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janellemonae:
Don't mind him. He thinks his marriage will be okay.

His marriage won't even survive it. His wife will forever resent him. He will eventually realize this. And will probably start cheating. I don't know which woman will be playful or genuinely turned on by a guy who makes this kind of decision.

And who told you the marriage will survive it either way by bringing the child home. The OP doesn't want the child in his home. His decision should be respected and he shouldn't be treated as if he is wicked. The mother in law is in the best position to take care of her. She rejected her without feeling guilty. Not minding the fact that it could put a strain on her daughters wedding. I know a couple that just got divorced. True life story. The man accepted the girl from primary 5 when he married the mother. When the girl was about to gain admission to university of Ilorin last year, she searched for her father on Facebook and contacted him. That one immediately took over responsibility. The new husband of the mother got annoyed because he was not even informed again when the girl started contacting the father. The girl stopped coming home for holiday...will go and spend holiday with the dad and siblings on the other side. The present husband felt sidelined as the other guy is now richer than him. To cut a long story short, he told the mother that she should take the one in jss2 to go and meet the father( she had two children from the other guy) . He said he can't take of them only for them to get to university and now remember they have a father. Like play, like play the marriage scattered. So it is not a straightforward issue. The wife too should worry that if she forced her husband to accept her against his wish, the resentment may consume the marriage.

LaudableXX:
The girl's birth father was NOT the one that brought the matter to NL. And castigating the girl's father does not solve the step-father's dilemma. In fact, it just shifts the focus of the discussion to an area, that distracts people from the main problem. Some men can take in their brother's kids, or extended relatives to live with them, but will reject their wives' kid. It doesn't make sense.

The OP's post reeks of selfishness. He knew she had a kid out of wedlock, before he even married her. So why is he forming arrogance and irritation now, at the thought of the girl? If he is not financially buoyant, then let him ask the wife to bear all the girl's expenses, while she is living under his roof. At least the girl would be with her mum. If the birth father abandons the girl, should the biological mother ignore her existence, too? I know a retired high court judge that was brought up by his step-father. That step-father educated him and took care of him, like his own son. Nobody knew for many years, that the guy was not his biological son. Before the step-father died, that judge built a mansion for him in the village & took care of his medical bills. I know the family very well, and it is not hear say.

You guys are blackmailing the guy into accepting what he doesn't want. The issue is, I CAN NEVER FEEL GUILTY REJECTING A CHILD WHOSE FATHER IS ALIVE AND WHOSE GRANDMOTHER IS REJECTING. Why is the mother of the wife rejecting her? Somebody said because the mother is Alive. So is the father dead? He can accept if he is comfortable with it. If he is not, he shouldn't feel guilty. Why cant the new wife of the father accept her too? Op, you better don't care what all these nairalander moralist say. Real life is different. You know a retired judge raised by step father. Millions exist like that. Likewise millions of stepfather are hated by their step children regardless of the sacrifice the stepfather made. I know so many too. So it is not a yardstick. Reject the child if you don't want and never feel guilty (the father, the wife of the father, the mother of the mother all rejected her and they are not feeling guilty because it is not convenient for them) Accept her if you want....but never because all these moralist are blackmailing you into it

vikacydevato:
The first thing that ought to be in the mind of everybody is how to rescue victims.

False. The first thing is to make sure you are safe. The next thing is to call appropriate authorities. Call emergency number. Unless you are properly trained, you may worsen the situation. If you want to help, go and donate blood and assist under supervision of trained people. People taking pix can also help spread the news till it gets to appropriate authority so the OP is not 100% correct. There was a woman whose leg got trapped under trailer. Granted she was in pain. Rather than wait for appropriate authority Nigerians cut the leg of the woman and she bled to death on the way to hospital. You can't always help on the scene of major accident unless trained people are guiding you as volunteers

wale4me:
Hello,if you see any information online does not mean it correct try to check the source because fact is different fron suggestion,i want you send a screen shot from the orgainser or russian embassy and any authority in this regard ..not just any anonymous source.this a faceless forum but in this aspect am sorry to disapoint you because i speak russian language very fluently and l source information from authority not anonymous,here is a screen shot from russian embassy in Nigeria on requirement..once again this is a faceless forum and let keep it tbat way and keep getting informed

