Skyken99:
And they will think this is life & enjoyment..

then it is what?

ednut1:
just open mouth any how. D parents seperated just few years ago when d kids were already adults. Make u dey generalise upandan asif gals from non seperated homes no rude too

baba calm down you dey take am personally...

NessaBoo:


Mshewww! This is exactly what a feeble minded juvenile would say, as if you can ever measure up to a girl with all the qualities you just listed.

Kindly let me enlighten you a bit, because, for one, men don't always know how to be men, "can I get an AMEN" (Pun intended ). But that's okay. We need to let you learn. We are not your mother and won't attempt to teach you. And check this: if you're the right kind of man. I'm talkin about a man worth it, then guess what? You should already got your mind's gears grinding up a way to snag the lady, just patiently seeking the right opportunity.

Sorry. But in my years of existence I have never seen a woman approach a man and not seem like one of 3 things:

Aggressive
Pushy
Desperate

Just want to know, lemme ask you a quick one, if i make the first move, and you're satisfied with it, am i going to lead you around for the rest of the relationship? Will i pick you up for the first date? will i Pull out your chair, or open the doors for you, etc. Forgive the facetiousness, but I seriously doubt it and will soon grow tired of taking the lead and making the decisions. But hell, I've already set the precedent. Gotta be consistent, right? Is that what you really want?

So its not ideal to be an eternal feminist who, at the end of the day, still wants and needs love just like the rest of us. So, know your role, and we leave the agression to the men.

this is a fabulous response. Why should a lady approach me...? It will never work, it has never worked and will never work....even the green light sef ...truth is when a man is ready...he is

TechCapon:
that's my prayer everyday. Initially I thought Andela could do it, but not really.

we lack character

queenbetsy:
I miss my dad











...but I will never see him again!

you will see him again. There will be an awakening

So the Osus were not originally Igbos..... No wonder

Frankenstein:
Are you sure you are Igbo? The first Christian converts were the Osus. Christianity helped in abolishing the long practiced Osu caste system.

that guy knows nothing about igbo

ikennaf1:
One of the disadvantages of Christianity at the time. The people regarded as osu are just people who devoted themselves and family and future families to the worship of a fetish deity.... mostly due to safety reasons or hunger.

Due to influx of Christianity at the time, those people were therefore declared outcasts. They and their descendants. It's all shades of wrong. Whatever one does in a bid to protect himself, he should not be judged for it. During the civil war, a whole community dedicated themselves to a deity when their community fell to Nigerian soldiers. They shouldn't be judged for it, but they are. Religion is not hypocritical but it turns on the hypocrisy in us.

Christianity didn't declare them as outcasts... it was the hypocrisy in humans that did.

As a matter of fact, most Nigerian Christians will want to distance themselves from people whose families are said to have dedicated themselves to one deity or the other.

you know nothing about osu

sisipelebe:
He slide into your DM, just like his bestie Banky, who slide into Adesua's IG account.

let me sef slide into your DM

If we all behave nicely to one another, definitely the world will be a better place. We should all strive to be better, that way we can accommodate others and make life more interesting.

I observed that we can become better if we change or modify a few things about ourselves. Let us start with the following:

1 Always be willing to forgive. We should allow forgiveness flow naturally In us. Some people can keep a grudge for aeons. When we let people know that we can always forgive them, they will be willing to tell us the truth. As humans, mistake is inevitable. Nothing should be unforgivable.

2 Respect people. Irrespective of age, position or hierarchy always be the first to say "hello". Some people believe a lady should greet first... That is incorrect. Politeness and civility should be in the unconscious. We should exhibit it without thinking. Don't assume you are better than the next person, even if you are, there is no point bragging about it

3 Love. Loving is easy and it comes naturally to us. We should learn to love family, friends, colleagues and even people who don't seem to care about us. Loving makes us human.

4 Manage your expectations. We should always learn to manage the expectations we have about life and everything in it. Always expect less that way you won't be disappointed. You won't feel betrayed or cheated. Always remember there is a human factor in everyone so have a prepared mindset when things go south

5 Accept responsibility. Be responsible. Strive to keep your job. Take responsibility even when you will be marginally liable if something go wrong. Build the right mind frame that makes you responsible.

6 Learn to give. Giving makes you happy. When we give unconditionally, we make the world go round. We don't have to own much to give. Giving is beyond material items. We can learn to give our time, voice, experience and aptitude.

7 Be slow to anger. It doesn't take much to get a Nigerian angry. We should move past that. We should develop big shoulders and thick skins so that anger and rage will be a thing of the past

The list is endless but let us start with these and imbibe those attributes that will make us better.

I love you all!

4oyrsExperience:
Pls is there any1 who was dropped after medicals?

