₦airaland Forum

justbehappy:
Yes it can. I think it cost about 69 pence to make.

tertwilson:
Same issue with me I do a paid call and email. Don't get tired have hope and faith it will end well.

Fulaninigger:
Like SE, very small in size but troublesome

Erosion and potopoto will soon finish the remaining land

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
Pls mods should help me run this on FP

SonOfHercules:
I no fit cry oooo. No be only yahoo boys wicked ooo. Gnld na better scam. After paying dry cleaner to starch my cloths com still pay 1200 for transport. As the gal dey talk na God go punish you I dey talk for my mind.
Naija no balance ooo.
The gal go see me for Whatsapp.

odi1278:
I did my bio on the 1st August and got my brp on the 9th while my dependants did their biometrics on the 16th August and got moved to vac on the 23rd. Bro dropped in the 25th

odi1278:
We applied separately and MA was first

odi1278:
I did and it took five days for my dependants while mine was like 8 days.

Bashon:
I was in the same situation for many years. My genotype AC, but the ladies with AA usually have character issues. Some will even tell you they are doing you a favor, unfortunately. Most of those with AS usually the opposite. But at a point, I hod to throw caution to the wind and do the needful with someone that is AS. My brothers and sisters, every day of that 9 months of pregnancy was like, "what have I done". But when the boy came weighing almost 4kg without any issue, I calm down and after 5 years, did his genotype, it came out AS. Still trying for another one. But, please, this is not to say you should do same.

giselle237:
I hope you are filling the right application?

Linkwire:
Hello everyone ,

VISA ALERT !

Dependent visa ( wife and son )

I’m the M.A and I already had my visa . I wrote about my sour experience with UKVI and how I was able to navigate a wrongful refusal .

Ok so here’s how we handled my dependents application .

I paid for their visa application and IHS on the 5th of July .

Then I moved bulk funds from our business account to my wife’s account on the 5th .

Getting a date for TB test was tedious but we got 11th of July for them at IOM .

We booked for biometrics to be beyond 28 days after I moved the bulk funds . So biometrics was on the 4th of august .

Paid for priority for both of them .

Documents we tendered :
1. My wife’s statement of account ,
2. My own statement of account showing that we didn’t recycle funds
3. Consent letter for our son to travel with us and that we will be jointly taking care of him
4. Consent letter from my wife to cover my son’s living expenses
5. Consent letter from me to also use funds in my account to cover my son’s living expenses .
6 . Marriage certificate
7. NIN of myself and my wife that has the same house address .
8. TB test certificate
9. All my tuition receipts from the university and telexes from banks .
10. 20 pictures , mostly pictures taken in our sitting room and pictures taken when we were out on car rides and like 5 pictures from our wedding
11. My son’s birth certificate .
12. My wife’s change of name documents ( affidavit , newspaper publication )
13 . Immense prayers cos I later realized that it’s ideal to hold funds for 28 days even before paying for the visa and IHS (but I think what we did was some sort of loophole ) cos think about it , if we had held the funds before the 5th of July but didn’t get biometrics date until 4th of august , we would still Have received NSF to provide an updated statement as the number of days in between would have been too much to ignore , almost 31 days .
14. If you have the money , please pay for premium lounge . My dependent‘a biometrics was at TLS Ikeja , but the crowd there was insane . Their appointment was for 8:30am but they didn’t even know where to start with the queue . While they were still just contemplating on how to join, the officials of TLS started asking if there were any applicants for premium and this was around 7:45 am . It didn’t matter if your
Appointment was for later in the day . I think it had to do with the availability of space in the lounge . They sha entered at about 7:50 and premium lounge makes everything so easy and seamless , coupled with the assisted service . Wetin remain na make them pound yam , cook fresh egusi and hand feed my dependents .
15. Followed proceedings on Nairaland closely to know what to do and what not to do.
16. @duchess90 is a gem and doesn’t even charge for the premium service we enjoy . I still want to know why The person behind the moniker is so dedicated to helping Nigerians japa . Lol.

17. God will crown your efforts and we will all find favor on this journey we all are embarking on . And someday soon , we will return to Nigeria to contribute our own quota to make the country into what we will be proud of . Cos in all honesty, no place like home .

We received the visa within the 5 days as specified for priority service . No NSF

whoawa:
Let me Educate you, life expectancy in USA is about 78yrs and that of Nigeria is about 52yrs.

What this mean that a 75yrs old American is younger and stronger than 50yrs old Nigerian.


So never you compare Biden vs Tinubu