₦airaland Forum

The OP has provided a good opportunity for us to treat a matter of great public concern in Nigeria -RAPE!

I make bold to state that the GF must have experienced the most excruciating form of rape, and possibly been involuntarily initiated into the cult.

The Suggested remedies:
BF should gain the full confidence of GF enough to make her admit the truth - he could try by divulging his deepest secrets to her enough to give her confidence to reciprocate. He could also take steps to assure her he intends to spend the rest of his life her, up to possibly exchanging marital vows or formal engagement or introduction.
Next he should make her understand she is a tripartite being with Body, Soul and Spirit; let her appreciate the relative value, capacity and limits of each part of her. Then let her know the extent of damage and the healing process for the body and soul that has been violated/wounded.
He should help her appreciate the global growing nature of this problem of rape such that she should seize from self condemnation and instead grab the opportunity to gain strength and become a source of inspiration to other in her predicament.
They should both seek spiritual guidance and assistance to deliver the SOUL from the cage of rape and move forward together.
If necessary, he should sacrifice a lot of his time to be closer to her.
If she admits the rape and can identify some of the cultist, she should consider leaving their vicinity to prevent a feeling of helplessness.

I sympathize with your plight and wish you both a stronger union.

I'll advise the Op to follow through and ensure the bloke gets sacked - he had it coming! If you need to continue with the job without fear if ambush for revenge, add this line to your submission: 'that he threatened to deal with you badly if anyone gets to hear of his acts' The will ensure the case involves the police who will make him give a commitment that nothing untoward happens to you!

Why is everyone focused on Jet fighters and nuclear bombs?

Modern wars are not won that way! The instruments of modern warfare include the propaganda, tactics, strategy, ICT cum intelligence, economics, ideology, partnerships, politics, etc. Critical factors such as timing, speed, surprise and positioning (the theater) play a great role in determining the outcome of modern wars. That's why it's always so difficult to per-determine the outcome and also why it is advisable to avoid warfare at all cost!

The weapons are merely tools of the trade, and remember 'a lazy workman quarrels with his tools!' There are many fear weapons out there, which will play the surprise role in a full blown warfare (where all is fair...). Such tools as weaponized chemicals and biologicals will show up, as well as the latest EMR -Electro-Magnetic Radiation, which can render the most potent aircraft, seacraft, command centre, etc virtually useless. It will fry all eletrical-electronic components and render them useless in seconds - imaging that game-changing scenario!

I strongly feel Putin is too much of a chess player to deal directly with this Turkish 'aggression' Every chess player understands that 'the threat is always stronger than its execution'. He will only use the incidence to ostracize those behind the ISIS putsch.

The real danger is that there may soon come a direct aggression against the USA who is currently the troubler of the entire world by its selfish, arrogant and hypocritical policies. The good book predicted the coming of this event in the last days for those industrious enough to study and intelligent enough to understand.

The incidences leading to the end-time apocalypse are almost complete. For those who care, this is the time to forsake all evil in hope of acceptance by The Creator!

A weapon of indignation is in the making, which will sort out all these skirmishes, just like the atom bomb did. The full cycle is here just because of the greed of mankind and lack of filial love for one another.

Russia is fighting for her economic survival and has identified the real enemy, who produces little consumer goods but controls the world economy with her dollar.

The war will pitch Russia, China and the emerging economies agianst the USA and a few NATO Allies.

Watch and PRAY!

wiseoneking:
Some thing is wrong with apc. So if saraki succumb all will be well with him, his corruption charges with CCB will be dropped. Well, saraki still has over 80 senate member supporters ie about 70%. Ekweremadu still dey kamkpe. Nothing will ever happen.

NO!!! There are two options awaiting him: A -Political Coffin; B -Political Quarantine. If he plays ball (and in good time) he will be quarantined and may live happily (but quietly) ever after. If not, he will receive the bullet of the Law.

In Nigeria and most other climes, it is very difficult to go against the main political establishment and survive.

Initially, I thought PMB gave him tacit support, but once it has become clear this is not the case, he ought to have copied Dogara. I think his trouble started from his mouth (recall the words 'ordinary commissioner'?)

In any case, game-goes...!

The reason is its always daytime on the planet, due to its characteristic glow. Our days are recognised by the alternation of Night and not strictly in time span (We think in terms of longer days and Shorter days during the Solstices and Equinoxes.

The planet Venus is the brightest though second nearest to the Sun. It often appears like a Star (and sometimes like a second moon) to the naked eye. Its surface is red hot and volcanic in nature.

My take on these issues:

Buhari should dine with the US with a very looong fork - I will continue to regard them a friendly-foe until Boko Haram is completely quietened and tamed. I do not believe their 'human rights' tales.

PDP should shut-up and learn how to hunt, kill and eat corrupt officials - they had 16 years to hunt the so-called APC thieves and had no single success. Is it after they left office that they discovered some members of the opposition chieftains are corrupt or they signed non-aggression pact? Was it an official PDP Policy not to fight corrupt persons? Or were the 'newly-corrupt' APC Chieftains former PDP members who were considered blameless until they crossed the 'Jordan'?

APC should recover as much as is technically feasible from the A-List of the Oil-Thieving Team. To make the process faster, they may consider a three-month amnesty period for the thieves to voluntarily return the loot in exchange for 'light' jail terms (less than the 600 years proposed by the Dame PJ). The light jail terms should came fully loaded with opportunities for hard labour with generous pay package and retirement benefits that will ensure they never need to steal again! All who fail to take advantage of the amnesty should be 'discretely' deleted and their case forwarded to the Supreme-Court, presided over by the only incorruptible judge -God. I considered it slow, wasteful and inefficient to drag them to our courts (with all due respect to the highly esteemed Nigerian Benchers) for the reasons that we have too many SANs and the naira has its magical powers to confuse even the most astute mortal.

Alternatively, Buhari should leak the list to MEND and other militant groups such as the area boys and advise them to dispense justice as they deem fit!

As for the Oyelly Industry, let all who know how, be fully empowered to refine the thing using existing local technologies, and supply to NNPC depots. NNPC should be responsible for grading the output according to prescribed standards and pricing. It should also handle Bulk distribution/ Bridging for all Nigerians to enjoy, rather than continue this import subsidy scam. if there must be subsidy, let it be disbursed to proven consumers in a pre-determined list of essential sectors of the economy, rather than pay the importer. You will be surprised at how quickly standard and world-class refineries will spring up from this process within the next two years!

Where's the quarrel coming from? The most important thing in a website is the content. Collect your content and get some other geek to extract the code or create similar code (httrack; firebug; view source will help)... it will only cost a little more!

Geeks in the house, am I speaking Greek here?