₦airaland Forum

chatinent:
At this stage, I just wanna only be around my own family.

I'm tired of strangers, who call themselves friends, doing stranger things.

even family self no safe 100%. Na only yourself you fit trust not to harm you.

Atleast 150k monthly

Funny how those always criticising ibos are the biggest problem of the country. Make Ghana decide not to allow Nigerians enter their country,make we see whether na only ibo e go affect.

zero8zero:
Don't put Nigerians in the bracket, Ghanaians were specific on the tribe. Didn't you read the article and Ghanaians mentioning the tribe?

continue playing tribal game and be deceiving yourself. You think a Ghanian sees any difference between ibo or Hausa or Yoruba?

See how low Nigeria has fallen. Nobody respects us anymore. Why should they,when we don't even respect ourselves. Nobody loves us anymore,why should they when we hate ourselves. Even in our country, foreigners treat us like slaves because that's what we are. A slave shouldn't be treated any better.

Nothing is wrong with you op. The success of a relationship is not in how long it lasts. Long lasting relationship costs a lot so it's better for you when it doesn't last.

Nnamdipapa:
I once gave 100% of my paycheck to the church after a preaching on first fruits. I missed my daughter's school fees and in hindsight, feel ashamed of myself now when I think about it. The Bible is a storybook for the Isrea nation and has nothing to do with blacks Africans, it is a colonization tool that never condemned slavery but rather admonished slaves to obey their masters. The god in the old testament is immoral, blood thirsty and genocidal.
I feel ashamed I once believed in the rapture, that we are gon fly in the skiy. Imagine the level of stupidity instead working on ourselves to fix our problems.

You are better than many that are still sleeping. Make sure you don't expose your kids to religious bs. Once the mind is programmed at tender age, it's difficult to deprogram.

Mariangeles:
We own this world. Are you kidding?

Even our Pastors dey fly private jet go do crusade for abroad.
Make e pain una well-well. 😌

pastor dey fly private jet and members no see food chop. Make Una continue dey deceive unaself. Pastor build school, church members children no fit afford school fees.Na only Nigeria all these bullshit dey thrive cos Una no want get sense.

Wadoh:
Yes, it’s true that some women enter relationships hoping to escape poverty, and some do treat their partner like an ATM. But to say that’s the "average Nigerian girl" is an unfair and lazy generalization.

Let’s be honest, many men also chase relationships for sex, status, or convenience—should we then call that the average Nigerian man? Nigeria is tough—but love doesn’t have to be.
Stop saying “that’s how all girls are.”
Start saying: “That’s not what I want—and I’ll wait for what I deserve.”

Not every woman wants your pocket. Some genuinely want your peace, your vision, and your presence.

Bros all women are like that. The earlier you know this the better for you. I had one from a rich home that told me she wasn't dating me because of money,cos the dad and brother are well to do. I thought,I met an angel. With time that billing and entitlement surfaced till I could not take it any more. You have to be at alert when dealing with this gender. Everything is game to them,na men they fall in love not them.

IbrahimSola:
Are you trying to have a PhD in her first?

Don't mind me, it takes a sharp man to understand a woman in 3 years. Even with that, you still need to do post-Doc to really know her.

At the end of the day, u still still find out that u have a lot to learn from her.

you fit dey with women for 20 years make you no still understand her

Nnamdipapa:
They are brainwashed to believe they are rich in Christ and have an non-existent mansions waiting for them in an imaginary heaven. They tell you they are not of yjis world. The level of mind programming is alarming.

you are on point. I see religious people as blind people. One was telling me how ladies can easily be brainwashed. I told him that virtually everyone of us has been brainwashed at one point or the other. I told him that the church he attends is a brainwashing center and he got angry. Funny how these people will fight you for trying to bring liberation to them.

Nnamdipapa:
I am living a better life than lots of people I know who ho to churches everyday. My siblings are general overseers in churches and pray everyday, they are suffering and living miserable lives.
My family is a very religious one so I know first hand the kind of misery and fear religion brings into one's life.

I am the one who interven in their lives to make it bearable.

There is nothing that I have not experienced in religion and If I have to be religious, I will probably prefer Buddhism to Christianity or Islam.
Abrahmic religion has done so much damage to Nigeria and the black people as a race.

religion is part of the issues in this country. It is why the citizens prefer to suffer under bad governance than demand for what they deserve. I regret been religious at early stage of my life.

Na nollywood and churches make Una dey see marine gals in negative way. Marine gals are more real than your fake pastors.

Alliswell248:
Tinubu is working.
If this were to be a good news, you won't bother to open the thread.
The bitterness is real .

Better go and work

yeye dey smell...even people when dey work dey see shege. Lazy man and hard working man no see food chop in this tinubulation.

iwaeda:
Sometimes when I sit to think, I ask myself, why are Nigerians so wicked to one another, just because of politics. Many will still come here and tell you things are ok, they may even ask you, must you eat rice. There is God oo, happy Sunday.

