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Shadysen:
Sometimes I think if I came to escort people into this world, I will take a drastic step soon.

so you look urself finish naa this comment u fit yarn ...... take more than drastic step nothing will happen because naa the thing wey you use your mouth talk ...

Rawhumper:
Marriage is a union, its a two not one, that
are involved so both have to love each other
for it to work out. Without which, it will head
to doom.


Am about to marry the girl I love and she loves me, despite my way of life and I thank
God for giving me, the most beautiful golden
quite girl that loves me.....she calls me
everyday even from her workplace.....and I have vowed never to hurt or cheat on her
because I truly love her and she is my perfect
match.

So marriage is a two way thing.....this question can't suffice, when it comes to
marriage issue.

oga forget your love for her is with a condition she is reserve but come to think if she try to replicate the lifestyle you leav whould you stick with her ......

marriage is not always a two way things most time one party tend to give more compare to other

Toks2008:
Let me paraphrase this so that it can make more sense. Would you rather be with someone who wishes to be with another person? Because this is the case if you find yourself married to the one you love who does not love you and YES people marry without really wanting to be with the person they are married to.

This may sound so twisted but it is not at all. It is the dream of many people to be with someone they love who also loves them in return but we all know that this is seldom the case as we usually have the feelings tilted in one direction and as they say, the person who loves less in a relationship holds the power over the other.

I have met ladies who i love and i have met those who love me and i can tell you for a fact that these two categories are not in anyway alike.

When you love someone and they don't feel same way, you usually see yourself having to do more of the work to make it work and in most cases, you are taken for granted because the other person cares less if you stay or leave..

But when you are with someone you don't really desire but the person desires you, you will feel very uncomfortable at the beginning but there will be this serenity in your life with so much inner assurance that you are truly cherished and you will feel so alive and loved so much that you will inevitably start developing strong affection for the other person. (The beauty and the Beast is not just a fiction very realistic)

As a man, if you marry a lady who truly loves you, she will submit to you, cherish you, treat you like a king and will never see any reason to be with another man. And in like manner, if a woman marries a man who truly desires her,. he will treat her like a queen and cherish her all the days of his life.

YES i understand how twisted this sounds cos whether you choose the one you love that does not love you or you choose the one who loves you but you do not feel same way, the bottom line is that there is still an imbalance in the affection.

But be it as it may, you can never know how special you are until you meet someone who genuinely desires you and sometimes it is best to leave the one you love to be with the one who loves you because with time, you will realize you made the right decision.

So let us have your opinion.

the first question is that do you want to stay long on earth then marry the a woman that loves you more because once a woman love they love with all their spirit and soul

but if you dont care about staying long on earth then go for the one you love most then i will give you up to five years then ... funeral follow

oshozondii:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/04/04/2023-emefiele-buni-presidential-posters-flood-yobe-photos/

I dont know who do this to us as a country, as matter of fact some people in this government suppose to be in KUJE by now people like Emefiele that allow dollar to rise like Garri Ijebu against naira, Ameichi ,, some week ago he forcasting an attack on Abuja rail it happen... Yoruba will say a witch cry yesterday and a baby die today... surely the death will be from the witch..... they only focus on staching the limited remaining wealth in the country into their account ... old fool that suppose to be behind bar are been glorify without questioning ....

akinremiayomide:
who is this being for Goodness sake

You should be thankful for the Yorubas who assisted you guys during the civil war

My father friend always appreciates the yorubas who secure his properties in Lagos during the 4yrs he was away in the east,he came back to southwest and met his properties the way he left it .
While do you think we accepted you all into southwest as refugee during the civil war??
Why didn’t you all run to the north for safety??
But yet,you still hate the yorubas for nothing

some of them Yoruba be their problem whereas naa them be the traitor from onset

Bonaventura:
Awolowo was not honest

When he was released from Calabar prison on the negotiations that he'll relay the plight of the Easterners and help end the war, due to his presidential ambition, he rather advised the then Federal Government to use hunger and starvation as a tool for war against the Igbos.

He never was the president

Someone should remind me how he died again..

this is where your old one gives you wrong narative , try to meetup with a good non bias igbo people they will narrate what really go wrong ...... Awolowo has a meeting with Ojukwu in enugu because Awolowo was never a military man, dialogue is the best Ojukwu accept the plea but before will get to Ondo just some hour drive from Enugu ... Ojukwu start the war...

Spyetv:
That's not a stick dear. It's for Generals ...

it like mobile seat, anyone can use it if dont want to stand too long

faithfull18:
Lol, this is a reminder to men who think they have monopoly on cheating.

Well, I condemn cheating by any of the parties, stay faithful to your married partners, stop sleeping around.

thats where woman get it wrong once you know as a woman that your so call child is for another man then move to that man house rather than to disgrace yourself infront of such child ...

