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[quote author=Phadg post=87546257]Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders

Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is
1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU?
2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}?
3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN?
4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY?

APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST.[/quote.

I've learned not to judge till I've heard both sides of the story.no1 really wants to be imperfect or be @fault.now to ur post.neva think its because u too nice or cos of ur good gestures.it orobly cos uve not met a matured mind.meanwyl,ild advice u sincerely scruth urself,ur character, Wich does guys find as a push off,its ok to av a good heart,but if the character is bad,it gets overshadowed.you
mentioned funding him (Wich I don't condem,I only condem a guy who doesn't pay bavk) does it make u controlling ,bossy
Men are inbuilt with an ego mechanism in any relationship ,they want to be in control,any woman who challenges that direactly will be seen as not fit to date/Marry.a wise lady will always sooth her partners ego even if she funds him atimes (only a stupid man will always collect from his partner without refunding) & end up airing ur opninions that way and most times he will take it.neva be angry when he dosnt or rub it in his face of his decision turns out wrong .just my 2cents

habsydiamond:
That's why communication is important in every relationship bro. Talk to her about how u feeling concerning daily calls. If she's the understanding type.. u guys should be fine... Thou in relationship a times it is possible to get bored of many things but talking can safe many things in relationships. Op, I hope u are not bored because of another yellow pawpaw sha

Truth is most females love everyday talk, &seem ignorant of it's implications,even if u sit her down & tell her ,she would still not unstand or conform ,just allow her continue,call her when u want to,pick her call when it's ok too, apologise when she accuses u of not picking or calling her.slong as u love her,just really really tolerate

omonla10:
thanks bye

Sorry about that, you suldnt go @any1 like dat irrespective.maturity in comments matters too.#OneLove

MarieAnn2012:
Who are you? Typical povert.y stri.cken Nigerian trying to claim what he is not.
Just make your point or Sh.ut it!!!

Has the baton of stupidity been passed to u too? I wont say more than that cos I would really not engage women in banter. Just pls get some brain to that beauty else it wastes ...pls don't mentione again

Aphroditee:
knew I'd see

See wat ma'am ? Pls educate me if am wrong,isn't that a good place to start the inquiry? Reason why the rodent ran out of it's burrow ?

omonla10:
in other words, ure saying, playing for trabzonspor is more important than the safety of his family abi.. ur surname should be poverty cos it's only poverty stricken souls that reason this way...

so sorry if it looks like insult.

Faaaam! You don't even know me & u come @me this way? Has the conversation been taken to the slums where even a guenie pig can spew all the rott it's stomach refused to digest on my foot? Xter they say is like smoke,which not even the key pads can hide. Am a bit concerned,were u dropped on ur head as an infant or u were aborted severally & instead of just being flushed out,the procedure only made u uncultured & mannerless? How fraustrating can life be for u?
Be anything fam,buh pls don't be unfortunate. How's ur dad doing bytheway.

I pity whose name weac decides to use on thier questions.culd it be, as it is in weac (yearly re-sit),he/she will also be re-sitting in endevours

I know �, I need to step down my weed !

FirstbornWds:
Come, are you sure you quoted the right person? And if yes, what exactly are you trying to talk about? I'm asking because I want to know. I only educated someone on how even men can be victims of rape. How does that sound as if I'm pained?

easy lion.eeeaasy! Am on ur side.appologies �

Obi! You don belle full, talk true! �
When enuf money dey,u fit tell ur boss Bleep u sef.
I pity the wife, family first is when u av enuf money to Carter for em, hope it doesn't turn to "go out & look for club like ur fellow men" one day

Mad!

