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Funny event happened today guys. My neighbour has a wife and 2 kids. This man is not wealthy but he does his best to provide for his family. His wife has a shop (that is been funded by the husband) but still rants about how her husband does not do enough to take care of her. Fast forward today,her husband found out she is pregnant and it wasnt his since according to husband that they have not had sex for like 2 months plus because of her so called reasons. Only for her to confess that she has been having sex with a rich customer that comes to her shop to buy wares and the rest is history. I have to say that i feel so so sorry for the man cause i know the kind of "hard" work he does just to provide for his family especially for his wife. What is done is done but the modern women are really nothing but a pack of wolves adorn in the attire of a woolly sheep and no matter what a wolf may say or do, you should NEVER trust it.

Wow this thread has been nothing short of spectacular. Special thanks to everyone that contributed to this thread. Its a shame the modern women are this vile but like someone on this thread said it is what it is. The road to the discovery of the red pill for me was daunting and annoying. I worked hard on my life not withstanding the emotional abuse with the occasional "A real man this and that" i learnt a lot of life lessons growing up and had time to watch the dynamics of marriage and the ruthless nature of women using my uncle marriage as a case study,i remember back in the days when i was a SIMPleton and i was used like a doormat by women but fast forward to this day, i rule,they follow and if they don't like it.They know the way to the door and its all thanks to the red pill. Keep up the good work guys. Hazard out.

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it is what it is. Don't try to seek the answer to the question, you can't know everything.

Spot on ubunja. No wonder they no let me rest lol

op you try

lefulefu:
raped her and buried her alive mehn some humans are heartless

omo na de world were we de now

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Your woman is a reflection of you(I meant that literally). You see I get complains from guys, telling me they cant get the right woman,they keep attracting the so called oloshos,gold diggers blab blab but as you going to see the problem is actually you?(how is it me,hazard7). Well as Churchhill once said "KBO" (keep buggering on).
THE INNER YOU
When you look in your mirror,what do you see? do you see a Brad bitt or a Christiano Ronaldo(if you are hallucinating of course,lol) but seriously what do you really see? the answer obviously is yourself. So if you have blemishes,dark spot and acnes that's what you will see in the mirror. You can't see anything else but you(your real self).
Imagine a tree. Let’s suppose this tree represents you. On this tree there are fruits. In life, our fruits are called our results. So we look at the fruits (our results) and we don’t like them; there aren’t enough of them, they’re too small, or they don’t taste good. So what do we tend to do? Most of us put even more attention and focus on the fruits, our results. But what is it that actually creates those particular fruits? It’s the seeds and the roots that create those fruits.It’s what’s under the ground that creates what’s above the ground. It’s what’s invisible that creates what’s visible. So what does that mean? It means that if you want to change the fruits, you will first have to change the roots. If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible. (So how does apply to me,hazard7)?
YOU ARE HER MIRROR
I meant that obviously,you see When you are tied up with the relationship, the world of "Dependency (or being Dependent)" starts. Specially, woman. They rely more on their partner than the man. Because man has more responsibilities than the woman and they are a little more powerful and mature not only in that But we humans naturally are feeling beings expect the occasional exceptions like the psychopaths etc and thus we are bound to transmit feelings in a cellular level like for example if you see some child crying in the street,you will feel some empathy at least (why you may say) because since our base is a universal level,we are all interconnected so when we ignite a feeling in ourself, others also feel it because of that connection. So it is very good you monitor what you think of concerning every situation especially in the realms of women. Why?
Course THOUGHT=WORD=ACTION=HABIT=DESTINY. they also reflect in more than just that. So if you are an introvert basically your woman will be an introvert,if you are the partying type your woman will also be the partying type et cetera (why hazard7). Well because the universal laws states that "what you focus on, expand". So if you spend your time screaming this 'whores aren't loyal' what do you think you will get? A virgin, nope or a good girl, I don't think so. What you will get is a frickin LovePeddler that aren't loyal', that's what you will get.
Now that we are getting somewhere I will say your main problem at getting "quality women"isnt actually the approach or the fact that you don't have money or the fact that you are not handsome or that you are not good at game, sure this could be part of the problem but deep down the problem is you!!! So how do you think we can solve this common problem that is plaguing most guys in this era. Majority of you will say "if u get money ,all dis thing no go mean or happen" but we all know this are excuse to cover those flaws that are getting you the wrong sort of girl(oloshos,gold digger s etc) If you are okay with that, fine by me but if you want the right kind of girls that you can only dream of. Then let's go further.
THE CHANGE EFFECT
So with that done and dusted,how do we bring about the changes? Well you start by accepting the fact that you are responsible for everything that happens to you whether directly or indirectly. It's not your fault of course but it's your responsibility. Cause as they say "with great responsibility comes great power". Cut that "insidious thought process" of all women are this or all women are that and of course AWALT (All women are the same) from your mind's dictionary .Stereotyping is one of the reasons why you can't get the right kind of girls,(but hazard7 I do it to catch cruise) well truth is dear Sir or Ma'am stereotyping is a negative force and so the mind feed off two energies negative and positive. If you keep feeding it negativity what do you think will happen? It accumulates and send signal to the only set of people that are in the same frequence with you,guess what they will be negative people, circumstances,problems and women and vice versa but am not saying that if you start thinking positively about people,circumstances and women,things will change immediately but you will see an increasing rate of positivity in your life. It also doesn't mean you won't encounter the so called wrong women,you will definitely encounter a lot but this time you really feel the difference. If she is negative she will repel you don't be sad it's a good thing and if she is positive,she will accept you.
CONCLUSION: You are a castle and you determine the kind of people that can enter into your castle. If your castle is a shitty and dirty place,who do you think will want to come in to it. KINGS or beggars. I will leave you to decide. Cheers!!!
NOTE: if you find yourself countering this thread,maybe you should thread carefully before deciding to quote me.

