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nairafamedotcom:
https://punchng.com/boko-haram-targets-army-location-scores-killed/

Show us their dead bodies,that's more convincing. Chadians soldiers showed us theirs..As much as I love Nigeria, and want Nigeria to be great again. I am sincerely ashamed of how this boko haram stuff is turning out.

kiyosaki1:
They are better over here than in America where the likelihood of death and contact of the coronavirus is higher . I never for ounce dream that a time will come when nigeria will be better than the first world countries in anything, but thank God am a witness . Always knew that our doctors are one of the best in the world but, we always don't appreciate what we have.

inside life..no one would've ever thought that oo.

GreatResearcher1:
Yes bro. Don't mind those suffering from inferiority complex

I love you.A patriot like me.

ghettokid1:
U mean the Audio giant of Africa?

why don't you just face your Biafra?

Corrinthians:
Superb. We earnestly hope they put in their very beat to stem the tide just as they would if Nigeria was their home country.

God bless Nigeria.

Our doctors have been doing so well,now this Chinese are going to take the credit when the Virus is finally defeated..

UklassSales25:
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you didn't show the full car,is there anything you're hidding?

9jatrendz:
Nigeria is a Joke abeg Virus never start to take life anyhow, government dor start their own. No wonder the Spanish doctors had the nerve to say the treatment for coronavirus should be tested in Africa Coz they know normally we don't value life, the doctors where cursed , Shamed and forced to make a Apology video.. Well Nigeria just prove his point Kudos Nigeria, Yah doing well

The doctors were French doctors not Spanish. Next time post what you know.

Garrieveryday:
Am i mad?

nothing bad in that meal.It may not appear to be Nigeria meal but trust me most African countries best food looks like this.

divineappo:
chai, Wow

its either u didn't really love the girl or u are the type of man that can easily delete feelings for a girl for even the smallest inconsequential reason

am speaking the truth

Anyways, move on to the next Pussy, and I hope the next pussy will use bitterleaf to tie you down by force

Bro, I love her deeply, I can't deny that.I know how I feel for her bro

divineappo:
ur friend is probably having or have had secret affair with his wife sister (Abigail)

he gave u consent at first, later had a rethink about another guy enjoying same pussy he enjoys secretly, then came back to scare u off the girl

My brother, forget spiritual battle, even u am sure there are witches and wizards in your family, forget spiritual battle shit, if u love the girl, and u are sure she loves you too, marry her

Thank you.For me even though I know there are spiritual powers but I always believe every problem has a solution..But in this case,I have decided to leave the girl..just want to cut ties with the guy completely. So I don't want anything that will make us see face to face in the future.

AbleGod7555:
My brother, my take on this matter is this. Don't rely on your friend for your own personal life. Just go to God in prayer and ask some of your friends in faith in your ministry to join you in prayer.
After that, try and do some personal research on the family by yourself. Ask questions, if possible visit the community and ask the neighbors about them without their knowledge.
I believe that before you do the above things mentioned earlier, you find your answers starring at you. Leave your friend alone on this matter because the heart of men are desperate wicked and deceitful.
He may not want the family to find out that he is not a good husband to their daughter through you if you eventually get marry to the wife Younger sister.

Thank you bro..I have decided to cut ties with the guy and the girl..Thanks a lot

frankkydee:
That your friend has fuxk that girl that's why he is advising you not to go into the package cos both your friend and the girl can never be trusted

Thank you.I have decided to cut ties with the guy and the girl..

1sttruth:
Bro, I had similar experience with a friend.
He tried that shit with my girl in school then and I confronted him, he accepted that he did it and apologized.
Fast forward to years later, I gave him series of money for business and each time he has a story to tell. Some he returned and some he is yet to return.
Bottom line, that guy is not to trusted. As for the girl make your enquiry personally

Thank you bro..I have decided to even leave the girl.. I had some discussion with the victor guy this morning and obviously he is acting out of jealousy. He likes the girl,that's the truth. So I am cutting off anything that has to do with them.

Kevsmart88:
If I understood your write up clearly, He initially gave his consent and all of a sudden will not want you to marry the said girl,this says a lot about this your friend. I think it's high time you went solo on your business plans cos if you go on and marry the girl,the inevitable is bound to happen(bad blood between you two)....The more reason pleasure and business should not be mixed. I understand in this case you found love here which isn't entirely your fault but you gotta pick one and move on. Saying he's fighting spiritual battles is just a baseless excuse to discourage you from going ahead with your plans..stay ten steps ahead and never reaveal much of ur plans to this your friend going forward.

Thank you very much..I am really thinking about cutting ties with him,but that also mean breaking up with the girl which is never going to be easy with me,I believe God will see me through this anyway..

Cholls:
my brother don't worry go for her! What ever message your heart decides to reveal at this present needs, is the one you should follow not the one from Me,your Friend, or any Seer.

Thank you.

Headlesschicken:
What does your God have to say about all these? Or have you not consulted him yet

Of course I have been praying about it even before I met her,and I believe the conviction I have about her is a way of God saying she is mine.She is the type I have always wanted and have been praying about.

