WORDWORLD:


# bolded reminds me of this funny joke allegedly Mugabe's.

Hidemyface:

You've really said a lot especially molesting young boys, make I no talk about my experience. Women play victim card. Aside the age difference, I was more concern about the consequence being we're neighbors. An 18yr old is already an adult.

Simplep:
Y should i prove myself to a riff raff like you?,I'm very sure you are one of those jobless boys that runs their mouth only online..infact i can't argue no more,OK,i be ashawo and I'm dating like 3 guys now,they spend money on me well,yes,I'm a who're
Happy now?

pocohantas:


Stop wasting your time, they are not wired to have a conversation like sensible creatures.

They think everyone is like their mother and sisters. I can't understand why any man with a working brain would think every woman fcks around. Except if that is what he sees everyday or he is projecting his own life on you. That is unacceptable.

Hidemyface:
From experience guys that have played such game, any regrets? Been avoiding them but the temptation just heighten this week cos I work from home.

pocohantas:


I hope you won't mind when your 18 years old daughter is knacking a man twice her age. There is one reason men like you dread having female children, because you know what men like you can do to a female child. Because you know she isn't an adult after all...

pocohantas:


I hope you won't mind when your 18 years old daughter is knacking a man twice her age. There is one reason men like you dread having female children, because you know what men like you can do to a female child. Because you know she isn't an adult after all...

Simplep:
Y should i prove myself to a riff raff like you?,I'm very sure you are one of those jobless boys that runs their mouth only online..infact i can't argue no more,OK,i be ashawo and I'm dating like 3 guys now,they spend money on me well,yes,I'm a who're
Happy now?

Hidemyface:


When you clocked 18, did you see yourself as a adult or a kid? You didn't admire the attention men were throwing at you especially those twice your age that wished to date you. Were you open to telling them your age not minding that they might see you as still too young for them? Me finding out her age shows the level I place myself. Why una dey carry this matter for head like wig? I tire o. Is this something new?

Hidemyface:


When you clocked 18, did you see yourself as a adult or a kid? You didn't admire the attention men were throwing at you especially those twice your age that wished to date you. Were you open to telling them your age not minding that they might see you as still too young for them? Me finding out her age shows the level I place myself. Why una dey carry this matter for head like wig? I tire o. Is this something new?

pocohantas:


Nice deflection
He couldn't/didn't answer the question.

pocohantas:


I hope you won't mind when your 18 years old daughter is knacking a man twice her age. There is one reason men like you dread having female children, because you know what men like you can do to a female child. Because you know she isn't an adult after all...

djon78:
The truth is that the more matured you are as a man, the deeper attraction for younger women. This is a fact women may not understand. And during our grandfathers generation, that is why most men married more than one wife, they married the first one earlier, latter in mid life they marry another, some even marry three etc.
My mums dad married 3 wives, while my dad's father married 2 wives.

I think it is only in Northern Nigeria you may still get a bit of that now.

It is just modernization that turned everything upside down. That is why scenarios like this present case arose. And surprisingly most young women are the ones that even give men green light, you will be shocked at what they know. And if you are not self controlled well, you will fall. Moreover 18years is the age of consent in our laws. So 18 is legal in the eyes of the law.
But if it is 17 below, my hand no dey am.

WORDWORLD:


By societal structure ladies marry men that are older than they are. By our natural instinct a girl of 13 is way far more matured than a boy her age. Even at 13 a typical age of PUBERTY in most girls, she has already started thinking about men.

djon78:



naturally a woman from 20 maximum 23, should have gotten married to a much older men of from 32 upwards. But today, women will say they want to get education and work. That's why we have so many women in there 30s not married. And the late twenties are also joining the que.


That's why I advise my young relatives who are women, to marry btw 21 to 23, and marry a man in his 30s, you will be giving that man your best years.

djon78:



naturally a woman from 20 maximum 23, should have gotten married to a much older men of from 32 upwards. But today, women will say they want to get education and work. That's why we have so many women in there 30s not married. And the late twenties are also joining the que.


That's why I advise my young relatives who are women, to marry btw 21 to 23, and marry a man in his 30s, you will be giving that man your best years.

ibkayee:
Only reason most of these old men chase after young girls is because it's easier to impress and manipulate a 18 year old than a woman his own age. Otherwise I don't know what a decrepit 30 year old pensioner would have in common with an 18 year old

ibkayee:
Only reason most of these old men chase after young girls is because it's easier to impress and manipulate a 18 year old than a woman his own age. Otherwise I don't know what a decrepit 30 year old pensioner would have in common with an 18 year old

ibkayee:
Only reason most of these old men chase after young girls is because it's easier to impress and manipulate a 18 year old than a woman his own age. Otherwise I don't know what a decrepit 30 year old pensioner would have in common with an 18 year old

pocohantas:


There is nothing that will ever please you all. I won't be surprised to see you no another thread, bashing Nigerian ladies. Calling them desperate with no ambition other than marriage. Talks of how they are always looking for a man to use as poverty alleviation, unlike their white counterparts with careers and goals. No be una again?

Confused lots.

pocohantas:


Evening newspapers are hard to please na

One minute they want an independent career woman, the next minute they are eyeing a teenager...When I say they love them dependent, they will start arguing with me.

ibkayee:

Lol don't mind them, nothing wrong with being in a relationship with someone younger than you but an 18 year old - 30 dynamic is just weird, you're at completely different stages of your life development wise, mentally etc, just as per life experiences in general. I'd even understand a 24 year old, but 18? Nah, there's just something very exploitative about it

ibkayee:

An 18 year old is technically seen as an adult and I know that some relationships with large age gaps can work out, as long as it’s formed organically and not done with an agenda

Lol when you see ancestors making it their life mission to hunt after barely formed embryos, you know they’re after the power imbalance that will likely come with it that will give him the upper hand, allowing them to control her essentially

pocohantas:


You all are confused.

Even God had to ask Adam a question twice in the garden of Eden. But I understand, y'all have two brains, one up and one down. The one down has a way of overriding the one up.

If not, I can't understand how the same men who claim they want independent women, will also want to date teenagers. Abi are teenagers now independent.

The only thing fresh about an older man is most times financial stability. Which is why they marry you and give the freshness to the younger ex-bf on the side...

pocohantas:


You all are confused.

Even God had to ask Adam a question twice in the garden of Eden. But I understand, y'all have two brains, one up and one down. The one down has a way of overriding the one up.

If not, I can't understand how the same men who claim they want independent women, will also want to date teenagers. Abi are teenagers now independent.

The only thing fresh about an older man is most times financial stability. Which is why they marry you and give the freshness to the younger ex-bf on the side...

pocohantas:


They will still ask you if it is fact or ...wetin be that English sef. It is the same reason they go for dependent women. It is not like they are so altruistic. It is just their way of watching out for themselves, their ego and ability to control.

Yes, there are people who do it for genuine reasons, but for the majority, it isn't.

Which is why it pisses me off whenever they try to make it a religious issue when such topic hits FP. Men all over Nigeria sleep with teenagers. The next day, they dress up, login to NL and act all alpha.

pocohantas:


They will still ask you if it is fact or ...wetin be that English sef. It is the same reason they go for dependent women. It is not like they are so altruistic. It is just their way of watching out for themselves, their ego and ability to control.

Yes, there are people who do it for genuine reasons, but for the majority, it isn't.

Which is why it pisses me off whenever they try to make it a religious issue when such topic hits FP. Men all over Nigeria sleep with teenagers. The next day, they dress up, login to NL and act all alpha.

pocohantas:


I am even wondering what they will be talking about. BODMAS? Ecosysyem?

Lol, leave these ones.