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Both of you should go to hospital to check your self's .is not only one side check ur own too.

My dear move on with your life . She is not the first person that have sacrifice for you . Give your heart another chance to love again. Just proves to her you can do without her.

Please keep the baby n let your parents know about it.

[quote author=Nobodyany1 post=113333027]Greetings Nlanders, I need your counsel/help...
I'm currently a final year student in one of the Nigerian public universities...
Now, due to the ASUU strike, I've been at home for over 90days (though, I've been engaging in one or two things to keep body and soul together). I and my girlfriend live around same area. And on the 7th of May 2022, we had coitus (which I released in her after her request, because she said she wanted to experience the feeling of sperm in her, you know young girls and curiosity... normally, my pull out game is tight). I wanted to buy P2 but she said that I should save my money, and I should just give her salt and warm water in which she poured the salt in and drank...
Two weeks later, she started complaining about her nipples being too sensitive, and how she sleeps/ feels dizzy regularly, especially in her place of work (she's a fashion designer) etc... So, I bought a pregnancy test kit, and and we did the test, it brought out a full red line and a faint red line. But yesterday, being Monday (30th May), we did another test and it brought out two full red lines...
She said she wants an abortion! She's scared because she stays with her aunt and wouldn't know how the aunt would respond to this news (cause the aunt is the pious type). Also, the girl has got big dreams @how she wants to delve into Catering services etc... But left to me, I'd have kept the baby, it's just that I'm impecunious at the moment.
So, by tomorrow (Wednesday Ist June), we'll be on our way to the clinic for the abortion (pills or D&C whichever is most suitable).
It's not too late, I can convince her to change her mind and keep the baby (highest, if worst comes to worst, I'll pay her bride price because I really love her and she loves me so much. Also, the pregnancy was not a mistake nor from a one night stand nor from a strange girl I met few days ago! it sprouts from an authentic love, as we've been dating for two years now and have been having a love-filled sex).
Truth is, I won't start treating her like a mess because she's pregnant or deny the fact that I'm responsible. Left to my discretion, I'd love for her to keep the pregnancy, because I'm the only son of my widowed Mom (n my Mom maybe somehow happy to hear this), also and more importantly; because of the complications abortion comes with. I love that babe so much and wouldn't want anything to go wrong with her, because she's so special to me and have been supporting my "broke" life with love, correct advice, money, food, care and prayers.
I learnt driving, I'm a keyboardist and also a professional Barber and my dream is to have my own Barber Shop. Once, I can guarantee a Barber Shop, I swear to God, to hell with abortion. I just don't want her to suffer more than she's already suffering in her aunt's house...
Please Nlanders, I need help! Be it Pecuniary wise, advice/consolation, connection/reference etc...


cc Lalasticlacla


Please, I don't mind this post reaching FP. I need all the help I can get. Bashing is allowed, lol... after all, I'm a man and I won't shy off the consequences of my actions...






Please keep the baby n let your parents know about it.

Slynation:
Since 2020 yet you still in the same relationship...Your endurance level should be a case study

No , am done with that one. This is new one.

[quote author=Michelle70 post=111608303]Ok, nobody should call him a simp. Most of us went through worse, we tried to keep a relationship that we should have let go but things didnt work.

U are free to cry, feel sad, be traumatized and even contemplate suicide, but if you ever pick up ur broken pieces and move on from it (which u will definitely do), pls do not allow things like this again.

If a lady/guy threaten to break up with u, make sure she/he doesn't threaten u twice, ones is enough to close her/his chapter for good and never accept her/him back, nobody has the right to come in and out of ur life as they please, ur heart is not a brothel.

Forgive the dude, he is going through a phase, I went through it too.
Right now, only money has the right to tell u "u will regret losing me" oh, ishilove u also have that right [/quote

That is what am going through right now. The guy is cheating on me. What pain me most he is my first love. I just done know who to talk to . Feeling down right now.i pray to get back on my feet again. Please someone should help me out.

Thanks so much for this. That is what am through right now. How I wish I can talk to someone right now. ������ It is not easy at all. God help me.

Please am in need of POS ( DOTPAY) if you have it let me know immediately . if you are in bayelsa state let me know. Pls I need it urgently . State the amount you are selling it. Thanks

I will really love to learn . Please choose me. Thanks n God bless you

For me i cant trust .

Nicepoker:
Are you a dating site?

I wonder .�

Am looking for any good dating sites.

Please who have taking this durgs , how did u take it.
It is during your 3 day of your period or the last day of your period.

My Doctor prescribed it for me but I can't remember how he told me to take it. Please help me out.

It well . Please you need to stop thinking, you need to draw to Jesus Christ right now , allow Jesus to love you . Try and remove your mind from there I know it will not bi easy for you but u just have to move on with your life . Cause dat your wife has already move already. Your wife can't bear it anymore that why she have to move on with her lif. Please just try n do dsame. If you need someone to talk am here for you.

Guy , come let plan the future together . If you are serious am very serious.

Please I need the website.

Ahahahhahahahah . This one swt me.

Please send me the link to apply. Thanks

Waiting come happened , make we run

Fear Men

Minjim:
Drop your number lemme add you to a Telegraph group where you can download movies and music or search
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Thanks I will try it out

Kris25:
www.thenetnaija .com

Thanks. But the sites is not opening. Do u have any other one pls.

Please who can help me with good website were I can download movies. Thanks

Why not leave the relationship and run for your life..

Please am looking for a job .

Please is there anyone that can help me with a JOB, am in bayelsa state . Please help me. Thanks

Please am looking for a job weather in port Harcourt or Bayelsa state am very ready to work me.. God direct my destiny helper to locate this year 2021 cause I really do need a Job right now. Thanks

Yes I have forgiving him, but am still scared dat he will still cheat on me.. d trust is know longer dere .. but right now am really trying my best to trust him back .. cause this guy really hurt me..

I pray I can trust him..

Not every females person you help you must have sex with . Better go to church and pray.

See the man face

The man face na die.

chi u done enter one chance.. did you not use CD.