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I think you did the right thing, bitches this days are too entitled and you showed her that you are a man of action.
To deal with women this days you have to be selfish and annoying plus you need to deceptive but you showed low esteem by still asking people to answer a question you know the answer to.

Omar09:
Yo I've been waiting for your threads. What's up?

Been quite busy but I will soon post it?

Omar09:
Everyone these days have turned into relationship experts dishing out advice which sometimes works whilst other times makes whoever put it to work a f00l. But I have come to share the truth with whoever that cares to listen and reason with me.

Most times to make a relationship work it always depends on the party involved. I mean a heterosexual relationship and not a homosexual relationship (Ps I don't have anything against homosexuals, I have put the TRUTH to work in a heterosexual relationship and I am not homo to see if it work in a homosexual relationship). When two parties are involved in a sexual relationship, that relationship works of both parties understand their role. If a man understands that his role is gain the respect of his partner and a woman is to gain the love of her partner, you see that the relationship flourishes. What are the roles?

MEN LOVE and WOMEN RESPECTS
As a man, you should learn to earn the respect of your woman cause you can't just walk up to a woman say to her you must respect me. It's not done. You have to make them understand that you need to be respected by your behavior towards them. Remember you can not control the nature of others, but you can control your behavior towards them and how they behave towards you.

Lets talk about how to gain that respect.
There's this saying that goes Respect is reciprocal. Well I think those who use these phrase don't have any respect to give hence can't receive any. The right phrase should have been first respect yourself then others will respect you because how you treat yourself determines how others treat you.

To make your woman respect you isn't that hard if you are a principled man and is not willing to drop your principles for whatever reason that may come up.

For instance, you see something you do not like in your lady, like the fact your lady doesn't answer your call immediately or she keeps you waiting at the venue of your date. There three types of reactions to this default or rather sh!t test.

A) some guys will pretend they are cool with this rather than say how they feel (these are the weak men)
B) some will talk about how bad they feel but will do nothing about it and will keep talking as long as it keeps repeating itself
C) some will go straight to taking actions without even saying how bad they feel.

The 'A' guys who will rather not say anything even tho they are hurt are the weak guys and women will never respect such men. They can never be taken seriously by women which is very bad.
The 'B' guys, I call them dogs. A toothless bull dog. That's what they are. They can go on and on rambling how bad they feel about that default without doing anything.. More like nagging. And tbh it will piss me off if I was a woman. The 'C' guys almost got it but missed it.

How do one handle such situations and similar? Don't just stop at being angry at that default and talking about it. Always attach a punishment to it repeating itself again and stand by it no matter what. Also don't say what you can't do. If you call her and she doesn't answer on time and you are pissed off, warn her about it, don't stop there, tell her if she does it again, you'd stop calling and maintain it. It's not enough to warn someone about something, always attach a punishment to defaulting it again!


Martinez39s. Ubunja. Hazard7

That was spot on. Most guys are too wimpy this days cause they lack an ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.

Martinez39s:
Blah blah blah blah. Always trying to sound logical and highly intelligent when we all know you will eventually end up saying nothing reasonable or tangible.

You gave him the perfect reply

Omar09:
In the end, they will suffer it. Bring a man and a woman of the same age. OK lemme make a little change, a man who is 6yrs older than the woman and let them be promiscuous. It will tell on the woman.

What you typed above is what the world is turning into. And to God who made me I will so take my kids to test their DNA before I start taking care of them. I don't care how hurt my woman would be. After all I will state it in the terms n conditions before we set out for marriage.

Nice one dude

saladinnoir:
The article was good, until you mentioned effeminate, anti social, schizoid white men that created social media in their own image, where exactly did you get your info from, these men were usually very introverted,which is highly correlated with intelligence(if you're one of those that think introversion is a mental problem don't reply this) it's a simple case of appealing to your audience, do you know the millions that go into behavioural psychology research.

Go to youtube and check Sam Vaknin: the TRUE toxicity of social media revealed.

hollawaley2:
You were making sense until you talked trash about weed.
We all have our way of fun.
Alcohol is bad tho, I don't fuq with drinking.
But weed, it can never do you wrong, health wise and other kind of wise.

