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Kingmena:
The way you doing extra for her after paying her is funny to you is also the way doing extra for your business after doing her normal work duties is also funny to her, but she doesn't go about like you creating thread on nairaland or saying men this men that. We should live maturely and not like overgrown babies, always bringing everything online to seek opinions

this is humbling...

Lastmankc:
Naso another person go bang your daughter with job

amen!

Kingmena:
Oga you stated she even followed you to work today that is Sunday, so that means she is doing extra for you aside her normal work duties, so when you do extra aside her normal pay duties don't complain.

it is not like I am complaining, the thing is just funny to me and I decided to share.

jasminer:
Opening a thread on relationship seeking non-biased opinion here is almost an impossibility these days.

Alot of active commenters are actually very young, naive and inexperienced. Some are just venting their anger here on a faceless forum, just few are mature and reasonable...

That being said, yes, a woman loves to spend her man's money, whether she's your mother, girlfriend, wife or daughter, as long as she loves you, gifts from you are worth 100 gifts from random admirers.

But if she really cares about you, she won't accept a gift that can hurt your finances, business or something. But a woman who doesn't care about you will push you to spend your last card and once she sees the money is finished, she'll fly away.

Summary, she's a good girl, you should spend on her if you consider a future with her but let the spending be within "fair usage", don't hurt your savings to impress a woman.

Happy Sunday

tnx

Brandella:
Reading this, if she does valuable work for your company as you said, maybe you should consider her expenses in relation to what you pay her... then make a compromise.

Data is costly and transportation adds up too.

If she is a valuable asset to your company, maybe you should assist with data costs - this is advantageous to your profit margin in the long run.

For transportation, maybe consider a remote working option.

I still think you should have a talk with her. Find out what exactly the problem is.

hmmm...thanks

AntiWailer:
How much are u giving ur mother monthly ?

2 naira. She does not eat much sha. She eats only once a month. Be asking me how much I dey give my mama.

7pages:
Driving job dey vacant for your domain Op? Help a brother I'm an asset or any vacancy in your company

it is a small business bro. Just 5 staff and me

Depressed101:
i don't understand, are you blaming us for your inability to use the word NO nawa simps everywhere including the once wey get money

no be say I get money o. I am a broke simp

MartinsD12:
and you are not planning to marry her either? Cut down on the money you are giving her and watch what her response would be , she should take care of herself from the salary you are paying her

why not. I am planning to marry her

BABANGBALI:
Why are you paying a girl money every month? Is she your wife? Na una dey spoil all these useless girls wey full Nigeria today.

Annie001 how much your own dey pay you?

na una no dey read before u comment. Did you see where I said she works for me and I gave her the job because she actually qualifies for it?

MartinsD12:
In these case you are not paying her for free since she is working in your company and you said her experience is what you needed in that your company so take care of your girlfriend oga but I understand where you are going, she should be at least responsible not asking you for everything she needs all the time including airtime and food but I don't think it's wise to be spending on a girlfriend you are not sure you are going to marry

at first it did not matter, but when I thought about it, the meals alone adds up quickly over the month. Sort of hard to eat and know she has not had lunch at work

lexy2014:
Did the girl force u to give her money? Why are u complaining and making it look as if ladies are d problem when u can't control how u spend on women?

cos I feel like complaining

Jack005:
I hope she is on nairaland and sees the post of her SIMPle boyfriend.

yes she is and knows my moniker

Obason22:
what is need asking for advice when her work experience is worth the money, it's also worth the airtime and food. And if I may ask, how much have u be given to ur mother monthly or annually

my mum is nobody's business. I give her her dues. This girl is my employee she deserves are salary, it is just funny to my how she attaches her lunch to mine. She won't order food until I order mine even though she does not ask me to pay, I just have to cos she had waited till I ordered lunch...

iLegendd:
You sound dumb and insecure.

He started dating her and after a while, he considered giving her a job in his company to avoid spending on her every day. He made a good decision. It's better than those that give girls money without the girl working for it.

He didn't employ her before the relationship. Talking about yashing, you insecure 1 minute men with small d*cks always think a woman is doing you a favor when she gives you sex.

