opps! look what i found....  4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Mention The Lies Your Ex Told You by HARDDON: 1:20pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:57am On Apr 14, 2020 |
daeminent:Why? It wasn't her fault. |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:27pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
daeminent:She sees chat as cheap. And you might just be TRYING too much to impress her. Switch to calls but make sure you get all your flows right before you dail that number. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by HARDDON: 11:08pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
Starboytwo:be careful.... @op, World over, open secret; What most people( both genders) really want is fwb. do ish, yet be free to explore more without bf/gf dramas. But life isn't ideal, so they lose a lil stake from time to time in the process of satisfying that want. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by HARDDON: 10:36pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:56pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
Millennialaku:extensively treated .... keep reading... |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 1:52pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
LeiderJa:They are super cool when deployed with well thought out plan and procedures. If not, you soon run outa steam 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by HARDDON: 9:51am On Apr 09, 2020 |
my business mentor would always advise: Don't Dip Your Pen into The Company's Ink. they painted it with another set of words in Lagos business school, when I attended, but it means same thing. The easiest way to lose control of the office and your staff members and start losing money is what you are about plunging into. Take it from a professional and an entrepreneur like you. And yes, I'm also a dating expert. If you must date her, you must FIRST FIRE HER( don't just do it like a dock and lose her love and respect.) You can't mix biz with pleasure, you just can't. by the way, you should know,her green lights are so glaring. How you act on them matters alot. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Celebrities › Re: Isabella Ayuk Flaunts Her Fiancé And Diamond Engagement Ring, Set To Wed by HARDDON: 11:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Now, here is to the unfortunate guy that is going to be saddled with the left overs after seeing it all and being seen by all. |
| Romance › Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by HARDDON: 10:55pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
It takes guts... |
| Romance › Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by HARDDON: 10:23pm On Apr 08, 2020*. Modified: 10:52pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Op, it takes a man to realise his short comings and figure out solutions or ask for help. 1. You need to work on your self esteem/confidence as regards ladies 2. You need to expunge all negative thoughts/pent up energies about ladies. They are such lovely creatures that add alot of values to a man's life 3. You need to worry less about whether or not you can keep a relationship. You can. you have the inherent super ability. 4. You need to ignore relationship for now, try and make friends first. bridge the social gap with females and I promise you, that the relationship would happen naturally with one of them. Before you realise it, you are long lost in it. 5. Above all, to build your mind and show you the robes as regards life and love, invest your time in studying dating drills( both the thread here and our blog). the links you seek are down below on my signature. Thank me later. 10 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:12pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Johnwick64:Well served, it works on all. these ones are even more susceptible. But errmmmm bro, hope it's not what I'm thinking  AVOID TEENAGES OOOO. no matter how seemingly exposed they are. even if they throw themselves at you. Ruuuuuuunnnnnnn!!!! Why? When the chips are down, they would go with their parents' scripts and label you a Rapist. You know what that means don't you? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:03pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
derrick015:That is what happen when you don't have what you want from a gurl before you even talk to her the very first time. Having an aim in mind help you to gear all your energy and words towards that singular aim. You can't randomly shoot shoots. Sense Pill ladies are like scalar quantities(magnitude but dormant direction) men are like vector quantities( magnitude blended with supposedly active direction). When combined, the scalar quantity automatically take on the direction of the vector quantity. However, with ladies, if the vector quantity does not direct, they activate thier dormant direction ( friendzoning, mugu, maga, assignment bf, side guy etc). Nature abhors a vacuum. Never get to that point where a lady just now assume your responsibility of Just keeping you around. Go bro, pack your bags and go. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:50pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Donzie1995:Too tacky. Vibe killer. Don't ever forget the 50:50 portion You have to be sassy and funny |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:45pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
