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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 12:57am On Mar 25, 2019
UbiPetrus:
Where is dailydolar now? Was he able to travel to DE last year. I haven't been able to connect with him here.
I think he is in DE.

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 11:52pm On Mar 16, 2019
dolpaz:



Hi guys, Long Post Alert !!!

Sorry for the long silence. Man gats hustle, study and make some cheddars. You know, money makes the world go round, but still one has to be careful cos the same money is the root of all evil.

Now, as promised I want to drop some experience about dating here in DE. I want to use this medium to appeal to everyone that this is just MY OPINION and personal experience here in DE.

First, everyone would probably need either a Romeo or Juliet at some point in life. This is normal ! I heard at the earliest stage in DE that most Germans respect blacks alot and when they see one, they regard us as Black American and before you know, the flows and likeness comes into play. but these days, that opportuinty has vanished into thin air as they mostly see blacks as opportunist thanks to our African Brothers who chase these ladies towards papers. Truth is an most western lady (German, American, Austrian, etc) either blows hot and in most cases very hot or cold/extremely cold. Reason best known to them. I think its because of the cultural differences between us, hence the reason why we could not withstand these differences. You could be dating a white lady and you guys could have a lil misunderstanding and within the twinlke of an eye, she can ask you to leave even in the middle of the night, she doesnt care! and if you refuse to leave, she could call the Police. so as omo boy, you go just bounce to avoid stories. Moreso, if you end up dating the strict ones and she understands english, she could command you not to speak any other language apart from english or German. But because of the fear of loosing her and the advantages accrued with dating her, you´ll bow to her demand.

These and many more which inlcudes food, Religion, lifestyle (Party, smoking, clubbing,) etc. The big question is: are you ready to tilt towards the differences because of paper? when a black dates a German she faces alot of criticism from her colleagues. They criticize them so much by saying to him/her Jokingly that "You´re dating a black guy/girl right, dont worry he´ll impregnate you, get the papers from you and dump you for his African woman" and truly, this is what the african guys do alot because we cant get controlled by a lady for the rest of our lives.. so, after getting the papers they file for divorce and go for the real African woman. When these happens, the news spread easily like wildfire and the caution/hatred spread also. If you want to marry a German, you´ll go through some series of verification which could span across months. If you impregate a German without marriage, my brother be ready to pay through your Nose. You´ll be asked to pay a certian money (Around 800€) for verification from your country of origin to proof that you don´t have a child/family back home. after this verification is complete, you´ll pay your child and Baby mama a certain percentage from your monthly salary. So lets assume you earn 1200, you could end up with 520 at the end of the month or even less cos your Renten(Pension) and Insurance will increase while your Taxes will reduce because you have a kid. Even though, you are registered as a father to a German child, Yet it doesn´t translate to getting permanent paper immediately. Most foreign office will give you 3 years at first, and if you don´t err in taking care of the mother and kids, then they give you permanent residency. But during this three years, you´ll be at the mercy of your baby mama cos any report from her... He don set be that. so you´ll be as humble as a lamb.....! Also, you have to keep working to sustain the support and during this process, school will heavily suffer cos you have to make so much in order to keep up with Bills and life.

The same scenario is applies to ladies as well. But not as extensive as in the case of guys. You just need to find someone who understand what it means to be inter-racial lovers. I have a girl around me thjough who keeps complaining about a German guy she´s dating. she said the guy is unpredictable and most times, he doesn´t want to even see her around him. Like I said earlier on, both guys and girls face heavy criticism from their German colleagues because of experiences from the past or from what they´ve heard or seen. Even the blacks born here will hardly give you a chance cos most of them are already soaked into the german system and culture. So when you approach, they give you alot of conditions and my brother, these conditions no be here. (Not in all cases though) so they tend to me very careful.

