₦airaland Forum

Tunji50:
Is cost of living low over there?

somehow high ooh except if you can afford to source for ur foods stuff from villages then I can say it low a bit ... like my own now we spend 60k in total for feeding per month family of two....

Tunji50:
Which state do you live?

Ogun state

Rozross:
Ok, that’s 130k monthly from both of them, please ma can you put us through on how this 130k would comfortably cover all expenses in this era? A breakdown will go a long way ma

I get married in 2016 with 55k as salary.... I do drop 20k to stock up , no eating outside save 10k per month for house rent, 10k untoch, the remaining cash for day to day running, coming to dis time I get pay 180k I only add 15k to my food stockup making it 35 using 80k on our building project per month and the rest

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

that you last sentence for me

JudgeNotHi:
I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.

I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.

Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).

The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.

Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!

How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?

Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.

In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.

Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.

My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.

I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.

My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.

Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her...

Ops first no lady that will have few weeks pregnant and inform her mum...... just like someone mention body count .... the babe naa real olossssshhhhoo... no matter what shes facing no be preg test will come first.... and on her mum naa set up

thoollz:
STARBOY no dey bench today, manutd still dey collect wotowoto, wetin happen? Ororo fans wetin happen to STARBOY?

Today wey the guy start, I been think say ẹ go Don score double hat-trick with wetin ẹ fans talk last week.

guy off dat mic before dem change am for u

RawBitterTruth:
Lmaoooo pathetic!....If these olodos understood simple science, they'd know that you cannot use a carbon dioxide extinguisher to put out a flame fueled by gasoline hydrocarbon,a carbon allotrope, it's important to know what's fueling the fire b4 getting the right substance to put it out.

They should have known better!,very wrong fire extinguisher for that training,using a CO2 outside where there is air,lol...he is suppose to use a DCP(Dry chemical Powder) Fire extinguisher because at the point of extinguishing,the powder particles would still be on the surface thereby preventing the air particles from re-igniting the fire.C02 extinguisher is used on appliances that are a little bit fragile when they are on fire so they don't get completely damaged when applied on.

9ja we hail thee!�

three gbosa for you

nwekeugochukwu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CquGA-FCZQ



https://www.instagram.com/p/ChKeXtLscBq/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

In fire fighting we have different class of fire with different extiguishing media yes some work as general or multipurpose while some are not ....... CO2 extinguisher is good for compartment fire not a open one like this because what CO2 thus is to displace oxygen but the atmospheric oxygen on this scenario will hinder the effect of co2 ..... I think he should know better maybe they should send them down to Prime Atlantic Safety Service for reorientation

aronski:
not every Nigerian can pay $99 (btw the range of NGN64,000 - NGN64,400) for internet in a month, hope u knw?

most Nigerians will still choose to pay Airtel and co less than NGN5K (btw the range of $11 - $12) for a month for internet connection...

Starlink will be useful to few who can afford it. Airtel and co might be cheating us with expensive data but they are kind off offering to us what we can afford. While on the other hand, Starlink is providing to us what we deserve but not all of us will be able to afford it...

Hope u get my point

when the company see the majority as the potential market block for the long run they wil create something that will fit in to that..... internet Market in Nigeria is a Big MARKET.... remember MTN sim was once 40k when dollars is around 70 naira

kenzysmith:
But d man na still jealous ungrateful person someone u are benefitting from someone who brought u into d deal u went ahead to tell oshimen that he is posing at private jets, doing big boy up and down while his people are suffering how is it the in-law business? Na just inlaw e be to oshimen that should not give him d gut to say rubbish to oshimen na oshimen na go still take care of ur wife wey u dey nack too? See he mouth like my money. The sister self be ekpaa follow her husband come tarnish oshimen image dey cry . U wan gain for oshimen sweat and still dey bad mouth am.
Over 360 million ooo if I were oshimen I will just send him 30 million and bounce after all it his sweat

ur brain too much abeg reduce the boiling

hopman98:
Hmm. Funny how Nigerians reason hypocritically, there have always been christian christian gubernatorial tickets over the years in SE, SW, SS and numerous Muslim muslim tickets in the north, there haven't been uproar about them over the years, but once it's BAT, their nightmare, they begin ranting up and down. Same faith candidates is bad truly but hey, the hypocrisy is too much. Nigerians are too irrational when thinking and most of una don't even know how to analyse situations critically, just an headline to sway ur thoughts and and BOOM, delusion sets in. I've collected my 30k o and I've spent it, mofos

dont mind them as if is only christian and muslim we have in Nigeria .......

