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Then go on with the relationship and try to win her heart completely, pretend the other man doesn't exist.

So her dad had her when he was just 16 so he should be glad that she is getting married at last!

Seriously, love has nothing to do with love; it is possible she is genuinely in love with the man and money may also be the icing on top of the cake. Just be happy for her, support and don't judge her that is what friends are for.

I do not like those brotherly hugs in modern churches; the way some of these young boys grabs a lady you will know their feelings are not very 'agape'-oriented. I was invited to a modern fellowship some years back and I didn't know they do such hugs there; so I was surprised to find myself in the arms of one young boy of about 18 years. He 'gathered' me to his arms and squeezed me all in the name of a sisterly hug and I am sure I felt his little bulge.
I think a gentle handshake will do just fine.

If you are in it for the fun then continue enjoying your thing and keep smiling all the way but guard your heart seriously. I would not call her a serious partner but then crazier things have happened; people have been known to change their ways for the sake of love.
My advise is follow your heart or your rod whichever has the stronger urge but be prepared for harsh consequences. Good luck, bro

OBJ is right but who will help us get rid of the rogues and armed robbers?
"A house divided against itself cannot stand"

I suggest you ignore him till he comes around. He may really be busy trying to concentrate on his project/presentation and your calls may be distracting him or he just wants to use this episode to send a message to you that he is tired of the relationship. Some people never get the nerves to face their partners and tell them it is over.
As someone suggested, just get on with your life.

It is shameful that our leaders have no confidence in our health facility in Nigeria. A big big shame!

I agree with the landed property investment.

scopusng: Foo.ls running ya mounth. Anyway, i don't have to listen to u guys. Just back from DSTV office for swapping and was issued a new card.

And the benefits are?

I got the message too and I am doing nothing about it. About a week ago I had done the upgrade when I got the notification; I used the 'ok' button and the upgrade was done. I wonder why I am getting this message again.

I have no time or intention to waste hours standing on a queue as if my life depends on DSTV afterall I only get to watch their programmes weekends.

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It is not the proper thing to do. It is like a husband not dropping 'chop' money because he is angry with his wife.
Our being angry should not make us shirk from our responsibilities at home.

[quote author=Unique!]Very immature way to handle misunderstanding[/quote]I totally agree with you.

Will having swimming pools at our disposal and participating actively in Swimming competitions solve our numerous problems? I wonder where they get their ideas from!

Anyway, as we say in Delta 'at all at all na im bad pass"

Nigerian girls are what Nigerian men have made them to be. If the men stop being desperate and offering favours in exchange for sex, the girls will stop demanding. The average Naija guy wants to show he has made money and that he can give freely to his girl(s) so why should the girls not demand.

BTW not all Nigerian girls are beggars. You just need to change your circle and upgrade your parole level. Also, stop offering to help, promising to give and showing off to girls that you have so much money and need to spend it.

^^ lol
Stringent measures!

@OP
Just let her know that her 'daily' weight gain bothers you and help her plan a diet/exercise programme.
All she needs is to reduce her food intake and exercise more. Boredom can make some people eat more than normal.

Please don't run away, marriage na 'for better for worse'; instead of running away stay back and help make her a better person.