Pros of Marrying/dating a whity:
1) Your status gets changed... You´re given between 3-5 years at first, then Permanent Residency follows
2) You get unlimited work permit
3) Your woman gets Kindergeld and Muttergeld from the Government (Assuming you´re not working)
4) Fastest way to get PR (if responsibilities are taken and met)

Cons Marrying/dating a whity:
1) You face emotional, psychological and at times physical torture
2) Your studies could suffer
3) Cultural differences
4) Be ready to withstand the awkward look when you´re pushing around a white baby in the Kinderwagen smiley
5) Your dietary could change because with Bread, cheese, Currywurst and maybe Beer, these guys are OK.
6) They tend to look older than their age (My observation though) etc


There are other nationalities though that are not as strict as the Germans... The Poles, Czech, Romania, Bulgaria, etc but if we have kept our house (Nigeria) in order, We are better than these countries. They are just better because of the affiliation with EU. (My opinion)

My advise to anyone who has a stable partner (Stable means there´s a commitment and/or legally binding) is to hold on to it and keep communication open. dont because of "I am going abroad" end a fruitful relationship. It could hunt you such that you may regret it. Most especially if you have a hardworking partner, The sky will be your limit because opportunities are boundless here.

Pros of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You understand each other
2) You eat your favourite continental dishes.
3) You can jointly train up your child without cultural clashes.
4) You both work and save to have a better future
5) You support each other in times of need
6) No/few religious, Cultural, Lifestyle differences etc

Cons of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You don´t get a permit immedaitely which means your child depends on the parents status. But if one of the parent gets a PR, everyone gets it as well.
2) Your child doesnt get Kindergeld (Depends on cities though) but If your partner comes via Family reunion, the mother gets mutterGeld while the child gets Kindergeld
3) Your status stays and your partner will have to find a way to take care of the family.

You could also bring your GF/BF if you can vouch your church mind for him/her. **

My verdict: The German Government has given us the opportunity to experience world class education at a great price. Lets not abuse this opportunity. Also, The German Government has made residency kinda easy to get.. Finish your studies, during your study period, try and attain German B1 with a corresponding certificate, Apply for a job (There are jobs everywhere), work for 21 months, File for your permanent residency. #Lobatan. Its sounds/looks hard but its doable. I have lots of guys who are on this path. If they can do it, you can do it. The ball is in your court to decide what you want. According to the Bible Micah 6:8

In all, if you think you are mentally ready for inter racial dating, you can go for it. I decided to write this as a Benchmark. The above are just scenario you could experience while dating a westerner. Its a 2 edged sword thingy.

PS: This is my OWN Opinion/Observation.

My english these days sef.. German don kaputt my sentence construction

Dolpaz never falls my hand!!!
God bless you for this bro. The sky is your launchpad... as for me, I am bringing my woman grin
I don’t want any german woman wahala. Peace of mind is absolutely necessary.
Thank you and God bless you my dear Dolpaz. Your English is gagatuan iberiberism grin

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 2:13am On Mar 15, 2019
SooCute:
@IAmPhiL, dear Bro/Sis, i am going to react to this but once and never again.

You made a vague statement with no cogent facts and on what i assume to be weak/slimy ground and it was easy to condemn me before the "whole world here" and posterity.
By the way it took only one man to condemn Jesus to death, though his statement wasn't personal "Crucify Him;Let HIS blood be upon us and our children children" One man saying US? Like play like play, the crowd joined "crucify Him!! Crucify Him!!!!" and Pilate nack Jesus judgement base on one man's "insinuation". Let's assume everything was arrangee in Jesus matter sha.

I don't know your age, i am not too worried about it either, but i will slap myself if i am responding to a tantrum from a boy/girl below 30.

You didn't even point out any misleading information from me;
You didn't point out which part of Germany you schooled and what grade you passed with, how many years it took you to graduate and the aftermaths.
Where do you live now?

You just got up from your "slumber to say trash about another person's personal opinion"?
Your type support bad government in Nigeria as far as you are not directly affected.

1) It took me from September to End of February to get a job here in Schweinfurt after aggressive job-hunt with my good level of German. All my seniors i know are not working here. The ones that worked before only did during summer and mostly outside Schweinfurt. Only one, was able to even get the summer job with Scheafler.
Every other guy that came this last winter with me are working in other cities outside Schweinfurt. Infact, just one firm named s.Oliver. them just pack go there dey do strenuous jobs out of "Can't help". Commute every morning at the train station to work with 5.30to 6.00 am train inside cold. This job they can't continue, when school resumes else them go fail prapra.
I work with Bosch. So only me, minus like 20 of us, na good news be that?

