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LasLas:
I am actually seeing some feminism traits in her and some other issues.... Sometimes now her talks irritates me

Shibaraba:
Divorce came to mind because she did something either consciously or subconsciously and you hated it.

We wey dey the institution na prison we dey we no fit comot.
We dey push am like that. Wishing we weren't
But then again no one loves going down alone
So please marry. Make you feel wetin we dey feel

Obinnau:
Before when I hear such kinds of stories about someone sleeping while his home is being raided, I do think it is a lie... But not until it happened to me. And till this day, I couldn't explain how 2 guys could be in a room, a forced entry and total ransack of my room and we didn't wake up until they were at the gate.
Jazz is real people.

Taiyescott:
Women grab us now ooo.. We men are Limited editions oo

luminouz:
Donbachi,..PhenomenaMorgan....why in hell are u entertaining these girls na You are wasting ur time with them.

amazontopaz said her mum isn't submissive in her own home to her husband...and BOOM,aunty came out with a lot of emotional drivel,even likened a man's superiority in a home to being able to beat a woman to submission I mean WTF.

The other breakeroficecream came with her own yarn and all I see are twisted facts and I wonder why these girls type as if dem no go marry abi na dem go pay their own bride price ni? These ones love shouting Dont blah blah to men..blah blah and I wonder why she shouts so much about men on her posts...

The fiery/efufulele one came and started dancing crazily on mentions,further muddling and scattering the whole discourse. She barbecued any sense left out of the other feministas points. Why are these girls so confused?

What I've learned is this...NL versions of feminist are worse than chameleons...they want equal right, yet not equal responsibilities... N they are fvckin hypocrites...I won't be surprised if they are in a man's house right now,doing the do,then cooking and cleaning for him too...only to come online and start all these.

Linda ikeji comes to mind when I read these kinda posts.

partnerbizz4:
All these baloney are for males like me, who are poor

Women keep saying one thing but doing the opposite.
Women are not seen or treated as commodities.

But it is what they have made themselves.

They have openly kept themselves as objects to be bought by the highest bidder -- applying the law of demand and supply. This hitherto, had been there albeit subtly.



Look at Ned and Regina. Why on earth did Regina leave the young, handsome boyfriend for Ned? Love?

The man bought her. Simple. Like you go to a car stand and buy a benz.
Look
Ubi franklin and his mamas
Iara and Oshiomhole
Davido, WizKids and mamas. Why would chioma stick with Davido for 5 years?

In these 5 years he had imprenated many girls, yet she stayed put. Why? Because of money, fame and affluence.


I admit that there are exceptions like the Jeff Bezoz's wife but it's just few.


So no need playing the victims. Women made themselves commodities. They aren't treated as such but they made themselves so.


At any rate, I won't support the slut shaming of women as seen in this forum. I also understand why men do it. It's survival instinct. Only a few would understand.

Shout out to my nigga franchasng.

King44:
if this is actually the true story no added spices and maggi, I think his his mom would eventually get her frustrated if she start living with them.

Why not speak to you husband to get a job where you live now and take and take care of his parents from there by sending them money etc

For how long will he continue to have his mom around everywhere he goes, speak to him and moreover if you allow your husband to live in ML or Nig while he comes once a while to visit I am sorry you guys would eventually end up apart, think about the impact of such thing on you and your child or children if you truly love your spouse talk to him about it but if he insists you might have to let his mother come live you guys over there, it will be better than you living with them here in Ng

lastly, forget about what she said when you were pregnant she won't harm your child her grand child, I think she is just this kind of annoying person who rants unreasonably and want people to bend to her will, with some good elderly advice from the right persons or relative you would cope with her successfully plus you still have to speak to your husband and let him know he can't continue to ignore ugly situation when he is suppose to act for instance when that utterance came out from her mouth he is suppose to calm her control the situation, go to his mom later and speak to her let her know what she said was wrong and try to have things work out between you guys

this type of occurrence happens everywhere

dingbang:
Mum doesn't get to visit my house within the first five years of marriage!

Hits the gavel!!

Biggermembersro:
Some people's sole aim in this world is to provoke people intentionally, I am a "slow to react to anger" kind of person and I always stay in my lane and mind my business, once I smell trouble coming from afar, I run to the opposite direction as fast as my leg can carry me, I come from a tribe where you have to respect elders no matter the situation same as what my Bible says so what gives abeg.......


