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i think french is a very important language in this world. i speak it, plus two other languages and i'd definitly want my kids to learn it.

i ain't even mad. there's nothin to be mad at, we should be grateful that peeps in Naija have this kinda money! Cecilia, i ain't mad at cha.

u guys live in nigeria, u shuld b lucky. my bf and i are oceans away frm each other. I've picked up this hobby of constantly being on the net, just to keep my wanderin eye from wandein far away, if u know wat i mean. so far, i've been succesful. hehe

Somebody Help: I Am Unable To Fall In Love
« on: April 14, 2007, 04:19 PM »

All through my life i have never been able to fall in luv.I have had scores of girl friends in the past and present yet i have never been emotionally attached.i fear this might delay my getting married.I have dated beauty queens,fair,dark, and any type of girl you could ever imagine yet to no avail and its not as if i am hard hearted.I just pretend as if something is there,while there is nothing.To even make it worse,women has always been attracted to me.I will meet a girl 2day,spend some goodtime with her and before i know it,i will completely lose interest in her.The most worrisome part now is the 2 girls i have on my neck.They so much want commitment from me.One said she would curse me if i ever leave her and the other one is saying that if i ever leave her,she would commit suicide.i dont have any atom of feeling for any of them but has been playing along all this while and i think they ve started noticing my unseriousness.So what do i do 2 maself?.

lol!!!! ur royally bleeped! if it's any consolation, welcome to the club. i faced the same dilemma early last year, i fought tooth and nail to leave both of them, finally i did. if u don't like any one of 'em, stick to ur guns and break up with 'em if they threaten u, just continue to stick to ur guns. thats wat i did.

cos he's smart and honest and doesn't judge me.

i think the question is wat DONT girls want? i want everything. and y not? i think i deserve to have everything. but then again men want the same thing, everything. we are human afterall.

love is good, hold up, how much money are we talkin? cos we all know money talks, hehe

been sleepin since last year!!! get it lollol!!!

WHOA!! hold up right there!! wat phn are u usinf 'fyneboi' and have you, 'fyneboi' ever bought a girl a phone?? second of all, the woman that values her phone more than her boy did that for a reason, he must not be treatin her right.

my boyfriends friends don't like me. they've never liked me, i've tried to be extra nice, cooked for them, constantly smiling at them even whn i'm moody but they dont give me the time of day, anyway it use to bother me but i don't care anymore i know it's cos they're just un used to my bf datin only one girl, they use to tell him to cheat on me cos i was the type that'll Bleep anyone, but he didn't give them his ear, so they've kinda just let us be (i think), i'm hopin they'll get ova themselves so that we'll all b cool with eachother

for all we care he could be dead.

he's muslim, if he was dead we'd have heard about it. cos they bury them the same day. plus it's not fair to wish another human dead

sweetie, i doubt he'll care, the whole story's wack! next!

lol!!!

sweetie, 124 Naira? that was like 3 years ago, we in 2010 with the terrorists attack it's gon be like 1 dollar to 180 Naira, we are so bleeped!!

it's 4 in the morning in Beijing, was out clubbin since 10pm. Happy new Year!

the wife, and y'all know it's true. next!

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

yup, find someone who's shy and desperate, good match.

telekinetic?

if she put her contact details on the world wide web for everyone to see, sorry son but it's for a reason. tell her to remove her number cos it's not safe, if she doesn't well then, act quick and back off

just get the girl to get her folks to back off. the mum can't do shit to u, don't b scared, or b scared and run for the hills!!!

all the guys that i've dated have all been smokers, and i don't smoke

sweetie, he probs is honest but just shy about his age. my friend's bf is like late 40ies too, we think, he hasn't told us his age but he didn't lie about it, what i'm sayin is he could still b honest but just shy bout his age. just judge on how he acts from now on, k?

am talkin 20 years your senior,

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See y'all next year!lol! which is in two hours here in Asia

would you date an older man who treated you right, understood you emotionally, mentally, who was on your level in everyway plus was so loaded that it was almost a curse the way he showered you with money or, would you date a young guy who had no money but still had other good qualities?
i feel as long as he and i understood eachother and were connected and shared that 'je ne sais quoi' it doesn't matter the age. plus, if he was loaded i'd definitly go for him, hihi.
and i've got a friend who's dating an older guy, way older than her, but you'd neva know he was that old cos he's so much fun to be around and showers her with gifts, takes her shoppin, takes care of everyone in the club, like aaliyah said 'age ain't nothin but a number.' wat y'all think?

if his dick is small, if his stupid, if he talks a lot (cos that means he lies a lot), there's a long list sweetie

okay!!now im bothered , why do girls like or better still love "PLAYERS"and then after the whole relationship(thats if there is any on the guys point of view)they go like oooh he dumped me, they know he is a player yet they fall for him,

because in our hearts of hearts we have this perception that it is 'me' who can change him, 'i' am the 'one' for him, girls are romantics, and unfortunately disillusioned,

There was this Nigerian man I saw in Church when I went back home for Xmas, the guy passed by me in Church and he stunk very bad, Please don't they use deodorants or is it poverty going through?

sweetie not all men smell. your judging all nigerian men because one guy stank? seriously i should think befor you write things that aren't worth being on the net. does your dad, uncle, brothers, cousins smell?

i don't think marriage is 'overrated' it's just that most people rush into it when they have nothing to show for before enterin, they aren't financially fit for marriage or emotionally or morally fit. and those kind of people after a year or two or 7 end up realising that they never really loved or sometime even like eachother, it was just circumstances at that time that made them want to get their feeling 'legalised'.
But i do believe in marriage. i'd love to end up with someone who be my companion for life, who i understood just as much as he understood me. who'd know that when i'm rolling my eyes it's because someone made an ass of himself, who could read my thought, my every movement just as good as i can read his every movement, who could provide for me, for our children, who i wouldn't judge and wouldn't judge me and back me up no matter what.
marriage isn't overrated sweetie. it's us that gives marriage a bad name. us, nigerians who feel woman whould be married at 25, and force firstborn male into marryin against his will, so he ends up hatin his wife, who tells us if you aren't married you're a nobody so we all rush into it so we don't become 'nobody's', Sad