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PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.

He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.

But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.

Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.

Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.

The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.

She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.

I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.

He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.

HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

Madam, kindly give your husband your phone. Give him your Nairaland handle. Let him also read how you were sucked dry by a big man that you still chat with regularly. Someone that you can never forget . Let us see who will hate each other the most. You are desiring another man’s husband and your husband too is desiring another woman. You said it was your past but you still fanstasize and flirt with him by chatting him up. This was even a man that never asked you out, beat you up till you bled and told you he had a girlfriend while sucking your pussy ( compare him to the husband that went all the way and paid your bride price). Your husband has his fantasies too. Why are you angry ? When you tell your husband about your own secret fantasies then you will have a right to be angry. For now, you caught your husband. He is yet to catch you. That doesn’t make you holy…it only means you are the HYPOCRITE here. Who virginity helps after they don lick the thing finish.

ElSudani:
Many of you can't read period. I said if you have an American passport going to a visa free country, why in the name of God would you present a Nigerian passport which is not visa free!
By the way, I hold both passports so you can all stop these unintelligent comments.

While I agree the guy is an idiot for saying the Nigerian president was responsible for his problem with immigration, you are absolutely wrong here.
If you hold both passports like you said, you should be able to differentiate between green card and passport. He holds a green card, he won’t have American passport. With green card, you can enter into certain countries visa free including Canada. Even as a Nigerian, with any US visa, you don’t need visa to enter Serbia for example.
So, what he was saying was that a country that permits free entry if you have a U.S green card ( not passport) denied him because of his Nigerian passport.

PrinceOfLagos:
OLA MI LEKAN @Onlineguru_

Very foolish and childish write up. Was Tinubu the president when Obi, your principal was almost denied entry into Uk like a common criminal?

Before now, with uk, USA or Schengen visas, you could get an E- visa to Turkey until Igbos started entering Turkey with the visa and then never leaves again.

In Turkey, it is easy to get resident permit after entering. The igbos were now using it to trade and bring stuffs from there to Nigeria to sell. They banned us from the E visa last year, was Tinubu the president?

You guys spoilt the passport of the country for us. Everywhere you go, Igbo has spoilt the Nigerian passport with drugs and illegal trades all over the world and these are the same set of people accusing someone else of being responsible.

Taylor92:
Tinubu is a sellout

Fulanis killed your people in Yoruba land and all you cared was where are the Fulani cows seized

A Guinean that slipped his way to yoruba land sold all their human rights for over 20yrs just to attain presidency

Reach the presidency go plunge everything back to 1926

To show you how bad Nigeria is just bring slave ship from Europe or America you’ll see bankers and lawyers leave their profession to join slave ship

It has happened before. Jubril sneaked In from Sudan to Aso Rock and went ahead to incarcerate your Lord and Biafran savior after packing him in a box like sardine from Kenya where he went to do OLOSHO.

Judolisco:
How I wish NLC executives can be replaced with ASUU executives.... Infact NLC officials should go for 6 months internship at ASUU headquarters....

ASUU can’t train them properly. They will need Anambra doctors for proper tutoring. They were on strike for 13 months when Obi was governor. It was unprecedented. Anambra ASUU only managed to go on strike for six months while Obi held sway. Doctors hold the trophy.

If the policemen were doing their job well, those guys should ordinarily be at the magistrate court this morning explaining why they should not be imprisoned for constituting public nuisance and impeding free flow of traffic.

hammerFC:
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT.


NO MORE CONTROL, WE CAN NOW TAKE OVER.


OBI IS THE ONE CALMING US DOWN.


HE CANNOT DO THAT FROM CUSTODY, WE WONT ACCEPT.


WE WILL RATHER BURN THE COUNTRY DOWN.

You will just burn your village in the sad east. At worst, you will add Tuesday to your regular Monday sit at home. That was how you threatened fire and brimstone if judiciary no look your eyes. The judiciary commot blood for your eyes you begin they shout about another thing. Na only you get lighter wey you wan burn down the country? Just burn down your onitsha market and we will support you. Anything outside sadeast, you and your family go collect wotowoto.

maestroferddi:
I cannot see the point you are making...

You guys are shortsighted and it is a tragedy.

Have you for once considered the implications of what INEC did in the context of the future of this country?

You think this "glitch" theory will end with Tinubu's ascension to power?

