₦airaland Forum

RisenPhoenix:
Bros, better to exercise patience and teach than to be forced to exercise patience and be taught o. If you marry non virgin, she will teach you sense.

Smile,it's easier said than done cos it's complicated .there r two factors involved in rape victims,the same factor applies to virgins in sex.they either enjoy it(be willing to indulge again in the later,grow insaitable crave In the former especially ) or they don't( not willing to indulge in the later ,total dislike in the former).
Now take dat & add it to total inexperience of a virgin.
i tink ild stop here.goodluck tho.
Cos it's diff strokes for diff folks
Nothing is st8 forward in life

j1mmy:
Your colonial mentality is at play here.
That person has probably spread the virus to thousands of people in that mob and will likely give it to more along the way. He could be the likely source of increasing the cases to thousands in a country that has a low rate...but what idiots like you think is his immediate well being despite knowing he was sick and decided to go out into the general population and infect others. In china what are the chances of an African walking the streets while sick and risking the lives of Chinese people without getting killed and cremated at very short notice?

You av a point but let's not get worked up esp cos we dnt know the actually story of "why".any ailment now is tagged a symptom for the virus even without proper medical tests cos every 1 is scared.lets not be quick to judge least we condem the just

You advicing guys to just live & die lonely ,cos I wander wat we men want.if she is a virgin ,she is inexperienced & we probly dont av the patience to teach her,if she's not then she is a hoe.
Ogbeni,date who ur heart syncs with,even if na call gal.we all gat Nasty Pasts.slong as when she comes clean,she dsnt go back dirty,then it's all good.

Ariza:
The silly cliche passed from generation to generation to give men false sense of superiority..... Lol Dude if it will be anyone's world, definitely not owned by the gender condemned to slavery. Be exposed and see things through logic and not emotions (ego)

Irrespective of,gender equality(Wich I very much support), enlightenment ,developement,exposure, knowledge,the BIIITEER Truth remains,it's a man's world.i personally think,the day men stop paying bride price b4 a woman can live under his roof legally(for a start),then women can av some say on the table.

Lies!

Martinez39s:
I am not angry. Money is good, sweet, and important, but one must not take money worship to the next level like Nigerians. People worship money so much that "I am richer than your generation" is now a rebuttal and many people's "logical" counter during an argument. It's even used as an insult.

Deffuckingnately!

Martinez39s:
Nothing is inside the brains of many Nigerians except money, job, and business even though many lack the mental capacity and skill to achieve these. Even intelligence and the ability to maintain a civil and intelligent discourse don't make the cut. Say something they don't like and they either say directly, or insinuate, that you are broke and jobless instead of refuting your points. I wonder what a man's financial situation has to do with the validity and truthfulness of his arguments. Honestly, it's disappointing.

Damn! You dey vex o!!! Hehehehe

ubunja:
It's hard for me to say how much I have saved. But what I can say is that I have been able to buy things I wouldn't have had the money and the motivation and the "permission" to buy were I living with a female.

Because I'm also a House DJ on the side, at one time I was able to assemble a kickass sound system that was the envy of many. That cost me thousands of rands and could unleash hell on my street.


The biggest gain in being a single guy is the freedom to do whatever whenever. You can disappear for days. You can have friends spend days over. You can fvck any hoes you chance upon. And living in the Joburg CBD that happens a lot. Always chicks looking for a place to spend the night.

However, when I have problems I know I can always dial my baby mama and she'll come running. She can't ignore. Its the father of her child on the line. Guys must Always have that safety net in life. Of a female who'll drop anything at the drop of a hat for you. Because let's face it, most of our guy friends are blue pill simps who have a limit to what they'll do for you when tragedy strikes because their women will prevent them from taking certain steps to sacrifice for you.

So you are a guy in one word?

You can rape her is she doesn't want it,buh it's gone be very awkward afterwards.

samincredible44:
no she has to pay accommodation fee

Neva Try this,unless there is a biding formal contract.thats when uld see her true colour

It's funny how ladies call em selves bitch,buh call em that & the sky will fall

Who else have a feeling more ppl in Nigeria have contacted this virus & probly don't know? Ild beg ppl to be extra vigilant & prepared.