Yes men cheat and am not in support of that but men still hold up to their mistake unlike woman that would be afraid to speakup just because of what they want to get ....if woman are claiming the same class as man then they should ne able to own up to any thing that come after

rajiedreez:
Guy na, you said Nord 2 isn't in use, shey you forget that there's Nord Stream 1 ni that's still in use na. And e no join the ones that pass through Ukraine o

no mind that one Nord stream 2 reach Germany and it still active

Hezzyluv:
Walaii.... This man no just get sence. Prior to his invasion on Ukraine, a lot of people don't even know the unit of Russian currency.

Swallow your pride and allow peaceful negotiable approach to this your madness Because, as it stands you have put your country into retrogression economically

let put asside the invassion which is wrong but this idea is the best withing a year you will see dat russian currency will rise against dollar

Siberia01:


What of all the NIGERIAN Billionaires
Scattered across the North ,East and west

Can't one just bid for Chelsea

them no fit prove how them get their money, because naa naija u you go hear say millionaire was ask how do yo earn your first million

the answer will be Naaa God do am

bennybuhari:
Abba Kyari must have stepped on powerful toes when he was supercop. Fulanis don't treat themselves this way

Abba Kyari is not a fulani man he is a Kanuri man from Bornu

Prosperous111:
Thank you. Exactly my thoughts

There's no any doubt Russia is behind that faceless deal. Belarus is a good friend of Russia and Putin owns there president. It's obvious our country is not working cos how could you Condemn Russia invasion on Ukraine and still sell armored vehicles to Belarus that has a standby armies that are waiting for order to match into Ukraine.

Sanction wey go hit us no be here. Thank God the NATO,UK and the US are too quick to destroy peace of any Nation

all these country have multi billion dollar investment in Nigeria am sure they will think deep before sanctioning Nigeria ... we are not in the league of Benin. chad and co

all the Nato company have alot to gain from Nigeria than to loos

talktimi:
Belarus is viewed as an ally of Russia in the Ukraine war by NATO and the West in general. Nigeria condemned the invasion of Ukraine at the last UN general assembly in February ignoring it's neutral status so I ask, what are the implications of selling military hardware to Belarus by Nigeria at this moment ? It's a good deal under different circumstances but seeing as we've taken a stand against Russia and these vehicles will definitely be used in Ukraine, Nigeria should be careful before international sanctions are slammed on us because we have no bargaining power

the same implication that still make all NATO nation to still be on stream 2 from russia that supply gas to them

Mooh247:
A real sanction that can hurt Russia is to stop Oil and Gas trade, disconnect Nord Stream 1, and issue out a No fly zone accross Ukrainian airspace, with NATO and EU fighter jets enforcing the No fly zone

All other sanctions like FIFA, PayPal, Swift , seizing of Russian oligarchy's asset would only make Russia seek trade alternative and become even more self reliant and ruthless

you want to kill most of the Nordic country abi, because most these country depend on NORD stream 1 .... if Russia is been stop for oil Gas trade who will supply the europe the energy needed... Germany dont want to sacrifice anything for now likewise France,

If Nord stream 1 is been close PUTIN will win the war withour any bullet again .... because naa the citizen of these country that will destroy their country ......

[quote author=GardenOfGod post=110688185][/quote]Na waa ooh

Ournolly:
Putin offered negotiation possibility yesterday.
The man is just afraid of being assassinated.

forget brother nobody i say nobody can assassinate Putin for now because his country men are not ready to betray him

Ournolly:
This is a bad move imo.
Ukraine president should be making a move for peace not arming untrained civilians to face tanks with assault riffles.

Let's preserve life by any means necessary.

it will take sometime before he can make some reasonable connection with putin for the time been he has to do this while negotiation go underground .... he has already come up live on tv seeking negotiation with Russia to be on a neutra level

TOPCRUISE:
The US caused this war . They did not learn any lesson from the second world war

the reason been that the war is not happening in Ameriaca so they dont feel the brunt, but once it haopen in their own soil they will learn to keep quiet

assholemods:
So you don't that the work of fire fighters is beyond fire control. If for instance if you fall into a well or soak away who rescues you?

the best way to go about this is to change secondary school years to 7 years , like in Singapore after your secondary school is a must for you to go to defence school for two years before you can decide to go for any university career.... also you can decide you do want to further unto university level then you can choose to be military or paramilitary

Dwanye:
Are you guys for real? Ha! That's someone's daughter oooo. Imagine if she's your sister or daughter, would you open your mouth to vomit this nonsense?
It's such a pity that lot's of guys thinks that being a redpiller or hard guy means you should be devoid of common sense and empathy.

And the person behind the camera is as much as a beast as the guy committing this dastardly act.

And yes I'm a guy, birthed by a woman and trained to treat everyone with respect and love irrespective of their gender, race or socio-economic status. And FYI, A TRUE MAN NEVER RAISES HIS HANDS AGAINST A WOMAN....