like they say only God can find you a great woman

BigJoe19:
Someone saying he wants to be raped means he can't be raped cos he wants it, you guys should go study the definition of rape.
You can't say you want to be raped, when you are indirectly giving consent for the sex to happen.

ok

mosdii:
You did Justice to the thread.

I'm urging my wonderful, hardworking brothers to watch these movies and learn and practice the lessons in our daily lives.

The liberation gospel must be preached to all. Men must be liberated from hungry leeching farm tools.

thanks

imagine someone saying that he wants to get raped. >:. this life no balance tru tru

delishpot:
When your papa blow ya mama own out of alignment, did anyone complain? Why you want become vagina meter monitor for another man's wife?

lolssssssssssssss

So this here are some of the best redpilled movies of all time. you can share yours at the end of the post.

(1)Equilibrium (2002)
Director: Kurt Wimmer
The film follows John Preston (Christian Bale, 'Vice' ), an enforcement officer in a 'Fahrenheit 451'-inspired future in which both feelings and artistic expression are outlawed and citizens take daily injections of drugs to suppress their emotions. After accidentally missing a dose, Preston begins to experience emotions, which makes him question his own morality and moderate his actions while attempting to remain undetected by the suspicious society in which he lives. Ultimately, he aids a resistance movement using advanced martial arts called "gun kata" (invented by direction Kurt Wimmer in his own backyard) to fight waves and waves of identical baddies. 'Equilibrium' slid in and out of cinemas quickly back in 2002, although it's regarded as something of an unearthed gem today.

(2)The Matrix (1999)
For obvious reasons, this was a paradigm-shifting film in the world of movies. But it also introduced a whole generation (myself included) to question the nature of reality. What is real? And how do you know it’s real?
The film’s other great contribution to mass society was the possibility that an unseen force is controlling our destiny. Morpheus reveals the ultimate truth that Neo’s mind can barely process: the Matrix is control. And the only way to break free? Open your mind.

