Ayt27:


I'm back, it got really hot in your kitchen

No, no he does not.

I suppose you could help him figure it out?

What do you think he's "actual desire towards the desired" may be?

It's really not in my place to "help" him figure his desires.

Ayt27:


I can take the heat, let me get small air-conditioning in the living room first.

Ayt27:


Easy there tiger! Slow down slow down

I have no idea how to respond to this now, I'll come back for this later.

Before we go far let's talk about us

Us?

Sure you have no idea. I have a knack for leaving men clueless.

PS: I warned you before, it gets really hot in my kitchen. Not sure you can take the heat.

Ayt27:


Not wanting to be with a pyscho isn't an excuse? please. Nobody wants to be with a psycho.someone you can't trust or vibe with?

You ever seen stable emotions? Emotions fleet more than floating clouds.

So now pray tell, what you mean when you say "so do you understand the desired"?

What is the desirer supposed to understand?

How did we arrive at the possibility of your supposed object of attraction being a psycho? I mean at this point, you must have noticed some traces of "ment" and if you did but still found her desirable, then you're a suspected psycho.

Emotions are only fleeting to those who haven't mastered the art of perfect control.

Better put, does the desirer understand what he desires? Not referring to the object of his desire here but his actual desire towards the desired.

Ayt27:


Ah! Autocorrect foils me again.

Duh! The desirer does, but when you use the word *understand* that takes a different meaning , heck! the desired could be a crazy pyscho.

No desirer wants to deal with that

Now we're getting somewhere and it seems the desirer really doesn't know what he desires cos I see excuses springing up already just to mask his fleeting emotions.

Dawn91:
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Before I tackle you, let me shed some wisdom. You ego is not your amigo... You are about to learn the reality of that. You see all those people praising you on this thread ? 99% of them are unemployed and 99% would have apologized to the director ..
You are about to be unemployed, I know to you the outstanding arrears seems alot now right ? I'd give you a few months when Nigeria's economy has burned through that and whatever savings you have had then reality would set in.
Good luck finding a new job with that attitude.

So if you had this view, why did you cancel out HenryOdion's post?

I mean you both share same perspective. Except you think he's not in a position to advice the OP?

HenryDion:
Hmmm... It's obvious you don't like the job nor your director, and have been nursing the thought to leave.

Despite all my achievements, I'm ready to greet someone 10 times if I see them 10 times that day.

In this case, you barged into a room full of people, then barged out without greeting?

That's weird.

Your responses to your director exudes arrogance. I probably would have fired you at the spot if I were in his shoe.

Once hunger wire you in this Buhari era, your brain will reset.

Like I'm so appalled by the blatant display of arrogance. These are the same youths that wanna jappa. They can't survive in a corporate environment in developed countries.

Zero emotional intelligence, zero interpersonal skills.

GloriousGbola:


so when you have been married for a while, there's a lot of baggage that may come between you and your husband where sex is concerned - infidelty, money issues, uneven responsibilities, resentment, etc. all of this throws ice into the bed. but the ex who she had fun with back then - there is no baggage, just nostalgia and good memories. i think this is why some married women pine for exes. especially if the exes[m] are doing well. the story would probably have been the same if they married those exes [marriage baggage], but it is what it is.

saying this because i have heard diff stories about exes(f) coming on strong to their now married Exes [m]

Hmm, your points seem valid.

pocohantas:


I think it was more about the way she cried when he broke up with her. They (online in-laws) said she said he fell in love with someone else and was no longer feeling her. So I understand their outrage. We all want to be first choices and even universities didn’t give priority to people who picked them as second choices way back.

If there is anything to be learnt here, it is to keep certain relationship details off the internet. People would comment based on their own values and rightly so. Many of us would be slighted if our partner takes to the streets and returns to us when he/she sees there is nothing out there. Men would not take it, though they do it all the time in marriage sef only to return when they are dilapidated Nigerian used humans to turn their virtuous wives into a retirement nurse for cooking oilless vegetable soup and snapping family potraits.