My husband always praise his mum cos she trained him to med school here in U.S.A, of course who wouldn't just like I don't joke with my dad cos he did well for his six kids, so he adores his mum, praises her in every situation, always at her beck and call, I didn't see it as a big deal cos, well, it's his mum, we met here in NY, he and his family stay in Maryland while I was schooling in NY, the plan was when we get married I'll go back and forth till I finish school then move to Maryland, so I took in, you know first pregnancy how difficult it is, so one of those days i went to ML for the weekend one time, during that period, his mum had a get together so everyone is expected to be there, being in my first trimester, I was sick and told her I can't be there, she insisted and I told her I'll try, when the time came I was too ill to go anywhere so I didn't go, all for his mum to come later that night and was shouting saying and I quote "when I tell my son your husband to run he will run, even if I tell him to jump he will do just that so who are you to tell me you can't come, what silly sickness, if I blow that your belly, highest is you'll loose the pregnancy and then take in again,nothing is going to happen" that is exactly what she said, I was shocked, my husband was there looking he didn't say anything, his father was there, he shouted at her that why would she say something like that, his mum shut him down saying all manner of unsayable things because she was more like the breadwinner, his sister, that one cannot talk if not the mother will insult her very existence just because she got pregnant out of wedlock but she still married the father ooo, me, my mouth was open, I couldn't talk cos I dont even know what to say, when they left hubby didnt even try to ease my mind or anything, the next day I jejely left for NY, vowing that my leg will never step into ML anymore.

Sincerely I was tempted to abort and divorce my husband because I don't understand how someone can say evil like that, even if it was a joke, that was nonsense, since then I've been in NY, I gave birth here, Dre has been the one coming here, it's not like me and his mum don't talk, she calls and we talk, sometimes I call too, all for recently, infact last week Dre says he got an opening for a job here and he wants to take it, I blatantly told him NO, because his parents couldnt work anymore due to health and all so they are staying with him in ML, him moving here means his mum will do that too, I told him no that I like things the way they are, no issues, nothing, I cannot stay in the same house with his mum because we will have issues that one is certain, he started shouting, I reminded him of what his mother said two years ago, he now said it is the past, which past? Now that I'm working I am expected to leave my babies with her, call me delusional the instinct of a mother is to protect her children, even if she may not do anything, we will still have issues and I don't want that before someone say I'm disrespectful when I talk back.

If I decide to turn American now, I'll just tell him he can't bring anyone here without my permission, but no, I won't tell him that, some of their laws here is stupid to be honest and I'm a nice person and I was born and bred in the north in Nigeria also I don't want to escalate issue, I am the only one here, my family is in Nigeria and i never mentioned any of this to them so it won't turn to family issues, now he's not talking to me saying he will take drastic measures, it will not pass divorce and custody battle of which I know I will win but I don't want that for my kids, they need their parents in the same home not divorced, my own is he should stay where he is and take care of his parents and continue worshiping his mum, is it that hard?

I dey vex abeg, pls advice on other options fam.

ishawlar:
Let Dre come to nairaland and narrate his own part of the story cos i can't jurge by hearing from one person. Dre ur hearing is next week.

