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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 8:48pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Yes they're giving discounts. I bought my ticket on Sat and I got the discount. chybabie: |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 10:25pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Thanks @The only123 and @belovedtianah I'm female. Course - Media Practice for Development and Social Change University of Sussex Billions123: |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 5:46pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
Hello my people! I give glory to God for his mercies and faithfulness. After two US denials last year and one Canadian denial in 2018, (all study visas), UK has opened their doors and I'm more than glad to walk through them. Application Sep 18 Biometrics Sep 28 Decision mail Oct 16 Visa approval/Collection of passport Oct 19 Na travel date I dey plan so. I want to profusely thank all Nairaland members on this thread, especially those who painstakingly and selflessly answer others' queries and guide them on this journey, (special thanks to Mimilyrics), you guys are the best. You don't know what you do for us. I came in here so dejected and confused but you put me through and now, I'm headed to the next phase of my life at the University of Sussex. May God bless you all. I have mixed feelings right now especially with what happened to our brothers and sisters in Lagos yesterday. It's sad that we have to leave our country in this sorry state even though temporarily. Please let us continue to pray for Nigeria wherever we are or find ourselves. This is our home. Goodluck to everyone still applying. Don't let anything discourage you whether age or degree or previous visa denials or whatever, dare to go for your dreams and God will make a way. If you need further assistance, please contact the UKEAS offices. They are very helpful as well. 18 Likes |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 8:17pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Hi Guys. For those who are yet to apply or who deferred, please continually check the school's website for updated information. E.g, Sussex University updates their applicant information page nearly every day. Now, many PG courses have been revised both in names, structure and start dates with January 2021 start dates. So, there's time to apply and meet up. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 1:48am On Aug 15, 2020 |
solarinde: Okay. But mine shouldn't be up to this oh. It's like you're going for a program of more than 1 year. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 1:43am On Aug 15, 2020 |
Phenmeson: Okay Nice. Thanks for this. I applied for the University managed accommodation, which is about 160-167 pounds a week. Everything is provided. Just come with your clothes and personal items. I hope its safe too. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 8:45pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Hi guys. Please how did you pay your visa fees and IHS fees, which is 648 pounds together right? Do you pay online with a debit card? What exchange rates do they use? Thanks |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 8:07pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Phenmeson: Hello. Pls I need more info about Brighton. I will be going to Sussex University in Brighton. What's the weather like? Thanks |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 7:01pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
mimilyrics: Okay. Thanks again Mimi. It's much clearer now. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 6:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
mimilyrics: I guess it should be. Then I don't understand why the supposed bank staff will make such a comment. Again, it doesn't hurt to ask. Better to err on the side of caution. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 6:33pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
mattfeuter: He said the bank said it's against their policy to verify unofficial bank statements. So, maybe everyone should check their own bank's policy. It won't cost anyone anything to verify first or to request for bank statement specifying its for embassy. Even without being told, that's what I planned to do. Some people don't like to take chances. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 6:12pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
rs172: Good advice. Noted. Thanks |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 6:10pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
mimilyrics: Okay thank you Mimi. So, my 28-day ready bank statement is going in with my online application right? How long are the wait times currently for bio-metrics appointment? Do you have an idea? |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 5:47pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Hi everyone. How was the weekend? Hope great. May God guide and direct us all in our academic endeavors. Pls at what stage do I schedule an appointment? Is the interview date the appointment date too? What is the time frame between bio-metrics, interview, appointment and online form submission? Let me not get it twisted. Please can someone break down the time frames for me? I'm still gathering my funds for 28 days and I need to know how to calculate everything. I'll appreciate it. Mimilyrics. I see you on here. : ) |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 3:02am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Orofun1: Yes thank you. I have confirmed this as well. You said you've been in this situation? Are you in the UK now? |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:26pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Royalty63: @Royalty63. That's great! We have the same destination. I'm going for the MA Media Practice for Development & Social Change. Congratulations on your admission. I got mine last week so I've been gathering info for the visa process. What's your next step? Let's connect. Anyone else going to Sussex? Let's all connect. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:20pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
duchess90: Okay yes. I have also confirmed this from UKEAS. Thanks again. Cheers |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 12:11pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
dduchess90: I appreciate your response but I don't quite understand you're saying. I was asking whether the UK immigration at the border will allow entry to the UK when your start date has passed. But I assume that if they approve the visa seeing the start date on the CAS, then it won't be a problem to travel. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 12:37am On Aug 05, 2020 |
I've received tremendous help and clarification here. I wanna say thank you guys. Nairalanders are the best. Now that I'm clearer on the process, I'm still a bit concerned that I won't be able to make it in time for my welcome week, which is Sep 21 and start of lectures, which is Sep 28. My school, Sussex University stated on their website that due to the current crisis and the unforeseen delays, they will allow students resume as late as October 16, 2020 and before that time, offer online classes. My question now is, will UK immigration allow students entry into the country even after our start date has passed? For US, I know they refuse visas when you are applying past your start date and don't like to see students travel after this date. Is it the same for UK? I should meet up with this Oct 16th date. I've emailed the school also with this question but while I await... Anyone?? 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:47pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
quille11: I have asked your first question before. So, it's advised that you leave the money in your account until you receive your visa decision. For your second question, I'm not sure they do but another person who knows better may answer better. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:26pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
kode12: Noted. Thank you Kode. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:25pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
Ibromoney: Okay. Thank you Ibromoney. |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 11:24pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