Tell how has your life been since you been smoking weed?

Omar09:
It's getting too much. One just sent a mg saying he laid one girl he was after and he is feeling like a king. I'm not saying a pounding a pussy once in a while isn't good, but too much gets you addicted and you start misbehaving around it.

True bro and I see that most especially on nairaland. Just hope they listen before its too late.

Omar09:
Hazard7. This is good.

Thanks man, am just tired of seeing young men act like wimps.

When am walking around and seeing weak guys following girls around like puppy dogs, or seeing skinny-fat guys that think men like me that lift weight are nothing but meat heads or seeing guys come to nairaland to whine and
complain is like a slap in the face and a punch to the stomach at the same time.
It's a sickening sight to see weakness so abundant in a brutal world .There are reasons for this weakness but
there are no excuses for it.
Now to be honest, guys acting like wimps is only good for
more aggressive guys. It makes women more attracted to us,it makes it easier to get ahead, there is no competition at all from weaklings, and it just makes guys like me stand out a whole lot more. But I hate seeing guys acting like
pussies.
Below we will look at 5 reasons why modern men are effete weaklings and what to do about it.
1)INTERNET PONOGRAPHY:
Its no surprise this is topping the list. Porn consumption is becoming more common and viral every year. Porn is one of the cause of low testerone in men. Masturbating to Internet porn saps you of your precious seed, vitality, masculinity and drive to succeed. Because of this it is a plague. What you can do is simply turn it off and never watch again. What you can expect to happen is: you will feel yourself become more assertive, more dominant, stronger, more outgoing and you will fucking feel like a man.
You can tell the guys who are completely and hopelessly
addicted to internet porn because they act indecisive and
frightened all the time. Most men aren't hopelessly addicted
but all men know the feeling of “getting done” with their
internet porn session and not having the will or drive to do
anything afterwards. I really can't scream the benefits
enough – save your seed and your desire to accomplish will be off the chart. It's a great feeling.
SOLUTION:
Quit watching porn for 30 days and watch the progress. Watch how good you start to feel.
2)ALCOHOL & DRUGS
The foundation of success in life is good health: that is the
substratum fortune; it is also the basis of happiness. A
person cannot accumulate a fortune very well when he is
sick. He has no ambition; no incentive; no force. Alcohol and drugs are the parents of all evil in a country. Most guys who stay in ilorin here do nothing but smoke weed(egbo) thinking they are being bad boys. Seriously, that just fucking plain stupid. Sound health is the foundation of success and
happiness in life, consuming alcohol and drugs does not help that.You always do some stupid when you drink and it doesn't only affect you.
Drinking affects everybody around you. Your friends, family,
and most of all your children.
Any man who drinks in front of his kids isn't a man. Same
for any mother.
Nearly all child abusers are also alcohol abusers. Any father
or mother who drinks alcohol is despicable to me and I spit
on them. Ack-too!
I already told you, drinking turns you into a devil and when
you get drunk your friends and family get to see you as a
devil.
So many men are drunken devils that eventually the wife
has to leave them. These men go on to cry about “divorce
rape and child theft” and this and that but the reality is it
was their own fault.
If you drink, expect bad things to happen.
And if you're a businessman and want to succeed wildly, I
suggest you take the advice of the great P.T. Barnum…
“
No man can succeed in business unless he has a brain to
enable him to lay his plans, and reason to guide him in
their execution, so, no matter how bountifully a man may
be blessed with intelligence, if the brain is muddled, and
his judgment warped by intoxicating drinks, it is
impossible for him to carry on business successfully.”
SOLUTION:
So you see if you want to succeed,then stop drinking and smoking. There is no "but if"
3)SEX
I walk through a street for my usual meditation strolling,then I heard one guy say "omo na you be baba, so you don Bleep that girl. You too much,you deserve award and blah blah blah praises". Then a guy asked him what did you gain after that? He was fidgeting and thinking hard then he said "na fine girl I Bleep na". He could not say anything.
You see we men naturally are sex-lust but it does not mean that you will do nothing but think,dream and even become a slave to it.
You see I have nothing against sex(after all am not gay) but you got to use it to elevate yourself. That is where sexual transmutation comes in.
What is Sexual Transmutation?