Kuman2:
There's this girl that said she loves me and she wants us 2 date. But the problem is two of my friends from my ent have fvcked her already.
Smart guys wat should i do?
Sometimes when we guys gather 2 gist they make fun of her how she held the wall in the toilet

Question is, is the feeling mutual? Do u think u can live wit the fact? If u certain of both ans, go on and date her.thing about sex is, if u enjoyed the intercourse & want it back & he/she doesn't give,u can only fantasies/hate/move on/be matured with the fact that YOU CAN NEVA TASTE IT AGAIN! & This last part is for ur friends

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
disgusting nigerian man. next thing is to r@pe her. my signature is correct about you lot

Accept our condolences, wateva it is must av been hear breaking & almost sucidal .just take deep breaths & exhale ,uld be fine

FirstbornWds:
So because men don't talk about rape, you concluded that women are the only victims

It is well

Kpele, wateva it is must av hurt alot.try breathing in and out severally.uld be fine eventually

iammo:



You better find a lasting solution to the demon that want to ruin your life.. bushy vagina koor hairy Brain nii

many men in this generation have being totally destroyed by vagina and thoughts of vagina , better pre occupy your self with something else or move out

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This fella is obviously sex starved, your life is in Jeopardy fam, don't try it! Don't start the generational curse circle (that's if it hasn't been activated by generation b4 u).gud luck tho

iammo:
Obviously the man in question is very rich

wait do slay Queens fight over poor men too

seunmohmoh:
Lol. Watin the main wife go come do?

Wat the elders see sitting down....
She done it aldy, wat u looking @is it's fulfilment

Flier:
It has anything to do with pressure some people are naturally weak

And wat are your orders "cyborg"...suld me line all the weak minded & kiiiillll em all so "you" the strong minded can av it all

Wait,why is she so sure u cuming back? Hope Say.... Either let ur ego in & Neva go back to her,or call her & ask her wat she really wants

Bellotelli:
I hope she passes the exam in the hereafter.

Major key!

ugwusunday:
Na so life be my brother, go find another job, that job no be your callin

because some artists refused him colabos, then it's not his calling? Naaah fam,he suld try more /other artists "he didn't help" prolly those ones will respond

The devil pushes u to do it,leaves u to do the time & punishment,comes back ones u free Neva reats till u dead.human race suld av been God's robots,programed to serve him,free will is a curse on human...Eve kini da fun eh

...& when the maid & her mom cries to the almighty for lossing her job.he(the almighty) will punish you

He�!
My 2cents?


Don't ask her,the maid might Neva cum back,even when she is home

It's ironic how ppl make more name dead than alive.been so tru the ages too. #Mad!

Lol mad man!

ScammerLeo:
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omenka are you not ashamed of your miserable life that you shamelessly keep parading your frustrated life on nairaland
while your mates are taking care of their kids and wives you're on nairaland throwing banters with 17 years old kids
at 40 (which you clocked this year)
no wife
no girlfriend
nothing nothing
the one that managed you, you nearly killed her that she ran away and cursed you
the only girl that saw good in your miserable pathetic life you abused her even when she condone your inability to perform on the bed
yes omenka you're impotent i know your story well
her friend told me everything
omenka change your ways and apologize to the lady to lift her curse on your soul if not you're doomed forever
40 years na old age oo

amatarasha Gandollaar Rekhina amarabae mizmycoli LZAA Imhotep helinues

Gbas! Gbos!!! Trying to check the odds of there being much blood in this fight so I can stake high

I'll blame her govt first then her parents too, if the story is anything to go by.the pressure they put on kids coupled with outcasting & insulting her can push the child to the limit.cos they consider how much they laboured to raise the money for jamb form & transport.if the country was good maybe itld ease thier stress.

Well

Mad!�

I believe the lady cos unless she is mentally unbalanced, y wake up & the only crime u can accuse him of is smooching? Besides ladies always know whr they where touched even when drunk talkless of light sleep.that guy has rapist tendencies

They Neva get it do they,the devil pushes u to do it then leaves ur earthly body to bear the consequences!watch it,soon as he is free he cums back to push again

Hmm wat the elders see sitting down,the child will Neva see sitting on a tree.ild advice u not change him, that is not mumu,infact ppl like that have a lucky charm around em