I laugh at you guys because you have no idea of the virulence of the precedent you are setting today.

Monopoly for manipulations cannot reside exclusively with only a set o people...

you are the one that is short sighted. No country in the world upload results in real time. In USA, it takes days for the results to come in so there is nothing spectacular about IREV. the summary of the matter is that IREV is not the yardstick for credible election. In future elections, make sure you have agents on ground. Collate your own results and you have a real basis for challenging results. You just imagine obi won in your head and you went to disgrace your team at the tribunal.

PrinceOfLagos:
Tinubu was a drug baron who forfeited $460,000 proceeds of drugs to the united states government

He's a dirty man

How many of your uncles serving prison terms in USA for drugs did the American embassy come out with an official letter to defend that they didn’t commit any crime? The last time I checked…. All the drug barons from the East are being serially beheaded in Indonesia . That should count for something. At least, respect this drug baron. He has more brain than all your uncles who are rotten in Asian prisons.

PrinceOfLagos:
What have you ever achieved aside being a praise singer to a drug baron ?

President or not, Peter Obi is living the life that you wished you had

He was already a billionaire at 35 . What did you possibly achieved at 35?

Bought a house for $1million at 35 in London long before joining politics .

He's already successful

This is stupidity. You are comparing him to Obi rather than comparing him to yourself. It’s like comparing you to Tinubu… You don’t even know the guy. He may be in his 20s and may be making more money than obi at that age. What is wrong with you? This is brainless.
The person you called a drug baron…. Was a senator, a governor, a mentor of tens of governors, hundreds of senators and even vice president. His school came out with a bold chest to say he is their alumni. He has achieved so much more than the 3rd class fraudster whose only achievement was using your state fund in Anambra to get you drunk on beer while he is making personal profit. A 3rd class graduate that only submitted his school certificate for the election. Can you compare your miserable life to that of the drug baron? Can you swear with your life that you don’t have an uncle serving jail term for drugs in an Asian country? Every Igbo family will have one developer serving prison term as a drug baron. If you are not shameless, you won’t be calling others drug baron.
Before you compare someone to Obi, compare your father to Tinubu….. are you proud of him? Show us who your father is

Really

[quote author=Abidele post=125628511]Shove your dirty fourth class residency back to your stinking ass . Obi is a bad news for Nigeria. That we do t support your tribalist candidate doesn’t spell doom for Nigeria. Obi wont be better than Tinubu so keep your moronic rant to yourself

Abidele:
Here you go olodo...

Keep suffering and hoping everyone advocating for freedom is in your shithole

Freedom with Obi? You are a clown. Let us even assume you are outside the country, you think that means anything? Why didn’t you stay in Anambra that Obi gave freedom as a governor for 8years? You this tribalistic Obidient will just be deceiving yourself. Freedom ko, graduation ni

enemyofprogress:
CIMP! Commander in Chief of mad people

Can you now see you are the mad person here? Untrained children parading their ignorance as Obi supporters.

Konjiboii:
Be like you dey live for alternate Naija , your Tinubu will be disgraced today, patapata war go break and in my opinion it's about time.

I hope you can see who is being disgraced now? Emotions don’t win cases

Kukutente23:
They did. It is immaterial because it does not affect the final outcome. But that's what the Prof who was invited showed. That Obi won both states. The proceedings were even here on NL. There was a certain guy updating it till he was banned.

thanks for the update.

Kukutente23:
That's not true. It was clearly demonstrated in court that Obi won Rivers and Benue. Even the defence never argued that.

The address and the proceedings are all over the internet. Can you provide a single link where obi lawyers claimed they won those two states ? What was the score they tallied and presented in court to show they won? What was their eventual score? I m not talking about fake news online… I am talking about what was presented in court

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Obi don't need to say it in court,he already submitted the original results in court

I take it that like most young obidients, you don’t know how the court operates. The final address contains the major points of the contestants. The judges wont be sieving through those boxes obi dropped in court. It is just for camera and nothing more. There was not a single discrepancy in the final result and the ones eventually uploaded according to Obi’s petition so the judges wont rule on that. The judges will only rule on all those technicalities and pre election matters that obi brought before the judges.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
If it's not stupidity why is did Inec announce Tinubu won Rivers and Benue when they uploaded that Obi won in the Irev