(3)American Beauty (1999)
Hot suburban dad obsesses over his daughter’s friend, a vapid cheerleader. But there’s much more to this dark tale of the American dream gone awry.
Notable elements of this award-winning film include the dehumanizing effects of consumerism, the repressed sexuality of a gay military man, and the pot smoking defiance of Ricky Fitts, who sees the beauty of the entire universe in a single, swaying plastic bag.

(4)Fight Club (1999)
“Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don’t need. We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War’s a spiritual war… our Great Depression is our lives.” Tyler Durden’s words ring true in this dark, angry look at young people’s failures to interact with the value system they’re expected to uphold. Far from being a manifesto for violence,the film is rumination on the lengths we will go to experience real emotion, even if it means (metaphorically) bashing someone’s head in.

(5)Dark City (1998)
Do you ever feel like you’re playing a role? Released 1 year before The Matrix, another film introduced the concept of a hidden beings controlling the destiny of humanity. Dark City follows Rufus Sewell, a man framed for murder, as he’s pursued by faceless super beings that can manipulate time. Unfortunately for the beings, the protagonist is unwittingly gifted with their own powers of psychokinesis, and a challenge for domination ensues.

(6)The Godfather Trilogy
I’m going to make him an offer he can’t refuse ~Don Vito Corleone
Considered by many by many to be one of the greatest films of all time, The Godfather is perhaps one of the most important films for any aspiring Grounded Man to watch. Despite the film’s 3 hour runtime, you will be on the edge of your seat during this cinematographic masterpiece and will walk away pondering the many life lessons presented in this iconic classic.
With a brilliant script and some of the most iconic acting in Hollywood history, The Godfather will leave you questioning the meaning of duty, family, honor, and life itself as the memorable tale unfolds. Pay special attention to Corleone’s character and the multitude of life lessons that he shares throughout the film from never making promises you can’t keep, to putting your family first, to acting on logic and reason instead of emotion. He’s a powerhouse of a man (despite his criminal activities) and you can learn more from watching his character throughout the trilogy than you will from watching any inspirational YouTube video or Instagram post.

(7) Crazy Stupid Love
While the movie might sound like a die-hard chick flick, nothing could be further from the truth. After finding out that his wife had an affair and wants a divorce, Cal Weaver (played by Steve Carrell) is sent spiraling into the world of pick up after meeting the mysterious and charismatic Jacob Palmer (Ryan Gosling).
Over the course of the film, you will witness Cal’s transformation from a bonafide “Nice Guy” into a strong grounded man who makes a stand for the life he wants and reclaims his lost masculinity.

( Hitch
The OG dating coach, Alex Hitchens, a.k.a. Hitch is a professional “Date Doctor” who helps his struggling clients land dates and win the hearts of their fair ladies.
Unfortunately, Hitch’s moves don’t go over too well with the woman that he likes and what ensues is a hilarious 2 hour debacle that is the comedic equivalent of my book, The Dating Playbook for Men . With an all star cast, witty dialogue, and jokes that will have you on the floor in tears, Hitch is one of the top movies to watch for any aspiring (or recovering) ladies man.

(9). The 40-Year-Old Virgin
While it might surprise you to find a film like The 40 Year Old Virgin on a list of movies for the redpilled man, in the flick, surprisingly, chronicles one of the most iconic journeys a man can undergo.
From Mr. Nice Guy to OMG who is THAT Guy? Following the story of Andy Sitzer, a classic “Nice Guy” who enters into his 40’s as a virgin, the movie chronicles Andy’s journey to lose his virginity and find love. What follows is a joyous, often inappropriate, and downright hilarious Viewer through Andy’s foibles that will leave you crying with laughter and pondering more than a few lessons on love, romance, and sexuality.