Asemark:
Keep your Degree in a safe custody for future opportunity, and engage in entrepreneur skills, otherwise you will die poor.
Most of the educated people in Nigeria are poor. Majority of the educated earn less than N55,000 for a salary before tax and other deductions. When the deductions are put into consideration, the net salary comes to around N50,000. The net salary then suffers from loan deductions of up to N15,000 leaving the salary at around N35,000. The landlord then demands for his N15,000 and monthly shopping takes away N10,000 leaving one with a N10,000. The bus will demand for N300 going to and from work and relatives get another N2,500. The whole salary is gone and borrowed money starts operating. The borrowed money includes short loans and salary advances.
The difference between poverty and prosperity is property. A prosperous person has property to his name while a poverty stricken person has no property to show. Using this understanding, therefore, most of the degree holders are poverty stricken, borrowing money to buy chicken and chips, pizza, and a car.
The biggest excuse for getting paid such low amounts of money and having to sit and work for another person for 30 days is THE DEGREE that one possesses and that’s all. This has made most of the degree holders very poor to poverty stricken and will die that way most likely. A degree holder does not know how to generate money unless that money is generated for the employer. A degree holder is so dependent on the salary that he can do anything to get a job but will not think of starting a business of his own to employ others.
Interesting Facts!
1. A degree holder is not prepared to sell chips but is very happy to work for hungry lion (companies).
2. A degree holder is not prepared to sell popcorn in the street but is very happy to work for Dangote outlet in the city and mum river-sides.
3. A degree holder is not prepared to sell second hand clothes but is very happy to be employed by Zenith Bank which the business of selling stocks and looking for customers in a scorching Sun.
4. A degree holder is not prepared to make N150,000 monthly doing his own business but is very happy to work at the till in a bank getting paid N25,000.
5. A degree holder is not prepared to start a company and grow it in two to three years but will spend three years searching for a job.
6. A degree holder is not prepared to sell food to students but will be happy to be reporting to a boss with no qualifications as Office Assistant as long as he is paid N30,000 for a salary.
7. A degree holder is so eager to get out of this country and work in another country than spend time to develop his own country.
8. A degree holder staying in a foreign land (Nigerian) is very keen to condemn Nigeria but never contributing to the development of this country.
9. A Nigerian degree holder would rather sweep the streets of London or USA than start a business to make money in her father land – others work in people’s homes doing some work (cleaners).
10. A degree holder in Nigeria will watch porn on his laptop but never sit to write a book using the same laptop to sell and make money.
11. A degree holder will blame the government for lack of jobs even after he was on government bursary for him to have his degree.
12. Nigeria is blessed with young people who have master’s degree and others are doctors in different technical fields such as IT and Engineering but all of them have failed to create a cartoon character or develop a movie from the same instead very happy to buy Tom and Jerry for their children thereby promoting American and UK.
A school I visit, there is a man that is of very humble background. He does not speak English but sells Coke, Fanta and Sprite at N80 each making a profit of N10 on each drink. He also sells chips at N50 making a profit of N17 on each portion. Not less than 80 students buy chips and a drink every single day. This means he makes a profit of N27 for a drink and chips and a total profit of N2,160 per day…every single day. In ten days he makes a profit of N21,600 in twenty days N43,200 and in thirty days N64,800.
The degree holder working in a bank at the till gets a salary of N45,000 every month.
Why are the degree holders poor?
Because they have decided to pride themselves in a degree and failed to think better than a man who does not have even a certificate to his name.
Degree holders spend their time liking articles on linkedIn and facebook but never have any care in the world to implement what they like. Poverty starts from the mind, a mind that just likes things but never to implement those things.
If you want to progress, keep that degree and start thinking better than someone without a degree. There's no white collar Job anywhere bro!
Be prepared to get your hands dirty and work like an ox for your business. Your hard work will pay off.
Think Success!!! Think Entrepreneurship!!!
Yours Sincerely....
fight your way to that financial freedom you seek

hisgrace090:
And we will have more than 50 countries to dump ours too.

Think of it.

SAVEDBABA:
Did you read the post atall??

Mateen1000:
Oga ,You are not in Ibadan, Type more English

maynation:
This is why Igbo girls prefer Yoruba men.
These guys are beasts.

Come and ask my Igbo neighbors.

solmusdesigns:




Okoro chestbeating Blessing Amaka....!!!,

Awon ti Nnewi Billionaire wey no dey Forbes list, Awon ti Facebook and Instagram developer, Awon ti Lagos No Mans land, LandLord, Awon ti Richest region but with lowest IGR

This ones would borrow money and Everything to go and decieve thier kerosine sharing village people during december and thier vilage people would come online and start chesbeating that their sisters and Blodas have became billionaires and own 90% of Lagos , Abuja and even Kano

happney65:
Because Olamide isnt running a charity..He is a Businessman too and a Businessman go put money for wetin go work for am.

naptu2:
A crazy person drop-kicked Arnold schwarzenegger while he was attending an event in Sandton, South Africa earlier this evening.

The crazy person was heard shouting, "Help me! I need a Lamborghini!" as he was being restrained by security guards.



https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-48322307



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdwBsjhhXGI

naptu2:
A crazy person drop-kicked Arnold schwarzenegger while he was attending an event in Sandton, South Africa earlier this evening.

The crazy person was heard shouting, "Help me! I need a Lamborghini!" as he was being restrained by security guards.



https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-48322307



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdwBsjhhXGI

PerfectlyPerfect:
guy where have you been since? Even your phone number isn't going through