The people are as wicked as their leaders. The few rich only care about themselves. The rest can go and die. That is Nigeria for you

Prechgold1180:
Wetyn wan dey the will

Ok I hereby will my 9 trousers in Benin to nonso my first son

I will my shirts to Ken my second son

My toothbrush tv remote and pressing iron should go to ejiro my daughter

My mattress and bedstand including curtains scattered all over the country should go to Osaro my 2nd girl

To my beloved nkiru I hereby will my ear piece my pots my wallet and the piece of land measurement 20 by 10 at 10 osadebe avenue to u

To my brother I will my singlet and my 2 girlfriends to you

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

dominique:
Even when the drugs were less than 2k, there were Nigerians that were too poor to afford it just as there were well-to-do Nigerians who could afford the expensive one for 10k back then. Anybody that cannot afford Coartem should go and get Amatem. It's no where close to 10k and it's just as effective

There are always poor people who can't afford certain things but the percentage is much more now than before. Your arguement is just like saying,there are poor people in USA so it's not bad for Nigerians to be this poor which is very flawed.

iamL:
Try see for yourself. Seeing is believing.

I no dey close to them.

😂😂😂😂😂...I never experience am

iamL:
Just pass the night in the house of some of them, Deal with people in a close range You will prefer to manage your small life.

Some curse worst pass death.

Examples of what these guys could be experiencing that we don't know?

nedekid:
Oga entitlement mentality is relative. People are human and make ends meet through interactions. You cannot be rich and have a sibling struggling and looks to you to find his feet, you then say he feels entitled. You personally, no matter how well to do on you own level, you cannot tell me your childhood friend that slept and ate in your family house, your close paddy paddy roommate in uni now gets in a position and you require him to do something for you and you put pressure on him, he then says you are felling entitled. No be your persin?
Meeenn that is why northerners are different from us. I remember 1999/2000 I and a bro went to a ministry in fct, out of the 3 directors we met, the northerner was the one that treated us young men with dignity acknowledging our hustle, directed us to the Yoruba guy who was polite but said it was not under him, he then referred us to the igbo chap. Omo, let's just forget the experience with that fellow.
Aboki will not tell you entitlement. They will assist their blodas, we down south will say they are feeling entitled.
There is this politician from delta state, when his community was sponsoring village boys to go study abroad. It was his cousins turn, for reasons I cannot remember, the cousin stepped down for this fellow giving him his slot. Unfortunately after that the community scholarship stopped. This guy went abroad and excelled, a big time solicitor. A big man in the country. Will you say the cousin is entitled if he asks for connections for himself? If he eg has a child that just graduates and needs a job and is now pressing for his cousin to help out? Will you say he is entitled to ask for assistance from his cousin? Oga pray you have no need to ask someone you feel is your person for one thing or the other, you then hear tori that he says you are felling entitled.

Nobody owes you anything. Once you have this at the back of your mind,you wouldn't expect too much from anyone. Whatever help you must have rendered to someone in the past doesn't mean the person owe you anything. If he decides to reciprocate,then it's fine if not move on. It's high expectations that birth entitlement mentality.

Dididrumz:
If person dash me 1k now sef I go too appreciate am.

even #50,I go too appreciate. Do you know what it means to let go of your funds,no matter how small to others? You are giving them a piece of you,so it pains to the bone marrow if that is not well appreciated.

Babamide:
We use the term Friend loosely in this country.
Some people are colleagues, some are your acquaintances, some are your competitors while some are just your enemies. It is when money matter occurs that you would know who is who.

as in...I dey shock when people dey say this one na my friend,the other one na my friend.If one is given the ability to read people's minds,he would stop using the word "friend" carelessly.

maasoap:
We shouldn't stop lending a helping hand to people, we just need to learn and know who to avoid

Omo good for you,me don comot body. I no want know who is worth it or not.

Lol....Una still dey dash people money? Lessons will have to be learnt in a hard way sometimes.

guobe:
Curse de o ,the politicians that are destroying Nigeria get curse wen de follow them too.
I don work with politicians and I know what I am saying.

curse no Dey work. Are you aware an average politician lives longer than non-politician. Most of them Dey cross 80 years with loots that can cater for their next 7th generations to come.

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow your logic at all!😏

If there are no signs of foul play in the case that the girl was a girlfriend or acquaintance, what legal troubles could come from that?😐😐😐

Lol,this man again ...you sure say you dey this Nigeria?

heracles1:
she can die in 20mins after entering your house

The chances of that happening is very slim compared to her sleeping over. Let's just say the longer she stays the higher the chances of such happening. I seriously don't advise any guy to allow a gal sleep over in his place. I have done that in the past and couldn't sleep all through the night. It's too risky especially in this country.

Why them no dey send me this kind message? Na who dey fear death,dem dey use death threaten.

Jman06:
Nigerians are naturally evil! No wonder God punishes us with evil leaders. Just imagine stagnating someone for 5years without the person committing any offence. The most annoying part is that on Sundays they'll dress up and head to church yet evil permeates every sector. Too bad!

very evil set of beings.Na tinubu we go still blame for this one so?

Not just women,humans generally love lies. Saying the truth forces people to look at themselves,which most are not comfortable with so they prefer lies.