2) Schweinfurt as the internet says is one the most Industrialized city in German and 3rd richest. This is because it is like a hub of companies. These companies cannot give you student job bro. Which certificate you get? Wetin you wan do for them? E just be like for naija, you wan work for Shell Petroleum or Big big compaines like that "4 hours per day as permitted by your student status" the job i am doing at Bosch is a sub-letted contract which the company (Bosch) itself no get time for. I am the only black there so i smile all the time against my personal wish as if i am always happy. I dey answer Sir, Ma to person wey no bathe last night, with dirty teeth and untidy shoes. Me wey get swag back home? one just sent me nonsense errand today i nearly cried on my painful safety booth (Mumu me go tell them my normal size without knowing that safety boot need to be oversize)

3) Language spoken in Bayern is mainly Bayrisch. Google it. I don't even want to bug. I never knew the difference until i traveled to other parts of Germany, it was a different ball-game. People were just speaking German i was familiar with (I already studied German by myself in Nigeria before coming here) and i felt good for once that i could understand what they were saying. If i had stayed more than a week, my German would have improved tremendously just by listening to people speaking the correct one. By the way, all Germans certificate exams are not written in Bayrisch which is spoken in Bavaria. It is written in Hoch deustch.

4) 2 professors in my school said it hooohaaa, "Education in this Bayern region is usually more difficult than other parts of Germany" now @heybaby have confirmed the same thing from her end. I will not explain this, but the number of admitted students and the number of retained students in my class has proved it. Germans inclusive.
Everything in life depends on individuals and your future plans. Our guys here normally tell me "Pass na Pass you dey find good grade?" and YES i dey find good grade make i fit do masters. I know people in my class, a cameroonain and Indian, these guys dey correct Prof mistakes sef but couldn't make good grade from former school but had to change school and come here to start afresh. So kolewerk?
You think say i be Olodo abi? I never fail YET no mean say those wey fail na duns.
One thing you should know here is that no fuvking Prof is starting from the scratch for you. Most of the time, the lecture go dey sound Calabar and Kalabari langage for your ears so you gats do self study. Wey the time? smh

5) Na so them tell us "Mawista is this Mawista is that" we just gree we no ask "proper people" question. Now i know the disadvantage of listening to people like you. With mawista, i had to pay my bill first at the hospital, even though they reimbursed me after a while, what if i no get the money to bill to pay upfront? Now Mawista gets increasingly expensive after the first year until it is eventually far more expensive than AOK.
For you to really work very well here, you need to be in a public health insurance. With private, no employer will allow you work long. i am saying facts that has happened to me. I have many "reasonable" German friends too. It's political somehow. Mawista is not a sole German Company. xxxxxxx so use your head if you have one.
If you go to hospital with AOK, they treat you, even thank you, give you food, tell you customer come next time. Because you are not even the one who is paying, AOK will pay and it's a German owned public health insurance. I will not talk too much. Even when your family eventually join you, your AOK insurance will cover all with small money ontop. So because i dey use Mawista, should i encourage all and sundry to use it just because it is cheap at first entry? Who love at first site epp?

6. For a small example, I am going to upload an engineering course here from another Uni and my own, look if i have German modules in mine. The other school has German modules in it (with embarrassingly 5CP each level in your last semester).
Just imagine say you dey finals and all you do is learn only German? they are simply preparing you to be employed. Here, we pay for each level and its not graded. Asin, e no even dey curriculum sef. The campus language center just organize it. I dey talk still some people no get sense. When i went deep into the other school's curriculum, the mode of most exams na presentation. Some courses they even said "No exam" I called a friend in Saarland and asked how she was going about her Exams, She said "No exams, i just have plenty homework to do" I come dey ask myself, no be his same Germany all of us dey?

7. In my school you must complete at lest 75% of all course work every semester. I will upload the evidence too. Even some of our guys no sabi this thing until it's late. Me, e no dey hard me i do go the "right office" to find out myself. Some things you actually clicked "I agree to"without reading, e go clear your eye when you enter problem. People wey dey find reason to comot you for their school sef.

