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PoliticsRe: Rivers Converts Site Of Demolished Hotel To Primary School by Highesschief1: 4:44pm On May 13, 2020
Na wah oo
PoliticsRe: FG Spends N679m Daily On Feeding Schoolchildren During Lockdown by Highesschief1: 12:45pm On May 13, 2020
wahala dey
FamilyRe: My Husband Is A Loner by Highesschief1:
That was how I was feeling so bad one weekend because arsenal played one kind rubbish football, I couldn't eat, don't want to gist just wanted to be left alone.
Meanwhile I placed a bet with my guy for office and I will also have to buy beer for the rest of the guys on Monday as part of the bet.
So my mood was bad through out the weekend.

the yabbing from the guys and even some ladies on Monday will be badddd! and I was thinking why cant these arsenal player feel our pain as fan and save us this embarrassments.

Suddenly I got a call from my mother asking me what's wrong with me, that she spoke with my wife and she thinks all is not well in my home..

I went inside the room and met my woman acting moody... How do I explain to this woman that it was the rubbish defense that arsenal refused to buy that is responsible for my foul mood?

This is my advice madam.. Your husband might be battling some little demon and he is not ready to bring you in yet, it could something at his work place, his health or his family etc
we men don't talk about issues affecting us as easily as women because we are tought not to appear weak.
Give him time and space and this is the time to be his friend and please don't probe him as you might end driving him away and even irritate him.
He will eventually come around on his own.

But why is it that any time women don't get their man's attention the urge to cheat comes up?
PoliticsRe: Video: Children Sprayed With Chemicals As Kano Street Is Being Fumigated by Highesschief1:
Down south... Parents would have flogged their children to stay away from that chemical that could be harmful to their system.
CrimeRe: Young Housewife Stabs Her Husband To Death In Bauchi. PHOTOS by Highesschief1: 5:20pm On Apr 25, 2020
Good lord, she is still a baby..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Worst Interview Experience? What Happened? by Highesschief1: 12:51pm On Apr 24, 2020
Lol
PetsRe: Suggest A Dog Breed For My 12 Years Old Boy, Please by Highesschief1: 10:31pm On Apr 19, 2020
Get him a st Benard, nice large dog, good with kids, very obedient and easy to train, not very aggressive to bite grand ma or other family members that visit occasionally but won't let strangers in, also good with other animals like chickens etc. Infact a st Benard will protect your other pets and animals in the house.. Got one two years ago and I have fallen in love with the breed
CelebritiesRe: Pregnant Simi Unveils Her Baby Bump In Her 32nd Birthday Video by Highesschief1: 10:05pm On Apr 19, 2020
11 minutes plus video just to tell us say person wife done carry Belle! Are we this jobless? Abeg covid-19 come and go ooo
RomanceRe: Advice: What To Do With My Boyfriend by Highesschief1: 1:48pm On Apr 19, 2020
Stop nagging him about marriage, he is still young if he is below 30, stop building you future around him, just do your thing.. The dude has been with you for 4 years, cares about you, gives you money and does not cheat on you.. My dear that's commitment. Don't drive a nice guy away from your life because of your obsession with marriage..
A man has to be mentally ready before he gets married.. While ladies have been dreaming about their wedding since they are little girls.

I remember when my wife whom I have dated for 5 years through out our university days started putting pressure on me, it nearly broke the relationship because I was not ready mentally and she had suitors all over the place, guys that are even richer than me...

Getting married to a guy is a big step in his life and it might take sometime for some of them to get ready mentally but that does not make him a bad person or do not love you..

Do the following and it will help you prepare him mentally..

1.Show him the importance of having a woman by making your presence count any time you are around him or in his house...make his house a home.. Let him be eager to rush home because you came visiting

2. Make yourself a little scares, don't just be available any time or day he needs you, men don't value a cow if they can always get free milk. Travel out of town, visit your relations, spend time away from him.
Get a life away from him that way he will value any time you spend with him and like I said earlier make your presence count so that he will look forward to spending time with you again.