Enoch07:
Na wa oo meanwhile people way no get money even for their birthday na them still dey buy things give people. For this life just get money o

it call marketing ...... if you know .. you know be that

Anwakangwizking:
Please can u get for me and create the acount for me and ready to pay your number

send ur email address maybe i can be lucky

h0pze3:
Abeg ao u take see Dubai or Lesotho info

u will choose business acct once u get to phone number I think dubai number has 7 digit with their dialing code making 10 reduce your Nigeria phone number you are,not goin to receive any message or copy a dubai burner number online there you go and pray they will not flag it

Jamest162:
how can I get Dubai or Lesotho number

wait am trying to verify if u still need number .... open google.com and type paypal dubai .... from the first answer click that and click register .... when ask if personal or business choose business

Jamest162:
can I get ur whatapp so we can chat privately.

0-7030784397

Anwakangwizking:
How much do use in doing it, i will like u to help me too

no money involve then I read up online and ot was successful... but I think paypay has change their terms and condition... before there is no OTP confirmation on your mobile number but now they will request for it that makes it kind of hard to open both personal and business category can receive and send money direct to your Nigeria acct .... but if you can get UAE or dubai number that can receive OTP it,will be easy

I have one from Dubai Address and the other from Lesotho

Jamest162:
did you open it for personal or business.
Sincerely, I want to be able to receive funds on it.

personnal later it was upgrade to business

Jamest162:
Please how much can you help me to open verified PayPal account.

I open mine using UAE paypal then I link it up with my ATM card .... I think u can use Lesotho too using their business paypal registration...if you can do any successfully while connecting your ATM with it then you can withdraw direct to your acct . here in Nigeria

Rashidiamoda:
Once a bastard is always a bloody bastard..And that is u

now I know that it a stupid pig that mate with your mum giving birth to bastard pig you are slowpoke ....... mention me again and nut into ur mum retard

rezy15:
Young man go to that corner and lie down. The only blood being shed is the blood of English you spilled up there

fool like u will be wailling when the real deal os been roll out because u think with your anus nobody reason better than u do and as per english take it to the bank fool and and get some cash with it idiot

Rashidiamoda:
u are a bloody bastard..thank u

like your mum and dad abi and also your great grand father with your entire lineage

Ojuntana:
Alatenuje
So you wish for Nigeria to become hell just so your stomach can be filled abi?

One thing that you people dont know in politics if Obi per adventure become Nigeria president today he will fail more than Buhari x10 why cant you people advice OBI to be obidient anf just run with intention of looosing let those that cause blood shed in Nigeria win and clear their bloood then Obi will be vibrant then .... because as it is now many of you people will deny Obi if he eventually become president and everything get worst

iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/07/muslim-muslim-ticket-spirit-of-1993-is-upon-us-again-tinubu-gives-reason-for-picking-shettima/

to be sincere I love Obi but the current state of Nigeria I will say advice Obi to just go solo.... he has good intention but not for now his running mate is not someone that can bargain cease fire in the north east he should just wait Nigeria need him and his ideaology .... but not now .... let those who cause the fire burning extinguish it by themself.....

lalasticlala:
https://twitter.com/ConnectOnitsha/status/1544318981909233672


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7212161/terrible-multiple-accidents-upper-iweka

so alaigbo get AGBERO too I think say naa only Tinubu Lagos get agbero ..... Igbo people with double standard thats why you people fail politically .... una no dey check una self before una dey pucknose

Mazisimonekpa:
https://saharareporters.com/2022/07/05/peter-obi-not-different-tinubu-atiku-paid-millions-naira-labour-party-leadership?fbclid=IwAR2LKAkfMK8OAfd9zJG4KFboHwkcHpy38G_GU0RyQvKAlye4KvXkAbVIYp4

I pray that on the election day ... many people who supported Obi will go out and Vote and stop online banter .... only pool is not recorgnise in Nigeria .... get your PVC and vote wisely

Awoleesu:
Calm down son!