Cholls:
my brother damn all consequences. If you truly love that young lady then go for her...take a day off in isolation and try to listen to your heart. You will get all the answers you need to proceed.

Bro,I love her deeply.. She has every quality I need in a woman..I know deep within me my friend feel somehow jealous...my friend just don't want me to marry her for selfish reasons.. Sincerely the thought of breaking up with her is hurting me already.She is not perfect just like me,but we understands each other.

evil1:
Don't be in a rush to marry the girl whether she has spiritual problem or not.
Take your time and know her more, discuss things of the spirit with her then pray and solve issues together. Behave like ur married already cos from your write up it seems you both are only attracted to each other physically and sexually.
One more thing, if you want to help her build a life of financial freedom do it without fear and regrets.
Break the barriers my guy.

I almost got deceived by your Monika. Pls you're not the evil one,your advice is Godly and very well appreciated. believe me I am going to take something useful out of it..Thank you brother

zed7:
Did I doubt you?

Sorry I just found out I misquoted you.I wanted to quote someone else

zed7:
I had one policy, always get a woman whom your close contacts do not know. It helps to avoid drama and problems.
As for your situation, it may or may not be true. If you love her so much then take your chances and be prepared for whatever challenges you meet.

Bro,my story is true.it took me time to type this post,why would I waste my time typing false story,what's my gain in doing that..As for your advice thanks a lot.

favoryte33:
He tried kissing your gf in 2014, he is discouraging you from marrying your love in 2020. Bros,pls no vex. Are you a simpleton? Sorry sir.

No bro,I am not gullible..

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm... This is confusing... Go and pray about it first...

yes I am praying about it,Thanks.

Dollarheist:
The matter is deep but nothing kills the fact say your guy na bad belle
Move away from anything that has to do with him family or business go and stand on your own and dont allow him into your life, family, business and all
Go get someone else

Thanks bro

blaise26abj:
Go to cediland bro.

The one with spiritual problem might be your friend and not his wife’s family. Besides a man that can make a pass at your girlfriend ( if that’s true sha )isn’t loyal and cannot be trusted in business .

lol..I am a Nigerian,but I live in Ghana. Yes he made a pass at my girlfriend, why she I lie about that?

Hi Nairalanders.

I have been a good follower of this great Forum for a very long time and I must commend how you guys help with meaningful comments whenever someone requests for help.......

Pls I am in urgent need of your advice now....

Pls ignore my grammatical errors...

Here is the story......

I have a friend named Victor, (real name) a Ghanain..

We are close friends and we are about doing some business together. Before I present the real deal now, let me highlight one mistake he made that would have ended our friendship but I ignored it..

It was way back 2014..

We newly became friends then..and coincidentally there was a Muslim girl I feel in love with, and we starting dating. One day I was not around when my (Victor) friend came to meet this Muslim girl (my girl) and tried to kiss her.

She was a flashy girl and very tempting no doubt, but he almost broke the brother code by trying to do that to my girl. When my girl (now ex) told me, I was angry but decided not to ask him and it died like that.

Sadly, on religious ground I was not allowed to marry the girl so we went our separate ways, but I found it difficult to love again because I loved that girl deeply. So I relocated to another city. Kumasi.

Fast forward to 2020.. About 2 months ago my friend Victor invited me to come down to Accra for some business discussion. So I came and I met his wife's sister (real name Abigail) who now lives with them. Sincerely I felt something for her and told my friend strait away that I like Abigail, and I would love to know her more with marriage in view. I also spoke to his wife Abigail sister about how I felt for her sis but I needed their consent before I approach Abigail.

Consents were given by both of them and after few weeks I proposed to Abigail and she asked me to hold on, that she is going to formally inform her sis and the husband because she lives with them, and I quite understand.

About 2 weeks on Abigail accepted my proposal and I was happy, but went ahead to ask why she accepted and she said she has been hearing good things about me, and beside I am handsome (lol), pardon me I was just quoting her..

So we starting dating.

So 2 days ago I had some discussion with my friend victor (Abigail sis husband).

This time this discussion was basically about some issues he's been having with his wife, how he treats his wife badly lately, does not eat at home or spend time with the wife. So I spoke to him about why he should change and allow peace to reign in the house. As I was discussing with him, he then chipped in some issue about me and Abigail.

HE SAID AS HIS FRIEND HE WON'T ENCOURAGE ME TO ENTER THE WIFE FAMILY. THAT HE HAS BEEN IN THE FAMILY AND HE'S BEEN FIGHTING SOME SPIRITUAL BATTLE FROM THE FAMILY..

So I thanked him, I said to him that I will try to pray about it. That I know many family have some spiritual battles, but I will try and fight the battle....

Here I am somehow confused.. Does he genuinely mean well for me? or he just does not want me to marry this beautiful girl?

Less I forget. He also stopped me from introducing this girl into a certain business that would give her some financial freedom..

I am thinking he does not want the best for either me or the girls family....

And given how he speaks about his wife, I think he is heading in the direction of divorce, and maybe he does not want me to enter the family as that may cause some barrier......

All this are just my opinion given how things are playing out....

Pls I need your suggestion...
Thanks

@mods, pls help me move this to front page, I need urgent help pls