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cicikhemy:
I'm not married yet so forgive my advice to a married man.

Forbearance is one of the most important virtue in marriage because it shows your level of love and understanding. Check 1Cor 13: 4-8
As Christians, we ought to possess this virtue before thinking about marriage because the Bible doesn't support divorce.

I will advise that you forgive your wife, express how you feel to her and pray to The Holy Spirit to help and comfort you to forgive your wife totally.

Which Bible do you use? Cos the Bible I know supports divorce in cases of infidelity.

Notatribalist:
You're here on nairaland dashing out useless advice. Didn't you see where he said he is partly responsible by denying her sex?He just admit error and you're here talking nonsense.. OP,if you know truly you denied her sex kindly go bring her back and make some amendment, but if she continue in her unholy way kiss her goodbye.

The woman is totally at fault abeg. That He neglected the sexual aspect does not mean that he outrightly denied her sex. It is even what he felt might have caused the cheating after some self reflection on his part.

From what the OP wrote it did not seem that the wife even brought it up for discussion and he refused. She just went ahead to collect dick in a house that he paid for, possibly in the presence of a child that might even not be his.

Nigga should let the hoe go.

Bye Bish.
Let me be useless on my own. As if you're anything special.

Potash

daddytime:
And these are role models to the youths?

This is the only thing Buhari has ever gotten spot on, his description of the youths of Nigeria.

You are right. But the old people who have bled the country dry are worse.

fredricko1:
Why is credit not given to the author of this article?

The OP actually cares about their welfare.

Crush ba? I was like 6 years old. Yellow and sweet. But they've stopped manufacturing the drink. Atleast where I live.

Shakurr:
You make a good point bro
But this my grl, whenever I start talking about sex matter she start saying she is feeling uncomfortable bla bla
The thing dey vex me,and is not that I don't love her oh ,me no just wan fool mAh self

The first thing here is to make sure she likes you and is actually attracted to you (not all these relationship due to application of pressure). If not you're wasting your time.

Stop talking about sex with her. You're giving her too much power. While romancing don't make any attempt to actually mekwe. Kiss her, suck her nipples, squeeze her ass, caress her thighs etc. Just turn her the hell on. If it's your thing and she lets you, give her sloppy head. Once.

After that time act disinterested in sex during subsequent meetings. You'll still kiss and hug o. But na there e go end. Very mild. Don't ask directly. Don't suffocate her. If she's attracted to you, y'all would fucck soon. Cos she'll be the one to escalate. Don't forget to scope other non oloshos and knack them to maintain sense of self and confidence.

What I know is that many dumb Mofos use atheism as a crutch to seem intellectually superior. Just like how many spineless Mofos use Redpill and Mgtow for validation.

TimiRume:
Dorathy is winning big brother season 5, I say this boldly by faith.

Say it with your full chest.

cuteboy2:
Ozo forcing a hug on Nengi. Babe no feel am at all. Na another thing from another person she want.

Ozo try receive brain nau!!

Kemen coming up shortly.

dukeprince50:
not interested

Toh. Just tell her to stop the things that are irritating you. You mustn't knack everything.

SweetCunt97:
I see nothing bad in wanting to have a platonic friendship with a male who wants you. Is it better she makes him into an enemy?

It's easier to b attracted to a kidwayya than a laycon let's all b sincere and pls forget about his money or who his father is. Don't you all see the masculinity? The physique? Haba. Laycon hot brains shey na brains she go chop? Is she a zombie?

Let's simply be critical in our thinking and leave d needless sentiments biko.


Same way the laycon carry him ojukokoro eye go Erica side, him for attach to Lucy naw

For your first paragraph, it is better for you and the "friend" to de una different de. Only works if you just want to be selfish. For the guy it is like imagine constantly being at a full sumptuous dining table and not being able able to eat anything because of one thing or the other. Everyday. In the same house. I'm surprised the guy still turned out well.

Nothing on the other paragraphs.

dukeprince50:
its not about ugly or beauty, I just like the woman enough not to have any sexual relationship wit her

Sex does not have the value we ascribe to it. She wants to be knacked by you. If it is something you can help her with then go ahead. The best help is given when doing so has a toll.

Banging her does not have to have anything to do with respect and all those things. You can be knacking and still continue to relate normally. That is the height of MATURITY.

loommoney:
The best advice i can give you my brother is that you should fvck her. Except she is very ugly. That 40 years puci will be tighter than that church girl

Real spit

switlily25:
You expect her to hide her romance with Kidd from laycon in that confined space?
I don't get it!

It's the PDAs that are the problem. You know the house isn't just a single large room. There are compartments, rooms.
Vee said it best when Ebuka tried to put her on the spot.

codedguy1:
You first sentence, was it a question? If it was.

He has a right to catch feelings, its his prerogative.

I ask you again, did Laycon express his feelings to Erica? Answer the question.

You are catching feelings for a girl you are friends with, you did not say anything to her, then your not so close friend comes along to toast the babe and they are doing PDA in front of you are you are vexing that she doesn't consider your feelings.

Which feeling gwa?

You are not wrong. Speaking of explicit expression, there is no record of Kiddwaya stating exclusivity between him and Erica. Hence Erica should have no cause for unhappiness.

switlily25:
oh please!
Did she agree to date laycon?

She didn't. But she knew he liked her. And she called herself his friend. Yet she kept romancing someone else in his full view. Many other instances even apart from truth or dare.

codedguy1:
Oga action speaks louder than words. She called him special friend but also went further to kiss him.

Did she do same with Laycon, she emphasized mental connection and wanted yo keep it that way. That Laycon started catching feeling was his problem.

Anybody has a right to catch feelings. But Erica has no iota of consideration for that of Laycon's. She shouldn't refer to herself as his friend.

akthedream2019:
So if you are dating or married to a guy, you won't kiss him in the presence of your toaster/mental friend?

Then you don't worth being a girlfriend /wife then..

Do you think Layton's girlfriend will be happy watching Laycon touch and press yansh every Saturday night ?

Now You See Laycon is no sent.... Let him to and meet his girlfriend outside if he want sex and kiss.

You're refusing to acknowledge a lot of nuances. She claims Laycon is her friend. Yet she doesn't mind doing PDA with Kidd in his presence even when she knows he wants to be with her and such actions hurt him. You might want to argue that she doesn't know it hurts but if that is true then she isn't his friend and should fucck off.

Any gbege she enters with Kidd, like getting those two strikes for instance she'll be looking for Laycon for consolation. When she gets better, it's back to kissing Kidd in Laycon's very before.

Now Kiddwaya doesn't want to commit because of other bumbums, she wants Laycon to do what? Provide his minute shoulder to cry on? She should look for a thick chest to cry on. Or better; a thick hand to choke her sobs.

codedguy1:
Were they going out? Did Laycon ask Erica out.

Abeg dead this nonsense.

Abegi. Show me where Kiddwaya asked anyone out. They're just special friends.

When Erica was always kissing Kiddwaya in Laycon's presence she did not know e use to pain?

Brubembem:
Lies! There are things you don't argue, else you end up making a fool of yourself. Like, how can one even compare Nengi to Erica in terms of beauty?

As it stands now in the house,

Lucy is the most domesticated and organized lady in the house.

Erica is the prettiest.

Wathoni has the best shape[No artificial]

Ozo is the most gentle, calm and reserved.

Bright is the cunniest.

Kidd is the most confident and blunt.

Prince is an all rounder.

Anyone who tries to argue any of the above is either trolling or not watching the show.

Na wild animal before?