Napoleon Hill’s self-help classic, Think and Grow Rich, is how I first learned about sexual transmutation:
“Sex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It
means the switching of the mind from thoughts of
physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature.”
Now, Hill’s definition is a good start, but we can go deeper.
Sexual transmutation is the process of converting sexual
energy into some other drive, motivation, or energy of a
higher order. Many times a person's sexual energy is abused and wasted
by having too much sex, or it is discarded by not having any
sex and becoming domesticated.
Great work is not created by killing your sexual desire and great work is not created by constantly exercising your sexual desire.
Great work is created by cultivating a high sexual desire and
letting this desire energize you.
To use intense sexual desire as the fuel for your great work,
a balance has to be created.
So let's create that balance and teach you how to transmute your sexual energy?
To transmute your sexual energy you must have a lot of
sexual energy in the first place!
Before you can use sexual energy as fuel, you have to have
a lot of sexual energy to use.
If you're a broken dog (sex addict)you must fix yourself and return to a
healthy level of sexual desire.
To create the great work you must be brimming with vitality
and sex drive.
Without a high sex drive you will never have the energy to
create great work. This is where all great work comes from.
Sex drive is the energy that drives, the fire that burns, the
light that shines. Cultivate it, embrace it, accept it, love it. Then watch yourself doing great unimaginable things.
SOLUTION:
Transmute your sexual energy(am not saying you should not have sex but as they say too much of everything is bad).
4)SOCIAL MEDIA:
Social media takes away your focus and energy, your priorities become shifted, and in the end you sacrifice your work for some short-term likes. Social media has a disastrous effect on society and well as you personally.
The joke is that social media connects people, what actually
happens is that social media drives distance between
people.
Instead of wanting to spend time with people face to face,
you want to spend time with your “online friends” so you
can continue to get your dopamine hits via likes and hearts. All social media companies were created by lonely recluse
and hermits like Mark Zuckerberg and Jack Dorsey.
They created social media in their image.
Social Media turns you into a hermit and drives distance
between all people.
This important interview explains it well:
“
All social media was invented by nerds who were socially
inept and schizoid. These men were asexual, with very
low sexual activity, and even involuntarily celibate.
The profile of every man who invented social media sites
is always exactly the same. They created social media in
their own image.
Since they were asexual, anti-social, schizoid, white men –
they created a tool that was geared towards asexual, anti-
social, schizoid, white men.
Then to their utter surprise and shock, social media took
off and started to cater to black men and black women,
very sexual people, social people, it took off in different
social groups which were totally out of synch with this
character.
The technology is designed for a highly specific
psychology profile but is now being used by all different
social groups. This creates dissonance, in-built
dissonance.”
A total reboot is necessary to quit social media.
Exposure to social media encourages depression, suicide,
anxiety and decreases your self-esteem.
The leading cause of death today for teens up to the age of
24 is suicide.
SOLUTION:
Quit social media!.Quitting social media can be hard, but it must be done for
your own happiness and life satisfaction.
5)JOBLESSNESS:
There is a saying that "An idle man is the devil's workshop",there is no better truth than that. I know the economic situation of our country is bad but that is no excuse to be idle. To be a man is not a day job, you got to hustle,struggle and bustle. Stop depending on those stupid and selfish people we have in the government. I am where I am today because I refuse to be limited just because of joblessness. Being broke is not bad but not doing anything about it is bad. Stop spending money on girls that don't like you,learn to live a minimalist life style and do not depend on people except your parents.
SOLUTION:
Find a part time job to do then sit down and plan your life. Forget about that girl yet cause women this days don't add anything to your life more than sex. Invest in business, start your own blog,write your own books and anything. But just do something with your life cause as Bill Gates said "it is not your fault if you were born poor but is your fault if you die poor".
CONCLUSION
We men are becoming effete weaklings and it is not cool. Follow the solutions to the above and watch your life transform.
Goodluck and Godspeed.

Martinez39:
Women!

