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Ruby_Pearl:
@KarmaMod
Was that the romantic line HCH copied online and sent to your email? I got one too

olodo.

pussy_full:
@Poster

You are nothing but a slut - a gregarious homosapien - an harangued mistotle and a complete loose pussied intelligentia.

Want your man back - after you dumped him? and now he is happy and you want him back - for what? for you to have your wicked ways with him again and dump him again?

You are not serious - you're a troller - a fish and a frog tail - women like you should be thought a lesson - big time.

DAMN !!    

Laisi, you must understand that you're arguing with a woman here.  Just forget about it, you have made your point.  Everything else you say will be used to forge an emotional attack against you.

onyin, laisez and hannibal have answered your question. lol 

Lol! You know y'all women like army boys.

karma, you're just bitter. he's making more sense than you, in my opinion. no need for the name calling.

Ruby_Pearl:
@ibk
I look like my dad, but I don't want to hear it. why? because he's a guy, am a woman.

You're welcome, bTw.

EWU O!!!

LASIEFAIRE:
There are very few(if any) countries in the world with a mandatory armed forces service. Nigeria isnt even by force.
Most are voluntary. IF you have such a view about the Service members, don't marry one in it or that will join.
But seeing someone laying is life for your freedom as idiotic is beyond me. I weep for how some people reason.

Dude, I weep with you.

davidylan:
Lets be 100% honest, what "sacrifice"? Is it really on our behalf?
In 100 years Saddam posed no threat to the US. If needed, a few guided nuclear missiles would have permanently removed the Iranian and Iraqi threat successfully without any loss of lives.

I don't buy that "sacrifice" nonsense. If cheney and Bush want to fight an ego war then please they shld not pretend its on my behalf. America was still free in 1989 at the height of Saddam's powers.

Well that's an argument on Fighting for your country vs. Fighting for the government.  The soldiers don't really have too much of a choice in what war is fought after their enlistment, I believe.  I know people whose families felt the wrath of Osama Bin Laden on 9/11, I think they are justified going out there looking for ways to find him and put him where he belongs.  If they choose to sacrifice their lives to protect others, preventing it from happening again, I respect their decision.This is completely independent of the war on iraq, which I don't support either. But I support the troops - they are there for a good cause. Government has a different agenda.

Onyin, you wouldn't even have a family when that bomb is dropped on your little hut.  Be glad you have people making the sacrifices to prevent that from happening

Thank God the world is not completely filled with shallow thinkers.  We would all be dead right now.

LASIEFAIRE:


I wonder what would have happened if the world held this view during World War 1 or 2.
Some die to secure your freedom, but cause you don't know what it is you can't appreciate it. Freedom isnt free, someone paid for it.
this is one of the view that many Nigerians have that as led to us being what we are today.
America, UK and other countries are free to day because someone fought for it and some are fighting to keep it.

Dude thank you o   .

KarmaMod:
Then stop following me around. Abi kilode?

warn yourself o. was only replying.

But I do give a damn about the men and women who put their lives on the line to protect mine.  

I wish I gave a damn about your obtuse thinking, karma.

That's too bad karma, a lot of them are seen as heroes. much to your dislike i bet .

Wouldn't want to get involved with someone who thinks fighting for a country is always idiotic.

For some of us, fighting for your country is an heroic act of patriotism.

onyinye2:
If you say so acid water. Me i would be willing to sacrifice my job and move with him. I'm sure there would be someone willing to hire me. I just couldn't[b] imagine waking up months at a time to no one lying beside me[/b]. Or have to eat dinner on my own. it just wouldn't work out for me. I would trust he would be good but it is just not the same.

just picture how you got through many years of being single. three years go knack before you know it.
not all women are willing to relocate, but it's good that you would be willing to move there with him   . problem solved.

ibkaye:
lol i don't mean that jare, as in his presence

so because you want to cuddle you won't allow him to make that extra 20,000dollars a year?

rampant:
yeah right,r there no other ways for her to achieve her goals?she's going there because its cheaper there,u as d man should try and do sthg for her to school nearby

ewo! what if i don't have the money yet and she insists she wants to do it now    she could even pussywhip me, now that's worse.  

ibkaye:
abeg, not even about trust alone, i will miss the guy too much, baby mii no leave me o

Ahh! Poking Buy ticket go see am quick.

onyinye2:
Whatever. you know good and well you wouldn't be that supportive of the idea.

OMG! I just laid out what I would do.

I would much rather satisfy three years of her accomplishing her goals, than 70 years of hearing her whine that I blocked the path to her achievement.

See insecurities on display .

If my wife wants to move abroad to study and I trust her, she can go but has to make sure she visits, or lets me visit when I want during her three-year program o.

partygirl

Feministic:
If all people are created equally than why can't all people be encouraged to live the life they want without worrying about society's backlash? Did you just comparing a working relationship with and romantic one? I am wondering if you are claiming that their is a heiarchy in relationships, if so, I just don't see why that is neccesarry, when you can admit that someone is not better than you, then why not have equality? Your boss earned the right to be your boss, what does a man do to earn the right to be the head of the householf?

