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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 5:55am On Aug 24, 2017
ceelog:
Pardon my curiosity I thought septic tank (and underground water tanks) need to be pillar and beam cast with concrete and steel for durability Did you consider that? I love your doggedness
you are right sir. We just cast the pillars at the the four corners. We plan to pour concrete inside the four inches block from the bottom up. Then there will be a central pillar, a beam all over the upper block and cross pillars linking the central pillar and the beam. You know it wasnt time for septic tank if not for filling sand. For the water waste, it is small so we are not putting pillars. We pour concrete and put a beam on top. Thanks for the observation
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 5:49am On Aug 24, 2017
keziah123:
You haven't posted the plan.
Yes sir.....i will post the plans.....architectural, structural, mechanical and electrical this week. Tnks
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:35pm On Aug 22, 2017
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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 7:56pm On Aug 22, 2017
The part of the foundation that is left which was initially occupied by materials

Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 7:54pm On Aug 22, 2017
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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 7:52pm On Aug 22, 2017
We are more than half way through with the foundation and german floor. One major hindrance was space....we offloaded materials on part of the wall line so we couldnt dig the entire foundation at once . We had to finish using the materials first before digging the remaining walls .
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 7:10pm On Aug 18, 2017
The digging of the two septic tank in search of filling sand took some time away from rounding up the foundation. However it is worth it since we no longer need to buy any filling sand whatsoever so at least some money saved. We should start casting the DPC tommorrow.

Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 6:18pm On Aug 14, 2017
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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 6:09pm On Aug 14, 2017
We are digging two septic tank(10×10) and two water waste in order to get materials for filling instead of buying sand filling . One is fully dug. They are on the second one. We should be able to start sandfilling fully by wednesday when the two septic tanks are ready
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 6:04pm On Aug 14, 2017
TCD:
@helpee

Great Job doc.

that land what is its dimensions, looks larger than a plot.

Please how much did it cost you to get the land in that area including all the government fees and all?
thanks bro. I actually bought the land without c of o. It is more than one plot in dimensions. I paid 10million for the plot, omonile collected 1.5million which covers omonile receipt, agreement and money for constriction works ( foundation, decking and roofing inclusive) C of o under processing. Awaiting publication. So far ive spent 300k on the c of o, govt fees inclusive...you know the actual amount on omonile receipt is lesser than the actual purchase price. I did the fencing myself. There was a room and palor BQ x 2 on it when i bought it. I converted to a standard 3 bedroom flat BQ which is the building in the background. So far so good on the various cost of securing the land and taking possession
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:31am On Aug 12, 2017
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Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 3:51am On Aug 10, 2017
FortuneTeller:
It has been tried several times. People bring it to court all the time. It won't work here. It has no bearing on your divorce case, unless one person is requesting alimony.

You really don't understand the system here. The court does not care if the DNA is not yours. The child is yours due to the marriage. I know it's hard to accept, but that is the law here.

