₦airaland Forum

babakb:
The truth is most of the men having ED in their 40s are cheating husbands, it's a mind thing, they only married to bear kids legitimately and when that is done they go back to their Randy life style.

The prayer point for you women now is not to ignorantly marry a cheating husband, even the other ways you're suggesting, the side chicks are the ones enjoying it.

I'm 38 and surrounded by men in their 40s, most of them aren't suffering ED, they just don't desire their wives anymore and it's not the women's fault, they are just cheating husbands.

femmoy:
Bros you nailed it up....truth and fact at the same time. Ladies please try and take care of yourselves so as not to tag us as men with ED because almost all men are guilty of having a side smallie,now if we actually have ED then what's the point of having a smallie? Ever wondered why?

mutter:
That is so true. It also really helps if the wife can help the man to come out with it by making him understand that there are other ways of satisfying her and removing the pressure and fear from them.

SeaTrade:
Actually,most times its the woman who has become undesirable.
A man in his 40s will definitely have a wife who is in her late 30s and most times,these set of women aren't in their best shapes in Nigeria. Big belle,fat face,varicose vein on leg and thighs,stretch Mark's,bushy genitals,old unnactrative face,etc..
Who wouldn't develop ED with such a person?
Put the same man with a sharp smallie and before you say jack,prick don reach Jericho.
Haven't you wondered how most married men in their 40s have side smallies?If they had ED with these ones then what's the point of having them in the first place?
Should tell you that the ED disappears at the sight of fresh youthful breasts
Women should fix themselves abeg.

Akposy:
I used my air fryer. It doesn't need oil. I just put it in, set it to the needed temp and let it do its job

Akposy:
Beans & air fried plantain

Ishilove:
My sister, that's the human condition.

Ishilove:
They don't see it that way. They project their unhappiness and insecurity unto others because they want the whole world to be unhappy with them.

Ishilove:
Misery loves company, that's why.

RightToReject:
That a position is stand-alone doesn't mean that it can't be in harmony with others which are reasonable; it simply means that it's devoid of denigration in particular biases in general where and when applicable. So, it's all about the overall connotation of your position, maybe of recent, and not necessarily just here alone.

Mecka:
but i hear some wives hoard sex from their husbands despite all he has spent

RightToReject:
If only you see how you always sound and appear polished whenever you take a stand-alone/independent position, unlike when you take to bandwagonism. Lol. Eschew herd mentality and see wonders happen in your life.

Cowbell521:
D guy u are lecturing about marriage is about to clock 40. D satanic woman wey I almost marry had affair in few months 2 wedding. She be like right woman at first....and still Bleep up. So wetin be right woman? Bunch of pretenders. U people just follow guys 4 money sake. Nothing more. And I hate U. I fucking hate U

Raalsalghul:
Except in this case, they know the associated risks and we don't the lots of you screaming "about the car's safety strengths."

Raalsalghul:
Nope, but the fact that a lot of married people cheat should tell you a lot about the "regular sex".

Ishilove:
I sincerely doubt it.

Cowbell521:
na because u never jam cheating wife

EmekaA125:
I love your submission. Thanks

Raalsalghul:
You folks like using "regular sex" to deceive single guys. I pity anyone who falls for that line.

DontBullshitMe:
10 years of captivity.

No late nights. . .

No multiple girlfriends. . .

No privacy. . .

SoliBayNG:
Fornication is no longer a sin? I didn't get that memo.

I thought the ones that see nothing wrong would be the fake ones. Weird times we live in.

LoveThemChubby:
Go and open your own church madam. What marriage will the church do after the woman ia pregnant (indicating that they've been doing marrital things together)? If you want to be wedding close your legs till after marriage else you should be ready to do marriage blessings

mrwonlasewonie:
there are some families I know in this nigeria wey we all dey so wey be say they'll never accept a woman UNLESS SHE GETS PREGNANT

Infact that's the only condition that the bride Will be accepted and they'll get parental blessings

Because That's their culture and family pattern and the reason why the parents of the groom insists that the bride must get pregnant 1st before wedding is to prove she's fertile and not after marriage they'll be running from hospital to prayer house looking for children

I don't support such culture though but Yorubas Will say ASA ni idile kan,ewo ni Bomi Ni.translation-what is considered as culture, tradition and lifestyle in a particular family can be considered as abnormal, abhorrent and an abomination in another family so at the end of the day,it's for the bride to choose the type of family she wants to enter into in view of what she considers acceptable or abnormal.if you're from a family where they don't permit pregnancy before marriage no go friend person wey im mama go dey insist on pregnancy before marriage, follow the one where una belief system and lifestyle dey in tandem to reduce unnecessary conflict and family/in-law nonsense

cococandy:
I admit there’s the tendency to scare which is why a lot of women don’t talk about it. Because the last thing you want is to scare a mom-to-be.

But I feel there’s enough positive out there about being pregnant and having a baby that the new moms will understand that it’s also not all negative. So they just know realistically what to expect. The good and bad

cococandy:
@bold, All new moms have done this. Even with help.
I don’t know how to articulate the exhaustion. The other day I was comforting my friend over the phone for the same issue.

I think what makes it worse is that as the new mom, you’re not assuming the role from a place of perfect health and fitness. Rather you’ve been pregnant for nine months and didn’t have time to recover your strength before jumping into the role of new mom. It’s just a culmination of the months of prenatal sickness, tiredness and even lack of sleep during the later months of pregnancy.