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hmmm...it is not easy for guys who hav experienced molestation to talk abt it. It can be painful or even shameful. Anyway i was a victim n i will tell my story despite the pain i feel inside.

i was a cute kid during my secondary sch days yrs ago. I moved into a boardin sch when i was age 13. I just entered into snr class that time.

In my class i was one of d youngest. I was petite n naive as well. In my hostel i met senior students who wre very fond of me. One of them later became my sch father.

Cutting the long story short, We became very close n he use to take very gud care of me becos he was frm a wealthy background. To be sincere that was the best time i had back then in sch.

One day soon after resumption for a new term. Many peopl had not not resumed, so the hostels wre largely empty. It was particularly worse in my own hostel so i had to spend the night wit him in his own hostel.

After we had taken our bath we jumped into bed n whoom..i slept off only to be awoken at some point in d night by my sch father. He was kissing my hand. Half asleep, i cud feel his tongue licking through the skin of my tommy. i came into full conciousness wen i felt his lips on mine. I smelt his breath n i awoke quickly.

i spat like twice on the floor. Disgusted, i felt my stomach rumble. A strong feeling of nausea overwhemled me. I looked up, n everywhre was dark. i cud barely see his face as i began whimpering n fuming wit anger.

I am too ashamed...i wil continue

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@mostylish. 30k. buh is it a must dat one has to get a new job b4 quitting d old one? i mean it cud happn both ways.

I am graduate n i have been on this teaching job for more than a year nw. Apart from managing to feed myself which i am not even able to do properly, the rest of my salary goes into buying basic necessities lik soap, haircut, recharge cards, Tfair, offerings etc etc. I HAVE NO SAVINGS!

i cant pay for a decent accomodation. i am living in my sister's property. n right nw i just hate the way things are going for me.

Infact i feel lik i am jus keeping myself busy with littl or nothing to differentiate myself from people that are not even working.

i hav been trying to get a beta job buh its not forthcoming. the job isnt giving me anytime to do oda things that cud fetch me money. i work lik a horse. i dnt even have time to search for beta jobs or develop myself in anyway. it seems like i am just stalked.

The truth is, i am fed up working for ppl. i will prefer to do bizness, go back to sch n further my education or acquire a skill.
i dnt have any gud money to support myself when i leave d job buh i am convinced things will get beta.

Pliz i need some matured advice. no joke.

I dnt knw u. i dnt knw your sister. But i will never advice even my enemy to study anatomy or physiology. These two courses have become the goose that lays the golden egg for all n sundry in the medical world yet completely raped, trampled upon, with nothing left to make it relevant outside lecturing. Of which u hav to obtain an msc or phd before u can do so.

first degree anatomy or physiology is as useless as a used condom.

Worse still, the lecturing is becoming very competitive as mor n mor people ar now opting for msc n phd in these disciplines.

Even the so called medical doctors ar now clamoring for lecturings jobs in anatomy n physiology. I dnt knw what has hapnd to the hippocratic oath they took to care for d sick n improve our health care.

i am a graduate of anatomy.

who brought this sh1t to front page?
btw@op, who d hell are u? u must be a fuckin broke nigga to post this piss.

lol@ RockyT. funny..o boy u ve got a point thre.

but what is the danger in using a phone in a filling station? is there any scientific backing to support the fire disaster claim?

I was at a filling station today to buy petrol along Ada George road in Port Harcourt, n was of the salesperson was really mad at me when i brought out my fone to receive a call. She shouted at me 3 times to shift or leave d filling station before i cause a fire disaster. After making the call outside, i came back to inquire why she reacted that way only for she n other persons at the filling station to heap mor blames n rebuke me even more for daring to complain. the truth is, this is the first time i am hearing this.

Now my questn is this, is it really true that a cell phone could cause fire at a petrol station? if this is true, hw come, they have not placed warning posters in that regard like they do for smoking?

If u agree to this, pliz kindly enlighten us. if u ve faced this kind of harrasment before pliz lets hear u.

I was at a filling station today to buy petrol along Ada George road in Port Harcourt, n was of the salesperson was really mad at me when i brought out my fone to receive a call. She shouted at me 3 times to shift or leave d filling station before i cause a fire disaster. After making the call outside, i came back to inquire why she reacted that way only for she n other persons at the filling station to heap mor blames n rebuke me even more for daring to complain. the truth is, this is the first time i am hearing this.

Now my questn is this, is it really true that a cell phone could cause fire at a petrol station? if this is true, hw come, they have not placed warning posters in that regard like they do for smoking?

If u agree to this, pliz kindly enlighten us. if u ve faced this kind of harrasment before pliz lets hear u.

imagine the traffic dis thread is generating! with all these plenty dudes viewing dis thread!! hmm..nawao! Nigerians hav been hipocrites since 2000bc

in ibibio(akwa ibom)

keed 1
iba 2
ita 3
inaañ 4
ition 5
itiokeed 6
itiaba 7
itiaita 8
usukeed 9
duob 10
duobokeed 11
duobeba 12
duobeta 13
duobenaañ 14
efīd 15
efidekeed 16
efīdeba 17
efīdeta 18
efidenaañ 19
edīb 20
edib mme keed 21
edib mme eba 22
edib mme ta 23
edib mme naañ 24
edib mme ition 25
edib mme itiokeed 26

and then u continue in dat sequence

30 is edib mme duob
40 is aba
50 is aba mme duob
60 is ata
70 is ata mme duob
80 is anaañ
90 is anaañ mme duob
100 is ikie
200 is ikie iba
1000 is ikie duob
2000 is ikie edïb
10,0000 is ikie anaan mme edib
and then u can continue till one million. though its pretty long in terms of writing.

