₦airaland Forum

ekaette1621:
WHAT A MILF!

BRATISLAVA:
At the end of the day you know she's mulatto, so stop pushing your fake black agenda, egbon. Obama falls under the same category with her: neither black nor white. Why you are complicating that and making your unsubstantiated claims about their race is ridiculous. Go and learn how to identify race with a pencil. 1st generation Migrants who don't understand race.

The monkey baby isn't because she is black, but because she's tainted. Live with it. Black is black, white is white. Mulatto is mulatto. Your type probably think Latinos are white.

Case closed

djon78:
Unhappy marriages?
You guys make me laugh
Compare modern marriages where they claim love and past marriages which one last more.

Go and meet people that have had a lasting marriage, it takes more than love to make a marriage work. What most people call love is just emotional feelings, it lasts maximum 2 years and reality sets in.

What makes marriage work is commitment of the two parties to themselves, and to raising there children. From where I come from we don't believe in broken homes. So people get to know what they are getting into. Marriage is not this flimsy euphoric feeling in the name of love. Still small thing the so called two people in love can't stand themselves, end up divorcing, exposing children produced in those unions to ridicule and lifetime of pain. Very selfish set of people that care about there own feelings.

efeski:
Lol similar thing almost happened in my family.
Tribe palaver.
Popsi been drumming it in our heads that none of his kids would marry from itsekiri tribe.

I sat my mom down when my elder brother and his itsekiri babe were about taking things to the next level. Told her straight up what if this is the lady that God has destined to bring happiness to your son?
If u force him to break up and he ends up with someone else & becomes miserable, do you think he'll forgive you?

Today they're happilly married.
Pops don calm down
The world hasn't stopped spinning

Gforce2019:
There are intelligent ladies...even on this platform.. they might not be much but we have them around us... A lot of intelligent ladies has suddenly turned to feminist which is bad for the future that lies ahead..
There are a lot of foolish ladies that all they want you to notice about them is their hair-do, the new dress , jewelries or shoes they just bought...
Or their spoken English, sex styles or cooking abilities... Things has really fall apart

Raydos:
Kuku give everything to van dijk best coach, best player, best keeper

You this rubbish corrupt FEVER

UIA04:
Unku Agba you don't have to agree with me.

It's my opinion and I have a right to advise op just like everyone here on nairaland.

You quoted me first so please fawk off from my mentions.

UIA04:
Loool

Do you know Dangote's daughter had an arranged marriage?

The guy she married is know to date very fair girls and even impregnated his girlfriend during wedding preparations.


Every mother fawking northern elite's child no matter how educated will have an arranged marriage.

Tradition is worse in the north than in igboland.

Seriously, I expected a more solid argument from you.


The rich people you people use as example practice arranged marriage more than poor people. From the richest family in the world Rothschild, to the richest in Nigeria , Dantata.

UIA04:
Oh, god you people are truely hilarious.

This goes beyond family opinion. If na that one no problem. Didn't you read where the man said his mother loved the babe.

Even if op marries her and goes to live in Japan his parents, brothers, sisters will suffer the consequences here in Nigeria.

Do you know what it is to be tagged an outcast in a community?

The whole extended family will become outcasts from generation to generation.

You can as well give him money to evacuate his extended family [ if they want to go] I'm sure you nairalanders will contribute for them.

Do you know the spiritual attacks they will face?

OSU is a terrible thing.

You people are mean for egging him on to throw his future into the gutter becuase of a girl that might even have 5 boyfriends waiting.

This is real life not Diego and paloma.

With the spate of divorce , I can't advice anyone to marry anybody you won't be guaranteed peace within the first two years of marriage.

BRATISLAVA:
Continue your racial delusion.

He was not black and he was not white. Because one of your parents is one race doesn't make you that race. You become a mulatto. Meaning you have no true race.
In a country with only black people, I can understand why you don't understand race.
Black is black, white is white. Mulattos don't count.

Squirrel01:
You are not the first, you won't be the last, this thing has been in existence since the days of your forefathers, you won't marry her, there is nothing you can do about it, seems you don't know the history of this Osun caste system in iboland, love can't break it,Beauty can't break it, you see these folks tagged Osun? The gods blessed them with beauty, good character, and a rare gift, yet tradition abhors them, they don't want them to dine with them, it's tradition, every family wants to keep a clean sheet of their lineage, as per your predicament, I don't have any advice to offer, as the answer lies with your family, your kindred, this is just the ugly truth, you have to swallow this bitter pill, the word Osun is a very strong word in iboland, churches have tried to eliminate and abolish it but to no avail, so many marriageble young ladies out there are roaming the streets of their community due to this issue, their only hope is, if someone who has no interest or knowledge about this Osun issue happens to wife them up. Yet there are still hidden nemesis attached to it. This is what they (your family are avoiding). Thread wisely.