Try same with them and that is when they would come to Nairaland to tell us their ex is still single at 39.5yrs and they are now happily married to a more beautiful woman.

I don’t know the married women that sleep with their EXes all the time. Have you slept with any married woman? I reckon you have many married EXes. Chochocho…

LOL. That was some brutal truth sis.

Ayt27:


There's a Desirer and the desired, if the desirer desires the desired, then that's dope but would the desired desire the desired?

If you can answer that, then you have your results.

Did you mean, would the desired desire the Desirer?

If that's what you meant? We cant tell for sure. The desired may just have to be convinced that the desirer's desire is sincere and not speculative.

The question that begs to be answered here though is "does the desirer really understand what he desires"?

Ayt27:


Oh! Trust me I'd get my desired results. The twist here is if the results do not want to be desired.

Only on days that end with y

You're certain you'd get your desired results but not certain if the results will be desired?

Hmmm, you must be a striker, getting what you want every day. Oshey baddest boi

Ayt27:


Oh! Trust me I'd get my desired results. The twist here is if the results do not want to be desired.

Only on days that end with y

You're certain you'd get your desired results but not certain if the results will be desired?

Hmmm, you must be a striker, getting what you want every day.

Ayt27:


Yeah that's why I have two mops with me, if the sliding is getting too much, I can always clean up the floor.

LOL. I see you've got it all figured out. I'm trying to be optimistic for you, that you'd get your desired results.

Do you always get what you want?

Ayt27:


I'll have to remedy that, since you don't want to give me your number or call me,

I'll have to keep the floor wet to easily slide into your mentions.

You'll have to work with me though

Interesting... Curious to see how this plays out. Be careful though, wet floors are a recipe for disaster.

Ayt27:


Hello!

If I didn't know better I'd say you were avoiding me. Been a while I heard from you here.

Well maybe I am...

Good thing you know better

helinues:
Reno should try and be making use of his brain sometimes..

And yet this guy called himself a pastor when he should be praying for peace

How many Nigerians heard about Tigray war even up till today?

Shame on you Reno

You just affirmed his point! You are not aware of a war within Africa but concerned about one in Europe.

This would be an interesting feature.

Zonefree:

You can't be done with this conversation when you're yet to tell me the essence of spreading a married woman's legs that way .

Hahaha. Why are you so vexed.

These are stretches, required after an intense work out session to reduce the stress inflicted on the muscles.

I'd be very uncomfortable with someone other than "him" stretch me this way though. The exposed thighs makes it look quite inappropriate.

My sympathies are with you. Just move on. Also, try to understand the mother's perspective. You're also a mom. Every mom wants what they think is the utmost best for their child.

We live in a society that's not very accepting of single moms. So this kind of scenario is expected. But then, God is still in the business of arranging someone's son wey go love you unconditionally, one day.

WhrightJr:
In my childhood days I used to think the earth was flat and that I could follow the cloud to the end, until I trekked so far from my town back then and it was getting dark, I started looking around I knew I was lost, I had to borrow money from a stranger to pay back to my hometown, I came back home and kept mute, nobody knew my story
I thank God for education, I would have still been a jackass

Hahaha. Funny

TruthUntold:

I guess the fact that your mum is just not comfortable watching 'raunchy' scenes never crossed your mind.

Exactly! Like how can a mom be comfortable watching erotic scenes with her son

Popsmoke2:
My school teacher taught me most of the lies I tell today, she would tell me to write a letter to my uncle abroad when she knows my uncle is in the village



Make una like my story abeg

Haha, very nice. Walai, if you don't win, I go personally give you the 10 pounds.

PastorMIsBack:


Lol It's not even her channel. She did the documentary for Netflix. Thank you.

Always welcome.

