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Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:34pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
ibkayee:Erm, it's is easier manipulating a 30 year old though. Trust me, it is. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
ibkayee: Am not surprised. Some ladies have so developed a line of thought that is but full of envy. Some of you feel OPPRESSED because 'A MAN IS IN CONTROL' so you keep fighting for the ILLUSION called 'FREEDOM' and have succeeded in ruinning the microest structure and most important institution in humanity called FAMILY in the name of POWER TUSSLE. WHY ARE YOU THINKING ITS BECAUSE OF TO BE ABLE TO CONTROL, THAT'S WHY A MAN MARRIES A YOUNG LADY? 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by ibkayee(f): 11:37pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads:How? |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by AHCB: 11:39pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads:You're blessed in your brain bros. Some people just don't know these young girls make complete mumus out of these so called old men. toke makinwa Wey dey pansh a man twice her age. The man Don turn complete mugu for her side. Chai! 3 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 11:39pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: Add a "desperate" 30yr old lady. Abi is it not on this same NL we read that evening newspapers are too angry with plenty rules? How then is it easier manipulating them? All these contradictions sef. In fact, lemme bookmark this thread... |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
AHCB: Trust me they know! The can't enjoy such privilege any more which is the reason for the bitterness. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:43pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:Personally, I won't date an 18 year old. She'll most likely bore me to death and there's definitely the gap in thoughts and so many other things. But to say it is wrong for a 30 year old to date an 18 year old girl is what I'm still trying to understand. Is the age of consent no longer 18? If a man decides not to, then it's an individual choice he made. People are different and have individual choices. It doesn't mean 'Men are Confused'. Some would rather independent women, others would prefer dependent women. Nairaland Romance Section is not a representative of 'Men all over Nigeria'. Stop the generalisations. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 11:47pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: When I was 18, I was in my 3rd year, smarter than lots of alpha males I am sure I wouldn't bore you, would have have dated me, dearest Zicoraads? |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by AHCB: 11:47pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
WORDWORLD:yea I understand but they fail to understand some old men still prefer old cargoes. LOL. All they need to do is find their level. |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:48pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
ibkayee:Most 30 year olds in Nigeria are desperate and mostly settle for any man. I've seen men manipulate ladies who are in their late 20s to 30s to the point of feeling pity for them. The promise of marriage usually removes all senses. From giving all of their savings to slaving for a man. Girls who are younger on the other hand have so many admirers and time on their hand. Most of them are stubborn. They mostly just act the way they want to act, without any care in the world. 4 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:50pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:You still bore me, my darling. But... But... You and I know you are different. Always was, always would be. |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 11:53pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: Would you have dated me when I was 18 in my third year? Or you prefer me now I am 35? No deflections... |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
THE TRUTH IS THIS, MORE AND MORE LADIES ARE BEGINNING TO CHOOSE TO NOT ALLOW SCHOOL TO STAND IN BETWEEN THEM AND MARRIAGE. THINGS ARE CHANGING. MORE MEN ARE MARRYING YOUNG LADIES WHO THEY SUPPORT AND DO NOT DEPRIVE THEM OF THEIR FUTURE AMBITION TO BECOME WHAT AND WHO THEY WANT TO BECOME. ITS ABOUT MAKING YOUR TERMS FOR MARRIAGE VERY CLEAR. IT IS VERY GLARING BEFORE OUR EYES HOW ALOT OF 30 SOMETHING AND 40 SOMETHING LADIES ARE OUT THERE WITHOUT A HUSBAND SIMPLY BECAUSE THE CHOOSE TO GRADUATE FROM SCHOOL BEFORE GETTING MARRIED. |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:55pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:Most 30 year old ladies in Nigeria are desperate. Sometimes, they won't admit as much, but when they sleep at night, without any strong arms of a man covering them, or the feel of a boner behind them, or even the thought of menopause. I don't take all that 'Evening Newspapers' talk seriously. Especially when one sees the characters that say it all the time. 1 Like |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by djon78(m): 11:56pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: That's what they don't understand that younger women are very stubborn. Although men like those there stubborn, I don't care attitude. 2 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