Maryjane001:
Even me sef dey wonder dat thing.
All the gals wey dey come visiting for the lodge I dey. Na around 10pm....sinetimes midnight, dem dey enter dier man dem house. If dem enter, d guy go dey play music make esin no hear anything for background.
Me go dey hope say by morning.....I go see d kind gal face. For where......before 6am sef....dem don japa

Lol,the music part & the kind gal face got me,wetin u dey find? Lmao

gistembassy123:
Popular gospel musician Mercy Chinwo has been called out by Evangelist Victor Edet. The evangelist described Mercy Chinwo as seductive and indecent. SleekGist reports.

The self-acclaimed man of God, Victor Edet who once cautioned popular Gospel singer, Tope Alabi on her dress sense, 'so as not to end in hell', has called out talented gospel singer, Mercy Chinwo, telling her that she cannot claim to be singing gospel songs and be seductive..
According to him a true christian lady should look decent and not seductive.

"You cant be singing christian songs and be seductive at the same time. A true christian should look decent and not seductive. Mercy Chinwo beware!!!" He wrote.

See post, photos and more reactions here
https://sleekgist.com/viral/evangelist-victor-edet-calls-out-gospel-musician-mercy-chinwa/

Me as one thinks deduction is of two types,
Purposeful seduction
& Not-porpose
Both are all of the mindset
I don't see any seduction in any of the pictures.if he said she is pretty ild av agreed.in other words evangelist,u need to work on ur mind,get it purified

gypsey:
well..just because it happened to you doesn't mean it would happen to everyone.

As i said, God should show his face now or.....?

Smile ok!

Come on op ,u suld know the difference btw "this" & a slay queen na

gypsey:
Okay, i am waiting for that day, i mean, the God that cannot heal people now, i wonder when he will.. when they are all dead? i mean if God wanted me to know or other people like me to see that God exist, is this not the right time and circumstances to prove that?

Only God just keep queit and waiting for another time.

Like I said,I was once like u.wont bore u wit details cos in the end,testimonies become boring to the "listener" but mavelous in the mind of its own the "teller" (if it is candid).God bless us all

[quote author=Olunmercy56 post=87567430]She is not matured at all, When he is not yet married to you no man is worth fighting for, do you own good and leave the rest for God[/quot/

Don't blame her,she is in love,it makes ppl act differently.besides a fellow ones said,fight for wat is URS.most ppl who condemm the actions of a jealous/heart broken patner will do worse if places were switched

[quote author=Olunmercy56 post=87567430]She is not matured at all, When he is not yet married to you no man is worth fighting for, do you own good and leave the rest for God[/quot/

Don't blame her,she is in love,it makes ppl act differently.besides a fellow ones said,fight for wat is URS.most ppl who condemm the actions of a jealous/heart broken patner will do worse if places were switched

The human mind,always seeking to know,formally or informal.its curiosity knows no bounds only limited by fear.in the end,@wat benefitrich,poor,strong,weak,learned,illiterates,doctors,spirituallists , Every living thing will die someday.& "I don't think" ur vast knowledge of watsoeva will be instrumental in the world beyond.

My point? Be curious safely.

Enculer2:
Idiot. Using his common sense is plaudible?

Smile,I will ignore the first word in ur comment chief, yes it is,considering others who will because of greed & offerings they would lose,advice thier congregation otherwise.thate my point

gypsey:
why is God not healing people with Corona virus now already.. why wait one day? why not now?

Did God go on vacation now? healings and miracles only happened in fairytales.

You are not the first to sound like this & won't be the last.i won't go into trying to make u see things differently cos itld be a long day.you will one day witness a personal miracle & be so so convinced that it's God who did it,then uld see this kind of comment u typed above & ...the circle will continue #IwasOnceLikeYou #Ifelt #itHappened

Smart church members

healthserve:
Riding on the tide of popularity to appear legitimate.

Unfortunately, We now know shamans are not prophets now no matter how well they disguise or how accurately they might fit the right scripture in.

Sadly, if it's not of God, it's not lf God, no matter how a shaman portrays himself.


