₦airaland Forum

abadiru:
Please, there is information from a reliable source that this guy is no more a staff of BABCOCK University. Our investigation revealed that he left BABCOCK University 2 years ago. He is not in any position to speak on behalf of the school for any reason and his statement is strictly his personal view. I think the BU management will release a press statement on this shortly. Thank you

Una don cook lies wey u go serve Nigerians as an escape route.
The guy should be disciplined for the wrong and he too should apologies to Igbos thru his facebook account.
The school may lose patronage from Igbos In their next academic session. They should handle this matter with utmost wisdom.

dignity33:
Stop typing rubbish here every tribe have good and the bad, those Yoruba people killing there fellow Yoruba for ritual who are there or those Hausa fulani that killed there brothers in the name of Boko Haram are there also an Igbo. Take your hatred for igbos to somewhere else because you are not making sense.

You have properly addressed the foo.l

raumdeuter:
All the rats and moles are getting smoked out of their hiding place. The snakes in APC are getting purged. Positioning the party for greatness

Buhari, Tinubu Oshiomole the real owners of the party have established their control over the party

2019 APC still wins the presidency

Shey Timi Frank fit win his state or LGA for APC before?

Pls accept my sympathy over the pain you are passing through now.

HAH:
I have never had hope in any politician like Buhari but now I am never been disappointed by any politician like Buhari

I realised that being incorruptible is not same thing as being competent, but is Buhari not even corrupt ?

I campaigned for him canvassed for him, sent money to him and even here on nairaland we did it

I am a disappointed buharist

This mistake must be undone 2019 .

Allah wadaran naka ya lalace

I did the same o but i regret that action. We must put this country on the right track. PDP is bad as APC but its good to have strong opposition party like them so as to put APC under check as they did to PDP in the past.
God is our strength.

Oyindidi:
How old is this kid disturbing our peace with his logic about relationships?

Don't worry. Experience will tell you how old i am as time goes on.

Sugar97:
Lol. Even marriages sealed by the court can be broken, how much more a mere written promise to marry. He can write and still walk away

You can only write and walk away when u are dealing with someone who doesn't know how to use what you wrote to deal with you. Try that with someone who knows.

Ladies this is 2018 so shine your eyes and stop playing mumu faithfulness for years while he keeps promising to marry you.

Such and empty promise keeps turning your head and you keep hoping upon hope like forever. At the end of the day he tells you such silly stories of how his mother kicks against his marrying you. Then you go and cry your heart out and call men all sorts of name. After that you fall into another man's hand and continue playing your mumu role.

Next time he promises you of marriage kindly ask him to put it in writing and duly signed and watch him decline.
He knows the implication of that and because he is just making empty promises hence he will decline and stop his empty promises.

DONT BE DECEIVED

Innobee99:
My bro is pained

I know you guys are so pained because i am spoiling your deceit business for you. Continue.

bigocean:
Faithfulness at a high level. Attitude is the reason why most relationships dont end up well.

Not being faithful to one, doesnt mean the others would marry you if your attitude is bad. Every man knows a wife when they see one and they dont know this because you are faithful. They simply decide this by the attitude the lady puts on.

Honestly you have not made any concrete point here. Boyfriend/girlfriend is too ordinary to deserve high level faithfulness that you are advocating for.
Its obvious you are among the guys that see it as marriage and thats why you guys are screaming faithfulness up and down.

A boy and a girl in secondary school are into relationship as if they are married and you think it deserves high level faithfulness. You dey try no be small. Abeg make i hear word.

And down the line it goes for other guys and babes and you talk about high level faithfulness in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship? A relationship that, most times, doesnt lead to anywhere.

After the "high level faithfulness", the lady is dumped while the guy settles with another lady for marriage. These things are happening and we see it live. High level faithfulness indeed.

Ladies shine your eyes this is 2018. Dont be a mumu for any boyfriend in the name of high level faithfulness.

Be faithful to yourself and to God as a single, you dont owe any boyfriend faithfulness
.
Avoid living like a married girl while you are still single. Be truly single until you are married.

Relate with guys normally.

Guard your heart against being highjacked by one so called boyfriend.

Close your legs until you marry, thats the major target of so called boyfriend. Forget about the noise attached.

Dont be carried away by the many promises of a guy.

Oyindidi:
The person is trying to pass a message but it's not clear. Let him/her explain to us

The message is clear-

Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not marriage so dont get along into it as if its marriage. You are still single and still bearing your fatther's name so dont deceive yourself. No dulling with a man who keeps promising you that he will marry you while years are rolling by.

Dont invest your heart 100 percent in one man until he goes official with you. Dont close the door of your heart to other suitors, let the guy who is serious about you be the one that will close the door of your heart by going official. Until then, keep your heart open. Dont be carried away by the sweet tongue of guys. That same tongue will be used to lash you when the business crash. Beware!

bigocean:
being a man is not just about your physical features. Being a man comes with a spirit, has an attitude. I be man no be for talk after all we cant say bobrisky is a man even though he has a d**ck.

Relationship at any level demands faithfulness and respect from both parties in it.

Respect- yes.

Faithfulness- what level?

You that claim to be a real man kindly state the level of faithfulness that is required of a girlfriend.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I don't think a man will knowingly marry a disloyal lady.


Follow this advice at your own peril

What do you mean by disloyal? The word loyal should not come near boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because its not supposed to be too intimate in the first place but the problem you people have is that you take it to the point of marriage intimacy. You relate with each other as if you are already married. Too bad. Why should a girl invest all her heart into a man who has not taken serious steps towards her apart from the usual "i love you" and 'I wan marry you" word of mouth? Meanwhile years are passing and the mumu girl is still hoping upon hope until things crash.

