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advocatejare:
But you are reading, mission is accomplished then.

You can’t unknow what you’ve known except you what to deceive yourself.

So keep knowing, the knowledge will be useful for you one day

Kimon

Am not one of them..... I don't think being a Muslim makes you special.

ANTIlSLAM:
But directly they are reading and their representatives are here isn't it?

They're not usually reading.

Their representatives are not here.

zed7:
Interesting topic. Many years back I couldn't keep a relationship for a variety of reasons.
1. I find constant keeping in touch very tiring, I just can't call everyday. I usually send a message once in 2 or 3 days, just to check in. That was a major issue amd no woman can stand that.

2. Again, I only wanted a woman around when I wanted sex only. Immediately after the deed, I usually tell them let's go out even when they want to chill and just watch a movie. I'd rather we go to a joint and have a drink or food and then I drop them home. It was quite a selfish act I know, but I was quite young.

3. Most days, I wanted to be alone and when they call and ask if I'm available, most times my answer was always no. Most girls saw me as unserious and a playboy but in actual fact I just liked my space. I nor like wahala.

I mainly just did flings and for a long time, I was a side kick, they had their main boyfriend.
When it was time to marry, I sat up, adjusted my ways and thankfully, found a woman who understands me. After all these years, she still respects my need for space.

Nothing works anywhere except by chance

sadiyamuhammad:
Some fans are seriously in severe pains over this. I think we need to tell them to start addressing the real GOAT as SIR LIONEL MESSI or else, they will lift the trophy in 2038.

What is pain?

FRANCISTOWN.....did I drive you away?


Did I offend you?


How?

Why?

I was finding our conversations interesting.

MaverickA3:
Can someone teach me how to fall in love?

This is where you start dying..... you want to learn how to ....... falling in love is not taught by anyone anyways.


It's an accidental misfortune that can lead to death by suicide , homicide,etc.

Samunique:
I've watched with amazement and bewilderment how the social media nairaland inclusive, have been filled with the stories of leaving Nigeria to other countries with the impression that, once they get there their problems are over. I think this big fat lie will hunt, and may destroy our future generations if nothing is done about it.

1. They believe once you leave the shores of this country, you have nothing to worry about again bcs automatic success is now guaranteed. If this is true, what happens to many Nigerians that are now stranded after so many years abroad ? Is the system over there a contributory factor as well

2. Government is bad !
Yes Nigerian government is very bad, if not the worst in the whole world. But then, who is the government, isn't it you and I ? Are we forgetting that a government is a product of the society and the reflection of its people ?
If the government is bad, then we're bad as a people !

This very generation of Nigerian youths is worse than the current leaders of the pass/outgoing generation they're blaming.

At least, our current leaders did not practice Yahoo Yahoo, Yahoo plus, they did not steal women pants for money ritual, they didn't engage in kidnapping for quick money etc in their time. But this generation does and even far worst things. I'm not in anyway exhonorating them bcs they have really messed up this country. But this generation is now worst than them.

Yes our pass and current leaders steal our collective wealth ? They did/do so bcs we allow them to, based on ethic, tribal and religious sentiments. In fact continuous stealing is only possible in the society of thieves and robbers. If all we could produce as leaders are thieves and looters, then that's who we all are as a people.

These same people that are preaching "JAPA" now, will never obey a simple traffic rule while in Nigeria, but they're there now throw every kind of stone against their own country.
Ask them what's their own contribution back home towards nation building.

Did they ever obey simple traffic rule?

What about paying their taxes, what was their contribution to social development and services etc ?

These things and more they're willingly do over there bcs they know that the
[b]the sicitzens of those countries make law and systems to work not even the governments, and they cannot hid under a finger. Remove the law and oder over there, and see them showing their true colours.

Lastly, I think there are some external forces behind this sudden propaganda of japa. I know Nigeria is at it worst state since it started as a nation, but if we all run away, who will rescue and build it, where would we run back to when the jungle is matured outside ?

Nations are built by their citizens.

And for those of you outside Nigeria whose job now is to mock and denigrate the country, remember your people are still leaving here.

Some are even going as far as mocking God, the two major religions, saying all manner of things against the church, mosque etc. For your information, Nigerians have always been religious, it's in our DNA. There's a time Nigeria was working, our currency was better than the British pounds. My mother's senior brothers who schooled in the UK came back to Nigeria to work, and that didn't make people less religious.

Maybe you forgot, I will remind some of you that, some of your parents wouldn't have been educated but for the help the church and missionary Schools .

https://www.nairaland.com/7495060/why-nigerians-less-religious-when/2

Build, don't destroy the Nation


Nlpf mod, DisGuy, justwise, seun, lalasticlala and co

I never had the opportunity to contribute to the progress of Nigeria.

ahiboilandgas:
i don do semi retire .my trucks dey work for me now! Both oil tankers and container! For MNC . I contribute to several thread from politics to investment . I get over
20000 likes and followers .and I have benefited from nairaland from car talk to even serious business.

