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Stargurl20:
Agbaya alaini tiju

Ori e turninoniown

I'm just here to read comments.
Interesting perspectives.

Just to add a little, I once had a Cougar who was trying to get down with me. She was almost twice my age. Her reason for being promiscuous at that age was because she was robbed of her youth as she got married off at the age of 18 to 40+ man. So after giving birth and training all her kids to the university level, she decided to live her missed life. But mine is different because na them dey rush us.

pocohantas:
I hope you won't mind when your 18 years old daughter is knacking a man twice her age. There is one reason men like you dread having female children, because you know what men like you can do to a female child. Because you know she isn't an adult after all...

When you clocked 18, did you see yourself as a adult or a kid? You didn't admire the attention men were throwing at you especially those twice your age that wished to date you. Were you open to telling them your age not minding that they might see you as still too young for them? Me finding out her age shows the level I place myself. Why una dey carry this matter for head like wig? I tire o. Is this something new?

Emaprince:
keep quiet woman. This is what women are mostly known for. More women sleep with under age boys than their male counterparts do the girls. Open a thread about this and see how many men were disvirgined by older women when they were still 14, 15 etc. I had my little experience too. A man may talk about it just like the OP because we don't pretend..but a woman will go to her grave with the experience...and nobody will ever know it happened.

I know a man is expected to enjoy the experience, but when the table is turned, it becomes a crime.

Just goan sit at the back madam. An 18yr old girl with enough endowment is good to go. You want her to date a 20yr old Naija guy that is still living and feeding off parents...and will do NOTHING worthy of note for the girl except free sex?

Stop acting like saint. When you were young, even if you were not humped(though those in their twenties humped you) by older men, you enjoyed all the attention they gave you. Well, that is if you were endowed front and back.

Calling men perverts won't change shit. The younger the fresher...as far as she is 18 and above



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Why is it a knack and go..according to? How about all the financial gains that will come the girls way? Are this dumb? Or why do women deliberately always play the victim in everything?
You enjoy spending a mans money and all the expensive gifts phones etc that he will get for you with money he laboured for. But you will end up claiming used and dump because you two agreed to have sex?

You've really said a lot especially molesting young boys, make I no talk about my experience. Women play victim card. Aside the age difference, I was more concern about the consequence being we're neighbors. An 18yr old is already an adult.

PrimadonnaO:
I honestly honestly have a demon I'm struggling with... don't even know what to do about it! Food! And cake! I can buy a whole 8k coldstone cake and finish it all by myself! I dread the day I'll wake up all blown up! No proffered solution has worked thus far.

Love cake too afraid the day I'd get poisoned with it.
Try hitting the gym or do home aerobics frequently like twice a week even once a week is ok depending on the intensity so as to burn the calories you are piling up.

PrimadonnaO:
Your train of thoughts is distorted... And you seem to be desperately trying to salve your conscience because you perhaps have a reputation of deceiving young girls just to get laid.

Now, it's one thing to have sexual thoughts about a young girl that's perhaps very developed, but it's another thing entirely for such a grown ass man to be nursing those thoughts...and trying to make deliberate efforts to sleep with her. Not having a defined relationship o... nack and go. And, no I wasn't, at 18, getting humped by some man who was nearly or over 10 years older.

All ye perverts! Repent! You'll have daughters.

Who you calling a pervert? Abi bomb dey your head.

How would you feel if I ask you about your age as a Lady cos you find it offensive.

Why are you saying it with all certainty that it a hit and run kind of thing when you don't know my plans. Would I have asked of her age if I don't care about getting down with a teen. What if she had lied about her age. Like you don't know about cougars. Abeg shift make I see road since you don't have your own demon you're struggling with.

kingofthemall:
Any course one can go through to really understand this crypto

There are lots of resources online esp via YouTube. Search for andreas antonopoulos. He covered a lot about it. You can also check out this site cryptohub.club as they have educational materials on the topic. Hope I don't get banned for this. Kindly note that I have no interest in this site/organization and they're just for educational purposes.

Goddys:
Can I pm you?

No wahala

SmartyPants:
Why did you collect her number?

Just for keepsake.

introvertme:
Cash flow from where?

Funding has always been the problem with crypto, so many great ideas but no funds.