Also don't use the word "nigger". It's very ignorant and I'm sure you think AA use that word, but it's not the same. I won't be addressing you any longer due to this. You're embarrassing me and yourself as a Nigerian.
My dear.....you may be living in that your so called USA which you are so proud of...ive been there and more than 20 other countries several times as a tourist. I have cousins that are divourced in your messed up USA. And you know nothing about the law even in your USA until you are taken to court and hire a lawyer. You quoted me first and you can be rest assured i wont miss your ignorant, biased argument if you stop addressing me. Meanwhile, stop parading....i live in USA as a criteria on faceless forum. Its actually childish. Best of luck
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 3:41am On Aug 10, 2017
FortuneTeller:
It has been tried several times. People bring it to court all the time. It won't work here. It has no bearing on your divorce case, unless one person is requesting alimony.
you really dont understand. It doesnt work in divorce cases until you are asked to pay child support for a child not yours then it becomes significant because the adultery is now having a direct impact on your future as you have to live with the emotional trauma of paying for a child not yours.....what if you break down psychologically and kill the woman for ruining your life?. The court will now jail you abi? Get a good lawyer. It works even in your USA
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 3:33am On Aug 10, 2017
FortuneTeller:
Sir no one is getting criminally charged for adultery in the US. Absolutely no one. There are many laws here which are on the "books" but not enforced. If you don't think you can be forced to pay child support under American law in the situation I described, it tells me you have never lived here.
you are funny. It is part of the law isnt it? That no one is pursuing it doenst mean it wont be enforced if somebody pursues it. Is it part of tbe law? Yes. So why do you think no one. Even the oklhoma judge first ruled against child support till he found out the law that he must have done tbe DNA within 2yrs. So if tbe same judge found out the law says five year behind bar for infidelity he will enforce it. For the first time in decades somebody was jailed for bigamy in canada two months ago and it made news. People suddenly realised its part of their laws. And mind you, he can pursue a civil case for emotional damage against the woman and claim damages. And madam, i dont need to live in the USA so stop parading that as evidence of you knowing it all. Moreso, the OP is not living in USA anyway. He lives in nigeria so the USA law does not apply here. OJ simpson won the crominal case for death of wife but the family won civil case for wrongful death and claimed millions in damages. So if you think you cant be sued for adultery in usa either in a criminal or civil case, pray you dont meet a troublesome nigger
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 3:11am On Aug 10, 2017
FortuneTeller:
Google does not have all the information. I live in the US and one of these cases hit the news every year. I know one man in this situation. If you are married when the child is conceived, the court views you as the father. The ones who normally get out of this scenario, do so when the woman identifies another man as the father through the birth certificate or a request for child support from the other man. If this does not happen, the court views the husband as the father regardless of DNA. He will pay child support for a child that is not his.
My dear, those people you know are also mumu. In many states in that same USA, infidelity is criminal. If the judge can force you to pay child support because the child was born during marriage and you have DNA evidence to the contrary, you have a prima facie evidence for infidelity. In okhlahoma....Not only do adulterers face fines of up to $500 but also incarceration for up to five years. GOOGLE THE PENALTIES AGAINST ADULTERY. By the time the woman faces up to five years in jail she will drop tbe child support. Get a good lawyer. Even if you dont pursue the criminal case of infidelity against her, you can take up another civil case for breach of trust against her and sue for damages and recover the useless child support. If you are troublesome and ready to pursue your case, no judge, i mean no judge will ask you to pay child support for a child not yours and if they do, they provide you with evidence to pursue a criminal case or another civil case against the cheating wife
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 9:44pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:
I said in some cases. Abeg go back and read my past posts. People said once it's confirmed that a child does not belong to a man He is not expected to pay and I said in some cases he is made to pay. Tell me where I was wrong again? Plus go online and see some other cases abound under different circumstances. So there is. Possibility and we can not decide online what may or may not be. He should get a lawyer and get the best advice for the case at hand
the bottomline....if it is established the child is not his....that is paternity by deception. If the case is well pursued, no judge will ask you to support a child not yours.
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 9:34pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:
https://www.google.rs/amp/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4117362/amp/Oklahoma-man-forced-pay-child-support-s-kid-didn-t-girlfriend-cheating-time.html
Thomas did not think his wife was cheating on him when she became pregnant
He asked for a DNA test when the child turned three which proved he wasn't the father
Oklahoma law says someone must ask for a paternity test within two years or be forced to pay child support
An Oklahoma man is being forced to pay child support for another man's child because he ordered a paternity test too late.

Thomas, who did not give his last name, asked for a paternity test for his three year old son when his marriage fell apart.


I want to believe this ops man is abroad and I did not say he will definitely be forced to pay. I clearly said in some instances he may be forced to pay. So it's not impossible.
Plus alimony is not judged by cheating, unless they had a prenup she still could get half of his property depending g on their marriage and things that happened while they were married.
you are using a single case that is subject of petitions to the state lawmakers to change the law. Even the judge earlier ruled that he cant pay child support...but he later changed it saying tbe laws says he must have challenged within 2yrs but the guy is saying he had no reason to be suspicious. And mind you...this is only okhlahoma and this is the only known case in the whole world and that useless law will be changed. Note...assuming tbe guy discovered it earlier than 2yrs you wont pay too. So the bottomline is this....you are not supposed to pay child support for a child not yours but in oklahoma if you dont discover early you may till you chsllenge the decision to supreme court
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 9:20pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:
Simple research on Google na! Let me help you half way, type can a 'man be forced to pay child support for a baby that is not his' and you will get some feedback.
statistic which some may find surprising, a full third of all children born in the United States each year are born to unmarried parents. Historically, the only way to definitively prove paternity was for the mother of the child to file a paternity suit, however more recently, the laws have changed to allow either parent to file a paternity suit to establish the father-child relationship. Depending on the results of the DNA test, the child’s birth certificate will be changed to reflect—or remove—the name of the father. If paternity is definitely established, child support will be ordered by the state.


The Legalities of Fatherhood



THIS is what the research on Google brought. Study it well....once paternity is established using DNA, they remove the name of the fathet from the birth certificate and the man is absolved from child support. So brother...nobody can force you to pay child support for a child not yours if you pursue the case
Family › Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 8:57pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:
If the child had known him as father, if he has given the child his name, if he has signed to be the child's father, he may be forced to pay child support. Law takes the child into consideration in some cases.