In the very short video below (which you have to watch till the very end to understand), we can see how being a simp and fool for love has led a man into a terrible position where he is being used and can be discarded without a sweat. Also, notice the woman's answers at the very end and see why you can't trust women just because you love her. Boys, watch this very short video and tell us the great foolish things you have done because you were in love, just simping, or being a white knight.

Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, pansophist, AstroG, healthserve, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, lukui, HARDDON


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rksYbGA1QS8

The world is brutal. Just hope the guy will wake up cause that was one hell of burn. Guys,watch and learn

Martinez39:
Women!

In the very short video below (which you have to watch till the very end to understand), we can see how being a simp and fool for love has led a man into a terrible position where he is being used and can be discarded without a sweat. Also, notice the woman's answers at the very end and see why you can't trust women just because you love her. Boys, watch this very short video and tell us the great foolish things you have done because you were in love, just simping, or being a white knight.

Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, pansophist, AstroG, healthserve, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, lukui, HARDDON


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rksYbGA1QS8

Well women from time now have learn the game of seduction. Its time we men also learn the game.
Martinez tag me next time

Its a trap! Women(especially nigerian women) don't like spending money on their man. I think if I were the boy,I will be careful cause she is going to get that money and more back from his hand.

Come O' ye bashers,feminist,asslickers,white knight for I will give you rest.