Meaning you have a problem with society as a whole which is composed of women and men, not men alone. Yes, I compared a working relationship with a romantic one to prove to you that I can befriend someone who ranks superior to me in the working environment even though I understand that we are equals before God. A man has earned his right to be the breadwinner of the household as dictated, in our country, by our religious beliefs. The man has been ordained as the one responsible for managing the finances which is why he spends his days working. He is also obligated to provide the authority and emotional strength when the family needs somebody to look up to.

No, there are women that get paid less for doing the same job in the same building, and from what I see men are being given just as much respect and money from people in the beauty industry as women do. Improvements are being made, but only because people in the past fought for it, it wasn't some random spark of social evolution, the process was slow and for some, painful.
Wonder why that is,

Why are the women not filing lawsuits in court against it, or why do they not go elsewhere to look for jobs which pay them what they feel they deserve? The law clearly states equality for all, so that's a problem with the company structure, not with the men working there.
The part in bold is just your biased perspective at work again.

I'm sure men find it harder to because a) it's a role and any role is hard to pull away from and b) it's much more easier to fufill, even its a man loses his job and is no long fufilling his role or breadwinner, he is still expected to keep his authority. Whats wrong with a man regularly making his own food? Or the family meals? Especially if the woman is the one working more and paying bills. I do think that if there are kids involved SOMEONE has to be home more than they work and someone has to work more than they are at home, but I think that it should vary from relationship to relationship.

If a man wants to make his food he can go ahead and do that, no one is telling him not to. There are men who cannot make their own food because they were not even interested in cooking, so if the wife can cook why shouldn't she? you know that most men are naturally not brought up in the kitchen, but are outside instead doing works requiring more physical strength. Would you rather starve the family because you feel it's inferior to cook for your husband, even after all the work he has done?
If you are working more as the wife, find a way to reach a compromise with your husband. He should be the one working those heavy hours instead.

that is their choice and their desire, but what of the women that want a man that can raise a family?

If they can find him they can go for it, but we both know the chances are slim. If you do find him, tell him I said he's a lazy man who needs to get his a$s to work.

HR.hotness:
I am not arguing against all that,

i'm simply saying alcohol brings out the worst in us and not something totally foreign to us

Oh yeah! The worst in us can be foreign to us. If I am unaware of a certain personality I have, it is foreign to me because I didn't know of its existence. . . I didn't know I can be that way.

HR.hotness:
And I suppose this foreign personality materialises from nowhere? I doubt that. . .  it is inherent in your nature, suppressed maybe.  we all have a little devil inside of us, people who havent fully accepted this aspect of their nature or pretend it doesnt exist are those likely to blame their shameful acts on the consumpion of alcohol.

The foreign personality materializes from your alcohol consumption.  The devil in you didn't just come out of nowhere, it was pushed out even though you didn't ask for it.  Alcohol in this discussion was responsible for pushing it out.  It's what I've been saying all along.  A content so toxic and determinetal to your health that can lead to death, is strong enough to kill any proper functionality going on within yourself, stripping you of your ability to distinguish right from wrong.  When you can no longer differentiate between right and wrong, what makes you think you can tell the difference between moral or immoral.  When it grabs you by the neck, begins to suffocate you, dumbs down your system you are no longer you.

because you don't know what you're talking about.

scantee:
@cruworld
i believe that love exist among the aged men, because they know the meaning of what they are saying.

you know women are easily decieved, when you say i love you to a girl she will at home with you, from l love you, one day you will say a crasy thing like will you marry me. which you know the truth that you are not going to marry her. guy you don cause sroke be that.gils can easily give their hart to a guy, but guys, X no way.

kool

Here's a shorter of what I am saying:
You are in agreement that the brain is the cornerstone of human thought. Alcohol can disastrously hinder its functions. When the functions of the brain are misaligned our reasoning, behavior, coordinatin, personality, etc can take a hit. When hit our morals can suffer the effects.

HR.hotness:
I'm speaking from experience. . . i can drink with the best of them but i have never once done something i wasnt secretly toying with in my mind. [b]its not about reasoning its about your inhibitions, u no longer feel the need for caution. [/b]my argument is caution is not required if you're absolutely certain a certain action is definitely not for u.

The same experience also shows that alcohol can bring out this foreign personality in you that you didn't know exists in the first place. Like the example I showed you, the guy wasn't toying with embarassing himself in public but look what happened to him. You don't have to toy with it to understand that the intake crisscrosses your frame of mind. When you no longer feel the need for caution you are vulnerable to mental errors which can violate the moral standards you had set for yourself.

the issue with drunk driving is more to do with reflex rather than judgement

It has to do with both. Your judgement (or lack there of) put you in the driver's seat in the first place because you weren't in your proper mindset. Then once alcohol affects your reflexes disaster can strike, namely accident.