Wake up to reality. You are not your boyfriend's wife until you are officially married to him. You are still bearing your father's surname so if he dumps you tomorrow you dont have much ground to fight him legally or traditionally or relgiously. You have much to lose in this scenario girl.

esthy86:
peace and love

Thanks.

Innobee99:
Dey Don do u strong thing ni?

I dont expect less from you guys. Ladies are at the receiving end in this matter and not us thats why you guys want to continue deceiving them with your faithful-girlfriend mantra.
When you dump them after keeping them for years in the name of faithfulness you go and marry another girl while they suffer frustrations. By that time you dont give a damn about all her years of faithfulness to you. Keep deceiving them.

esthy86:
i owe him my faithfulness


what the excess of flirting,honestly i thank God for the kind of being i am

Its obvious a lot of people here believe that the definition of boyfriend or girlfriend is sex-mate. Quite a shame.

Thats why the only thing that comes to your mind when i talk about faithfulness is flirting and jumping from one bed to the other. Little wonder you girls are getting series of heart breaks.

You owe him your faithfulness indeed, and when he will dump you he wont remember your so called faithfulness. Keep deceiving yourself.

Oyindidi:
Boyfriend and girlfriend should not be demanding faithfulness from each other

Nana woyin Tamara! Young lady change that mindset. People court/date before marriage

You court and date for 3 years doing miss faithful. At the end of the day he gives you a silly excuse how his mother is against his marrying you.
Meanwhile you have refused to consider other serious men who came your way because you were playing miss faithful to him. Who is the loser here pls? You can continue, its not by force but a fact.

By the way i am a man and not a woman.

highqueen:
abeg shut up.


if you don't want to stay faithful, don't shove it up our throats.


isn't it less stressful to stay single than jumping from one man/girl to another??.

how do you people do it?

Counter my points and stop giving fooolish reply.

I stated my points clearly with reasons and you are here sounding like a frustrated fooool.

Oyindidi:
You are confusing yourself.. I'm trying to understand the topic.

Young lady, are you saying its wrong to have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Its not worth demanding faithfulness. Read my post again or u can read the title of this thread again.

zainmaxwell:
abegi me I don't condone cheat and leech

Your definition of girlfriend relationship is sex. That's guys and i i dont expect you to support me. Guys and sex are 5 and 6.

Oyindidi:
You mean it's wrong to have boyfriend, right?

Its not worth demanding faithfulness. If u want to demand faithfulness then marry her.

zainmaxwell:
Op your moniker says honorhim but did u know the meaning? Or are u high

.

Yea it means honour God, honour things that are legal. Honour marriage and not backyard business like boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

Oyindidi:
This one weak me

Of what use is faithfulness that the guy will end up dumping you and marrying another girl?

Yes u dont owe any boyfriend or even girlfriend faithfulness because that relationship is a backyard business.

Its not recognised by law or our constitution. It is not recognised by our tradition or religion. Only marriage is recognised and that is where faithfulness is demanded.

As a single u owe your faithfulness to yourself and to God. Don't be decieved..

Any guy who desires your faithfulness should marry you.

Mr Hausa,
pls note that nobody allocates shop to anybody in Igbo land. You rent a shop. The problem you hausa people and others have is that you always want everything free. It doesnt work that way. Igbos in the north, southwest and south south pay shop rents or buy your land to build their shops. They dont get anything free from any of you so pls stop making noise. In the east too and all over the world we pay rents for shops.

Nonsense. He is going through what the former deputy governor went through under this same Rochas.

Oga carry your firewood on your own and stop crying. Rochas is a disgrace but you decided to work with him when he pushed out the other deputy governor. you felt he will treat you as an angel. Sorry late.

Nonsense

sureboykris:
Greetings everyone. My name is Kris and I reside in Anambra.
There's this growing trend which is affecting myself and my family - Early morning preachers.
These people have made my life a living hell.
Sometimes as early as 4:30am these people wake you up with loudspeakers.
Problem is that sometimes I get back late and sleep late and barely have enough hours to sleep before starting a new day. Sometimes my baby keeps us awake till the early hours of the morning and just when we're about to catch some sleep, they arrive.. Sometimes 3 different groups preach at the same time.
I now have frequent headaches and have developed some form of early morning anxiety (i dread the noise of the megaphone).
Please what do I do? Is this a matter for the police(as I feel they're disturbing public peace) or do I just see a doctor to help me cope with my sleep problems.
Your advice will be appreciated. Thanks

Noise is a general problem in Nigeria that the government needs to tackle wholistically. Its not just the early morning preachers. How about the clubs? The bush bars? The musical CD shops? The herbal shops? The car horns and trailer horns? The speakers from the mosque that makes its own noise? Car radios that played on high volume by transporters and privates? How about the one coming out from your next door neighbour? The church around you doing night vigil?

The whole thing is too much and because our politicians are hypocrites and bunch of failures they dont care. FAshola tried it in Lagos and people felt bad. Nigerians can be so annoying.

deomelo:
What is this one talking about?

Abi no be PMB release the license in the first place?

PMB is doing what the useless PDP and Jona you followed for 16 years couldn't do.



These ipobs sef..

You don't need to reply such empty comment. Jonathan failed to give them licence and he didnt blame him rather he is blaming Buhari that gave them licence for which they are rejoicing over

. Ipob guys are so annoying.

deomelo:
Den don begin shift goal post....

You people don't have educated people in iboland to stand behind and send to Aso Rock?

Shebi you people are the smartest, educated, the most superior and the richest?

Obviously, an educated northerner is more superior than you and the folks in the above picture...





K

Don't mind the fools here? They talk anyhow because they hate Buhari

don4real18:
It's his phone and he has every right to do what he wants with it

You are pathetic. Why is he crying in the public since its nobody:s business what he does with his phone?