Let me just assume this is true. Tell where obi stated this in his petition? You think the judges will pronounce judgment based on fake or unverified news? Obi never said this in court. I am not here to talk about your assumptions. I am here to talk about what obi said in court which is what the judges will use to pronounce judgement

onatisi:
i doubt it if anything dramatic will happen , i am just curious to see how the judiciary will wriggle tinubu and apc out of all these allegations, it is not totally impossible but it will take some form of ingenuity and high experience. one thing i have come to know about it , is dont expect too much from Nigeria, when you expect them to be bad, they do good and when you expect them to be good,they will do the exact opposite

It will actually take a lot stupidity from the Judges to be able to come up with a reason to annul the election. This is the most watery petition since return of democracy. Laymen have explained these watery petitions to you over and over again but you chose to be blind to the truth or rather, pretending to be blind to the truth. Obi did not present a single evidence he won. Tinubu certificate has been confirmed by the school. IREV means nothing because obi never said that any of the results they eventually uploaded were different from the one with his agents. Wether it was transmitted live or not, was there any discrepancy in the eventual result? 25 percent in Abuja is the most useless of it. They don’t pay more tax that all of us, they don’t represent us in any way, why would their votes carry more weight than mine.

The judges will need a very stupid reason to annul the election.

Doracity82:
. Keep scamming people to eat.... Hands will touch you one day... Your type die in Nigeria

Hahhahaha…. Typical obidient. Foolish boys with fish brain. Headless mob that can’t think.
For your information, I bought that page from a legit seller on Nairaland with a whopping 1.5million naira that time. I wanted to use it to market a product I was launching. I later realised that the followers did not fit the demographics of my potential customers that time. I put it up for sale and a responsible company bought from me with 1.1 million because the number of followers had reduced. I decided to school you because you guys are drunk. You only have a life on Nairaland. You assume everyone is hungry like you. You stay in your 2 by 2 shop and claim to be feeding your host. Foolish set of people

Doracity82:
. Na lie..... Suraju, stop living fake life.... It won't help you..... Stop scamming people with fake life.... It won't help your life. You dey Ikorodu Lagos dey hustle under bridge..... Go back to your village in Osun State and start farming.... It is more legit than scamming people

You are a child. You joined Nairaland in 2021. Many people know me on Nairaland. Some are wondering why I decided to roll with a low life like you this morning but I am on leave. I’ve been on Nairaland even when you were still running inside rain naked in your potopoto village in Anamabra. Your obi lost and will continue to lose. Go and hustle. Idiot

Doracity82:
You are in Ikorodu hustling under bridge. Last time I checked, Lagos is still Nigeria territory and we are one Nigeria.... So no quam.... We dey Nigeria... But know that immediately you plan to travel out, na instant death. Just mark this

If I show you my entire timeline on Google, you will die. This is despite the fact that China Australia and New Zealand where I spent the whole of March till June this year are not captured on my timeline. I am not hungry like you

Doracity82:
I have said it and my prayers stand.... If you love for APC and TINUBU and thought of getting Visa to travel out leave the government you voted for.... You will die horrible dead on the way... That is how it is. Just try it and see what will happen to you

Fool. I’ve been all over the world already. You are too late. Na your sad East people go die WOTOWOTO for voting the obi who got you all drunk on his beer . If you or your family travel down to Lagos from Anambra, na instant death as you wish.

genkins:
Doracity82
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This is probably one and the same person replying himself to meet anti Obi posting target.
Guys,waste your time engaging them.they have been commissioned to do this.i see them in YouTube,twitter and Nairaland.
Just like apapa,if the tribunal rules in favour of tinubu..you won't see them again.thier Job is complete

Hahahahah, I rarely comment on issues. However, we need to start talking so that drunk obidients like you won’t bring the country down on their own head. You need people to think for you. You can’t think and we won’t allow you to bring the country down because your tribesmen lost. I am on leave so I have time. No politician can pay me… I will rather pay them . Dunce.

Doracity82:
No protests... We have since move on.... So far na everyone will feel the impact of the bad governance.... Any Tinubu supporters that think of getting Visa to leave the country will die on way

Any Obi supporters that think of getting visa rather than relocating to Anambra that obi turned to eldorado will die on the way according to your wishes. Infact, any OBi supporters that refused to stay in Anambra where Obi developed and relocate to Lagos will meet their Waterloo on the way

Shaev7:
May your child have the attitude and character of Tinubu, say amen.