(10).Network (1976)
The news stopped being about enlightening the masses a long time ago.
Instead, news attempts to portray a world view that allows those in power to stay in power. This is never more true than 30 years after the film Network was released, when Howard Beale proclaimed “I’m mad as hell, and I’m not going to take it anymore!” He called for viewers everywhere to stand up, and demand democratic control over their lives once again. The irony is even more biting when it’s revealed democracy, along with nations, peoples, and countries, no longer exists. The only thing left: the global system of finance.

(11) The Notebook
While many people laud The Notebook as one of the greatest romance films of all time, I respectfully disagree. In fact, the reason that I included this movie on the list is so that you can have a clear example of what not to do. In The Notebook a young impoverished man named Noah (Ryan Gosling) falls deeply in love with a young rich girl named Allie. However, Allie’s posh parents aren’t exactly pleased with this situation and attempt to undermine the relationship at every turn.
What ensues is (intended to be) a heartwarming tale of undying love and the power of commitment. Personally, I thought the whole thing was a little trite and told a story of clinginess, codependence, and a big dose of the scarcity mindset. Maybe I’m wrong. Watch it for yourself and let me know.

(12).. Romeo and Juliet
When it was initially written, Romeo and Juliet was intended to be a satire about the dangers of young (and dumb) love. However, through centuries of bastardization, it’s been turned into the classic romance story about “True Love”. Leonardo DiCaprio and director Baz Luhrmann (who also directed The Great Gatsby) breathe a breath of fresh air into the old story and illustrate, in a more modern context, the dangers of blind love and building your entire identity upon another person.
Watch it, learn from it, and promise yourself that you will never be so smitten with another person that you’d commit a double suicide to be with them, m’kay?

(13). Swingers
Enter Swingers, the hilarious story that follows Mike, a recently single 20 year old living in Sunny Las Angeles. His confidence is gone, the woman he loved has left him, and he feels like he has nothing to live for. That is, until his silver-tongued companion, Trent (Vince Vaughn) takes Mike under his wing in an effort to help him regain his self esteem and get back on top.
What follows is one of the funniest films in Hollywood history that will help you level up your life and your “Game” (I really do hate that term). Just watch Vince Vaughn’s epic portrayal of a classic Hollywood playboy and I promise that your conversations and flirting abilities will improve by matching his demeanor.

(14) Gone girls
The story of Gone Girl pits a feminist psychopath against a misogynist jerk in what might be the world's most twisted marriage. When the wife, Amy, sets up her philandering husband, Nick, for her murder, the two characters vie for the viewer's sympathy, lying and manipulating one another in order to survive.

(15). Skyfall (James Bond)
Of all the redpilled movies for men, James Bond is undoubtedly the manliest. You didn’t think I would create a “redpilled movies list” without including at least one James Bond film, did you? While there are (literally) dozens of amazing James Bond movies that have a plethora of life lessons and character studies you can learn from, Skyfall is by far my favorite. In the most intense and action packed 007 movie yet, Bond is forced to come out of retirement to help MI6 defeat an ex-agent turned supervillain named Silva. As with every Bond film, you can brace yourself for a healthy dose of action, epic gadgetry, and seductive dialogue that will rekindle your lifelong dream of becoming a secret agent. However, if you pay close attention, Skyfall offers much more to the attentive observer than mere entertainment.
Throughout the film, Skyfall presents a number of important life lessons that will help you on your journey as a man. From Bond’s struggle with addiction to his ability to make split-second decisions (and follow through on them) to his loyalty to his team to his yearning for real connection in a world of fake people and a life of lies, Skyfall shows a side to the hero that isn’t often revealed in some of the character’s more classic portrayals. As always, pay close attention to Bond’s attitude and charisma and see if you can’t pick out a few applicable tactics that you can use to boost your social prowess and seductive powers.
Have a nice day!!!
#PEACE

nice!!!