Yes, you read that right(what do women want in a man). This question have been asked for centuries by scientists,pickup artist,sexologist,professors and incels. Even the great Sigmund Freud said that "the great question that has never been answered and which I have not yet been able to answer,despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul is WHAT DO WOMEN WANT".There is still no clear-cut definition or model of what drives female attraction yet. That’s the truth.
All I can do here is give you my best theory based on the current research, as well as my wealth of experience and explain what has consistently worked for me. So....shall we
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT(The general view)
We men,from a young age have been manipulated by television inventions,society preaching and from women themselves. If you watch most movies, you notice it depicts that the only thing a woman wants is a romantic,nice guy and should just be yourself blah blah blah. That's just utter bullshit. OR
You asked a girl out and she says she is tired of being heartbroken by guys,that she just want a nice guy and you decide to be that guy. You start treating her very nicely and then boom,all of a sudden she rejects you. You be like what the f**k?(Well you took her word at face value). Women don't know what they want and so why ask a creature that can only think emotionally for advice.
The first rule of picking up women is never,ever and ever ask a woman for advice on picking up women.
THE SOCIAL STIGMA EFFECT
The reason why you can’t take a woman’s word for what she wants, is because she will often times get judged for saying it.
For example,I think that anyone who is a master in the venusian art(game) knows that women want:
»A very sexual man who isn’t afraid to make a move.
»A man who can be dominant in the bedroom.
»A decisive, confident, assertive man who doesn’t take her bullshit (when she tests him).
»A man who sets firm boundaries and expects her to be feminine.
But if a woman said any one of these things, she’d be judged HARSHLY.
She will be called a Slut,LovePeddler,Olosho,prostitute and probably body shamed,living her whole life as an outcast.
The irony of this is that when a woman is actually comfortable with you, and not afraid of you judging her, she’ll admit these things but until then, she won’t.
Don’t get angry or upset that women can’t say these things,either. It’s just the way it is. If you were judged as harshly as women for expressing your sexuality, you probably wouldn’t be very honest with it as well.
Most women won't tell what they really want because they don't want to be judged as a slut or be shamed by society.
AN EVOLUTIONARY ANALYSIS
The best description for this is by the tv series INTO THE BADLANDS (my favourite tv series)Why? Because The series is set in a post-apocalyptic world approximately 500 years after a war that left civilization in ruins. Many elements of technology, such as electricity and ground vehicles, have survived the apocalypse but society now shuns guns, leading to a reliance on melee weaponry and crossbow.
In a territory known as the Badlands, encompassing several states located between the Rocky Mountains and Mississippi River. You see before civilization,our world used to be almost as identical to the badlands. There was no technology,no gun etc you had to learn martial art,join a gang and lots more to survive. (But hazard were are we getting with this) relax and let's get down to business.
Imagine you are a woman,you are in the badlands with no martial art skills and low survival skills in a world filled with brutal men,sexual predators,murderers and fierce animals and beast. What kind of man will you want to enable you to survive? A man who has “really pretty eyes,” and who’s “really sweet”?
Bleep no. All that mattered was whether a man had:
»Strength(physically and mentally)
»Good hunting skills(to provide for her and her child)
»Social skills(how you are perceived and your position in the tribe)
»Combative skills(to protect her and child).
If you don't have any of this qualities as a man then, this were your options: You will remain a celibate till you die of old age or worse,killed in tribal wars,eaten by a hungry lion or roasted and eaten by cannibals. Cause no women were ready to put the fate of their lives and those of their children in the hands of a wimp.(But hazard,we are in a civilized world,no more tribal war,hunting for food etc so I don't see why I should bother myself with this?) That's right but we humans might have moved on,but our body has not. You see our bodies were not made for civilization but the jungle. There is a saying that "you can take a man from a village but you can not take the village from the man". Our body constantly remind us that we are here to survive and replicate. You can find it more evidently in women cause they still crave after this men.
Have you ever seen a beautiful girl that you approached and told her your feelings only for her to reject you and for you later to see her hugging and kissing a thug? You are like what does he have that I don't? Well he has survival skills and probably good genes as well. Well with that done and dusted let's talk about the main matter on ground. WHAT WOMEN WANT IN A MAN(THE TRUE QUALITIES)
You see women wants in a man is contradictory and unpredictable due to social stigma and the fact that attraction for women is emotional. Also,the fact that women wants in a mate changes according to culture,country,religion and society views.
But it all boils down to two things:
»Primary qualities(Alpha traits)
»Auxiliary qualities(SMV)
PRIMARY QUALITIES
The primary qualities are like the fundamentals in picking up women but sadly it is not as emphasized upon in the pickup community as it should be.
This primary qualities can be universally applied on any woman in any part of the world. They are:
1)CONFIDENCE
Not just any kind of confidence but "true confidence". Having true confidence in your ability,yourself and your value is a huge turn on for women. True confidence is the kind that is not shaken by setback like a woman being bitchy,shit testing you hard etc.(But hazard,how do I get true confidence?) I wrote a piece on that,check my profile and get it.
2)DECISIVENESS
As a man you need to be decisive in the face of uncertainty. Trust me when I say women love a decisive man. Being decisive is about having a strong sense of purpose. Don't be one of those guys that lack drive and just wander about haphazardly. Like Brian Tracy said "Decisiveness is a characteristics of high performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all".
3)ASSERTIVENESS
It means standing up for your personal rights - expressing thoughts, feelings and beliefs in direct, honest and appropriate ways. Women know that it’s a dog-eat-dog world out there,and they want a man who is willing to fight for what he want. You have to be assertive.
Without assertiveness, you won’t accomplish anything. You must be willing to scream out to the world: “This is what I want, and I’m taking it.”One of the key alpha male traits is that of assertiveness. They’re willing to assert themselves, their needs, and their wants, very easily.