Amen of course.
Imagine if your Child’s regular visitors on a daily basis are minsters, governors, senators and ambassadors . Imagine the representatives of different countries visiting your child at home . You really don’t understand because the mediocre life of your father has colored your brain coupled with the effect of Obi’’s beer. So you want me to wish my child should have the attitude of obi who is ashamed of submitting his third class degree in philosophy or whose only investment as a governor was a 20 million dollars in international brewery? A drunkard whose only vision was to get the people of Anambra drunk? Can’t you see we have an epidemic of drunkards parading themselves as obidients all over the country creating nuisance for themselves and others? My brother, pray that your child be like Tinubu. Most people you know from the south East have spent some time in prison in Philippines for doing drugs anyway. Allow your child to be mentored by responsible people for once.

DMerciful:
You're just a child

I used to think obidients are dunce but I now know better. The only investment Obi made as a governor was 20 million dollars in international brewery. His intention was to get the citizens of Anambra drunk especially since they would have nothing doing on Monday because the Prime minster who is greater than Obi, Ekpa would eventually declare a sit at home and people would be bored without getting drunk on mondays. The investment is now worth 1.5 million dollars but it is a money well spent because the Obidients are now perpetually drunk on Obi’s beer. If you are not drunk, you won’t be calling your elder a child…blame obi for turning you to a nincompoop on his beer.

The Obidients introduced bitterness into Nigerian politics. How could you go to court and already concluded that unless the judgement goes your way， then you must protest. Why go to court in the first place? The worst part of it is that this is the worst and most spurious election petition in the history of nigeria. A petition so spurious and watery that if the obidients are not really a headless mob, they would have stoned obi for wasting their time in court.
However, obidients can’t think . They want to retrieve a mandate for a candidate who never challenged the result of the election in court but is asking the court to disqualify the winner.

1) IREV - Dead on arrival. Just like saying FIFA ( Court) must cancel a World Cup final match because AIT( IREV) did not broadcast it live even though the referee ( INEC ) officiated the match and declared a winner.

2) CIVIL FORFEITURE- Dead on arrival. Just like saying because kidnappers paid money into your account without your knowledge ( and police already caught the kidnappers) and the court asked you to forfeit the money then you can no longer contest. So many people were victims of such payments from kidnappers and 419 in time past. The police would arrest you and once they see the kidnappers, they will release and you will forfeit the money. That’s civil forfeiture

3) 25 percent FCT- Dead on arrival. When the citizens of Abuja start paying 25 percent tax more than others , maybe this can work. For now, they are no angels.

4) Chicago- dead on arrival. The school said it is our certificate. The headless mob said No, the school is lying. What kind of stupidity is that?

Anyway, it is time for police and military to do target practice because the petition can only be resolved one way…. In favor of Tinubu with heavy fines against Obi for wasting the time of the court.

Timoleon:
Which one be fear of victimization for this story? Is the source afraid the cow will find out about who snitched? Did the cow wait to be interrogated? Which cow did the police intend to arrest? They wanted to indiscriminately pick cows from the abattoir right?. Dem no serious.

Cows wander out of the abattoir and within the abattoir regularly, the police do nothing about it. Now they want to exploit the situation and ‘raid cows’ for interrogation and investigation.

I actually don’t know how I became a fellow citizen with people like you . You people just criticize everything just for likes. Imagine this cow killed your son. Will you still type this rubbish that you did? How I wish this happened to you so the police won’t exploit the situation. If you don’t know that the police ought to arrest the Cow and the owner then you are either wicked or a complete illiterate. The owners have to be charged for negligence in handling their animal. The cow have to be put down so something similar won’t happen to you and your family. The abattoir ordinarily should be closed down temporarily and the safety procedures revised and revisited. If necessary, all the workers will be made to embark on safety training. What is wrong with you young people of this country? You have no iota of decorum or human sense just to gain likes on social media and if they ask you now, you will say you are obidient. This is actually distasteful. Spit!!!!

Razgas:
while yorubas concentrate on just 4 places (Lagos, UK, U.S and Canada), igbos are more widespread and can be found in large numbers in both these mentioned 4 places and other places such as China or even Kenya

You are correct. We have more igbos in chinese prison and all over the world.

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