This is the official website for fan ID and local organiser of the FIFA world cup

wale4me:
Hello,if you see any information online does not mean it correct try to check the source because fact is different fron suggestion,i want you send a screen shot from the orgainser or russian embassy and any authority in this regard ..not just any anonymous source.this a faceless forum but in this aspect am sorry to disapoint you because i speak russian language very fluently and l source information from authority not anonymous,here is a screen shot from russian embassy in Nigeria on requirement..once again this is a faceless forum and let keep it tbat way and keep getting informed

oga go and check the official website of fan ID . Tickets has always been part from day one. Never... I repeat, never has there been a requirements to enter Russia with fan ID without tickets or evidence. They may not ask you depending on how busy they are. But if they ask and you can't provide answer you are coming back home. Has nothing to do with just Nigerians. It is always a primary requirement. I don't argue about what I don't know. You must have ticket or evidence of ticket allocation

wale4me:
I disagree with you , ticket was never part of the requirement because your fan id was a proof you have s ticket from the begining .but the immigration start asking due to recent issue mostly by nigerians because people that enter during the first week nobody was ask ticket ,am 100% sure about it ..am on ground here in russia 60 days before the start of the games and i have all the unpdates

100percent sure about wrong information. Nigerians sha.

wale4me:
I disagree with you , ticket was never part of the requirement because your fan id was a proof you have s ticket from the begining .but the immigration start asking due to recent issue mostly by nigerians because people that enter during the first week nobody was ask ticket ,am 100% sure about it ..am on ground here in russia 60 days before the start of the games and i have all the unpdates

stop saying what you don't know. In addition to FAN ID ticket has always been the requirements. It is all over the internet so don't just assume. Find out facts

wale4me:
Sure you need hotel reservation and you can pay cash or card payment at the hotel desk when you arrive ,actually game ticket is never a requirement to enter russia just the fan id but with the recently report of attempted human Trafficking and illegal boarder crossing ,your fan id cannot be cancel if you sold your ticket but you should have a game ticket or proof of the purchase printed from your fifa account because you could be stop for questioning regarding your trip and to people planning ilegal crossing please be aware that illegal boarder crossing is a criminal offense in russia and could lead to jail term and deportation.

ticket or e mail confirmation has always been part of the requirement in addition to the FAN ID to enter Russia

turnup05:
Mr Wale please I need your advice concerning my trip to Russia: when coming do I need to pay for health insurance and hotel reservations?
Also I want to know if I resell my match ticket, will my fan Id be cancelled? I might not travel to Russia until July and my match ticket is for the match on 22 June. is there any options for a match swap?

As I am talking to you, some boys just landed in St Petersburg insisting they want to cross to Finland this night. Nigerians have problem. We advised them on the WhatsApp group they refused. Some were detained at Kaliningrad yesterday. Please Nigerians are not doing well. If you don't have a ticket for a later date than your arrival date you may be sent back. They usually ask what games you are going to. They don't need your insurance. Just book hotel you don't need to pay. I've been in Russia for a week now from.st Petersburg to Kaliningrad to moscow

BedLam:
I hate people who listen to them say , them say. You don't Judge people base on someone's stupid judgement especially when they are Nigerians. Nigerians have a way of painting a minor issue with brighter colors and associate every mishap with hate, even if they didn't do the right thing.

I just landed in Moscow with bunch of other blacks with no issues. I tried to buy water with my card from the vending machine. It didn't work but this nice Russian assisted me and he paid with his own money.

Please no one should quote me and ask me anything comes concerning my trip.

what he is saying is true but not bad. Nigerians have a way of bastardising every opportunity. An 18yr old lady arrived Russia alone and she can't even say which country Nigeria is playing with, had less than 500dollars and she was sent back. Why are we like this? Nigerians are already getting stranded in Russia. Many arrived Russia with nothing. They went to borrow money thinking they can run away to Europe from there.....this is so so bad.

Juliusfriday95:
Pls add me to that WhatsApp group, I am going to Russia.

The WhatsApp group is now limited to helping people enjoy the world cup and ease their travel to and from world cup not for illegal crossing of the border. Very soon, other countries will introduce the FAN ID and ban innocent Nigerians from using it because of people using the FAN I'd for illegal Crossing of the border

sunnyeinstein:
I never said medical history is unimportant oo, it is even one of the first things to be asked during consultation. It is of utmost importance.

NB: @all screaming at my "ignorance", thank you. I dont envy doctors, they do a hellofa job... the articulate ones!

How can you display so much ignorance in a single thread. People like you are so dangerous.... Half baked knowledge with confidence. You know nothing about medicine

omonla10:
, I'm saving my funds towards purchasing ticket and fan's I'd for the semifinal match.. NIGERIA VS GERMANY. And then final or 3rd place.. Any advise pls, or am I wishing for too much?

Where will you get the ticket if you are just saving for ticket now? Ticket wey don finish since march for the semi finals. Anyway if nigeria qualify NFF will be given supporters ticket but even at that it will be very difficult to get

onatisi:
wait a little , you will most likely sell it at double the price when the competition finally kicks off

Not true. Except if he will be present in russia to personally sell it. Nigeria iceland is not that HOT A TICKET. And it takes place in volgograd which is not really a tourist town save for the world cup and it is far. Go and sell it on FIFA website and cut your 10percent loss. If you wont be present in russia you wont likely get it sold. You can list it on the internet too. Find out on tripsadvisor...If it were to be nigeria/argentina now, you can even sell it for triple. Ive been looking for that ticket since february. I only just got an american willing to sell for me when we get to russia at the gate. See you in russia

justwise:
The argument is not about fan ID, the argument is about applying for visa from Russia holding fan ID. Obviously you are twisting it.