Yeah. Very true. Generally, funding has been the problem of startups hence the coming of ICO made it easy to crowdfund a project but that process has been abused hence crypto startups are finding it difficult returning back to VCs and other models of funding but still some are getting funded. Some can get funding from potential users that like the project especially if it's open source project. Check out gitcoin.co grant funding or try other platforms that do KYC on investors and offer STO or security tokens through their platforms. Not saying ICO no longer works but you'd need to put in lots of effort. Nigerians are not forthcoming too when you do ICO so your project needs to target a global audience. Cashflow comes when you work on an MVP and get potential users to start making use of the platform. Makes it a little easy to get funding.
Sorry, I'm already getting carried away. Getting into business mode. TGIF

But this is a different thread which is about my compound Ladies.

introvertme:
You don do ico?

Nah! No ICO. We focused on our business model and operate using our cashflow which will be big enough to sustain us if no seed fund. MVP is ready tho. The use of blockchain and cryptocurrency is to help solve the problem of the target users so we don't want speculative or secondary market trading hence no ICO.

PrimadonnaO:
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Well, I expected you'd retort with an insult

In all honesty, though, thinking about sleeping with several girls in your compound is not the way to go. Totally out of character...the height of ignominy!.

Won't your sense of self worth be hurt? If you don't have the strength for a relationship, best you stay on your own. If however you have to be associated with someone, let them no it's a no-strings-attached relationship.

If truly you're not thinking about sleeping with an 18 year old, then you must know that no responsible woman would indulge you and your overtures.

Thank you for re-enforcing it.

stanliwise:
you're welcome. As far as you expose yourself and socialise you will come across the taste of person yoh want.
But come o just because you work at home does it now mean you are glued at home? like you don't go out much?

Don't go out but trying to change that. Improving.

nnamzy007:
come who, the he'll do u think u are?

Just a simple guy. You have a problem with that?

I have been a nairalander since 2007. This is my best time on the forum based on the advise. The general consensus is not to do it cos the consequence will be a bitter wine. Will try as much as I can to keep the cassava away from the goat. Thank you all.

stanliwise:
Op apart from all other problems the issue of dealing with childish behavior is not a small thing o. only you will be the commander, provider, decisions maker, risk bearer. you go dey babysit and advice the girl also o. The kind of weird decision they will take is something else and remember you have to deal with their show offs. You may be saying she is mature just by looking at her from far but when una start na run you dey o. To avoid all this build a fence between the cassava and the goat. If all fails, use style to confront her and make her admit she likes you and then throw it to her face why you have taken such action and appeal to her how it is not possible. stand your ground if she tries to convince you and make her see the boundaries and even lie to her you have a girl friend and make it more loom real if possible.
It is some years later you will know the good you have done to yourself. self integrity and peace of mind is worth more than gold o. in some years time you will thank me later.

Totally forgot about this. Thanks. Reason why I've not had a reasonable relationship ever since cos I consider the age and maturity not to talk of companionship.

Simplep:
Hmmmm
What manner of men do we have now?
How can a man in his 30s be having sexual thoughts on an 18yrs old girl?
May God have have mercy on our future daughters
How i wish i can see this op,better slap i for give am ehn,nonsense

How can an 18years old be intentionally tempting a 30+ yr old?
Looking at your profile pic, you might weight up to 55-60kg. I bench with 70-80kg at the gym. Your mind go carry your hand to slap me

PrimadonnaO:
But it's the truth. Your priorities at your age are flawed and misplaced. Fantasizing about an 18 year old... you want to "chop" all the girls. I doubt any girl who knows her self-worth would indulge you.

Okay. If you have the time, read up on my earlier responses and possibly other threads on my profile. Not all bachelors are irresponsible and nothing is wrong with my fantasizing when I'm not castrated.

PrimadonnaO:
You're such a fool.

A big one or a small one?
If you have nothing tangible to say why not just walk away. Must you display your ignorance and uncultured nature?

Fidelismaria:


Lol

So our younger girls are no longer safe again

O chim

Gone are the days where dating girls under 20 is found repulsive and embarrassing

Now these days people they para they wan chop both the underage and overage

Op abeg no touch the younger one

In fact train her, teach her some IT skills since you're a tech guy

Let her know that an independent lady is more valued and admirable in front of men

Keeping goat and yam together is not a good advise. Already talked one into being an independent lady. This one works. You might not know you committing child abuse until you find out their TRUE age.