ayoola27:Wrong answer to a perfectly served meal! What was the aim of your response? arrrhhhhh. just killed the vibes of a cool comvo flow  Compare your response to these; 1. nopes I don't. but YOUUUU can't help but keep running through mi mind trying to get my attention. are you lonely? ( if you want her as a gf) 2. Yea, alot. How your nose twitch when you talk, Your small eyes twinkle when you smile, your tiny hands and legs and above all, how annoying you can be. And I came to the conclution that This relationship would not work. ( aim: GF) 3. ofcourse I think about you alot; if you would know how to take care of a guy like me; On and off the bedroom ( aim: FFB) 4. All I think about is your lips and booty. but I don't know if you even know how to use them( FFB) Sense Pill: Good hunters always have an aim. they don't just throw bullet randomly hoping to hit a target. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 4:16pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
ayoola27:I think they would serve you well. Because they handle different aspects of this drill.... What is 248 pages to the wealth of knowledge you would garner? a lil side note; don't read the pages like a novel or newspaper. Give them a practical approach. Whether it takes you one year to cover up is of no consequence, what matters is that at the end of it all, you would become a better man in Life , love and with ladies.. A man sure of his steps, certain of his future and in absolute control of his balls. See you on the other side 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: How And Where Did You Meet Your Partner? by HARDDON: 2:25pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
missimelda01:Imagination brought about by lonely situation Touched by this earthly sensation Your mind took a baecation to filter the sons of creation Wrapped within the warm embrace of this temptation You drifted across seven ocean in sleek motivation Warm, as it were, wet as you were You rode the waves Till upon my altar Your all you lay. My Lady. 5 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 2:02pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Emeraldfynest:That doesn't take care of your dating knowledge deficiencies. Now it's time to read and arm yourself. Go back to page on of this thread and visit our blog .... 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:15am On Apr 06, 2020 |
OJLion:the thing with falling in love and then start acting all needy and wussy is: once you lose your balls, the chances of getting them back are very slim. it is like demoting your self from the owner of the house to a house boy. It is like when you get to that point where your woman starts addressing you as YOUNG MAN. You don't need a soothe Sayer to tell you that the time to move on has come. WHETHER YOU CARE SO MUCH ABOUT HER or not is irrelevant. Why? because everything you do from that time forward, would further push her away and you lose more balls( respect), resources, life and limb. While she is basically restricting you access to places yet cheaply giving same away. you might even turn to a gf beater. Take a royal roll bro 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:06am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Emeraldfynest:Oh sure. just block her and delete her. You ain't ready for this kinda stunt yet. Emotional blackmail: She ask for stuff, you didnt give, she withdrew the lively and fun part and started giving you monos hoping that if she starves u of that, you'd roll over, ask for her Acnt, send the money so everything can go back to normal. Classic move. even wifys use it on their husbys when they demand something and he isn't giving.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:00am On Apr 06, 2020 |
IAmRoot:You can't spring in with an element of Surprise/mystery( she doesnt know who you are) and make statements that are not open ended. Statements that don't elicit responses. before I proceed, Reread that ice breaker of yours and come up with better ones. we waiting... 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:53pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Zabiboy:Ouch! Super mean! Ouch. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 4:48pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Emeraldfynest:You were an easy target by a seemingly lively yet highly manipulative lady who is totally in control of the flow between you two. She told you she has a bf to kill any dating idea that might be playing in your mind . this is a classic manipulative move by ladies which I use alot too. 1. that statement simply means I'm not ready for dating drama. Rather I'm here for the money and fun. 2. I totally want to place you in a corner. clip your wings. Her asking you for that money was another classic test/move. She wants to test how financially buoyant you are and the depth of her manipulative fangs in you. She lost interest because a. she partially has proven that you ain't financially buoyant b. She wants to emotionally blackmail you into submission. Your respond here should have been : "Not so fast,you have to come and show me some skills first." or some other line that tells her squarely you do understand what's up and she has to come please you first. She agreed to meet so she can finally prove if you got money or not. some guys would easily part with the money with just seeing her and a manipulative peck. Others that gets her game would tell her to meet them at a hotel that they've made room reservation( this would tell her that they know what's up and are ready to pay for service). Suggest any other place other than a motel or hotel and she would have you by the balls. Your last question shows you are not ready for this kind of lady YET. So call off the date. but do it in an annoying way. Play along till that day. When she arrives at the venue, tell her you are a moment off. Let her call and call and call. NEVER SHOW UP. After that, block and delete her contacts. no one has monopoly of madness. A gurl that is rude enough to be this manipulative deserves no act of kindness. I just saved you tons of stress and funds. if only you know... 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 4:12pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