It's easy to heap all the blames on your Dad and feel so entitled...

But have you ever paused to ask yourself why he acts towards you the way he does?




Lemme give you a cue...

Ask your Mamma if you're truly his biological son!


If you don't gerrit, forgerrit!

May God bless you brother alot of question he need to seat him mama down with cutlass to make her voice out the truth about paternity .... not every man is a deadbeat but some secreate turns alot to be

Failure44:
I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

Get to your destination first.... and perhaps maybe you should ask your mum if she do any background checkup for your fathers lineage ... sometime love is not enough ..... but no dey give treat now just pray for long life and a good job after u finish ur education .... it get reason

Spray:
Had job offer... But there's a part of contract that's making me so scared. It says employee should not join any other company doing similar things or selling similar products for the period of one year, after terminating his/her appointment. Is this not a modern form of slavery?

most company have that now like my case what it means is that if I resign I should not use the certificates that I gain from the first company for that period to gain another employment but if these certificate are my own like I sponsor myself with my own cash while working with them it will noy count ..... mostly company use it to scare potential worker because over the years some worker has resign using what they gain from the company to gain employment some where else......

I call it fear tactic

Fiscus105:
If you see girls/ladies/women mind (mentality) when dating guys ehn, you would know this type of narrative will keep on growing.

I dnt have single sympathy for her

Many see men as only mean to get money, when they have functional brains, and when legs and hands are not deformed o.

Infact, some ladies, if they buy expensive clothes,bag or hairdos, all their mind would be how to get triple of the money from guys. Guys who are not your daddy, uncle or brother. As if it was guy who forced her to go for what she couldn't afford.


If all ur mind and mentality tailored towards getting money from guys at all cost,why won't you be victim of such relationship.

If you can see what Yahoo boy/rich guys normally subjected some ladies to, you will weep for this generation.

there is one scenario down here in southwest town tge case still dey police station.... the Lady was canvers buy a guy that she will help him carry some rituals sacrifice in return they will marry... even the mum to tge guy knows about it ... so after the whole things money dey come steady but bobo just dey carry different girls up and down naa so the lady ves con go police station go report the whole deal... sometime I think a monkey think better than most lady

HenryIgwe01:
A private school called me for an interview last week Monday. As a job hunter I'm always prepared for any interviews. So when I got there, It's was a 3 segments interview (written test, oral and micro teaching)

As a Bsc graduate in Accounting Education, I was given financial accounting, English language and current affairs for the written test interview. The account and English was WAEC standard questions. After the written test interview, the principal said he will call me for further interviews if i pass the test.

On Thursday morning, I received a call from the school inviting me for further interviews which is oral and micro teaching. When I got there, the principal was asking me loads of questions like why should I hire you? How many years experience do you have? How do you discipline a child? how can you make this school grow? Can we trust you with our female students? bla bla bla... After that we went to the classroom for the final segment which was micro teaching.

After everything, he employed me and we started discussing about the subject I will teach and the salary. The principal said I will be teaching Accounting, Economics and Marketing (ss1 - ss3), I said no problem.

What really got me angry was about the salary, he said he's willing to pay me 30k without negotiation.

As if that wasn't enough, he later said he can also call me anytime to teach any subject if the particular subject teacher isn't around. I was just laughing in my mind.

The principal was expecting me to resume today, he has been calling me since morning, I haven't picked his calls. I'm not a slave.

Mind you, this is a standard private school and my "least" expectation was 45k, Assuming he was willing to pay 45k, I would have resumed today.

Why are private schools so wicked? Is teaching job now a modern day slavery? I'm tired of this country.

my brother our education is underated and lack motivation, my advice go and learn how to dive in a shallow water or as a fireman which will only take you six month or so then swnd me a message I can link u up to something better... a diver for where i work that cant write his name on paper go home with 210k monthly aside other benefit .....

adaxme:
Rip to your Daddy ,but I think u guys are being emotional here , u can't widraw 200k from ATM in a day or like u have mentioned above .
calm down stop pointing accusing fingers ,and do proper investigation before u end up making uneccesary Enemies

POS will release more than 150k at a go u have 1m as limit on POS