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edoman2016:
The States are: Benue, Plateau, Bauchi, Kano, Kaduna and Rivers and the FCT.
Are the states above the one that have not met their quota?

Becklynn:
How true is this?

edoman2016:
did survival fund wrote about employee that they missed their 2nd and 3rd payment and yet to be paid?

Aremoola:
please is the 4th payment real, has anyone else received in the recent time?

Okayy:
It's very true. Fourth payment has started dropping. One of my employees has been paid.

WoundedLamb:
Well, this wouldn't have been a problem if the society doesn't also encourage the husband to disavow thier legal but non biological children. Since the DNA trend started, we've seen men (legal fathers) discarding their "children" after they learnt they aren't really theirs (biologically). We all get so carried away with shaming the women that nobody reminds the men of "our culture". Then today, we're viewing things from the perspective of the man who did the do (the biological fathers) and suddenly, we remember "our culture". The only thing worth taking away from this is that we always want to take a stance that exonerates the man and heap the entire responsibility on the woman even if it means leaving the child 'fatherless'. I'm sorry to sound unappreciative of "our culture" but the wellbeing of the child is more important than any misogynistic culture and if "our culture" doesn't guarantee a home for him, I see no reason to defend it.

You say we shouldn't adopt the "American culture"; please, what's the "American culture" regarding paternity? The American culture has laid down rules for all these and they follow it religiously. What you described as your non american culture is American. In the US common law, a child born to a married woman is presumed to be the child of her husband by virtue of a "presumption of paternity" or presumption of legitimacy. The biological father isconly allowed to take responsibility if the husband disavows the child or seeks divorce based on paternity fraud. In fact, even if the couple divorces based on any other thing without mentioning paternity, the child remains their shared responsibility. This way, the child will get know who wanted him as a child and who didn't.

The difference is that Americans follow thier rules regardless of who's gaining or who's losing while you guys only remember "our culture" when it's on the side of the man whose interest you're trying to protect at the moment.

grandstar:
Paternity fraud is where you have been deceived to accepting a child that isn't yours.

grandstar:
Easier said than done. It also isn't noble and right before the Creator to whom every family owes its name. . (Read 1 Timothy 5:

What you said is what many have have done but the neglected child suffers greatly.

The Davinone family in Delta has the most chartered accountants in the world-all 5 kids chartered accountants. Fantastic laurel!

It does have a dark secret. The father of the family had a first child with a white woman which he completely neglected. She grew up in poverty in England. Till now, the lady being over 50 now, is only grudgingly accepted.

Most importantly, once the child's needs are well taken care of by the adoptive parent, the biological father can step back. The interest of the child is the key here. Anyway, paternity fraud complicates the whole thing.

grandstar:
Easier said than done. It also isn't noble and right before the Creator to whom every family owes its name. . (Read 1 Timothy 5:

What you said is what many have have done but the neglected child suffers greatly.

The Davinone family in Delta has the most chartered accountants in the world-all 5 kids chartered accountants. Fantastic laurel!

It does have a dark secret. The father of the family had a first child with a white woman which he completely neglected. She grew up in poverty in England. Till now, the lady being over 50 now, is only grudgingly accepted.

Most importantly, once the child's needs are well taken care of by the adoptive parent, the biological father can step back. The interest of the child is the key here. Anyway, paternity fraud complicates the whole thing.

Nothing like paternity fruad, a lawyer have come on air to explain that paternity fruad does not exist in any law. Learn to do your research. Nigerian like copy and pest.
There is a sperm bank for those who want to donate their sperm..... ...

WoundedLamb:
Yeah... so who's child is it? Aren't we encouraging men to do DNA tests on their kids to make sure they aren't taking care of another man's children? So if you also ask the biological father to forget his kid, then what becomes the fate of the child and the mother? Isn't it sad that we encourage men who have children with other women asides their wives to just forget the kid and then we turn around to shame the women for not opening up to their husband about the child? This our desire to free men of any blame in paternity issues shouldn't also make us encourage them to be heartless. Law or no law, only a wicked man would watch his child suffer.

Sharonstone7719:
Kindly read her husband's side of the story before concluding

seborrhic:
She better have proof because this is irreparable damage to the man's reputation.
But I find it strange and I highly suspect this is a woman being vindictive over something because for almost a year after she gave birth,she was living with this same husband,yet she didn't catch him or report his gay tendency with evidence.
How can it now be that it's his own blood son he is finding the attraction to exhibit this kind of abhorrent behaviour?
I honestly don't believe this woman and see her as a bitter soul,the type that are comfortable destroying someone,even if with the most crude and repulsive of tales.
I bet the man has a story to tell about her or she has conveniently first thrown this horrid of accusations so as to diffuse or deflect from what the husband was about to do or tell about her.I suspect the husband wanted the marriage dissolved and she wants to damage him at whatever cost,using the most vile of accusations,before any other woman.

Vicky2k:
@HrProf, when did you register and upload your business/bank documents on their site. I did mine since the last week of November yet no sign of the first payment on our side. i and my staff have recieved their calls

Realsufi:
When did they received their 2nd payment

ukoekah:
Which bank

mattyrukee:
3rd Alert??

Thought this is just the second month nau. How come 3rd alert.

Vicky2k:
In my Survival Fund Portal, my Verification Status is showing Unverified and CAC Status (Additional Info)- Unable to verify CAC Number. Could this be the reason why i and my employees have not been paid even the first payment. I have received their calls and some of my staff have been called too.
My Business CAC Registration is still active from the Public Name Search. Any ideas Guys

Nacho4:
Go google ielts British council or Mod/idp. The instructions to register are there.
It's ielts general training and yes you can use the same result but you don't wanna score below LRWS 8777 for Express Entry purposes
Result is valid for 2yrs

Libkid:
legit lie