Sexual frustration or cheating can happen to males and females. Just like men also cheat esp if the wife's job takes her outside 5he home for extended periods of time and people would say sex is important in marriage, so does a wife also need her husband to have sex with her too. So yes, the temptation may come. You don't blame a cheating man when his wife is a workaholic and is always not around why then do you think the woman should be abandoned in a cold bed and the man feigning he doesn't know she misses sex too?
bullshit. So he was deceived into believing the child is his. He was given a bastard as a child and you are saying he xan be forced to pay child support. Just tell me how?
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 3:25pm On Aug 04, 2017
Slow pace of work......rain rain rain

Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:38am On Aug 03, 2017
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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:34pm On Aug 01, 2017
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Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:32pm On Aug 01, 2017
kopell:
Helpee. Coincidentally its seems you're more active in politics section than properties section.
lol. You know buhari is on sabbatical so we all have to be up and doing
Politics › Re: Asari Dokubo Blasts Don Jazzy & Davido Over Diezani Alison-Madueke by helpee(m): 10:14am On Jul 29, 2017
Elcuba:
Lmao oga deji.. inflating figures you said. So Diezani stole some money but not 90 billion..

*in davido's voice.. 90 billion for the account o*
same way buhari stole from PTF.....definately not 90 billion too
Politics › Re: Asari Dokubo Blasts Don Jazzy & Davido Over Diezani Alison-Madueke by helpee(m): 10:12am On Jul 29, 2017
ShobayoEmma:
This is not Goodluck era. nobody give a Bleep about you. Enjoy your loot untill the real messaih comes.
Happy birthday to me.
Bros, you deserve more than insult on your birthday. But please, if 90 billion dollars was recovered from that woman and buhari cannot point to a single project done with it....and you are here wishing yourself a birthday, you do yourself a disservice. you are supposed to wish yourself HAPPY SENSE DAY. You need sense my brother
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op):
kopell:
I beg how far is this your land from that high tension cable above? I just the fear radiation of those cable ni o.
quite a long distance. I think the camera brought it close. It is a completely free land with c of o already under processing. Tnks for the observation. Apart from radiation, it is generally not safe traversing the law as it relates to proximity of residential plots to high tension cable
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 2:05am On Jul 29, 2017
kopell:
Welcome back oh DOCTOR /BUILDING ENGINEER. I no blame you jare, you prove them wrong before. So will it be again, hoya go let go. But wait 7 flats of 2 bedrooms, how many floors? if na 2 to 3 floors please get professionals because of all the technicality. You may be in charge of all your purchases, but for building codes and others technical know how. In my opinion you will need those guys .
tnks bro. I am only managing the site. I will leave the technicalities to professional engineers and I will update them here as work is progressing. I will not cut cost to compromise quality only to eliminate waste
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:54pm On Jul 28, 2017
mufutau55:
Welcome back... with your past experience and how well you did on that; you will surely do better in this project. Good luck and we shall be lurking around to monitor the progress. But keep in mind, prices of materials are not same as before anymore o; ridiculously high now. Peace!

Hajji M.
this big boss. With the little materials bought already, I am learning the hard way that everything is on the high side. But we have no option. We will wether the storm in sha Allah
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:53pm On Jul 28, 2017
This is my own calculations using adulwastex idea..
1)SETTING OUT...25K

2)Digging......total perimeter 260.1
Depth 2 inches (600m)
Rate..250naira/m
260.1×250= 60025

3) foundation strip ( 4 inches x 18)
Volume of concrete 0.1×0.45×260= 11.7mm3
I put my own rate at 3500 naira/mm3= 40950

4) block SETTING
260.1×0.6×10= 1560 blocks
At 50 naira per block= 78000

5) filling of foundation= 25000

6) German floor
DPC=75mm= 0.75×195= 14.625
At 3500/mm= 14.625× 3500= 51100

7) casting of 33 short pillars at 500= 16000
Soaked @ 40k per pair × 2= 80k.

Total ( without SETTING of soakaway and it's plastering) = 379, 975.


The above calculations actually meant nothing to me but the bricklayet thought an engineer gave me the breakdown. I just followed how adulwastex did his analysis and used it to manipulate my own. Na so the builder just dey look me. I will post the plan soon
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:31pm On Jul 28, 2017
The bricklayet gave me his bill as stated below for the ist stage..
Setting out_ 50k
Digging- 110k
Blinding- 135k
Setting of block- 250k
Casting of short pillars- 35k
Gérman floor- 150k
Filling of foundation- 40k
Digging of soakway- 150k
Setting and plastering soakaway- 110k
Total- 1030000

I laughed in Chinese and came to look for adulwastex analysis....hope I got his moniker right. I used his analysis to create my own bill and told the bricklayet that was my final answer. I will post how I did my own calculations now
Properties › Re: Reconstruction Of An Uncompleted Two 3 Bedroom To A Duplex Plus Hospital by helpee(op): 8:23pm On Jul 28, 2017
I bought half ton of 16mm, half ton of 12mm, 20 dozens of 10mm ring, two loads of stonedust, one sharp sand, one granite, one dull/plaster and 1000 blocks of 9 inches block on site even before pegging.

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