8. One idiot uncle of mine in USA had his friend telling him how he was making 10k euro doing 2 jobs during summer as a student in Germany. I don do all the Maths, permutation and combination, i no see how e take possible.
Even Daimlar (Mercedes) that is paying highest cannot give you that in 5 months fulltime job as a student. Here, you can only do one full-time job (with tax) and one neben job which is 450 euro (without tax) only during holliday. It is not possible to do 2 fulltime jobs in Germany. If you can break the law here and hammer 2 full-time jobs here at once, please take me to your native doctor.

9. Since our people like to be lied to....everything wey i just talk na lie. Most guys here enter DE, find way enter USA make dem get 2 years stamp incase e red dem run. Dem no go tell you the truth. Most of them no dey go de school sef. Alaye mind your business oooo make you no qoute me again even from your grave.
I dont like the way i am just irritated just because i carve out my sleeptime to come here to open our people eye. Abroad no been dey hungry me bad bad like that oo. I bin get options oo, make you use your head.

If you pm me and ask me any useless question eeee, you go know say water dey sweet na when e dey cup. Even swimming pool water dey kill, e get Mianland water for Lagos, E get Imo river, Nworie river, E get one for Warri around Patani bridge, e get one for lokoja around Senator Dino Melaye side, water dey Rivers too, e even get he one wey dey prepare fowl for chop.

K'emesia.






No be sere sere o
God is your strength brother

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 5:06pm On Mar 14, 2019
Philfit:
Yes I highly support this, he’s just telling you how he sees it. It’s not nice to term someone false

Yes exactly!
I have been hearing stuffs about Bavaria that ain’t cool. So Socute is not falsifying anything here. When more than 5 people gives an info about a thing or place and all align, then the probability it’s true is very high!
So that statement of his is very wrong from all school of thought

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 2:32pm On Mar 14, 2019
SooCute:
People come to Europe for many reasons sha.
Since our results came out for the first semester, people don quiet for our class group chat. I mean both Americans, Indians etc. Have you encountered those lecturers that are "stingy" with marks?
My dear, a friend in Cottbus is doing 4 courses in a semester (renewable energy something) and all the exam he says is like a presentation. That means, you'd be given a topic to go and research and at the exam day you just come do presentations.
Here in my school in Bavaria, i just need someone in this NL in my school to come and testify. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Me i know i am not lazy, but when you feel you got all the answers correct and yet the result just be like say you dey lie.
LIFE: all the regions of NRW, have one ticket to tour them. Students card (from semester fee) of about 250 euro per semester, that means, you have wider tourism destination and job search possibilities.
Here, we have two campuses, your ticket from Schweinfurt campus cannot take you to Wurzburg campus....same Lower Franconia oooo not to talk of the whole Bavaria? Tankiu.

No fun. social life here is dead because people here are mainly old people and workers. Nobody has your time really. They don't even speak Hochdeutsch...that's official German. They speak Bayriesch dialect. No "guten Morgen" here ooo...na "Servus" oder "Grusse dich" so imagine all the Germans you read in the book? See i don't even gave time to be explaining again.
People think you don't want them to come where you are, as if i even know you in person. The thing is, we don't want you to face what shit we are facing. Some guys in other cities are schooling, balling and saving money with less stress, why do you want to do it how e go hard you? One of our guys failed 3 courses this semester. now that means next semester, he's already in a shitty pressure.

Now my school is collaborating with Auslandbehorde (foreigners office where you go to renew your paper), every semester you must complete 75percent of your coursework else, you have issues. That means 5 out of 6 courses every semester(We are doing 6 courses every semester for my course, Business and Engineering).
This does not include the compulsory German course you must prove. For instance, i got 1.3 in my A1 German, and 1.0 in my A2 German exam. Unfortunately, here, it doesn't count in your total CGPA. whereas in other Unis, the language counts in your CGPA and it is part of normal class, so you expected to normally graduate with C1 or C2 (which makes getting job pretty easier for you) which is the highest German....in the whole world grin grin grin grin grin grin grin. Here the German class is held outside normal study time table, but it is a must oooo and you have to pay for it...each level.