Cc: Do your research using this search phrases

Shaman

Shamanism

Mahanta

Messenger of the devil

Occultic healer



Satanists disguising themselves as prophets disguising occultic healing as prophetic work to conduct nonsense and magic disguised as miracle. But are mere magic

This is not the contention here, the fact that he agrees wit the basic & primary way to prevent the spread of the covid19 is applaudable

GOFRONT:
Well, at a time of Adversity such as this, Our leaders waste no time to rush their families abroad for safety.....

I hope they are already making plans to move to their safe Haven and leave the poor vulnerable ones behind??

�������, Murtherfucker! This gat me

Saintmary:
You have your point, but the rule is to never lose guard, once you're not ready to settle down.
So, any lady who wants to settle down should look for the right signs, else, she'll most likely get played.

I agree, but we all humans, need for companionship is a default.besidee how wuld u Meet the right patner if u don't date(lose guard?.life is complicated.

Saintmary:
1. Never show a guy you love him. Watch out for signs that he loves you before you respond, if there are no signs, my dear, gbe body e.
2. Getting close to a guy takes time, most times, guys are more comfortable giving you the D than letting you near their hearts. Once you fall for the D, you are most likely never getting the heart.
3. Never be the provider. Males are mostly raised to be the provider, to derive happiness from making their women smile, a lot of them feel fulfilled once they can foot the expenses of their loved ones, don't take over his job.
4. Good girls in your context here are the girls I call foolish (no offense intended). They do not have bad luck, they got played.
What you can do
1. Start over. This guy has already seen you finish. You probably gave him sex like you're his wife, no guy will respect such a girl. So, end this relationship and find someone else to turn over a new leaf with.
2. Apply the previous points with the new guy and lock up your v^gina. If he leaves, let him go.

I beg to differ on numb2,3&4
Weather she gets the "" sooner or later, if the fella is a player she will get the heart break

Slong as he has a job/bizness Wich u contribute idea-wise to,there is nothing wrong in financially helping him.its only a spineless man that will sleep well knowing he is owing his wife.(in other words,if he doesn't show urgency to pay u back or actually does,don't ever give him again)

Good,bad,wise,stingy,etc ,if a guy wants to play you,he will.unless u Neva open ur heart to him.it strts wit TRUST & ends with it.cos even the wise,bad,stingy,etc have to let thier gaurd down if they Eva want to find a life patner

Maryjane001:
True Sha....it is really quite rare. Most of the women that I know that even earn more than their hubby control their husbands like remote.

They end up being single moms,cos the man will revolt one-day & leave ,while their loneliness& insecurities of going home to no man,builds into agression for the woman.#HappinessIsFreeGeng #Yimmu

Maryjane001:
Na wa o
Sometimes I just wonder what men want o. If a woman is independent, dem go say she won't be submissive and won't recognize their man as the head. When she is now dependent nko.....dem go say she lazy, say na leech she be.
All the same, I would prefer being an independent woman as I am. My P-man no train me for school finish make I dey dependent on any guy. As my eye take tear reach eh.....na d top I dey aim. I can't settle for less..... no man can stop dat

The issue is not the independency, it's the resulting disrespect/ regards that it generates in women towards thier partners.its quite rare to find an independent woman who is 80% respectful to her partner even if both a quite capable.the man & his wife suld build a home together,storm brain& share opinions respectifully.wateva brings the reminder of who "the head of the family is" suld be avoided by the man by living it(work,fend& support),the woman by being humble to her husband (care,cater,support,calm etc)

Paxie55:
All of you acting independent, you think a man will open his two eyes to enter marriage with You, knowing full well that he's gonna be your play boy? You girls should keep raising leeches and be thinking you are doing yourself any better. They will chop your money and still marry the ones that they will spend lavishly on.
Don't let this I want an independent woman scums fool you. They are all bunch of insecured leeches and will always take you nice women as fools.
And btw, raise your standards and stop feeding men.

Its really demeaning to collevt money from ladies irrespective buh then there are ladies who r ready to sort u out when u av financial hold ups esp in a thriving bizness.
It's only a shameless & useless man that will get any financial help from his gf/wife & not have sleepless nights if he dosnt refund her.even if she says don't return it,take her shopping in the tone of wat she gave u & more.be it a gf or wife,she will leaverage on it someday.