4)DORMINANCE
Another key trait that women want is a dominant man,not in an insecure way, where they feel the need to dominate everyone, but just by their very nature they’re
dominant. They want a leader by nature they’re at the top of the totem pole. They’re willing to stand up for those they love and care about, above all else.
If you want to be an alpha lady charmer, you need to spend some time learning how to be dominant. Women want a gentleman in public but they want to be dominated in bed. Dominance is important, however. It means you always come out on top in any situation and it’s exactly what alpha males do.
5)PURPOSE
Another strong indicator that someone is an alpha male, is that they have a very clear masculine purpose. Most guys Bleep this part up. In fact, your purpose should come before everything else. Your purpose should come before women. Period. No exceptions. Nothing turns a woman on like having a guy who has that edginess to succeed.
When a man puts his woman before his purpose, he deprives the world of his authentic self. When he puts his purpose before all else, he can accomplish
great things—in fact, that is the only way that you can ever accomplish great things.
6)COURAGE
In life, you must be willing to take risks. You must be willing to follow your fear, and do that which scares you must.
…and this is exactly what alpha males do. They have no second thoughts about taking risks, even if they may seem scary. If you don't take risk then you are nothing but a pussy and believe me women have a pussy,they don't need another.
"The only way you can ever accomplish anything worthwhile in life, is by taking risks… and if you aren’t willing to do so,
you will live a quiet life of desperation",in the words of Henry David Thoreau.
Having courage is one of the key characteristics of alpha
males… because without it, nothing worthwhile will ever be accomplished.
7)CALMNESS
Another key alpha male trait is calmness, especially under
pressure. Alpha males know they’re on top, so they have no need to prove themselves.
Have you ever seen those guys who always try to start fights?
They’re always looking for some way to prove themselves.
This is not alpha, but rather it’s beta. Only beta males feel the need to prove themselves and put others down.
True alpha males don’t give a Bleep what other people think, because they know that they’re always on top.
AUXILIARY QUALITIES(Sexual market value)
Your smv, also known as your sexual market value, is the value you hold in the sexual market place. Your smv affects how many options you have. When your sexual market value is high, you have lots of dating options. That’s why you should become a high smv male. The three things that will determine your smv are:
1)LOOKS
Your looks include your:
»Face
»Body
»Height
»Style
The most important of all. Do not ignore this!
Every man should do what he can in order to improve his visual appeal – including both his bodily aesthetics and his
wardrobe. No matter where you find yourself now, you
should be able to raise your looks by 1 or 2 points, or quite
possibly, by several more. Looks are typically underrated in
importance and almost all men are not making enough
effort in this regard. Your face and height are negligible.
2)MONEY
Making more money can also increase your smv. Money is
essentially access to resources. The more money you have,
the more resources you have or potentially can have.
Women with extremely high survival instincts, aka gold diggers(especially nigerian women) find money to be the most attractive trait a man can have.
The influence of money varies between women. But whether it boosts you up 1 point or even 3, having more money definitely makes you more attractive.
For women who care mainly about looks, money will boost
you up a little bit. For women who care about money, you
can be close to a 9 or 10 if you’ve built a nice sum of wealth and show it off.
DON'T DEPEND ON MONEY
You don’t want to depend on money for your game. Otherwise you’ll end up paying for expensive dates and have women not give up the pussy while they Bleep the bad boys on the side.
You can show off your money in your clothes and your car,but don’t spend it on the women who are leeches.
Making a lot of money is a great thing. I recommend financial independence to be the #1 priority for all men out there.
You can’t depend on it solely for your smv unless you’re a multimillionaire. Having money is like having a superpower and with great power comes great responsibility.
Remember that!
3)STATUS/SOCIAL PROOF
Status as far as male-female sexual dynamics are concerned can be simplified into two factors:
Tribal leader (admired by men) and Preselection (already
desired by other women) aka “Men want to be you, women
want to be with you”.
Improving your status among men is generally improved best by rising to the top in your chosen field of endeavor. Social dominance also plays a part. Eminence, talent and skills in your occupation lead to high status. It’s also vital to understand your own strengths and to play to them in order to shine. Another important aspect is to increase the size of your social circle, include people in your social circle who talk you up but exclude people who talk you down or pour salt on your game in any way. You cannot permit people to diminish your status in this way and you should be very wary, because people will do it; sometimes even blatantly /in front of your face.
Improving your preselection includes various strategies to improve your perception by women as a man
who is desired by other women. Textbook examples of men
who mastered status game include Peter Stringfellow (appropriately nicknamed the “King of Clubs” and rumored
to have slept with 3,000 women) and probably the best tutorial on this topic comes from Adam Lyons, who mastered social proof and what he called “entourage game”.Combining status with decent looks and a cool personality will take you very far.
BONUS:
4)THE VENUSIAN ART(GAME)
Every man should strive to learn game. You can have any of the above qualities but if you do not have game is like a soldier that has a gun but no bullet. Don't be that guy.
(But hazard, how do I learn game)? Well you have the likes of harddon to do that or you check in the internet for the mystery method. Every thing I know about game I learnt from there. So amigo do you comprehende?
CONCLUSION
This qualities I give you are the best you will ever find because its comes from personal experience. Having this qualities is good but you still need to learn game or else,it will be a case of trying to put water in a basket. One thing we can all agree on is that apathy / inaction is the worst possible course you can take. “Just be yourself and
the right one will come along” is the most terrible advice
imaginable and should be ignored absolutely by all men!
Women are not unpredictable,they just try to seem that way,if you know you know.
Have fun and good luck.
#The red pill
#MGTOW :
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Omar09:
I kind of posted this 12 rule on a WhatsApp group. You needed to see bashing from the women. One had to ask me why I only posted for women and that I should post for men ni... Imagine as if I do men.