Finally, i know wetin carry e come Germany, if i had known, i wouldn't come to Schweinfut. Bavarians are just proud, they wanna tell you "yo! this is Germany and we are the real native Germans" so they are strict with everything. Not as if i don't have job, honestly i am the only one yet, other Nigerians here are paying Train ticket to travel 60km or more daily to work. So because i got job and many didn't get, does it mean all is well with Schweinfurt? or because i didn't fail any course and many failed, does it mean i am smart and they are duns or does't mean the exam was easy? Na you sabi. Inferential statistics doesn't not depend on Mode, but mean distribution as a measure of central tendency and a specific confidence interval (E no go better for Prof Mark grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin)
Well,in this jungle, make your mind dey am. Uche gi ga-adi ya fulltime. Now i have food, i am hungry but i don't have time to even cook next minute i am going to work...chai Oluwa Biko oooo.

K'emesia





grin grin
@ the bolded,no be small matter o. All shades of bad about Bavaria. I no Dey consider university of regensburg again biko grin
Danke
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 6:01pm On Mar 13, 2019
Dolpaz I misss you here o grin
Am fasting and praying on your intended bomb on dating and marriage in Germany cool
Come here jare

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 3:43pm On Mar 11, 2019
Hi guys
Who has applied to university of paderborn here for the next winter semester?
I want to apply through uni assist (material science and simulation) but all my effort in searching the program on that platform just Dey bounce. Who have an idea what might be wrong ?
Business / Re: "My Trillionaire Friend" Femi Otedola And Dangote Pictured Together At An Event by homirefacuny(m): 7:27pm On Mar 05, 2019
MrMcJay:


They applied for N-Build, they are undergoing training.

BuilderMoni

Goat grin

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Crime / Re: Husband Stabbed After Catching Wife Having Sex With Lover In Their House. Photos by homirefacuny(m): 7:05pm On Mar 05, 2019
Didi2d:
But that man looks handsome, what else does the woman want, because if her lover his financially buoyant they would have hooked up in an hotel
Handsomeness does not keep a woman!
A hoe will always be a hoe. Ask Mercy Aigbe grin

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Crime / Re: Husband Stabbed After Catching Wife Having Sex With Lover In Their House. Photos by homirefacuny(m): 7:03pm On Mar 05, 2019
lexy2014:


It isn't. It is great. D problem is that this guy entered his with his eyes closed. It when he entered that his eyes opened
Oh my my grin

I get you totally!
The red flags are always there. God forbid if it happens to me o, I will try as much as possible to walk away rather than have an altercation with both of them. But she is a goner afterwards
Crime / Re: Husband Stabbed After Catching Wife Having Sex With Lover In Their House. Photos by homirefacuny(m): 6:48pm On Mar 05, 2019
Marriage is overrated!!!

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 4:27pm On Mar 05, 2019
ladyb4sure:
Can one buy at this rate? As at yeaterday, Euro is 346 shocked

It’s likely uncertain you will get 346 for bank o. If I get that one ehn...I go pick race go fund account ni o. Before Next level agenda reach am, small thing now, it will be 500 cheesy
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 4:08pm On Mar 05, 2019
vinlyreeks:

I can't really quote the rate for today but last time I saw it, it was 398/€ it's changes so anyday you're ready to make use of it you will go with the day's rate

If this true (398) I go happy o. That 3.7 mill no easy at all. We pray it’s worth it by God’s Grace
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 4:31am On Feb 28, 2019
Ndkings1:
I just noticed that the this thread keeps moving faster every day.
Seems we are now getting more German aspirants recently

America and Canada don Dey mad already Na grin
Rate of visa refusal is very high for that side.. Germany better pass jare.

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 11:11pm On Feb 27, 2019
dailydolar:
get two packs of pop corn

Yes bro grin
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 10:58pm On Feb 27, 2019
dolpaz:


Ok... I'll drop my opinion on Gf/Bf and interracial dating in DE.


Waiting for this like say tomorrow no Dey grin
Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 6:19pm On Feb 27, 2019
LuckyLadolce:
You're right bro, But man gats start somehwere grin

Yeah right
All the best

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Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 5:45pm On Feb 27, 2019
LuckyLadolce:
not married, have few dependants but thats being taken care of with my salary.