I wonder if some of you feel from hell....

bro calm down from the video you can predict the guy age around 16-20..... having a relationship they are just confuse set of people and bad parenting because I dont get it you come to my house as my dauther with alot of expensive things and am not bother

so many way many parent has loose control over their kid we should blame them for this

Dexpro:
Like seriously?

IBEDC customers why? Una don bypass sotey, the company nearly bankrupt

that IBEDC are mad people you will request for a prepaid they will be playing you like ludo all because they want to to be on estimated bill for longer time

Lovenorth:
Our lovely president said he didn't order the subsidy removal, why are these governors hellbent to force the removal?

Most of these government have shares with Dangote refinary so them wan make the price high before the refinary production

Carchoice:
What other advise do you think we can offer you than to beat her next time?

You don’t necessarily have to give her punches and dislocate her jaw.

Next time She starts the rubbish, pin her down, hold her two hands and use slaps to finish her butt. Beat her like a little kid.

oil too much for your head
that is what i call factory reset not beating

hokekeholah:
The reason the guy contact u is because he doesn't want to spend money to unlock it or lemme just say there aren't competent phone engineer over there... In Nigeria, them go remove the mi account and the destiny of the previous user join if it has been linked to it(just joking) ... Theres no phone that can't b unlocked... Eyinbo wey do pencil nahim also do cleaner

bro you get it wrong there still some phone with high security firewall, that will make it near impossible to bypass the lock screen and by lock you might unlock it but some of it function will be locked

Olabodmit:
These are the screenshot of conversation with the Niger guy

first do a give away for the guy, you will be suprised too before the year end ... give him the [b][/b]code and remember to delete the phone from your MI account so that he wont have access to your saved datas

omoolokunEsin:
Standard Chartered wey be Bureau de Change wey de call imself bank! Butterfly calling itself bird! Bathroom calling itself river! Abeg, make we hear word.

Oga if you dont know anything about banking just waka pass, I never see any bank in Nigeria that can stand one on one with standard, do you want to talk about their customer care support or transaction processes, yes they may have few brick and mortal but their efficiency cant be compare to those nonsense bank in Nigeria

allcomage:
Nigerians should learn how to build eco friendly homes not just concrete and cement, I'm not hating please. South Africa, Kenya, Ghana, Tanzania etc lead the way in that regards.

yeah we have styro foam building but yet it not coming cheaply

Mywd:
Bros u see ehn,,, e dey shock me seff,, overpriced structures..

Thats why i would rather build mine.. Be like dem never go USA see house of $2m shock seff... Demnno sabi anytin

is better to buy that 2 million dollar house here in Nigeria than to have 1million dollar house in USA especially if it has no economical value as not generating money monthly for you, by the time you calculate amount you will be paying per year as tax on such building your body go tell you

God1000:
Corruption has dealt us a heavy blow in this country, Nigeria is the only country that retrogresses every year, no progress since 1960.

I don't know when this ugly circle will end.

I think our problem is not really corruption because we have it everywhere but our major problem is greediness and lack of human feeling ... so far our family can afford every luxury any other people can die mentality

booblacain:
(I had to bring this here first to get clarity from others before we go take it up with them at the Local Government Office).

A friend of mine just got his NIN slip from his local government office. To my surprise, the slip he was given looks like something that was photocopied, but he was told that it was printed directly from the computer. There are obvious discoloration marks on it that can only come from photocopy machines and not from printers.

My own sister has done her NIN and her own slip obviously looks like the original copy, the NIN logo on the back is in color and there are no photocopy discoloration marks on the paper.

off course, things can be printed in white and black, but not with photocopy marks.

The question that worries me is, if he was given the photocopy, where and who has the original. Obviously, the original copy exists because you can only make a photocopy from an original hard copy.

My suspicion is that the original copy was printed out and then photocopied, then only the photocopy was given to him, but why would they do this and lie to him that it was the printed copy. Why was the original copy not given to him and What do they plan to do with it?

Please people, Is this something my friend should worry about or am I being unnecessarily concerned about it?

The first two pictures  bellow shows my sister's NIN slip (original) and the other two shows the NIN slip that was given to my friend.

Bro my one naira advice is that just download the NIN app from play store once you are able to get through to your page let them eat the print out abeg,

amnesty7:
Imagine! Oyinbo capitalist mentality. He never knows that the kids will definitely come with their blessings. And who promises or guarantees him tomorrow?
He may have to raise the kids in his old age.

many people think that they must own half of Nigeria before they have kids, even when you have,them late that suffering you are trying to run from will still be,

I will rather have my kids while am still young to run around for them

who gives you assurance that it will be you that will open the door of success ... that might be one of the kid ...... everyone to their own mentality sha