Actually, it is very very possible but we dont need to allow nigerians to abuse it. I am presently on a whatsapp group of nigerians going to world cup and this topic has been well exhausted there. It is possible, even legal.

goryorhal:
I have

Match 24 - Nigeria v Iceland - Volgograd

okay. I have it too. I only need argentina match

goryorhal:
Hello
Good morning please how can i resell my match ticket. Is there anyway i can sell it to a third party.

do you have nigeria argentina ticket? I will buy it

bogolobango:
I don't think you can meet up again i searched for several nights before I could get Sweden Korea match to apply for my fan id may when I get to Russia I'll try if i can buy

NFF is selling tickets for all nigerian matches to supporters. The catch is they are not selling single tickets. You must buy all three tickets at once at a cost of 450 dollars thereabout for category 3 tickets. This is as at last week sha

kolly4gunn:
i hear its compulsory....anybody that i have info about cheap hotel in st petersburg

for normal visa, it is compulsory to enter russia. For world cup, FAN ID, WORLD CUP TICKETS OR DOCUMENTS TO SHOW YOU ARE ELIGIBLE TO COLLECT TICKETS, PASSPORT ARE. ALL THAT IS NEEDED FOR ENTRY

Chogzy:
How far na, do we need insurance to make this travel to Russia?
I don't want to have issues after paying for everything oh.

for world cup, not compulsory. Though insurance is for your own benefit too

binaflexia:
Thank you for the info.
I check the status of my fan id today, and they wrote: "in print".
Can I apply for the delivery to be my house address now or wait until the status turns to something else?

What was the cost of delivering it directly to your house?

They are already sending digital FAN ID via e mail. They will soon send you a link to download your digital FAN ID. You can use the digital to enter russia and when you get to russia you will collect the laminated one. See you in kalinigrad. By the way it is free of charge to your house via post office

Ussyberry:
Read the question he asked.

yes i read it. He said he lives in lagos. He innocently asked you wether he needed to come to abuja. Instead of you to say you dont know, you said YES HE MUST GO TO VFS ABUJA. That singular information may discourage it. At worst it will set him back by almost 40k transport money. So the information you gave him is false

kolly4gunn:
Hi guys...i have the fan id but my agent told me i will pick the match ticket in moscow...and i hear some rumor that Fans id must come with match ticket....

you are using agent for FAN ID again ? Nigerians sha. Anyway, you will need the confirmatory e mail from FIFA that tickets were allotted to you at the point of entry. You can pick the main tickets in russia

Ussyberry:
Yes! You have to come to VFS on Lobito Crescent in Abuja

FALSE. USE YOUR HOUSE ADDRESS. Regular post office will deliver it

BedLam:
You can go to Abuja or have it shipped to you. When your fan ID is delivered, you can go to their site. Everything is there.

Why should you go to abuja ? Choose your house. Regular post office will deliver it. I got mine and that of my wife within 2weeks of release from russia. Just track it and check it daily

kolly4gunn:
Pls how much is turkish airline ,,you said you need SCHENGHEN TRANSIT VISA before you can go to Kalinigrad..pls explain more about this because i was thinking of flying from lagos to moscow and enter to train to kalinigrad to watch nigeria match there

i booked about one month ago. 380k each. I paid 760k for myself and my wife. The train will pass through belarus and lithuanian before getting to kalinigrad so a transit visa is needed to pass. Russia is still negotiating with belarus maybe they can allow spectators use FAN ID to pass through belarus but lithuania will definately require transit schenghen visa. So if you have a valid scheghen visa or european passport you are good to go. For us, it means we need belarus and scheghen so it is not worth it. Moreso if you are yet to book the free train it is no longer available. I booked the free trains since march 13 for both kalinigrad and volgograd. I wont use kalinigrad but i will use volgograd. I learnt spending 24hrs inside the train is an experience in itself

BedLam:
It would be nice to link up. I'm going with my wife as well but taking Qatar airways and using that window to see Qatar for 3 days since booking with Qatar airways gives you transit Visa for about 3 nights or so.
The only match I'm watching is the one in kaliningrad. My hotels are sorted, will be touring the Moscow metro and inner parts of Moscow and St Petersburg through Airbnb Experience. I should update on when my flight is leaving Lagos.

whaoh!!! I didnt know about that qatar stuff. It would have been nice doing it together with russia. Too late. I have a fully paid flight via turkish. I will keep in touch so we can meet for a nairaland photo shoot in kalinigrad