3. Have plans for yourself and talk to him about it and please don't mention marriage as part of your plans. It's his duty to fit married and himself into your plans e.g tell him of you plans to further your studies, start a business, learn a trade etc..by telling him you are increasing your value in his eyes and what you are bringing into the marriage.

4.watch his circle of friends, how many of them are married? If most of his friends are single the chances of him talking about marriage is low.. Visit friends that are married, young couples, little babies, it will help set his brains into seeing the joy of marriage...go for naming ceremonies and birthday parties of your friends and relatives, drag him along.. Introduce him to the other man of the house.. The bros know what to tell him..every married man will always tell the young men that marriage is sweet even if he is lieing.

So sorry for my long talk but I hope you learn a little bit out of it.. I am old school
CrimeRe: Little Boy Mistakenly Accused Of Being A Spy For Cultists In Lagos Rescued by Highesschief1: 11:39pm On Apr 14, 2020
Always listen to your mothers little boys
BusinessRe: See What A Young Man Named "Smart A Israel" Did At GT Bank Port Harcourt by Highesschief1: 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2020
Hope you are in the banking hall to actually make a transaction that needs you to visit the bank? if not, you are one of the problems.
I saw a young girl today shouting and insulting the bank's security and everyone working there, one of the marketers asked what the problem was and she said she wanted to withdraw 15k, he asked her to use the ATM she responded that she does not have an ATM card, he then asked if she has any of the e-channel on her handset so that she can make transfer and receive cash from him? she said no, the Banker now address the crowed that were listening to his conversation with the young lady saying "this is the reason why elderly people and those that have genuine need for our services are facing challenges because people like this that have refused to upgrade and at times like this they will blame everyone but themselves".
While I get the msg in you story, 70% of the people gathered at the bank don't need to be there, we create certain problems and look for who to blame.
CelebritiesRe: Banky W Reacts To Government Suspension Of Social Distancing by Highesschief1: 3:13pm On Apr 10, 2020
I just want to say Congratulations to those that donated to the federal Government, just want to announce to you all that your burnt offerings have reached heaven as the Account General has now officially become your Chief Priest. Una weldone ooooooo
FamilyRe: What Has The Lockdown Opened Your Eyes To? by Highesschief1: 5:50pm On Apr 07, 2020
That I could actually start and finish a book.
PoliticsRe: Coronavirus: FG To Evacuate Nigerians Abroad by Highesschief1: 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2020
Lol
BusinessRe: Spar Shopping Mall In Calabar Collapses, Customers Feared Trapped (Video) by Highesschief1: 11:18pm On Apr 02, 2020
This is as a result of kwarruption. Doubt me? ask EFCC chiarman..
PoliticsRe: Coronavirus: Ministry Of Finance Begs For Ventilators On Twitter by Highesschief1: 11:15am On Apr 02, 2020
buhari has successfully turned us into a banbi allah nation
HealthRe: Coronavirus: It Appears This Chloroquine Is Really Working (tweets) by Highesschief1: 8:25am On Mar 29, 2020
Franzinni:
Thank you for recognizing the doctor who found the combo becssue trump almost sounded like he found the idea himself ... This Donald trump self !!!
trump did well to come out with it, a lot of pharmaceutical companies would have made billions combining it as one drug and come out with it as a new wonder drug.
AutosRe: Tokunbo 2006 Toyota Corolla Sport For Sale In Nigeria At 1.680m by Highesschief1: 3:22am On Mar 22, 2020
Location please
FamilyRe: My Husband's Father Saw Me Half Dressed In The Bedroom And Still Stayed by Highesschief1:
I got kids, my own kids ooo, in my own house ooo, I tought them how to knock before entering my room but I still lock my door any time am naked.
CelebritiesRe: ''I Blame Myself For P-square Break Up'' Mr P SHOCKS Fans by Highesschief1: 9:30am On Mar 16, 2020
We already know that...
CelebritiesRe: Meet Nigeria's First Cross Dresser In Imo State Named ''area Scatter'' by Highesschief1: 9:25am On Mar 16, 2020
Very few people can play this instrument today in the East... Did any one notice the lady at 0:20.....?
PoliticsRe: Sanusi:poorly Scripted 2023 Northern Drama. by Highesschief1: 12:05pm On Mar 14, 2020
Guys use your head.. I repeat use your head!

