₦airaland Forum

donbachi:
Just bear me children...keep on with ur maiden's name.

Dpsychologist:
We will come to that later

oka4mt:
let me share this with u guys.
many soldiers and police men out there joined the force because of their financial condition, they have nothing and got nothing from their father, s they enrolled just to survive, mind u, a very dangerous profession, but u have inheritance u are afraid to fight for it.
no, when u build your own house, make your brother or one idiot come try snatch am from u na, una two go die for the matter, cause u no go gree for any bastard.
make i ask u, why e b say, wen king die, so far him get son, na the son go b d next king, why them no make him brother king.
use your head bro.
fight your fight and God will fight by your side.
if u die fighting, which i doubt, it is worth it.

oka4mt:
hey, you have given the worst advise so far, how can u tell one to forfeit his late dad's property and burial, you most be joking.
OP, i dont know how old u are, if u are above 18, and your dad died intestate(without a will), then,you, your mom and the rest of the children are automatically the administrators of your late father's property.
so i advise you take charge and get a lawyer cause you might just need legal actions against your dubious uncles.
please donot make the mistake of sitting and watching, they will take advantage of your inaction and sweep u under the rug, in fact your mom should be the one on the front line not u, u will only back her up with your education, try to know your rights and educate her.
and i repeat, Law enforcement is always there for u, iut will only cost you a reasonable amount of money, but its worth it.
and act wisely catch them unaware.
when they find themselves in police custody and in court with all evidence against them, nobody go tell them.
make sure u start to record ur conversations with them when u have the chance, take pictures, film their dubious act without their knowledge,. keep your distance though
goodluck

shegzieflex:
Doc you get time answering these ignorant folks. Many of them, at the slightest opportunity, spew trash at doctors for one singular reason; they are frustrated! Many envy doctors for just being doctors!
I've read several comments from these ignorant dudes and all I can do is laugh. They obviously don't know what it means to be a medical doctor in this country. They don't know many of us are writing foreign exams so we can leave this country for them; after all one idiot above said we are half-baked
Two days ago I had to attend to a woman with suspected COVID-19 infection (still awaiting the result but her symptoms are highly suggestive), come and see the so called PPE I was given! We at the battle front struggle to have the right PPE, and you see the politicians wearing the N95 facemasks in their offices!! You pay a doctor #5000 as hazard allowance for managing highly contagious diseases, and the politicians earn enormous allowances for newspapers,wardrobe, travels e.t.c! Then when the doctor voices out the masses, who will still run to the doctor when they fall sick, will be the first to call them unprintable names! What a shame of a country!
Till today, I'm being owed up to six months salary and not sure if it will be paid; yet I work!
The best we can do is to ignore the rantings of these ignorant folks, after all even fools are entitled to their opinions.

apatheticme:
Pls keep up the 'puking', Ur guts would soon be fried!

Nigerian this, Nigerian that. Keep denigrating your country, you think that makes you better!

I just hope it's American or European doctors who attend to you and your low self esteemed family whenever you 'puke' literally!

Aksnoopy:
So #200k for an house officer and #200k + for a medical officer or junior reg is money to you abi? Do you know how much medical doctors and other healthcare practitioners are paid in some other African countries? Going on strike is the only way NMA can press home their demands and how can you strike without downing tools? Don't blame doctors and other healthcare practitioners whenever they go on strike, rather blame your irresponsible government. In saner climes, the government doesn't wait until worker start pressing for demands before they do the needful, they have a designated ministry for that, and that's the ministry of Labour. Haven't you read about how physicians in Canada rejected an increase in their pay? No government or employer has the right to deduct arbitrarily from the wages or salaries of their employees without their prior consent, it doesn't happen anywhere Stop defending an irresponsible government.

143WaZoBia:
Who knows how long he’s been abusing her?
Don’t say anything about the woman just yet until you hear her side of the story

Lol. Y’all should stop mentioning me. Nothing works in this country we all know it thats why we see this kind of shiit happening in our society, you catch a thief you buy petrol, you catch your spouse with someone else you take action immediately because why? You won’t get justice. I am not going to condemn the woman. My take is that you fix your society. Fix the policing system, fix the judicial system. Vote people that can do it. When everybody have a voice. We will become sane citizens.

Lol. The man just slap the woman go sleep. Werey

johnkey:
I'm sorry to say but that 19 y|o boy is a fool, even at 16 you can never try this with me and my immediate family. Mtchew

missdivineprove:
Sending my love and hug to all those going through any emmotional challenges due to rape. May we find justice and healing.

Now, to my question.

Why is it that when a boy child (male) is rape, the parents keep quiet. The society in general wouldn't take it serious, but when a girl child (female) encountered the same thing, the whole world stand up for it?
Does it mean men are not victims of rape?
If there are, why are they not voicing out?
Does it mean women are meant to be taken serious in the case of rape than the men? And why?
Are men traumatized as well in rape cases?
Do you think the society is not being fair here?
What's your view on this?

bender:
I feel it's better you ask her to account for the money she got and d profits than assuming she has n doesn't want to use it.