They brought in the usual you have sister and a mother.

Lol

Idk after prostituting their youthful age, they want to retire on men and a few men don't want that, now they are saying we are hurt and we should let go.

Women do not like to be told the truth but they always claim they like honest men. That's is cognitive dissonance.

cColumbus:
so I need straight and sincere suggestions please... this is a matter of damaged ego. Life and Death, if possible!

I'm your typical bad boy, I love boobs and ass to a fault, thankfully, my girlfriend is blessed with both... but anytime we make out (smooch or 4play), I get sooooo nervous when it's time to do the needful... Like I legit start having panic attacks when the hour is always near. Please what do you think I should do?, I've not had sex first of all, since I was born and since I started dating my girl 6 months... and to make matters worse, I'm overly paranoid... like to a fault... so stuff like this is bound to mess with my mind.. plus my girl is one of those girls that like sex a lot judging from our bedroom discussions that we have. so please what do you advice that I should do, cos i really don't want lack of sex to be the reason for our breakup. I feel like she'll soon get tired of my slacking!

I think you are either stressed or have low testerone but its normal on the first time just don't sweat it,relax and imagine you are screwing one of your crushes. Trust me it works every time.

Omar09:
So much selflessness in one man! Kudos bro. And ubunja thanks for the mention.

Peace of mind is what I value most and this made me ditch the two girls I was dating.

Spread the word ese

Thanks bro

Up blues

Jewessgratitude:
When i started reading this piece, i thought the op knew what he was doing until I saw No.s 1, 4, 9 and 10. That was when I knew he lacked sense.

@No. 1
How can you say a lady of 30 is in her bad years and all the silly things you talked about her up there?
Does the woman body fade with age? Then you dont know anything. Those are just mere speculations.
Have you not seen a 14, 16, and 20 yr olds with loose and faded body? They are everywhere. So your judgements are just myopic.
For your info, a 30 and 40 year old lady can still give birth to the healthiest baby.
My elder sis had her last child in her 40s and the boy is smarter than you and is very strong and intelligent.
Show me the picture of your so called elder or I aren't believing

As for the "pig fat" aspect you talked about, ive seen men whose choice is a that pig fat. They can't date a slim or moderate size lady unless shes fat. So another senseless rule of yours.
Are you pigfat? If no then you have no opinion here. If yes then go dieting.

A woman should change her likes for what the man likes to show respect?
Is she into slavery or marriage.
No she is into slavery + marriage/your stupidity to comprehend things.

So if she doesnt like beans because it purges her, she should continue eating it cos her hubby likes it until she stools to death?
Couples will always find a way to sort out to their preferences.
I didn't say she must eat beans till she dies that's why I say a dumb woman is a dumb woman. And you my dear is a dumb woman

Op have a rethink and delete this post.

Everything you wrote here is your dumb opinion.

Thanks for your opinion but I don't think you are in the right state of mind. Go and sort yourself out

Slimdada:
Mixed signals how bro
Pls throw more light

How do I put this, mixed signals is part of a seduction ploy to get a woman confused and excited. It is also called push and pull. I can't explain it cause its long but I will post about it soon.

ubunja:
You used to mention us when you post. What happened my guy?

Sorry dude I was little tired after doing some workout so it must have slipped my mind.

ubunja:
Hazard next time please do mention the crew when you post: pansophist, xxxtedyxxx, Omar09, emmaodet, CAPSLOCKED, ubunja etc. We need all the hands onboard when truth missiles are launched.

Oya Martinez39 can you bring that famous pic of Red Pills being poured?

Thanks ubunja my next post I will mention the crew.
Long live the red pill.

Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

Look dude you can just decide to marry to marry her. You need to think deep but if you want to make her fall in love with you, u need to send mixed signals trust me when I say it works.

I will go to the moon and have a beer

dawnomike:
This is a pretty nice one... Weldone!

NB:You got me with the caption 'HAZARD' as the only Hazard my brain thinks of is Eden Hazard

Lol well there is now a newer and better hazard.

ekene247:

Good write up in "your own opinion"

what I have problem with is that you made it a like "rules" of picking the right partners.

You just dished our what you think as rules.
You tried by the way. Weldon

U are right but this is best rules one can get on picking the right wife

Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will agree with me that there is nothing as sweet as having the right partner that gives you peace of mind. But sadly, our society has become "A Bonobo Masturbation Society" where marriages priority has been misplaced and turned into something else entirely. Not to worry at the end of this piece you will learn how to pick the right mate.
PREVIEW
You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this enlightenment is for you. I will not review whether or not you should get married but I will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of an enlighten businessman for it to work. You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) –you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the
best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school boy. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will marry just because he loves a girl. It takes rational,clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
WHEN TO GET MARRIED:
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn a reasonable amount of money and think of what he wants in a wife. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with(but if you are one of the rare men under 30 that is matured enough to know what he wants then do what you feel like otherwise continue reading).
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.
With all that done and dusted, let's talk about my favourite part of the enlightenment.
TOP 12 RULES ON PICKING THE RIGHT WIFE
1) SHE MUST BE YOUNG
The woman should be 25 years of age MAXIMUM. 22 is even better and 19 is the best age. A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.
It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Women do not age well. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a beta male who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children. At
30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
(But, hazard I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid) sorry dude but her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
2) SHE HAS TO COME FROM AN INTACT FAMILY WITH ORIGINAL FATHER AND MOTHER
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes are 70%/100 not healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with no original father or mother have too much emotional baggage and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
3) SHE MUST NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE
If she mentions the word ‘divorce', praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a good mate. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.
4) SHE MUST BE IMAGE CONCIOUS
Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It's unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman
blowing up to whale proportions.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife
daily, you don't want to be seeing her as a cow for the rest of your life.
5)SHE MUST BE FAMILY ORIENTED NOT CAREER ORIENTED
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Enlighten man doesn't need two
incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. (But hazard I don't want children -then don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family).
(But hazard I want a career woman) it doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you met she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in this "affluenza" age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.
6)SHE MUST BE A "GOOD"GIRL
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a olosho past, and she
cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking.
You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
(But hazard are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are Whores?Yes).
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced. If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get married to a woman like this. Remember party girls are for fun,good girls for marriage.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
7)SHE MUST RESPECT YOU
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your
money and your children for another man. You have got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect always.
SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FROM ANOTHER MAN AKA SINGLE MOMS
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions. Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture. Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a alpha,get pregnant, and look for a Beta male to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
9)SHE SHOULD CHANGE HERSELF FOR YOU
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Your favourite food will become her new favourite food and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
A woman who doesn't change for you is a woman who does not respect you. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what women do.
10)SHE SHOULD NOT BE MATERIALISTIC
Nigerian women this days have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace leeching. They have been
indoctrinated and instructed to believe that they are entitled to a man's money. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them
are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who all the thing they know about is money,money and money. If a woman cannot spend money wisely,then she don't deserve it. You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.
11)SHE SHOULD BE A SMILER
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any
job she has etc. You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride. Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
12)SHE MUST GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND
This is my favourite and most important law. "Even if you don't follow the rest of the law,you must follow this one".
I don't care how beautiful and elegant the woman is,if she can not give you peace of mind then I advise you to ditch her. She is not worth it.
A woman who gives her man peace of mind is like a radiant diamond that is outstanding among ten thousand others.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who give her man peace of mind is worth more than gold.
CONCLUSION
If you have read this enlightenment thus far,you have demonstrated you are a person of high value and you want to improve your marital affairs. All I have to say is Congrats, cause this are the best rules you will ever see or get and they are well proven and tested. Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren't going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Good luck and a happy new year.