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Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

DryMouth:
pple dnt get it.
Stop playing with these wild animals, they've got no conscience when they want to cause harm to you.

They are dangerous no matter how good they being fed and trained.

Nikrose:
After reading a post on the front page about a 19yrs old boy marrying a 39yrs old woman, I love it and I find it sweet, romantic and sexy!!!

I don't really want to be in a serious relationship now but I think I am now attracted to boys younger than my age

Not little boys of under 18! And I am not a peodophile!

TheSociopath:
Must he live in VI? Rent is affordable in Mile 2, Iyana Ipaja and all those Alimosho side. Even Agege, Ogba, etc. So you mean nobody in Lagos is earning 200k and is living well?

Sified:
Chai, I don already give up jare

Sified:
100k to 150?

Nocommonsense:
bruh you chose to give up easily a lot of rich people today in Lagos ain’t rich when dey got to Lagos but they were determined to make it

Nocommonsense:
what I’m saying is that he can easily build his career fast in Lagos than Ibadan .if you want to be successful don’t go for comfort

Nocommonsense:
If my uncle could go to Lagos without knowing single person and today he is doing well for himself ,I’m not saying its easy but opportunities full Lagos most of people are advising you here are not staying in both areas dem just wan talk but follow your mind

bdon123:
he doesnt need to live in v.i

bdon123:
he has no idea at all

TheSociopath:
But will he grow in that Ibadan? He will eventually move to Lagos nooni. It's better to move now and acclimatise

Viruses:
Take the one in VI because of prospects. Within a few years you can get another one of 3, 4 or even 500k; not sure if that would be the case in Ibadan. But if the one in Ibadan is a structured company like bank where career growth is certain, so need to come face the lagos stress, just take that.

Note: you don't have to stay in VI, you can stay in another locality where accommodation is quite affordable like Ikorodu or Ajah axis.

Patrioticbreed9:
It depends though but i might be forced to pick ibadan, 200k in v.i? As in w.t.f?

Sified:
Lagos that I'm sad I'm not residing there due to all the job openings I've been seeing

Idrismusty97:
You don't know Lagos and where this VI is. He can't even get a decent apartment with 3 months of the salary (600k), maybe one room in the island for 700k that's turns to swimming pool during the raining season or he goes to the mainland and rent for at least 300-400k. Transmuting 3rd mainland bridge with terrible traffic everyday, wakeup 4am and get back home 10pm only to repeat the same thing the next day. Not to talk of food, he dare not buy food in VI, one plate may go for 2-5k. How much remain for the salary? When he could just have peace of mind in Ibadan, 1 month salary is enough for a decent accomodation with less cost of living.

Sified:
200k in Lagos.
With that amount one should be able to live better and enjoy his money too

23tayo:
100k job in ibadan or 200k job in lagos VI

Proflere:
Solving the problem of Okada is very easy.. Stop arresting just the bike owner, start arresting the passengers too.. If there is no demand, supply will be affected!!!

But then, can we start looking forward to how to industrialize Nigeria so that people can have sensible jobs to do rather than risking their lives.