Can you do anything for me?

oteneaaron:
I choose not to share my personal email on Nairaland.

Send me a message via Nairaland and I will respond via email.

Is that fine with you?

Send hi to xyz42955@gmail.com.

I can't send through this Nairaland account because I opened it with another person's phone and email when my phone was not working.


Please ,understand

oteneaaron:
Sorry for the late response man.

I'm expecting something in the coming days.

I will keep you updated.

Send me a personal message via email so I can get your account details.

Please drop your email address.

Honestly, I can't do anything about it.


All of them have said their minds so let the worst happen.

Sweetplum:
Weaken with weak erection, broke life and low self esteem talk the way you typed. They are quick to try n body shame a woman with her sexuality. You don't know if I m a virgin. Your life just dey messed up!

Nairaland atheists,??

marlow1962:
Nawa o, everywhere good my bro.

kkins25:
A little delay on my part. haven't forgotten bro!

Thanks in advance.

Let me know after sending it please.

oteneaaron:
"The kind of Deity which a man, consciously or unconsciously, worships, indicates the intellectual status of the worshipper.

Ask the Indian of God, and he will describe to you a powerful chieftain of a glorious tribe.

Ask the Pagan of God, and he will tell you of a God of fire, a God of water, a god of this, that, and the other.

Ask the Israelite of God, and he will tell you of the God of Moses, who conceived it expedient to rule by coercive measures; hence, the Ten Commandments.

Or of Joshua, who led the Israelites into battle, confiscated property, murdered the prisoners, and laid waste to cities.

The so-called heathen made “graven images” of their Gods, whom they were accustomed to worship, but among the most intelligent, at least, these images were but the visible fulcrums with which they were enabled to mentally concentrate on the qualities which they desired to externalize in their lives.

Today in the twenty-first century, billions of people worship a God of Love in theory, but in practice they make for themselves “graven images” of “Wealth,” “Power,” “Fashion,” “Custom” and “Conventionality.”

They “fall down” before them and worship them. They concentrate on them and they are thereby externalized in their lives."

- C. F. H

Can you still help me with anything, please?

kkins25:
Some claims he has sent me my document through a courier I am yet to know (believeing it is UPS). It's been a couple of months, about 5 now, and the package is yet to be delivered. The person who sent it says the customer care are not responding to him(he also has misplaced receipt) I want to assume it has lost.
I have a soft copy of the statement of results though, wondering if I can print it out as 'original'.
I don't have soft a soft copy of the Certificate.

Mod: CERT FOUND!

Can you still help me with anything please?

This is not necessarily a reply to the topic created by Crystalom5.

Or the one created about virgins/non-virgins.

Let's go straight to the point,hitting the nail on the heads alive!


If you say nobody owes me anything....,. I also owe nobody anything.


I don't owe anybody anything as well based on your reasoning........ so, even if we're talking about how guys co-exist or cease to co-exist with girls or women..., I still mean all I'm saying!!!!!



I ain't expecting anything useful from anywhere..........
Neither do I deserve anything useless.....so , what the furk does everyone wanna hear except this??


Whoever is there...., whatever that means,.... whatever you're saying as well..., whoever gives a furk about your case too,


Whether or not there was ever a reason for us to meet anywhere,


I stay Hell Victorinho............ till I'm gone ......Hell Victorinho......no matter how it sounds or how you find it.....,Hell Victorinho.......,no matter what you enjoy....no matter what you don't.....,.




Am Hell Victorinho......Hell Victorinho..... whatever will happen.. ..,, whatever happens....,, whatever happened.....Hell yeah.

Dtruthspeaker:
Die by yourself as you don dey pray to die since and life no sweet you as you don destroy yourself because you bin stupid well well. Go throw yourself inside river from one of those bridges wey full Ikorodu road or stand in front of BRT. If not you must suffer the punishment of waiting for your guaranteed punishment. Stupid Foolish Usenone thing! Dustbin!

Are you commanding me to commit suicide??

I resemble robot abi??

YoungLionken:
Exactly Vic, you nailed it..

A simple man will always beg whether right or wrong, until he says enough is enough...

Crystalom5 says you owe her your life.


He keeps defending nonsense......those girls see you as sewage.....he says it's your fault....that you're the loser in a game....... what is the meaning of such worthless game?


That's it!


According to Crystalom5 and those things....., yeah,those disasters actually,we are losers and we owe them our lives ...... let their worst happen.... I know they have male slaves ready to kill for them including Crystalom5.

Crystalom5:
MALIGNANTGuest see wetin your mate write. Oya copy am but change the words

You're defending nonsense.

Crystalom5:
again, it's a game and you're already losing really bad.

Nothing is owed you. Nothing is given for free. If she's harsh, move on.

That's how she play her own game. That's her strategy. She owes you nothing. She owes you no respect.

