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cococandy:
Young below 25. Preferably 22. Must be financially well to do.

Oh and no sex. Prior sexual activity disqualifies her.
Must be exclusively his but also be willing to be subject to his whims. Be tolerant and obedient when he’s exercising his polygamous rights. No questions.

When he’s done with other women, she’ll use her money to buy laundry detergent and wash their scent off him.

What did I miss?

begoniaa:
No be the same way I agree say you fit marry good woman? Read up too, it's there. You feel pity? My own heart breaks for your future wife. Even you sef don dey feel hurt for am already. I know say you go deny, I am not expecting anything different.

begoniaa:
Oh, now I am the one denying?

But when I said you were denying up there too, you told me it's life.

Pray tell, you are the only one who knows how to speak facts about life?

The life that will apply to you as a bad man will not apply to me as a bad woman?

Look, Oga, I don tell you say make you drop this matter.

It is either we're BOTH going to be in denial or we'll both enjoy a blissful marital life as bad people. It will be either one. It cannot be true for you alone as per say na only you like better thing; mba.

begoniaa:
We don't care about you too. We won't end up with you... now stop making predictions about our relationships to our sweet, loving, handsome, rich, industrious, sensible, kind, sexually adventurous and faithful GOOD MEN.

Na life.

Just goan and rest your oars at this point and don't argue it with me unless we'll start going back and forth again.

begoniaa:
Uh uh. Uh uh. Uh uh. Na watin I no dey like be this. This is what I don't always like o. And you people will be saying I am doing too much.

Oga, we don settle this na! Why did you feel the need to go an add the "but" clause and conditions again? Why? Na winch? Ahan!

You say you don't want bad women. You say you will end up with a good woman, because life. Fine and good. I did not argue.

Why is it now killing you to see the bad women ending with good men too, that you still have to denigrate their choices? If you won't roll with them after everyone is married, then what is your fking business? If you will be happy in your relationship with a good, beautiful, kind and industrious woman, why do you think she will not be happy in her marriage with an handsome, kind, industrious and caring man?

No offense, but you know it is wizardry tendencies, right? Seeking your own happiness, moving on with your life and yet still hoping or wishing another person not to get the same thing!

Tell me why all the things that will play out in a bad woman's marriage will not play in your own marriage as a bad man. Mtcheeeewwwww.

folake4u:
Dear Mr. Hed0nist,

You say times have changed right? Why then do we see chants of my wife must be a virgin littered all over Nairaland by your fellow men?

You've dated good women? Impressive. So why then did y'all break up?

I'm glad you said your ex(es) have sense. Thank God for that.

Nigerian women have really suffered sha, na really use and dump.

You sef, why didn't you keep your virginity? Why are you allowing Nigerian women to sleep with you everywhere?
Why are you allowing Nigerian women fuçk you for free?

No SANE Nigerian woman likes men that have plenty body count oh. Ah ah.

begoniaa:
Exactly. And to the shame of scorners, the same life will give bad women good husbands. You know, the LOTS that have been passed around that y'all are hoping to avoid.

Whatever fate will dish to you as a bad man, it will dish to us "bad women" too. So a win-win for everybody.

folake4u:
@the bolded. Interesting.

I been nor wan chook mouth this night but Omo, Sheybi y'all have been chanting that a woman's honour is tied to her virginity?

What do you mean by pass around?

Hmmm@ evil virgins. So such exist? Interesting.

begoniaa:
No problem. Continue to deceive yourself if it'll make you feel better. Who am I to deny you the feeling and highness that comes from it?

Go on enjoying your night...

begoniaa:
Ehen... I was going to respond to you before that ediot that calls himself Hannah Montana or whatever dropped his shìtty take.

You ehn, I am not even understanding your comment at all. Firstly, If you had good women all around you, why then did you comment that you are LOOKING FOR a FEW of the desirable ones? If you are not looking for a wife, why is this thread your business?

Secondly, shey I ask if you are deserving of the desirable ones now. See? So you are not a good man, but you believe you will or you want to end up with a good woman, ba? How? The math is not mathing right, please.

pocohantas:
Looks like it is all of you though. At least all the high valued ones that would reject 5m/month job.

begoniaa:
You people know another funny thing? Of allllll the comments here, asin in 99% of them, no one is seriously considering or recommending a virgin. Like, like, nobody has mentioned virginity as a standard for picking or approaching a woman since yesterday -- with the exception of that under 15 ashewoboy/Nyarescobar1414 or whatever.

Why naw? Don't tell me this is the effect of reality o? Ehn. You people finally rubbed your redpill pioneer on Nairaland potopoto.