The man is doing 90% of the pounding and while the women is getting 90% of the pleasure.

Now, who is doing who a favor? He is doing her a favor in three ways

1. He's giving her sexual pleasure
2. He gave her a job (do you think getting a job in Nigeria is easy?)
3. He still buys her things regularly

See, I dislike reading comments by insecure men who worship women and think they can do no wrong. Hórny bastárds everywhere.

Because a man wants respect, he should never have a girlfriend or wife and employe the person in his company? Haven't you seen people that employed their girlfriends one wife?

Mtcheew!

I opened this thread because I knew there are matured reasonable people like you. Most people did not even read the post before commenting.

And some comments make it seem we are romancing ourselves at work. Lol. I just wanted to have a feel of the experience of other men in my shoes and dudes already screaming to high heaven. The thing funny o

Brandella:
How old is she? I find that men who date much younger women have to bear their financial responsibility.

So, how old is she?

23

larryking540:
because you choose i do so ,most of you Nigeria men turn Niger girls to the way they behave ,I also I am a victim also

at least u are honest

Munzy14:
Your gf is working for you and you expect us to do what exactly?

You mix business with pleasure...There is a way you can still make it work remains business, but she is your girl at home..If you can't seperate the two, you will soon create a thread on how everything crashed.

A stitch in time save 9.

Men who mix business with pleasure live to regret...
It is exactly a week today a friend lost roughly 10million plus worth of goods to a case of arson...I advised he should get his security man arrested..Guess what? he can't because he is dating the man's daughter..

Very nonsense stuff.

did I tell u we are being romantic at work?

GoldenSpec:
Sheay na new format be this or wetin

sort of.

udemzyudex:
Very very stupid

abi

obembet:
Give me trial

how many girlfriend am I to have at a time?

dreycomalfoy:
This is the way Nigerian girls or women are programmed generally. They offer nothing in a relationship but always collect everything. They want you to be responsible for everything ehile bringing nothing to the table. They even view sex as a favor. Thats the kind of naija girls we have now. A simple advice.....dont date broke girls especially. They will drain you and one day theyll say you are not enough and leave you.

this girl is not like that. She is very hard working and committed

GoldenSpec:
As if u get hole for body .. Watch as the Op avoid u like a plague

the girl sef dey work for me and my other staff also enjoy favours from me

aeronot:
Brother the salary is office work, the extra money is extra work. Or abi u no dey knack? Na wa 4 u.

ok sir

anataala:
So how much are you giving your mum every month.

zero naira. are u happy now?

Karleb:
Hardmirror is in trouble. This thread don reach

lol. No qualms jare

dominique:
If she's working elsewhere and earning the same amount, are you saying you won't be buying gifts for her or taking her to lunch or dinner. How much is the food or recharge card compared to the value she's bringing to your company?

true, she even came to work today sunday so we can finish some backlogs. Why I have stood my ground that she is not taxing me as some guys here want to imply. She has proven to be an asset than liability. But I was just genuinely wondering if all girls just enjoy spending their guys money than theirs or what? Even the good girls

GoodHardDick:
Are you happy for being a SIMP or what? Coz I don't understand

I guess I am simping small small already. May god save me

Karleb:
Na una dey spoil all these girls.

She has more to lose if the relationship crumbles.

Her job is on the line, she knows this of course. So you are at the position of power here. You can do shakara however you like.

Bros, no dey fall hand o

thanks

Imustnottalk:
don't worry when the finish let see maybe the big yansh will save you

ok sir.

Imustnottalk:
big one I'm very sure he is not helping none of his family members

lol. Yes I don't help my family members I prefer sharing money to girls with big yansh

CAPSLOCKED:
HARDMIRROR. YOU HAVE TO TREAT RELATIONSHIPS LIKE YOU TREAT RELIGION, IF NOT, ONLY LOSES FOR YOU.
THEY'RE BOTH SIMILAR IN SEVERAL WAYS AND YOU MUST FOLLOW THEM WITH LOGIC RATHER THAN EMOTIONS.

thanks bro