Chinnems:
Good evening everyone.
I have noticed a lot of people on this platform propagating this 'redpill' theory and referring to guys who do not subscribe to it as 'simps'.
It is true that a lot of women (and men too) are deceitful, manipulative, and tend to gaslight their partners or take advantage of the opposite sex using their so-called 'charms'. This means that men need to be very careful (shine their eyes) so that they do not fall victims (mugu) to such charms.
While I agree that it is completely unacceptable for any guy (or lady) to be enslaved by a woman (or man) because of his desire for sexual gratification or any other reason at all, I disagree with referring to a guy as a 'simp' because he chose to do something you couldn't do.
Don't call a guy a simp for forgiving the girlfriend that cheated on him with you.
Don't call him a simp for choosing to marry that single mother of your two kids.
Don't call him a simp for sticking to her, instead of 'taking' his own share and walking away.
Don't call him a simp for choosing to settle down with that lady that aborted multiple pregnancies for you.
Don't call him a simp for falling in love with a lady.
Don't call him a simp for doing his best to please a lady he loves.
Don't call him a simp for choosing to stay faithful to one lady.
Don't call him a simp for taking some interest in his woman's sexual satisfaction.
Don't call him a simp for choosing to stick to her after you revealed her dirty past to him.
Don't call him a simp for spending on a lady without sleeping with her in return.
Don't call him a simp for choosing to trust his woman and not believe the stories you tell about her.
Don't call him a simp for accepting to take care of the child she had for another man.
Don't call him a simp for tolerating her excesses.
I might be unable to do some of the things I have listed above, but I'll never look down on any man who does any of those things.
My inability to do a thing shouldn't make me see those who do such things as simpletons.
It doesn't make any sense.
I will advise you to keep your wits about you when making choices and also be sure that no one (your partner) is controlling you (pushing your mumu button).
I will also encourage every one of you to stay away from manipulative partners who disrespect you, and care nothing about how you feel. The only reason you stay with such people is because of your inferiority complex (or you are actually a simp as they say), not love.
Build up your confidence, walk away from that toxic relationship and find someone willing to give you the respect that you deserve.
Stay smart. Do not allow anyone to emotionally blackmail you or make you feel stupid for any of the choices you make.
This is my opinion, I'd love to hear yours too.
Thank you.

So what are you saying exactly

JustcallmeFavou:
There are a lot of things most people do, either as a daily routine or occasionally that has a way of hindering them from living a successful life or from being who they are meant to be in life.

A lot of times, you see these individuals struggling and often times lagging behind on so many things. This is because, they have not looked deeply into their lives and discover some certain things that they do that is/are wrong.

Below are certain things that one must willingly forgo if one needs/wants to be successful in life;

1. Forgo the lazy life mentality
Most folks just want everything to be served to them on a platter of gold. This mentality should be thrown out of the window and never be allowed in ever again. Whatever you may desire or want in life, be willing to work hard for it. That way you will be glad and so fulfilled when you finally get what you want or when you become successful.

2. Forgo unhealthy sleeping habits
Some individuals can sleep as if they took sleeping tablets or inhaled sleeping gas. To achieve more during the day, it's best you wake up early and do the necessary things you need to do. Hence, spend between 4-6hrs daily inorder to have some rest, and feel refreshed to carry out the day's activities.

3. Forgo your detest for great books.
There's a saying that, great successful men and women read and learnt from others. How would you be rich or successful if you don't follow some certain step by step principles of wise people of old or young alike? If you desire to be successful in life, willing forgo your detest for great books. Learn to read from them, and also learn from their rich embedded wisdom.

4. Forgo the habit of Impatience
Everyone wants to be successful and rich and maybe famous. But only a few have the zeal power to wait that long and follow the steady gradual route of achieving that. To be successful, one needs to be patient, strive and work hard by climbing the ladder of success, and attain the Zenith of it. Therefore, it's a thing of great joy to see what you built from scratch amassing into so much for you in a matter of time instead of it falling apart in one fell swoop because you missed a patient step or was too hasty.

5. Forgo an overly expensive life.
Its a thing of joy and satisfaction to be able to afford almost; if not some certain things you may need or want. But when it's excess, its draining. Hence it's important to always live within your means, and not try to be influenced by what your peers would say, or if they would look down on you for not looking and being expensive when, your means is below it.