PoliticsRe: Muhammadu Sanusi II Our Next President (why?) by Highesschief1: 10:03am On Mar 12, 2020
Use your head guys this is jus a game.. I repeat use your head

CelebritiesRe: “this Is What Very Blessed Looks Like” DJ Khaled Says As He’s Pictured Sleeping by Highesschief1: 10:00am On Mar 12, 2020
godofuck231:
then he's not a complete man, where is his wife, he's just bles, the wife completed him
the wife took the picture... But seriously you wife is the only person not related to you in your family... Think about that for a moment
EducationRe: This Is The Coldest Place In Nigeria, It's Not In Plateau State. by Highesschief1: 7:26am On Mar 12, 2020
Try panshin town in plateau state
PoliticsRe: How Sanusi, Family Members Were Harassed — Lawyers by Highesschief1: 5:17pm On Mar 11, 2020
It's just a game

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Between My Teaching Job And A Bank Security Job by Highesschief1: 8:33pm On Mar 04, 2020
namiji2598:
ur post just made my day sir, am also a fresh graduate with 2:1 too, I have done the same security jobs and teaching job this Op is even thinking of, please can I mail u maybe u can jus teach me some few codes even if it's online, or if our distance is not that that wide....please
ok
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Between My Teaching Job And A Bank Security Job by Highesschief1: 7:44pm On Mar 03, 2020
It breaks my heart when I see young bloods settle for so little! What is 20k or even 40k in this difficult country.. You are even asking for advice on which to settle! You even have a 2:1....must you collect salary? Them take salary swear for you? This is my advice... Send that certificate to your mum to keep in her box for you then go and learn a trade, hand work or any craftsmanship.. Go and do boyi-boyi for some igbo folks even if the agreement does not involve settlement at least they will support you with goods on credit and they will teach u.
Dedicated two years of your life to what I have said and you will definitely be better off than taking that slave salary job that might leave you frustrated for years.

If you are an undergraduate reading this, please start learning something, acquire a new skill, meet traders and show interest, they will teach you also put that data to proper use by researching the internet, material for any thing on this planet can be found there..
The education you have acquired will be an added advantage.. Better research, presentation, proposals
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Advice Me To Do The Surgery In Dubai Now I’m Suffering The Pain by Highesschief1: 7:08pm On Mar 03, 2020
Tundezy6:
Nigerian transgender woman popularly known as Bobrisky has finally revealed the bitter truth about the surgery she did in Dubai last year that the Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh scope her to do it.

Bobrisky having said that Tonto led her to did the surgery now she left alone with the pain, suffering alone and also has caused a lot damaged in her body system.

Watch video here
she?
FamilyRe: Cute Mother And Baby Pictures Of Animals by Highesschief1(op): 3:49am On Feb 27, 2020
Finally some human babies...

If an animal is capable of showing this kind of affection to their offspring how can we as humans, sociaty and country allow this?

What kind of mother is Nigeria to her children? To think some people are ok with this?

This is not about religion or tribe.. and don't say it does not concern you because it affects you some how.
This is wrong in every way.. No sane person should defend this.. As a nation we should be ashamed... Let's show love to our babies as you can see from the above pictures even animals can do better..

FamilyRe: Cute Mother And Baby Pictures Of Animals by Highesschief1(op): 3:24am On Feb 27, 2020
More pics

FamilyRe: Cute Mother And Baby Pictures Of Animals by Highesschief1(op): 3:22am On Feb 27, 2020
Check out the large mammals... Baby hippo sooo cute

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