But God of Non-Virgins, I thank you ooo. You're doing a marvellous and wonderful thing in our sight. That I will finally see the day that NL men are not shouting about marrying a virgin. E choketh!

begoniaa:
Few?

You still must be living in la la land. All Women Are Like That - take it to the bank.

pocohantas:
Your post sounded otherwise. You can send this thread to your friend. I believe the tips here would guide him.

It is nice to know men are looking for wives actively. I thought Nigerian men have stopped marrying (NIGERIAN) WOMEN.

SeaTrade:
True,
About appearance,I take it seriously.
Who are the women that'll easily notice your eligibility from your appearance?
Mostly independent ones whose got taste,and definitely their age go don high.
What I was talking about is young,homely middleclass dependents with a good head and reserved.
This ones aren't superficial, just be clean and smart and you're good to go.
But the question is,how do you now see them?
They come out either with their boyfriends,large group of friends or family.
If you no dey that circle, you no go fit access them.
Na wetin I dey talk be that.
I know you can get them from school,but as a man coming from outside ,to identify which is which go hard,before you go carry one wild undercover trenches trapqueen
We always look sharp out here,always!

Nonexisting:
In your dreams. Continue giving yourself excuse for your failures.

Beebah2000:
you collect loan from them, time reach for you to pay, u dey shout say na criminal organisation.
E seems like say na only you be the dummy for here.
Just admit say u no get the money to pay back, no dey make noise.
If u see them now, u no go fit talk anything.

Nonexisting:
It's just 200k now but you didn't have it which was why you went to borrow. Go and repay your loan and be free. This is why people remain poor. You may think there's no record of your default somewhere but the day it will come back to bite you, you'll cry blood I tell you. Integrity pays and loan repayment is one good test of integrity.

Nonexisting:
Oga, go and repay your loan. The day you were requesting it, you probably were beginning like man wey dey beg for pussy at 12am midnight but here you are now mocking the same people that came to your rescue in time of need. You all go to church asking God to bless your businesses whereas you are killing another's man business, how will He bless your own? Go and repay your loan before thunder fire you now.

Flacko225:
I actually created this thread to tell my story, so here it goes.
So, before this ASUU strike wahala started there was this one girl that I thought was mine. From time to time, I'd share money that I had with her, if I had 5k I'd give her 2k and I continued like that until one very unfortunate week where I had gone broke and I needed about 200 naira to pay for a group assignment and I swear to god mehn I didn't have 200 naira, school sapa is the worst iykyk. Sha I asked this girl if she could help me with 200 naira, heck I even explained the whole situation to her told her that the assignment was worth 30 marks and if I lose those marks I'd just fail the course because it's one werey lecturer that teaches it. Trust me, nothing could have prepared me for her reply this girl looked me dead in the eye and said "I'd rather buy biscuits with that money instead of giving you". Omo I cried to my hostel that day nobody could console it was when I told my guys that they eventually gave me 500 naira to pay for the assignment. Since then I've been very stingy as hell, the girl still textse from to time telling me she's broke and everytime she does that I tell her I'm broke too. Once bitten, twice shy.

UpInTheSky:
Are there any decent, responsible males in your family who can
talk some sense into them/put them in check + serve as a mentor for them?

Or better yet, call the Police on them and maybe even have them spend 2-3 days in jail.
You'd want to show them that that's where they will end up if they don't start behaving.

ernie1234:
Bro that is exactly my wife you just described. We have been married for 10 years. I had serious issues with her and battled with issues of kissing which she doesn't like, pre-intimacy for where, she only likes direct.
We are both believers so I had to endure it overtime and as we speak now bro, I had to find a way to leave with it bro. I now enjoy her just the way it is and had to enjoy our sex life with 2 kids. My brother It's not easy oh but I had to discipline myself that I die with my wife no matter what.

I fear God so I don't want to engage in adultery or any kind of nonsense with other Jezebel ladies. My advise get used to it. Give her time she will adjust.

Whiteheartbit:
Hello naira landers.

Wayne1994:
Alright dis is personal but I think it best I share it with my nairaland family. Pls no insult cos if I truly understand I won't stress u guys with my worries.
Nw, my wife is having an issue. She is finding it hard to get pregnant and I think it infection cos whenever we are having sex some whitish, creamy and stuffs usually comes out from her body and it pushes sperm back too.
So pls who knows anything about dis and hw it can cured, I love her and I don't want to make it an issue so am looking for solutions on our to flush or treat dat stuff from her system.
Thanks for ur contributions I really appreciate