6. Forgo lack of Self Confidence
You owe yourself to be confident about your abilities and strengths. To stand tall no matter what and never look down on yourself and the good things you can achieve. Once you let the spirit of lack of confidence creep in, you are on the verge of failure sooner than you expect. Hence, never allow this.

7. Forgo so called friends who are not adding to your life or encouraging you to be your best
What's the point of being friends with someone who doesn't help you to be the best version of yourself? But tends to bring you down and help you loose your self value and worth the more? When one continues, surrounding oneself with such friend's, one tends to diminish in self worth and value. So therefore, kindly forgo these categories of bad friends so that you can be successful in life at least.

8. Forgo the Belittling Attitude 
Most times, the thought of you're not worthy enough to be successful creeps into your mind. Especially when you see your peers doing more and way better than you. Well, never allow such thoughts of making you think and feel low of yourself to hinder you from succeeding. Thoughts of you feeling so low of yourself is one of the easy ticket plane to the miry clay of an unsuccessful life. Hence, never allow yourself think low of you.

9. Forgo blaming others for your failures or setbacks
Things often times, don't go as expected or as we want. But this should never warrant anyone who really wants to succeed to blame anyone for setbacks or failures if things go wrong. Always endeavour to accept anything that goes wrong or right, learn from it, and ask for the grace to move on and be hopeful for another better and blissful day ahead.

10. Forgo excess time spent on Social media
It's good to spend few/some time on social media to keep one abreast of things happening around oneself, in the country, and and the entire globe. But when the time spent on social media is more than the time spent doing something productive. When the time spent on social media is not adding anything worthwhile or tangible to your life, but all you tend to do is always having unnecessary and unproductive arguments with some certain folks everytime, then be sure you are going downhill with time, instead of being successful.

11. Forgo being overly dependent on others
If you want to be successful, then you need to strive and learn how to stand on your own. Learn to be self independent however, whichever, positive and legit way you can. This would help you value the things you had worked for and achieved the more. This way you will be happy with yourself more compared to when it's otherwise

12. Forgo the "Am always Right Mentality" 
This mentality is very bad and will only tear you apart gradually. Endeavour to have an open mind which is being eager to always learn, listen and take corrections from people who have treaded the same path you are on. Never think you know it all, be humble and have a learning spirit always.

13. Forgo lacking self-control

A man or woman who lacks self control is on the verge of his/her downfall sooner than expected. This is because on needs to have self-control for food, sleep, money, temper, tolerance, etc when handling some certain issues of life. Therefore, when self-control is lacking, one tends to struggle more to do some certain things. Hence the act of succeeding is halted.

Nice and so true

Hardebaryor:
"Invest in your woman, so she'll be too expensive for other guys" A statement manufactured by manipulative assholes and leeches.. And been celebrated by hopeless simps. "Invest in yourself, so when she's leaving. You can get a lady 20x better than her and tell her to go to to hell ".. There l fixed it. Normalize loving men for who they are. And not for how much they can can spend massaging your overbloated ego.. Date a Woman that adds values to your life not a liability.. They all have vagina" You're the prize homie. Always remember that. You're not an alternative for anyone.. Be a king.
Never open your wallet to keep a woman. Only open your wallet out of generosity.. Not to buy love. (There's a difference) If she belongs to the street. . She belongs to the street.. Even if you're Dangote.. You still can't keep her. A King you were born.. A king you should be. Always!

Simply magnificent

KingZaddy:
Never listen to negative people, never!

Especially on nairaland.

There are lots of haters here

people who hate what they don't understand

people who hate those they have never seen.

people who hate the uniqueness of others

people who see everything others do as stupid...

Ikorodu boys were seriously abused on nairalanders, imagine if they had seen those comments of hate here.

Today they have been praised by world standard celebrities for their unique and comical creativity...


If you stop to attend to everything dog that backs at you on the road, you will never reach your destination...