UIA04:
You people are funny.

People who are pushing op won't suffer with him and his wife when the consequences come.

Don't you know people who are traditional to the core will DL anything to protect it.

They will fight them spiritually and physically. When a man and wife are supposed to be enjoying their marriage and growing rich they will be fighting family members.

Innocent children will suffer.

The family of the man will hate her so much.

In my opinion, long distance relationship no be relationship.

This is not romeo and Juliet, it's real life. If you can't live with the harsh consequences of your decisions bow out.


Love kor Love ni.

BRATISLAVA:
Not white. Not black. So people should stop claiming they are one race or the other.

efeski:
Seems your mind's already made up so why bother asking dor advice

Your words... u know a man that made the mistake some years back bla bla bla

Bunch of hypocrites africans... i bet your folks are christian yet they still subscribe to such practices.

Bible say whom the son of man sets free is free indeed so man up and damn the consequences or lock up and move on already.

I remember uncle Eta who married his wife back then I was in JSS late 90s. Not Osu but somehow his family was against the union.
He damned the odds and went with few friends.
Today him and him wife & kids de canada.

It's your life man.
Own it

BRATISLAVA:
She nt blak. White fada

djon78:



Make I no laughoo

This reminds me one prominent Igwe from a well known town in Anambra my state announced that there is nothing like OSU again in his Town. The elders told him that it is good but first one of his sons will first marry an OSU, then they will agree to the new law. The igwe no talk again.



People saying 21st century won't understand the guys dilemma. Like he said in Igbo culture one person don't go and said he is marrying.

Marriage is a very deep thing, it involves the mans umynna or kinsmen even before his father. It involves the mans mothers people likewise the same for the girl being married. That's why divorce is rare amongst those that follow this laws because the two couples will know its a very serious business. Example in my entire family father's side mothers side to even expended family, I have never heard of a case of divorce. Never

Blackvic1:
[color=#006600][/color]if that’s what you are looking for my brother you will end up disappointed as many of our girls in this country are intellectually dead all they want to talk about is hair cloths bbn in the next 10 years nothing will be left anymore I pity the next generation of men there won’t be any meaningful girls left

geosegun:
Chei, Yoruba and Igbo girls na 5&6. Nice one. Who cares about whether her ancestors were once slaves?
@OP: You better find a way to convince your parents. May be that's your own missing ribs. Stand your ground. Fight for her. You will win. Trust God and believe what I'm saying. Once your parents see that connection and love. They will bow to it. They know discrimination is wrong.

Otherwise, please, connect this precious lady to a Yoruba man to marry ASAP. This is one of the main reasons why the other tribe will continue to marry the best of your women. Very stupid tradition, one would think.

Either way. All the best.

pickatyou:
All of you shouting and damning the consequences, I have seen its effect o. Its like two A.S persons marrying their selves and damning the concequences, you all know how the rest goes.

I don't stand for the OSU system but will I marry one. No No No!

Jombom:
Pls provide me with her phone # if she's truly interested in a serious n sincere relationship that can lead to marriage. I am Yoruba Osu matter no concern me, in fact God punish the system self.

Blackvic1:
[color=#006600][/color]its common this days without majority of Nigerian girls they lack the ability to hold a reasonable conversation without deviating and most times when you sound intellectually inclined they tag you boring what a generation we are in trouble

004gist:
Is better they claim to be bokoharam oh.. So that they will release them on time under repentant bokoharam program.

If they call themselves rubbers they will end up in the barracks and finally in police cell and will take time to bail self.

So better say we are bokoharam and await mercy from above

sonofElElyon:
Bakare will reject any such offer.. Even a slowpoke knows this..

Ikennablue:
Ansu Fati is even a more threat than Griezman.
Why was Messi not started??

Adiwana:
We have Koemann away at Netherthalands.Look at how he transformed that team from missing out of the World cup to arguably the best team in Europe.

We have Ajax coach still bossing teams around despite losing his key players.This are managers that play our style,have our philosophy,can man manage our players and have great tactical awaerness and we are stuck with this idiot of Valverde who has lost us 2 champions leagues in a row and doesnt know what hes doing espcially away from home.

Adiwana:
This team is playing without an identity,no direction.

Griezmann is playing as a winger while he can affect this game more as a CF.

Suarez who is the most useless player on the pitch is still on.

Vidal is brought on in a game we need creativity.

How on Earth did our standard go so low

TheKing4040:
Good one from Benz.. When all cars use electricity then maybe our government will start to drink our crude oil.