Fair enough bro. 500k is small o for correct biz startup if you have few dependents. Just saying
Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 3:54pm On Feb 27, 2019
LuckyLadolce:
lol grin but am serious
Are you married?
Do you have dependents?
Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 12:57pm On Feb 27, 2019
Ugosample:


Nigeria is a dead and buried country

I am from an upper middle class/ near rich home in Nigeria, but I knew that jungle was not just for me, so I got some money, and left, a decision I have never regretted tillthis day.

There is more to life than having money and properties

that's all we have in Nigeria

no peace of mind undecided

hordes of poverty mentality people in a $hithole space like Nigeria (e.g. almajiri, agbero, omo alata, etc)

being among the small enclave of those who are "doing well" is nothing to be proud of.

Those who like it there can stay, but if I'm to advice anyone, you better leave that useless country tongue tongue


Only a few sane people and those that have lived in the western world understands this!
God bless

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Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 11:40am On Feb 27, 2019
LuckyLadolce:
All I need is just 500k.. I'm good here in Nigeria.

500k ??
E go shock you brother grin

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Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Relocate To With 6million by homirefacuny(m): 11:14am On Feb 27, 2019
queengift:
Are u a Nigerian? Are u tired of Nigeria? Do u want to travel abroad? If YES u lie,Nobody is going anywhere we die here���

Goat grin
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 7:20am On Feb 27, 2019
dolpaz:




Hi bro,

Pregnancy is a blessing from God. so first, accept my heartfelt congratulations. now to the real challenge. If I may get you right, both you and your wife studied the same course and would like to proceed to Germany to study together and start a new life. well, Its a good choice if you ask me but the financial implication would likely cut off your pocket when you finally find yourself here. I don´t know your age but obviously, your wife and new born baby will be on a Gesetzliche Familien krankenversicherung (Public Family Insurance). A single guy/girl below 30 years old pays an average of 90€ monthly (over 38k Naira) and this COMPULSORY in Germany. This mean as a family, you guys would likely be placed on the Public family health insurance which could cost as much as 300€ (over 120k naira) every month. So, lets assume you´re over 30, you could still get insured on Private health insurance which is very cheap Around 30€ (12k monthly) but your kid and wife would be on a public insurance. The difference between Private and Public is the fact that If you attend any clinic or hospital for treatment, you pay direct cash and the Private Insurance pays you back after submission of treatment and payment receipt, but for Public Insurance, you don´t pay any dime. Just submit your card and the rest will be sorted between the hospital and the Insurance coy.

Secondly, Its risky coming with SL. reason is because you ain´t gonna start wokring Imediately you get to Germany. So, the moment anyone offers to sponsor you, then he´s saddled with every financial responsibilty accrued to you. So if your wife comes and deliver a baby, mehn, that Guy/lady don enter one chance. He/she has to take care of the family because he has signed a Letter of Declaration of support. and If he erred, his permanent residency could be revoked. Also, as a married man, I wouldn´t advice you to use SL. Since you´ll be enjoying full benefits of the insurance and other stuffs, I´d advice you and your wife to fund with blocked account so you can settle well into the system. I know it´s not easy but trust me, you´ll understand the importance of this when your finally arrive here.

Also, If you decide to use SL alone, You´ll still have to come to DE with at least 3k. The first couple of months, You´ll pay Semester fees, House rent, Kaution, Insurance, Feeding and other valaubles. The three most important payment monthly in Germany is House rent, Insurance and Feeding. So imagine spending at least 400-450 monthly for 3 months prior to getting a job.

Secondly, Your wife can go for her interview In as much the Pregnancy is not visible. With my calculation, You´re going for winter and not summer. This mean your wife will be heavily pregnant hence, it´ll limit her chances of coming for studies cos she´ll be in her Tri-Semester and this means less/reduced stress for her usw.

So much to explain but here´s my opinion and advice.