What ever you are doing, is it your gift, your talent or purpose in life keep doing it like you would die tomorrow... Let it be known to you that everybody can be wrong about you.


Allow them speak negativity but turn deaf ears and put on a smile and gear up your hustle and be silent to haters.


Nobody defines a man better than himself, never be pushed by your parents to do what they think is good for you, do what you know you were born to do.


Parents don't know better when it comes to personal success, only you can identify your purpose and it is what you have chosen for your self that others will have to support you in.


Stay focused stay strong....


Do not be ruled by money but by passion

Be the giver not just the taker, give all your best, create solutions to problems and the world will empty their pockets at your feet...

The world can know you for two things, the problem you created or the problem you solved

Signed: King Zaddy

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Came at the right time. Thanks dude, I really needed that today. More power to your elbow

I think 10000000000000 to 1 just like how leicester city won the premier league

Martinez39s:
You were a careless man.

••>> FIRST MISTAKE: not running away when she insisted on get pregnant before you went back to the UK. At this point, her plans were laid before, but you couldn't grab because you weren't redpilled and your third leg clouded your thinking. She was using you to secure her future, and she thought she would go to the UK.
••>> SECOND MISTAKE: getting her pregnant. Lmao. Na you do yourself biko. Why be so careless?
••>> THIRD MISTAKE: marrying her, and accepting responsibility for the child without conditions.

Once you told her that you couldn't get your visa, and you wanted to face life in Nigeria, she saw she could no longer derive the benefits she wanted from you: using you to secure herself financially, and going to the UK. At that point, the chameleon revealed herself; her veneer of kindness and good personality cracked in infinite places. (Briffault's law). Her subsequent actions are enough proof that she never loved you one bit. You were too easy for her to game.

When I say it pays to take the redpill, beta simps like you ridicule me. If you had taken the redpill, you wouldn't be in this mess. Why do men of today still believe in love and get married? Anyway, if possible, go to court and make it known that you have no problem providing for your kid, and you want to put a stop to your wife alienating you from your kid. You are a father, and you have parental rights, why not fight for joint custody? Seems misandric courts are here in Nigeria too. Iammo (iammolise) help this men IF POSSIBLE.

It pays to take the redpill.

He did not know that when "you play with fire you must know you might get burnt". It is surprising that men this days still believe that women are capable of love. Well that is just life.

FrustratedFellow:
there is this 55 year old widow I met on Facebook, I created a fake account and claimed to be a 50 year old engineer with posh looking pictures of one man.
The said widow inherited the assets her late husband gave her 10 years ago before he died, the woman got a federal job, though would be retiring soon, posh looking cars, houses and landed properties her husband left behind with just a 20 year old daughter.
So when I added her, we became friends and due to the posh well dressed 50 year old gentleman and having seen the intelligence I had cos I brainwashed her a lot, she finally agreed to marry me and she has been hell bent on seeing me , disturbed my line with numerous calls.
I'm still in my 20's and my voice isn't coarse so any time she calls I'll give it to one 35 year old man in my area and he communicates with her.
I once trickishly asked her if a 27 year old guy loves and cares for her and asks her out, she got angry and responded with "God forbid I don't do child abuse"
now she's dying to see me so I could take her to my people so I'll start the matrimonial rites.
Guys what should I do now?
I'm hooked.

PLEASE IF YOU'RE COMING HERE TO FORM SAINT OR BASH ME I WONT HESITATE TO CURSE THE HELL OUT OF YOU.
IF YOU'RE NOT CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY BY GIVING ME TRICKS ON HOW TO FINANCIALLY GAIN FROM THIS WOMAN PLS RESPECT YOURSELF AND STAY OUT OF THIS THREAD

Go and consult your "babalawo"

Sister you need help. Abeg tell me wetin women de look for? If you care for them they will say you are soft and if you did not care for them they will say you are wicked

sacajawea:
Then do what as A Dictator?