Who knws if theres ever been a case like that

how will this information profit you? Learn to focus on what matters

Kentrasso:


Can someone provide an answer to this?

hello Kentrasso I wished we were in same batch (we had AC same day but different time) . We are almost rounding up TS. Yes there are ppl that had their medicals last year and did not show up. Dkingskid is probably one. If you had your medicals last year, you should give your HR contact a call (preferably Gbenga). I trust we will finally get to meet...do have a great day....congratulations once more...do not triple your size before leaving TS... I came in with 4packs and I am about leaving with 6bags...

dkingskid:
3rd batch of TS. We did documentation and medicals in November, after the Feb guys got their TS mails

We are in the same boat...have you received invite for the 3rd batch....?

dkingskid please you said something about 3rd batch on the first bank thread and I want you to explain to me cos I have done documentation and medicals. Infact I have given up already on the exercise. Were you called sometimes in January? I was called but I was at work and thought I will be able to call back later but they are not picking up.....

sisisioge:


Alright, sometimes its all about the physical for women too. Abi what could a married mother of two be doing bunking a marijuana addict? He must be very very convincing

you look good

dkingskid:
Some of us are waiting for 3rd batch o

3rd batch?...pls explain

dammycutie:
Yes I have

congrats

dammycutie:


I did mine in November, I am yet to get the email for invitation to training school.

hello bro! have you gotten invite for TS? dkingskid? cutemorriz? is there anyone that has done medicals and yet to get TS mail? i don go hiv test sef...

bopm:
wen GEJ was dia, they shouted he z a Southerner and over dia dead body will he win 2015 election. As a matter of fact one of the ppl dat altered DAT statement kaita lawal may his soul rip jus died. now they HV dia person still d violent has rather increased and no peace in the land

The killings must continue. The NA never killed anyone...we were all rejoicing when the descended on the unarmed Igbos...today it is their turn...who knows tomorrow?

God be praised may this continue ....When the Army went to Aba and committed atrocities you guys were cheering them...lol...sooner or later it will be the turn of the Yoruba's...kill them all....sips brukutu...

Guys if you had your doc/med in November (2017) and you were sent TS mail pls indicate so that those of us yet to receive can know where we stand...tanx

dammycutie:

I also did my documentation and medicals in November but I am yet to get any mail.

haaaa...me sef no see mail...see as I dey look my mail box ...tank God say I never resign o...imagine say I miss January payment ...but why gbenga no rememba send us mail na?....

Drli:

I don't know whether u have gotten a mail before inviting u to TS for Jan. I just got invitation mail for TS schedule to start February. Have not gotten mail since documentation at the end November.

when did you get the mail? Also when was your documentation/medicals?

Pls all those who did their doc/meds in November have any of you gotten TS mail

Those Igbos you murdered are waiting for you at the other side!!! In valhala...May BH continue to grow in peace, in might, in strength and in intelligence. An attack on BH is an attack on the North!!!...BokoHaram will win the battle...by 2020 all the IPOB and ODI murderers will be buried in the desserts of Sambisa...

dkingskid:
LMAO. Your illness has nothing on the medicals, so theres nothing to worry abt. As for related news, we are likely to be scheduled with the jan 8 batch. That's the inkling i got from the HCMD guy during documentation.

let them send us the TS mail na so that one can comfortably be sure of the batch and also take some concrete steps...I think we should call him this week

Hello guys!!! Congrats to those resuming tomorrow....those that had their documentation and medicals on the 6th/7th of Nov. Any News? @saqo @dkingskid @cutemorriz....to resign from my current place of work dey hungry me like gala ...and for the records I was seriously ill when I had my medicals...

lyntiffany:
you guys are quick to judge and condemn others.
Let me ask what makes Lola the trouble one? Is it because she is Yoruba? Mind you paul never married an igbo girl either he married from Rivers State.

I just don't like the idea that you guys emphasise so much on her tribe, that's totally not cool, not fair and equally not acceptable.

This someone's wife, lover and soul mate that you guys are demeaning like this, that's not fair pls. It's Peter and Lola's marriage and not tribal war.



Pls before you call me afonja mara na abum ezigbo nwaafo igbo so biko gbado ya ebe afu.

and who says rivers is not igbo? I am from Rivers, ozuzu town to be exact and I am Igbo

alexialin:
Even guys who are not rich have 7girlfriends. Decieving them all, one after the other.

So what's new about Mayweather having his own several women at his beck and call.

It's not news jare.

"Alex lady"...that is how I like to call you...you can be funny sha.. .

Mheeeeeen what a thread... ...so this is the reason why so many NL niggers aren't married yet ...you are all waiting for a fall in price ...lalasticlala you sef dey wait? Even seun too...

sisisioge:



Craaaze dey give you bear hug!

but the OP is speaking the truth na

vicfuntop:



What's your point ?

I have made my point and is crystal clear do not try to feign ignorance. Seemingly we started on a wrong footing and it may take aeons to redeem that. I trust your General Overseers are done with their court battles. Now I believe they can teach you guys to be even-tempered.

I stared at your picture twice...enjoy the rest of the day.