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Career / Re: Do Not Accept A Banking Job - I Refused To Listen by HerMoney: 4:21pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
I agree with the person who advised you should not be in a hurry. You need to reset your escape, make-it-right-now, short-sighted mentality. It was this same mindset that landed you in the mess you're in right now. You took the bank job just to make quick money and because it was the fad back then and now, you're looking for the next trending job to hop unto. Take your time and do your research while you also pray for guidance. Relax and look within not outside yourself. Think of your talents, skills and natural giftings and think of how you can create value by tapping into them. Not saying you can't learn a new skill but let it be aligned with your core gifts this time not just what is trending or what'll bring in money. You got the money through banking right but you're still dissatisfied. Learn a lesson from your past experiences. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 12:21am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Hello guys. Does one need to submit bank statement with the total tuition + maintenance for CAS? Does the 28 day rule also apply for CAS? Also, for Visa, can I withdraw funds from my account as soon as the 28 days are over and I've submitted my application? Do they do verification checks with banks? Pls help a sister out. Thanks |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 2:31am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Wow! This is mighty helpful Mimilyrics. Thank you so much for taking the time to share these info and links. You're too kind. I appreciate it. May God bless you and grant you a favorable new month. mimilyrics: 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by HerMoney: 1:11am On Aug 01, 2020 |
LagosismyHome: Thank you Lagosismyhome for the encouragement. I usually do such things myself but I'm really just overwhelmed right now, with work, personal, life, issues etc and after 2 US visa denials before the lockdown. I'm just tired tbh of grad school stress. Please what are the steps? I'd be grateful if you could outline for me please. Thanks and God bless you. Include charges and fees too please. |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by HerMoney: 8:25pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
gypsey: You obviously did not read the post well yet you're so quick to call another an idiot. The poster is the one who did the slapping. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by HerMoney: 6:59pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
dario078: I would like to know what better advice you offered him in your 'sensible brief post'. What results have his impatience yielded for him? If I don't show patience when I'm disrespected, I am the one who will lose my peace and my grace. And I'll live to learn that lesson another day. We can't run away from it. The universe makes sure of it. We are in this world to learn, grow and evolve and I'm more interested in this young man's growth and future success than in his momentary pleasure. |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by HerMoney: 6:52pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by HerMoney: 6:31pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Poster let me advice you from a mature standpoint. Don't listen to all these immature boys telling you to go and fight, threaten your brother and filling your head with stories about your brother and his wife using your glory, this and that. Rubbish! Wrong advice will create more problems for you but wisdom is profitable to direct. First, I will acknowledge that your in-laws have their own faults and have not handled this problem wisely. They ignored your complaints about your sleep disturbances then leaving your mattress out in the rain was completely heartless of them. Simple communication between all parties would have resolved things BUT it's unfortunate that your brother failed to use his authority as head of the home to instruct his young in-laws by decreeing 'No watching TV until about 9 or 10 in the morning.' At that time, you would have woken up and gone about your business for the day while they have the whole parlor to themselves. That said, let's focus on you now, who is the ONLY PERSON you can change really. You and no one else! Many of us fuel problems in our interpersonal relationships with our attitude and reactions because we are not equipped or mature enough to handle conflict and that's your problem here. You've let ANGER and PRIDE control you and in turn, it created more problems for you than you are equipped to handle. And you will never resolve it by running back to the village or getting your own place. You will only be at peace with yourself and your family AFTER you have learned the lessons and grown from this situation. Otherwise, you will meet a bigger test in future that you will likely fail because you didn't learn from this one. What are these lessons? You were wrong to slap your in-law. You were provoked but that is no justification for assault. You were wrong to refuse to apologize to her, whether she's your mate or junior, it doesn't matter. I apologize to my younger ones when I hurt them. You are wrong to insist on going back to the village rather than seeking a resolution that will benefit all parties. I'm not saying you must stay back and serve your brother for life but leaving angrily and prematurely is not the way that you are supposed to part ways with him. Seeking a resolution NOT running away is the wiser and more mature thing to do as it will benefit all parties and also allow you the peace of mind to make the right decisions for your future. Human beings can be troublesome but sometimes, when they see that you a peace loving person, they tend to calm down and relax around you. How do you exhibit this trait? Go back and apologize to the girl in front of her sister and your brother and let them know you understand your actions were wrong and have decided to take responsibility for them. Greet everyone when you wake up in the morning. Do your chores and relate with everyone normally. Go out of your way to be nice to them. Treat them like your younger sisters. Girls are emotional beings and usually respond well when they are treated with compassion. Offer to help them with little chores etc. Talk to them respectfully and not grudgingly. Don't resent them in your heart. It requires humility and grace to do these but with God's help you can do it. It won't feel easy on your flesh or ego but this is key to regaining your peace, freedom, power, dignity and respect that you've LOST in that house. Do all these for the next two weeks to one month and see whether you won't see a change. Then go on your knees in prayer to God to help make a way for you, whether it's by getting another job, no matter how little or your brother settling you. Other solutions and opportunities may arise, which you never thought because you are now at peace mentally and psychologically and can think clearly. I promise you, you will see a miraculous change if you take my advice. The peace alone you will feel might even make you not want to leave again. BUT if you do all these and they don't change, don't let your heart be troubled for God will be watching and you will get the reward for your obedience. Remember, God UPLIFTS THE HUMBLE and only humility will save you in this situation. Acting proud and insisting on your rights like so many have advised here will not. I can guarantee you that. I have so many testimonies of God's grace and upliftment when I humbled myself rather than choose to sulk in bitterness. Going back to the village might turn out to be a huge setback for you as you don't know the temptations and problems that are waiting there for you. This incident is an opportunity for you to step into the next phase of your destiny but the enemy is also waiting for you to take a wrong step and lose out or be destroyed completely. Open your eyes and be wise. You have more control than you realise. I will leave you with this saying by Ralph Waldo Emerson - 'A great man is always willing to be little'. So, stoop to conquer. All the best. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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