Purify the country from its perils

sacajawea:
Nigeria on Paper Claims To be a Democracy, but we all know it isn't.
I will use my Power to do the Following:

1.) BAN ALL CELESTIAL AND WHITE GARMENT CHURCHES - these people are Sick people. They is no bearing to Christianity here. Atrocious group of People who are overdue for a ban.
2.) Ban all herbal medicine practitioners - the ones on the bus, on the street, in Loud Speakers.

Add yours

I will kill all politician and become a dictator

HeavenlyCherub:
Hello,

I’m just trying to gain insight from those who are married and others alike.

OPTION 1

Exception: Both of you keep the money you had prior to the marriage.

Option 1 there’s no his money and my money, you are 1. All income earned goes into the home.

So in this case all our income will go into a joint account (account A). From that account there will be a transfer of money out into
1. My separate account
2. His separate account
3. Our joint savings account

Amounts that go into 1 and 2 will be equal.

We spend on bills etc from account A. We will discuss jointly on lavish spending from account A e.g. vacations and kids stuff.

Whatever happens in account 1 is my business, no questions asked. If I save it all and want to buy an island fine. If I want to give my friends money, fine. Its from my allowance, not from the home.


OPTION 2

You both put in a percentage of your income into the joint account and keep a %. For example that if 1 brings in $100,000 a month and you bring $50,000.. both will agree to 10% of their individual earnings for the joint account.

OPTION 3

One spouse keeps both salaries and disburses it when it is needed.

I’m just curious. What method works for you?

Option 1 is better but I prefer option 3

Omar09:
What is an “Alpha Male”?
An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. Other men want to be him, women want to be with him. An alpha male intimidates, he's unquestionably in charge, no matter what the situation. But it doesn't necessarily mean that an Alpha male has money or he is a billionaire. He is just confident in what he has and own them with pride (this is for those who always compare Alpha Male to those rich billionaire). The essence of an Alpha Male or his predominantly goal is to have as many women as possible and yet not be under control of any of them. An Alpha male is one who doesn't stick to one woman. Yes you heard right. Now let's take a look at how nature defined Alpha Male. In the lion kingdom, lions are divided into tribes. There are different tribes in different territories. With their territories marked and defended heavily. A young male lion once wined off its mother will leave his own Tribe he once lived and loved and was loved to another territory to displace the already Alpha male. Once the the Alpha male is displaced, the new one will take over. Now what is the Alpha male measured in the animal is strength and number of female lions. Look at the walrus, the strongest gets to mate with as much females as it wants. Even in the days of our forefathers, it was strength and women. The number of women you are married to determines your managerial skill, determines your reputation in the society. It was never amount of money.

To those who think Alpha male are those making that cash, it's never about the amount of money. It's about the number of women you have which you are not loyal to.

And to those who say NL Alphas are always about women. It's the number of women we can have and not loyal to determines our Alphaness.
Alpha is always related with sexual dominance and not necessarily finance or otherwise.

Cc ubunja Martinez39s Michellekabod2 AstroG1

Nice piece but I have to say you missed a point. Being Alpha is not about just getting women,its more than that. Its about your place in the world,your purpose and more. An Alpha is a leader of men who is assertive and dominant.
NOTE: people say a lot about how being alpha is correlated to being a lady charmer,it definitely is not. Its about you and your purpose. Girls can give you fulfillment for 2 mins tops but I have never seen or heard of a man who did not regret not following his purpose. There is more to life than pussy but what do I know? Just giving my 2 cents.

gaius01:
alright Sir, what I simply mean is that, never show a girl you can't leave without her, always show her you can be independent even she leave you today, some times the reason alot of girls toil with boys heart is because the believe if they leave this dude he will lose his mind, so they subject him with a threat, so she start ruling the relationship instead it should be him, and with that she can control him here and there even she don't love him. so no matter how much you love her prove to her you can leave with out her

You are simply saying "one should priotize himself first"

Buhahahahahhahaha savage!!!