OJLion:It takes a mental mastery for a man to realise and admit his wrongs. Hat's off. at bolded, you already know what you should do. Do it quickly before you lose more balls, life n limb. |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 3:50pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Martinez39s:This thread was inspired by people like him. if there were no sick people, there wouldn't be need for hospitals and doctors. ...Easy on the strong words. Kindly edit your post to reflect and project that calm and collected side of yours willing to help the unlearned Boys . Rich Regards Don 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 3:18pm On Apr 05, 2020*. Modified: 4:14pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Htop:To answer you, let me throw a lil light on relationship, Love and EXs Most guys, lacking the drills/skills outlined within this thread, but wanting to attract the opposite sex and get laid, toll the weak/cheap RELATIONSHIP lane. They easily profess love and propose relationship, buy the lady's attention with incessant call, gifts, outings etc as a shunt between meeting and mating. Little did they know that proposing Relationship makes them waste resources, exposes their vunerability(wimps,mugu/maga), lack of women wit/wisdom and ultimately lenghtens the time to have what they really seek ( s3x). After months of caring, buying and calling, They finally have their ways into the forest and then it dawns on them that relationship wasn't what they really wanted. Then, they ask themselves: " is it this cheap thing I wasted all these months chasing, wasting time and resources on? But because they have invested too much, they hang on, play along so as to browse the forest a lil more, to gain back part of the investments, while they are doing that, they are still looking out there for more vJays, still using same relationship skill to lay more. The semi smart ones would get away with few. until one day, the first gurl finds out they have being cheating. some wud break up immediately, most wud cry and expect full apology and try to use that as a means of total control. Or the guy ghost her after tasting a couple of times. Bottom line is, they break up. If they(ladies) were really gaining alot from the guy, they wud cry and be touchy for some weeks after the breakup, block and delete him on all social fronts. avoid him physically and try to move on. But no matter how they try to expunge him, his thoughts still lurks. The way he cared, touched and laid them still hunts. Then not to go back to him, they decide to give another guy( that is totally honest and is for real) a chance. but this guy is just plain boring and accepts all their whims and caprises. always at their Beck and call. This guy made her miss the formal guy even the more. then one day, from the blues, she ran into the formal guy at the mall( oh he looks so Kul now) and after exchanging pleasantries, a lil chat, he asked for her contact again which she gave without thinking . oh , how she missed him. then he sent WhatsApp messages and the reconnection began. he blows her off her feet deeply again because he knows all her weak point which the new guy has no idea about. But she made up her mind that NOTHING will ever happen between them ever again. But the thing with ladies is that they can think cooly and calmly just that they END UP THINKING WITH THEIR HEARTS INSTEAD OF THEIR HEADS. yes, They are emotional beings. Before she realise, she is in his arms again, screaming to the high mountains. And from that moment, it is hide and seek game with the new guy. Or just simply rub it on his face the way your supposed gurl is doing. Yo should know that the EX is just here to browse more , she knows it. that is why she always bluff and put u in line with threats of breakups. she is going no where because the EX does not want a relationship( she knows). He wants u to foot the bills while he is helping you to comb the web. OUCH! Here is the gospel truth: That gurl does not have an iota of respect for you because you are way below standards in the dating world. you have no clue. She doesn't even see you as her bf let alone a lover. SHE knows that she has your Full emotional ( mumu) button and she , without baiting an eyelid, exacts its full weight on you without hesitation nor reservation. Maybe she is reaping financial or other benefits from you. I don't blame you because you are naive and to be laid for the first time by an experienced gurl wud have had its toll. She knows.... MY ADVICE? Pull a German stunt on her. Take her out to a very posh place for dinner. Throw jokes, make her very comfortable. After eating, while sipping your wine. Tell her that you have done alot of thinking about the relationship and couldnt see where it is heading. lLook at her straight in the eyes and Tell her , without flinching that you are calling it quits. wish her well in her future endeavours and roll out( go home) before she can recollect her self for any stupid speech. After that, go-to the beginning of this thread and start reading. Empower your mind. We are no mean men. 16 Likes 1 Share |