Well, i might not hav d liver to take my own life coz of biblical injunctions buh am seriously wishing to get knocked down to death by a vehicle or shot in d head by stray bullets one of these days. infact these days anytime i wakeup in d morning i feel angry n lousy. i get angry for not dying in my sleep or smthing..i mean am fed up..so fed up, f*ckin fed up..fed up, fed up n fed up!!!!! oh....gosh!! These are some of the reasons;

1. i feel i really suck. i hate everythin abt my body n stature.

2. Gosh..i hate life. it is so unfair(i cant say more...but i hate it)

3. i hate my siblings. all of them n my dad. they hav all disappointd me. my mum is okay..but i am tired of seeing her go thru so much hardship.

4. All my passions have been dashed coz of LACK n poor living conditions. nothing to keep the fire in me anymore. no fun, no laughter n no hope. Church isnt even helping matters coz they all want us to have faith n hope in God inspite of the weather, so i cant even talk to any of them. i am tired of hopin n prayin n sowing seeds...things arnt wrkin!!

5. i am tired of fighting n hating myself for having feeling for guys lik me. it started wen i was molested by an older classmate bak in boardin sch( i curse dat day). All thru my uni days i fought it n yet the feelings wudnt go away and now i am gradually becoming bisex(sobs).

6. i hate Nigeria. i want to leave this country. i dream of living in a ranch in a countryside in europe or close to a beach in a saner society whre human rights ar respected. living conditions are better, a place whre bribery n corruption isnt the order of the day.

7. i wanna write poetry n fiction again. i want to sing again...i want a bohemian life. i want to marry a fine woman. i want to be happy. i want to further my education. i want to take up responsibilities. i am tired of what Nigeria is giving me.

IF I LIVE AND GROW OLD, I WOULD BUILD A FOUNDATION TO CATER FOR DEPRESSED PEOPLE. I FEEL SO HORRIBLE.

i am not behaving like a learner. that thing is not working. i tried it several times. they ended up asking me two secret quetions which i cudnt answer.

Mrcdorv: go to their contact us page please stop behaving like a leaner

@mrcdorv, hw do i contact yahoo?

please someone with useful knowledge should kindly advice me on what to do. i feel so miserable. i cant access my email for weeks now coz i forgot my password. i have tried the "help options" and "forgot your password option" but it is not working coz all the links they are sending is to my old email, that i abandoned years ago and the password is something i cant even think of. i know you will be wondering why i forgot my password. the truth is i have changed my password severally following an alert from yahoo to do so for security reasons. now i got it all mixed up. i dont knw which is which. i have tried going through facebook but it isnt working as well. please kindly help with useful info. God bless u!

In a world where there is seasoning like thyme. This is your seasoning, thyme to shine again....

*Yawns* anye anamdie?

He shud take SIN away frm d world. In my judgement i think 'Sin' (frm Adam n Eve) is d bedrock of al our misery n misfortune here on earth. Its only by takin it away dat we can get bk dat paradise dat he once gave us.

@op. Dis guy i love u die(am nt gay tho.) ur English just dey sweet me dey go, evn ur reply sef.. See I'm a writer equaly n i lik makin fwends too. D world needs ur kind. Just dial me 080..nah dnt wori use my facebk ID- Hector DePenMan Etuk

As a fiction writer, i get veri hapi weneva i'm able 2 finish up a story, read thru n smile at al d lies i'v told in a creative way. I luv art wrk too, i have dis gf hu is readin visual arts in uni n i enjoy hangin out wit her in their art studio in sch while i walk around, appreciatin, touchin n takin pictures of beautiful art wrks in display. I love music 2 a large extent especialy soul, rock n roul, and jazz. I enjoy sight seeing n d gud feel of nature in an isolatd place. I usualy love watching winners emerge in a music or beauty contest, athletes hu mk 1st 2 d finish line. I love d applause, d hrt rentin emotions nd tearful joy dat follow afta their win. I enjoy teaching young ppl n watchin their innocent but keen interest as they learn frm me. I like helping, motivatin n preachin d gud news 2 ppl..THESE ARE BASICALLY WHAT MK ME HAPPY. Dnt yab me 2 much if u think am freaky. I'm just being real.

Hw did u knw, him don Bleep u b4?

i did well. worked on my hobby, wrote two new fiction with over eighty poems. somedays, i was on ma laptop all day, browsing and downloading. i did a little of painting and travelling. wow! i went to Enugu. i like the hilly landscape and the red soil.

I,ll murder the world, then run to heaven and stay with God

Re: What Physical Features Turn You Off In Men?
« #6 on: January 15, 2006, 11:10 PM »

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1.hairy chest
2.hairy legs, hairy armpits
3. bad hygiene
4. gapped-tooth
5.big nose
6. short guyz short guyz in general turn me off
7. guyz that are not in shape
8. beards, or unkept beards
9. guyz tha
WELL, I PITY U SO MUCH COZ U MIGHT END UP NOT EVEN GETTING ANY OF THESE MEN TALK LESS OF THE ONES THAT DO NOT HAVE THESE FEATURES. CAN U CREATE A HUMAN BEING? SCHEWWWWW

well, 4 me i think this shoudnt be a topic of discussion. let us all keep our preferences 2 ourselfs nd jst be careful of hw we make our choices. aftrall it is often said that GOOD THINGS COME IN SMALL PACKAGES,

i wanted 2 read medicine bt i right nw i am reading Anatomy. i enjoy d course though, bt am kind of skeptical wen it comes to job satisfaction wen i finally graduate. does anyone has any idea 4 me?