You're confused..... Do I owe her my life

What sort of useless strategy is that.....

Threatening to kill me?


If you have nothing useful to say...,then say nothing!


Will you threaten me too?

Crystalom5:
may be you were useless to their personal goals. Didn't you consider thar as well?

Or women don't have goals?

Their personal goals that couldn't stop them from making useless remarks because of innocent questions.


Their answers are also worthless.... same as their personal goals if they can't do without useless overreactions.

Crystalom5:
you still don't see the problem?

You assume she'll want to win with you. Bro, simply because a company is making profits doesn't mean every investor will be eager to put their money into it.

You still need to make every effort to convince the investors why they need you.

That's women for you. You may be the best option for them, but they still need you to convince them to jump into your boat. They still want you to make efforts even when they have nothing to offer in return.

Women value has been their beauty for a long time and will probably continue to be. Till tomorrow, you will pick and fall in love with a pretty girl over an ugly one.

Till tomorrow, that pretty face will want you to put in effort to convince her why she should be with you

I didn't assume.

I don't assume.


I ask.


You get?

If she says ok....,then she starts ....... acting like .....
. I am tired of saying..... I mean how she reacted through the phone the last time.... if she starts acting .......

, it's too terrible....,till now..., I know she won't mind doing worse...,

then am I supposed to feel less important


This is not me being unrealistic.

It's about seeing that her reaction was too ...... please,stop extending her matter.


I don't want to talk about her again.


She's not more of a person than I am.


Please,stop trying to make sense based on her case.


It's of no use.

Crystalom5:
stop deflecting and casting blames on other people.

Dating is a game. Learn the ropes, play the game and stop being like a sore loser in a game.

Sometimes you win with women, some of us have gotten girls just talking about a day with them others take months and many on and off.

It's all a game. Just play and play and play. If you become tired, then drop her off.

Hmmmm, call it blaming...,call it deflecting...,call it whatever...


yeah, rappers even talk about games and all of that in their rap songs.....call it playing....., call it scheming...,call it whatever.



I know I was assessing where I was.

I was and I am still among humans that exist .... I know she still exists too.


Let's put it this way....., whoever is useless to my progress .... remains useless to my assessment too.



I inevitably keep assessing...... people that I will have to avoid will remain to be avoided .


I never wanted more problems.... I am not here to chase more problems.


You don't teach me how to invite more problems.

More problems also have their own problems which will never leave them too.



Call this whatever you call it..... that's your cup of water.

Crystalom5:
lols. You thought you had something but to her, you've not really even scratch the surface. Na like dat una go take dey date unaself

I was trying to know how we could gain in order to become something later....as soon as possible.

Dtruthspeaker:
Permanent removal and destruction of all evil bastards like you from among the living.

If he doesn't do it now...,then he is the greatest bastard.

Rayban25:
Brother the OP question is very simple and no you dont have to be dating her yet...look above and see my own answer for example

I didn't say I was trying to keep anybody.


You get?

Crystalom5:
your problem is not even ego or pride.

You just don't really know how to toast a girl. Maybe you should try learning how to start a conversation with women.

Who told you we never had conversations??

Crystalom5:
your problem is not even ego or pride.

You just don't really know how to toast a girl. Maybe you should try learning how to start a conversation with women.

Define toasting

Crystalom5:
well it's up to her. It's her right to answer or not.

Feeling entitled to get answer to every question you ask me especially when I do not have any obligation to answer, is somewhat a red flag.

No woman, and no body is expected to just answer your questions about them simply because you asked especially when you are a stranger. Even if you are not a stranger.

In my personal opinion, it's totally wrong. Try making a girl feel more comfortable. Put in the effort if you really like her.

In the beginning, women always act cold and uninterested. It's normal everywhere

It means you're avoiding the person.

Was I ever forcing you to reply me?


What sort of misfortune is this


I deserve answers doesn't mean I'm going to ask for something you will regret to give. ....jeez... keep your answers to yourself then..


It's useless pride that makes you feel like telling me your name or age or state of origin or ambition is something I have to die for.... what rubbish!!


In your wickedness...., you will tell people I was disturbing your destiny because of the innocent question.
Does it mean your attention is special or what exactly



No girl or woman can be made comfortable by someone they unnecessarily expect to worship them unless he worships them...... they(those that detest you for no useful reason) want you where they can enslave you because they never really wanted you for any reason.


It's inside them.....they may not show it outside.

Spits.

Crystalom5:
was she your girl then or you were still toasting her. Those are pretty simple details that you can get from any girl you are dating.

But during toasting phase, girls can do shakara for anything, even their names

Their shakara is meaningless.

Crystalom5:
was she your girl then or you were still toasting her. Those are pretty simple details that you can get from any girl you are dating.

But during toasting phase, girls can do shakara for anything, even their names

Must we be dating before I get answers?


Toasting??


Well,all I know is I deserve answers from anyone I ask or nothing.... you get?


No need for useless threats.