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ibkaye:
hahahahaha, all these things aren't always necessary, maybe during honeymoon and/or once in a while

If he's good at what he does, dinner would be the last thing on your mind, hehehehe

Sister thank you o.  At least here's a woman that can appreciate a night in paradise.

DeepZone:
Didn't God build and wire man to take the pressure of hormonal imbalance in women? See why i complain that real men are going into extinction.

Is it really pressure or is it suicidal behavior?  I doubt think there's any wiring good enough to detect the wavy characteristics of woman behavior.

onyinye2:
So that is it? You would lead her to bedroom? No dinner, no music, no candles?? BORING.

All of that has been taken care of.  I made dinner, soaked her feet in cold water, dimmed the lights, played our favorite music, want to relax her with a breathtaking massage followed by a good sh*g . . . but as soon as she saw the roses she flipped.

DeepZone:
It's a constant factor. You have to fulfill her desires as needs be in order to contain her mood swings. You cannot be opening your bench car door for your wife and suddenly quit doing that and expect peace. Guys are meant to open the car doors for their women till Jesus comes. Don't quit bro!!!! It's your job and quitters are losers.

How does she expect fulfillment of her desires when she's swinging from left to right because she's chemically unbalanced.  Showing romantic interest in your wife only to slapped the next minute because she thinks you misplaced your priorities.  your temper tantrums are like earthquakes waiting to happen.

onyinye2:
You can't just surprise a woman with roses on the bed with out fully setting the atmosphere.

That was part of setting the atmosphere. .
The plan was to take care of everything else as the night progresses.

DeepZone:
Good time? Discussing on how to lay chics is your idea of fun? Why not discuss on how to improve Nigeria and not how to discover lingeries?

If Nigeria cannot be improved why not polish other areas of interest   .  Interested in improving our methods of sexually satisfying our women.  I think it's good discussion since y'all want a man who's good in bed.

DeepZone:
Yea because you forgot to fulfill all her needs before asking for bed love. A woman desires emotional, sexual,physical and mental need to be satisfied in order to get the full value of your effort. Any shortfall in those 4 factors can be disastrous and many men can hardly stand up to two of them. Wake up guys!!!

Everything has being fuilfillled up to that point. . .
It was a night to fulfill another one of her desires: she wanted romance.  
That package would allow me to show her just how much I love her by pleasing her physically, exploring her emotionally, satisfying her with pleasure . . . but noooooo! she yells that the roses are played out.

onyinye2:
What woman are you talking about?? And if that is all you would do to be romantic, please step your game up. It is not about the money involved, it is what you do with it.

Exactly! It's the thought that counts. But you wanted a night at the casino royale hotel in las vegas instead. very selfish

onyinye2:
1. If you can't decide between the handbag or the purse, you just buy both.

You took 12 hours to decide to buy 2 items   .  Day's worth of money-makign work right there.  Wasted at a shopping mall.

3. alot of guys have no idea what they want in a woman.

Women do?  One minute you want a guy that's financially stable.  You find him . . .oh his butt is too big.

DeepZone:
We don't spend 8 hrs abeg. Put it at 3 hrs or around that, How many hours do you guys spend in bars discusssing nothing but a womans booty and how to get the password as soon as possible. Can't you people do something better with your time, Like get a 2nd job?

It's called having a good time, not confusion.  Booty or sports.  We have much better things to talk about than painting our fingernails.

She says she wants you to be romantic

you dress the bed with roses for a night of passionate love she yells at you for wasting money.

You can do that if you want. I will find me a woman that loves me more. If you can easily leave me over a paper, then divorce in the long run would be an easier task for you to shred.

DeepZone:
Ain't women a bunch of "enigmas"?
They are not only confused but lost and need to be found seriously. hannibal and HcooHCH2R-Co2 take note.

Who said confusion?  Don't you lot suffer eternal confusion when you decide to spend 8 hours at a mall deciding between a handbag or a purse    Or when you keep hitting us with that misleading doubletalk, only to change your minds 1 hour later.  Ohh! I know . . . you just don't know what you want - you are clearly the lost ones here.

Nope. Just feeling jittery. Needing final verification.

I'm asking you to show me you love. Not signing that piece of paper is enough to convict you of gold digging.

Do you hear the government saying if I'm really a good driver I don't need insurance

How true is that? You are not choosing . . . you are protecting your assets. There's nothing wrong with a little insurance, is there?

Hmm! Term seems chiefly derogatory.  Similar to Jewboy.

DeepZone:
Yea man, where are your brothers?

So, it's now a sin for a man to be romantic?

Lol

is this what you're being taught in school, gamine?

onyinye2:
Well acid water and Okija, well im tired of all this jive. Hopefully i have shed some light into what a pre nupt really means. It is not just a piece of paper, it defines your relationship. It becomes the core and the foundation.

Kachifoo

I don't agree totally o

Kachifoo

Dear you don't know that for sure  

onyinye2:
You would want me to stay and do what?? tell me acid water, how would take that pain that i would feel after you pulling a stunt like that??

More like poison. But umm there's no reason to feel any pain if you are more concerned with the love you have for me. i'm not doing it to hurt you

onyinye2:
@okija
You really wouldn't want to meet me. i would change world from upside down.

LOL!!! Aphrodite. Scary enough

we should continue this discussion over the phone. i'm hurt that you would even think of leaving me.

but he does.

onyinye2:
Too many insecure distrusting males parading around.

Since we have both parading we should be ready to arm ourselves to disarm their scams.

onyinye2:
Look at virgin boy talk. tisk. Anyways you actually think that things will go back to being the same, then you have a lot of experiencing to do. Things will never be the same no matter how much you want to sex the girl up. noting the girl might be waiting till marriage. That pre nup is like a stain in the relationship. Sex will not clean up or remove it.

.  It is a necessary certificate to protect us from scam artists.  Too many goldies running around these days.

onyinye2:
Nne, the only thing i want to see cut, is the idea of spawning a pre nupt to woman with sincere intentions.

As if sincere is written on their foreheads    Sincere ko, patience ni

Okija_juju:
Nne calm down.

I can't compare her to any other girl. I know her, lived with her, been through alot with her, I trust her, I love her, we basically worked for everything I have now. Shes different.
I am more or less comfortable now. So lets say we don't get married, I don't have another 7years of courtship to put into another relationship, the next candidate will not have the same opportuinity she had to endear and prove herself to me. SO hence the pre-nupt.
The pre-nupt is going to help speed up the process of trust building, cut courtship by over 50% and fast track our marriage.

Very good bargain and really good savings. He be like say you get business degree.

Okija_juju:
Beyonce Nko?? Mariah Carey, Jenifer Lopez, Shakira, Jessica Alba, Kimora, abeg leave matter my brother. I go sign the pre-nupt, even thumb-print to show authenticity.

HAHAHAHAHA