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definitelyME:
I will be 21 years old by June this year and I am currently out of school(dropped out for some personal reasons last year) but I will going back to school in a few months time since i gained admission this year.. I still live with my parents and to be honest, the pressure to leave my parents house especially from my dad's side has been much this past few years(although he wouldn't say it directly). Although my father is a very well to do man, with lots of properties I can't even keep track of, he always emphasise on the need for me to go a hustle for my own money and not depend on his(which I know is for my own good and I am currently working towards that).. After much thought to it, and not to forget I am the first child of five children, and two of my younger siblings who I senior with 3 and 5 years respectively, will also be writing jamb this year too seeking admission, I am currently nursing the idea to abandon the admission I've gotten this year and go look for a job. A job that pays at least 40-50k so I can work through out the year and make savings of at least 30k every Month, then at the end of the year, I use about half of the savings to start a business that can run while I school. Like okada business. I wouldn't be riding the okada. I will use half of the savings to buy the okada for someone to be riding and bringing weekly income of maybe 10k while me I go to school...







Note- I have already gotten potential jobs I would be submitting my c.v for one of them on Monday. And If I eventually get the job, I would be going to work from my uncle's apartment (he is still young too 27, without kids)..







So would you advise me to sacrifice one year for work or just accept my admission and go to school.

JovialJune:
Make Google your friend, men are more than women in the world.

Figger:
I no understand, if God has actually answered our prayers, why then has it failed to manifest.

Datboredberry:
Extremely beautiful!

Dude above..: poor people always calculating money...

GuyWise:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Dangrace01:
You'll pray from morning to night no result you'll go to church no result

But one yahoo boy would use juju on someone it would be as effective till eternity.

Why is juju powerful

Munzy14:
Probably how you see him...

I read where you said his wife said some from her husband's work place ones threatened her...

These things linger for a while, you will think the person have moved on, story when they can't, they will do it the street way..

Last week, a man was about dropping his kids at school, when some guys double crossed him, I don't know how he mustered courage to jam his car with theirs, opened door and jumped fence..The guys shot at his direction but miss the target.

Funny thing, he left his kids, but the guys didn't go for his kids...Probably he is the main target for termination..Things like that can be traced from work place.

When you have a job to do, do it well, and build bridges as well...No do like say you holy pass...And use humour and smartness to paralyse the dirty mindset of some colleague atimes.

Klass99:
In a way I can relate because the Internal Control & Audit guys at my workplace are not well liked either.

They are always at logger heads with other colleagues or their HOD is fighting with other HODs.

I get along with the HOD just fine and I like him, because our interactions have been pleasant so far, but people have beef with him.

I think ICA staff are generally not well liked, it is not an individual thing and if I was your friend's wife I will not take a threat against my life lightly, before person go rearrange my face with acid.

I hope the threat incident was reported?

Munzy14:
It depends on how he was discharging his duties...Probably in harsh and vindictive way...

This is where logic comes to pragmatic approach.

Same audit he does and created enmity, someone else will still do it and his/her colleagues will flood his occasion at least to appear friendly and closer in the good books.

The difference depends on individuals..

Some people act like demi-god when they are in control....But forgot the way up is down...The ladder you use climb, person fit remove am

And this your family friend even get mind to dey do high occasion..smh he should work on his ideas in General.

Munzy14:
It depends on how he was discharging his duties...Probably in harsh and vindictive way...

This is where logic comes to pragmatic approach.

Same audit he does and created enmity, someone else will still do it and his/her colleagues will flood his occasion at least to appear friendly and closer in the good books.

The difference depends on individuals..

Some people act like demi-god when they are in control....But forgot the way up is down...The ladder you use climb, person fit remove am

And this your family friend even get mind to dey do high occasion..smh he should work on his ideas in General.

chatinent:
That's an argument?

Lol.

NobleRace:
Rather than attacking the guy baselessly, you should have given him sound Biblical basis for the Roman Catholic practices which he so detests.

Now, tell me that scripture in the Bible where Peter, James, John or any of the earliest Christians bowed down to Mary, prayed through Mary, used Rosaries, worshipped the Queen of heaven or made an image of Jesus to bow down to.

If you can provide sound Biblical basis for these things, I'll turn Catholic today.

chatinent:
Hmm.

The way you call people liars tho.

Angelfrost:
Honestly, I read nothing meaningful up there... Matter of fact, I read nothing beyond the part in bold, which did nothing but show you up as an ill-bred, over-defensive dunce!

Don't ever quote me again!!!

Newboss:
Were you the one who sold the substandard material to them? The chances that a 21 storey building was constructed using substandard material is almost zero.

Most of these are caused by structural design flaws.

Angelfrost:
I knew there was a reason my wealthy uncles refused to use Nigerian Engineers and builders for all their houses... They always went as far as Ghana and Benin Republic to even recruit.

One of them said he didn't want his roof to fall on him while sleeping on a rainy night.

lexy2014:
I wonder who always comes up with these qualifications and makes them d criteria. Today, they will say it is ICAN. People will start running from pillar to post. Tomorrow they will say it is ACCA. They will leave ICAN and start pursuing ACCA. Now it is CFA. The rat race has begun. Before some people finish getting d qualification, another one will come. They will now say CFA is obsolete

dairykidd:
Some of those aint bro codes but codes for men who aren't sure about their sexual ot. Who the fck eats bananas and looks at anyone in the eyes? Why will any man be interested in another man's unclothedness pout for selfies Wear pink undies.. wtf Ask another to the bathroom? Guy u serious Not all bro of a bro should be ur bro.. If ur interests doesn't blend with mine then stay the fvck in ur damn lane bro cos u ain't my bro so therefore if the girl of such a bro of my bro tempts me i will passionately serve her what she deserves.

Offpoint1:
Women are by nature RECEIVERS and not GIVERS...

stupidmod3:
with their pointing tip dey still won't tip

Georgejeez:
The OP is quite right ,all my years as an MC ,I have noticed women hardly spray MCs no matter how good you may have anchored the event ..
As a master of ceremony ,once you go to MC an event and discover 90% are women ,just know that you have run at a loss that day .
It's better for me to anchor an event where there are 60 men and 40 women than the one where they are 600 women and 40 men

yuping:
I'm not turning your words on anything, but we also single for a reason better know to us, not because we are irresponsible, some of us are even take care of other people family.

yuping:
Ok, what about divorce people are they responsible?

Khaliphragnar:
True talk oo op me ordinary thinking of getting married and having kids sometimes makes my brain step up

yuping:
They just want push us enter their clique (married people pressure) in jack sparrow voice (its single life for me)
But that's your own opinion, I'm responsible I don't need a partner or kids to show it, my community and family count on me that alone says alot about me.
So where do you place the divorced people are they also not responsible? Just curious from all angles.
If they are not responsible Bill gate is something else.

1onebigman:
8 I just de watch,anyways op,you see all this men wey mostly de beat dem wife bah,Na because most of them no handle them maturity and responsiblity responsibly when dem dey single.so In essence,for you to be responsibly responsible and matured in marriage,it's start from when you are still single

Sonnobax15:

Op,na only you sabi that one