Truth be told, the reasons most young ladies lie about their age is so that we don't look down on them as being small for us. She never told me her age. I found out from her elder sister. Like I said, she has a mature body and behaves mature. I had to create a picture in my head to find her repulsive by equating her to my last born that's four year older. But her recent move threw my guard down.

Thank you for the advice. Some aspects I did not consider was made know especially monitoring spirit part from her family and food cos I like cooking.

ceeroh:
I really don't know what to do, I wanna give it a try but at the same time don't want people to see her entering my house.

I think there's no way to avoid this.

pulsa:
Nice to meet you dude, what is ur startup by the way?

Blockchain and cryptocurrency space with focus on international commodity trading. Can't drop site here cos that would reveal my identity but major announcements coming out soon.

pulsa:
Are you by any chance involved in the software industry?

Yes I am.

Bamz:
I was thinking the same thing. Running a startup takes every bit of your time. Most times you're obsessed about it.

Yes, very true but you have to learn to balance your life socially. I won't say I regret the sacrifices tho. I just choose not to reply him above. Calling me a boi is insulting. My first startup is up 12 years now with about 5 staffs. I just had to let it go as a severance package to my cofounder to form another one. I've seen the ups and downs of doing business especially a tech based one. It takes a lot from you and that was why I never knew any woman until I crossed 30. My present startup is based on distributed team so I basically work from home now. I guess one of the downside of working from home is the temptation especially when you're not married or sex starved.

ceeroh:
I'm in the same dilemma, mine is not a compound girl though, but we live on the same street. I wan enter this girl, but people too respect me for area. Na my fear be dat, and she seems like someone that will cast if I do the do.

I understand this. I know the mother and we talk sometimes about issues and compound stuff. Very jovial and free woman but her girls are wanting something else. Already pushed a lady away from the same compound that another mother wanted me to date and since then the mother stopped talking to me.
It's well bro.

Burgerlomo:
Biko dey use diplomacy 4 them

One already already asked why I don fancy any of them. Some Ladies can be bold sha. I had to sit the youngest down and talk her out of boyfriendish when she complained I collected her number and haven't called her once but have called her sister. and the only time I called her sister was when I saw her missed. God help us.

Thank you guys.

Kcgeology:
if are looking forward to a healthy relationship, i see no reason y u shud nt date ur neighbour. U are favourably disposed to study her and knw her true nature. U dont lose respect by dating ur yard or lodge mate, u lose respect whn u lack self control and flirt around with every dick n harry. My wife used to be my neighbour for two years. We gist, laugh, play, quarrel just like neighbours. When i discovered what a treasure she was, i neva wasted time to tell her my mind. Am happily married today.

Congratulations on a happy marriage. Would like to have such a relationship but man, the age diff is much cos I'm well above 30 and she is just entering 18 but you won't know cos of the mature body. They're five GIRLS in that family though I fancy her more but I have been avoiding all of them but it's like they are just being persistent cos they know I don't have a woman and hardly bring any home.

lilmax:
there are regrets of course

your confidence, respect, integrity should always be intact

get the ones outside your home its less stressful, no quarrel no fight....

well except it's one month to parking out

Ok. Thanks

Larryfest:
You are very correct but i don't think the op is the settling down type, he just want to have a taste of the compound girls..

If we no have taste of compound girls, my brother wetin we gain

On a serious note, you think wrong. Just that I don tire for girls matter and I prefer to focus my energy now on something more productive and living my life rather than prioritizing women. I was discussing with our security guard early in the morning about an issue when she came out on her night ware that makes the shape of her double barrel visible and walked passed me with "good morning". She was virtually naked. If not that I know her age, which I consider too young for me, I for don enter since.

Goddys:
Leave that mugu..he thinks marriage is for all. Don't do that. There's nothing as good as self respect and prestige. Get girls outside and invite them instead. You will hav regrets if you sleep with a compound girl. Scare them off like I'm doing. Are you a freelancer?

Yeah but bulk of my time is putting up my own startup.