Channel all your energy to come here first (If your body fit hold am smiley ). By next year, your wedding will be 2 years according to you. Submit your wedding certificate with your child birth certificate during your interview. When you get to DE, work and study and ensure to make a certain threshold. Apply for family reunion and your wife will join you with your baby. If the family reunion visa is granted, your wife would be able to work 24/7 because her visa is a Family reunion visa (§ 29 AufenthG Familiennachzug) while yours is different because you´re on student residency permit (aufenthaltsgenehmigung § 16) with 120 full days or 240 Half days to work. Remember when your family is here, You´ll need a 3 bedroom flat for yourself.. A room must be set aside for each child except they are of the same sex.. You´ll have to feed them, clothes them, and do some shopping.. Bro, you´ll be spending close to 1200€ monthly. and this is an outrageous amount for a student here in DE.

I hope I´ve been able to pass some message across and you can understand me better.


Phew, I have typed so much. This post will go a long way to guide anyone who plans to come with family/pregnancy.


Wishing everyone success in their Pursuit.

O boy no be small thing o. One must have a rethink, make person no go Jones grin
Dolpaz, Danke!

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Family / Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by homirefacuny(m): 6:30pm On Feb 26, 2019
YoungBlackRico:
Didn't expect less from an Omoalata.

Dead grin
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 12:23am On Feb 26, 2019
josh2flex:
Lol.....was carried away by election results so I stop checking mails.

Thank God AM has finally come ....oh
Admission : 25th sept 2018
Interview Nov 5th 2018.
AM 25th feb 2019 10:56am
University of duisburg essen.
Second Msc. ENVIRONMENTAL Toxicology

Dont ever stop trusting God.
Thank You Jesus

Advice :AM Delay because my blocked account pdf was not properly renamed and sent to the embassy.
Thank God my enrolment deadline extend through 2019.

Wish everyone God's grace in their pursuit.

This forum was a big guide to my success.
I appreciate everyone for their contribution.

Congratulations go and shine
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 8:15pm On Feb 25, 2019
Congratulations to all guys that got their AM today. Go and succeed

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 12:53pm On Feb 25, 2019
delivite:


I'm sure there must be a way for you. There's definitely extra cost if you give birth before traveling because you must show that you have enough funds to cover your baby as well. Many schools have children facilities that nursing mothers will find helpful. The bigger question for me is whether you can handle the stress and pressure of studying while nursing your baby.

There's no easy answer to that. If you decide to go ahead, I'm sure no embassy will deny you a visa because you're having a baby.

But if you're pregnant up to 7 months, I doubt if any airlines will allow you to fly.

This is only my opinion. I wish you the best of luck. Give my regards to that sharpshooter. It's not easy lol

Baba mi ko easy grin
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by homirefacuny(m): 12:43am On Feb 24, 2019
My testimony is sure here by God’s Grace.

@dailydolar. Thank you for the heads up from part 5. I will mail you soon.

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Politics / Re: Corper Goes Into Hiding, Crying As Gunmen Storm Their Polling Unit(video) by homirefacuny(m): 6:50pm On Feb 23, 2019
Fadedvoices2:
Coward

I knew it would be a female even before opening the thread .


97% of Nigerian women are feeble minded cowards who are strong only on social media .

Your mama and sisters inclusive!!
Cowardice kill you there

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 5 by homirefacuny(m): 2:42am On Feb 23, 2019
dailydolar:
Jena is good but its better you apply with IELTS or TOEFL but they will Stoll five you with proficiency letter but you must scope them or better still state ministrybof educatoon collect letter ofnpeodiciency and make them write am say e dey euivallent to go C1-C2 for CEFR ( common European frame of reference ). Na so I scope them say I go get am but thank God Bremen admission come before am na soni run go Bremen fast
Na chemistry be your BSc ? Which school

O boy man no get TOEFL and I want admission in a course deeply routed in chemistry. With the letter from ministry of education...I should be able to get the admission all other things been equal Na ?
Yes Chemistry is my BSc. University of ILORIN.
Thanks for the heads up brother
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 5 by homirefacuny(m): 8:54pm On Feb 22, 2019
ayokunlemmy:
Who is seeing this?

This can never be true grin
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 5 by homirefacuny(m): 3:03pm On Feb 21, 2019
dailydolar:
who dash me abi you no dey read my comment since I didn't ooo na Bremen smile on me with Jena

Lol I like Jena too.
They have chemistry of materials. I will spread the tentacles. Not many schools has chemistry itself, just related courses.

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