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He hasn't gotten PR and he is treating you like this. What will happen when he gets it?

Use your head. Apart from companionship and the feeling of having a "man", what else do you gain from being with him?

siofra:
Most Nigerian men can't even handle a woman properly in bed.

Na American men Dem de cheat with?

They have proposed. All we can do is to say yes.

Omo. How?

So true.

We can see him cooking for 22 people now that's all that matters. This woman is just speculating.

This is what happens when you make school a center of your life. You use it as a reference to judge people. Mean while, it's just a phase. Nothing more. Nobody in history ever excelled at every single thing they did, we should just strive to be better.

They can be the center of attention. With that gravitational pull.

richeeyo:
If you a decent type, you build her to your taste positively and in the other room, do what ever to her

Via plastic surgery?

I have personally been in this situation at two different times in my life. I had no attraction whatsoever to the body of the first and the face of the second. Also, the onset of these affairs did not rhyme with the usual pattern of the chase and subsequent yielding by the babe. They had happened due to proximity, friendship, shared interests and other factors. But we were exclusive at a point.

Both relationships ended amicably and we're currently still friends. However I was the one who initiated the break-ups.
They were basically perfect in other aspects; character, knacks (most virile guys can knack even in the absence of outright sexual attraction), cooking, financially, sensible mindset etc. Even though they still had the normal scoin-scoin that women usually have

Breaking up had nothing to do with me feeling I could do better (they bin get toasters on a regular, na just say dem no just be my physical spec). That feeling of having to lie numerous times cos you don't mean it everytime you tell her: "you're beautiful". Or not ever having their photograph in your mind's eye cos there's really nothing there that you want to save. Or everything that should be sensual having to feel mechanical to you. These are not feelings that one wants to battle with everyday.
Most importantly I felt they deserved to be with someone who would be awed constantly by their glory. It's not easy mehn cos I feel as a guy physical attraction is a big factor all things being equal.

I know we will all grow old and wrinkly but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't appreciate what we appreciate
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Have you dated someone you were not physically attracted to? How was the experience?

Goldiggers do not count.

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fowlyansh181:
drop number lemme contact you

Which ones are you interested in and what do you want to swap them with?

I also have Project Cars.

chrisseun:
Tlou remastered or I buy your games

Sorry bro, I've played TLOU remastered. I only want to swap cos I need new games as I don play these ones tire.

chrisseun:
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Which games do you have to Swap?

ShopNextDoor:
Lesser games

You wey know?

Middle Earth: Shadow of War
God of War 4
WWE 2K19
Rainbow 6 Siege

All for Swap. Lesser games can be combined.
Location: Abuja.

Some ladies that drink and smoke (Especially kush) can be more peaceful than some that don't. It all just boils down to the person's nature. I'd rather have them as friends though. Two chimneys shouldn't start a family.

Na you throw all the tantrums for this your write up. Is her name Olivia? Kahn? Cos she's just catching tantrums left right and center.

Even you sef. Will you allow your family member to marry Pepper?

You asked for brutal honesty. I'll give you as much as I can:
1. Do you know that things are only going to get worse if you get married to him?

2.Have you ever told yourself the truth, that you both aren't compatible?

3. Have you ever considered the possibility that you might have been used to complete his documents after the first failed attempt?

4. Why haven't you left? A Mid 30s man won't change for nobody. Don't be sucked into a future you can't bear because you gave into the sunken cost fallacy. The fact that you have invested so much be it financially, emotionally or physically doesn't mean squat if the hope for appropriate returns is weak. Pull out before you end up investing what you can't afford to lose.

Just start your journey to single motherhood. If he's into crime, it's just a matter of time before he gets caught. If you don't have already, please look for a support system that is not a single man.

Maybe the D is so good as to blind you from the glaring red flags. So good that you're willing to bet the rest of your life and that of your innocent daughter. I'm just a random internet stranger. What do I know?