AHCB: You have spoken the TRUTH. Different strokes for different folks. 2 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 11:58pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: Hmmm, the story of my life. You did this intentionally right? God will do it for all of us. 2 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:58pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:Lol. At my age, I won't go near you at 18. At 35, aren't you just a sweet, old wine. |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by zicoraads: 11:59pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:Leave me oooo. In short, I dey go sleep sef. |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 12:03am On Feb 02, 2019 |
zicoraads: At least you won't go near one. You will see a guy arguing that it is okay for an 18yr old to be dating a man in his 30s, fine both are ADULTS. What I don't understand is why guys freak out when their younger sisters start dating. I guess men love to protect their own, while knacking another person's teenage ADULT sister... Una well done o 4 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by ibkayee(f): 12:14am On Feb 02, 2019 |
zicoraads:I’m talking about the general mental capacity of an 18 yr old vs 30 yr old, not how much they can be fear mongered into marriage. As per where they are mentally in the context of life experiences, money, self reliance etc, the average 18 year old will not have had as much time to develop these things as someone older, thus will likely be more impressionable than a 30 year old. Scaring someone into marriage is a form of manipulation I guess but that's not what I'm talking about lol |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Hidemyface: 2:48am On Feb 02, 2019 |
I'm just here to read comments. Interesting perspectives. Just to add a little, I once had a Cougar who was trying to get down with me. She was almost twice my age. Her reason for being promiscuous at that age was because she was robbed of her youth as she got married off at the age of 18 to 40+ man. So after giving birth and training all her kids to the university level, she decided to live her missed life. But mine is different because na them dey rush us. 3 Likes |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by bullabong(m): 5:28am On Feb 02, 2019 |
pocohantas:18 in 3rd year?what Uni is that?private? I am quite interested in a brain challenge with you. No strings attatched,i just doubt ur claims..Alpha speaking |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by bassette(m): 7:50am On Feb 02, 2019 |
Simplep:You have just shown you are one of the many Nigerians who conclude n judge without first reading understanding and in this case, following... Sad!!! |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by pocohantas(f): 7:51am On Feb 02, 2019 |
bullabong: I don't talk to alphas |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Nobody: 7:54am On Feb 02, 2019 |
Lol,you better go through the guy's posts before u talk nonsense bassette: |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by Emaprince: 11:04am On Feb 02, 2019 |
WORDWORLD:well said. They are just bitter and jealous the attention is shifting to much younger women. 1 Like |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by AmeLonRo(m): 11:07am On Feb 02, 2019 |
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Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by bassette(m): 11:47am On Feb 02, 2019 |
Simplep:Have gone through most of your counter comments and clearly you've been quite insultive in them while attacking anyone who's matched you..not good! Well OP clearly stated his situation, he was able to paint a clear picture of what happens in most abodes around here to which I can relate. He never in any way mentioned him sleeping with the girl, besides him bringing it here shows his level of maturity and openness. The bashings from the ladies is what I can't seem to relate with. I believe if this thread should draw more positive comments vibes and feedbacks, it would become an educational piece to help future single men in such age bracket n young ladies alike better know how to respond/react in similar situations or circumstances or as the case may be. Its never always about trading insults and talking down another gender. One thing about human living is that mistakes are always made...and when it comes to sex and its relations, its always very sensitive so tread with caution. Nobody holy pass abeg. Stay open! |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by eteforlor(m): 12:22pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
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Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by NNAMDIII(m): 12:31pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Nembeboi:nigerdeltaboi ? death machine? I know say na one of una go dey behind this moniker |
Re: Consequences Of Sexual Relationship With Ladies In Same Building As A Bachelor? by karli4nia(m): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Hidemyface: Bros there are a number of consequences oh! Like a happy or sad matrimony, unwanted pregnancy, disease, bad or good luck, spiritual set backs or upliftment etc And then temptation is normal its what and how you transform it and your intentions. If one of them girls are good looking and really catches your fancy, why not try have her for keeps.. Who knows.. I mean you can have good intentions and be capable..that's what's important.. One fit be your wife u dey look so oh... Abi u no wan marry for this life? U know say wetin dey for sokoto most times dey for shokoto. 2 Likes |
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