1stHooligan:
When I was a kid, me and my kid sister came from school and meet alot of people in our house. I can recall their faces

I saw my Dad, my mother's sisters and neighborhs but Mum was no where to be found. I asked where my mother was and I was told she has gone to heaven.

The next day we were told we won't be going to school. Me and my sis was told to follow aunty Felicia home to take care of us.
I asked again where my mum is, she said she's now with the angels in heaven.

I asked when would she be back? it took long to understand the reality that death was.... Whenever I stopped seeing people, I'd ask if they've gone to meet the angels in heaven...that was what I believed

Is there really heaven or angels?

Awww, so sorry for your loss.

This is what I was told when my mom died when I was 5

I would go out at night, look at the skies and ask, "mom, when are you returning from Heaven"?

PastorMIsBack:


Modified to add, contrary to this view below by @light099 (awon afore sun ni se), it is NOT compulsory to watch the documentary and it is NOT my daughter's YouTube channel. The channel belongs to Netflix who already have millions of subscribers. It is simply my daughter's research which took months to put together.

I wonder why you have to quote the moniker or even respond to him. Now you've drawn unnecessary attention to him.

So what if you're inviting eyeballs to your daughter's video? That'd make you a supportive mum. You don't have to explain why you're supporting your daughter.

Infact, your next post should be a give away based on subscribing to your daughter's channel. if it hurts anybody, let them get a visa to the UK to get free pain killers from you

Please modify your post to remove his moniker and the comments he made.

donbachi:
I never believed anything as a child.except,the fact that.as a child,when you wake up in the morning.you put off the lantern,sweep the house,remove the firewood and ashes of day before,make new one,warm soup,make eba,boil water for bathing and after that.. straight to farm.later in the evening go to stream and fetch water.with the thought i will see mammywater to ask her a question.but,never saw her...For bithdays.the only time,my birthday was marked..na big boiled yam dem put for tray wey i cut.

Awwww. Thank God you don't look like what you've been through.

Awww willywonder1, you clearly have some growing up to do. This your way no be so oh.

Obviously, your boss feels insecure about your promotion. He probably didn't support it but you were promoted nevertheless and this seems to rile him up.

You need to understand that you should never make your boss feel as though you are trying to outshine him.

As you climb up in the corporate ladder, you are assessed based on your people skills and emotional maturity. Such display of emotions as you did, presents you in a very poor light. Infact any case you may have is dead on arrival and you have given your hater justifiable reasons for his actions.

You should have simply shared your concerns with HR.

Besides, the task you were given, don't you think if you had delegated to the responsible persons meant to carryout the task and supervised the process, you'd have delivered the task without necessarily getting your hands dirty while displaying effective leadership skills, which is expected in this new role?

Just watch how the Nigerians who's favorite past time is tribalism would rush to condemn this man. While doing so, remember how you treat your country man just cos he isn't yoruba or ibo.

That's to say, you'd do worse if you were from a completely different race.

Royma70, if you have supportive family, no shame in turning to them for support in trying times.

My only concern though, is you actually figuring out what you're not doing right. Use this time to surrender completely to your maker and seek total restoration that only He gives.

kennethfranc:

Permit me to ask, what of the rumour that they are not recognized for NYSC in Nigeria?

It's not a rumor but fact. Noun was originally set up for adults who require part time education. And any institution offering part time educational services don't qualify for participation at the NYSC.

Zulez:
I want to know about noun university is ther certificate legit

Of course it is.

Idowu116:
Hello Nairalanders,there is a very confusing issue I would love to share here so your opinions are highly needed.

I work in a bank as a cleaner since last year April and I earn #26,000 per month. I have been working with the aim of starting a business (even if I don't have any business idea to run)or furthering my education because I stop at SS3 since 2017 when I graduated.
Last week, my uncle called me that there is vacancy at a filling station in ibadan then from there I will continue schooling in a polythecnic of ibadan.He said I will be paid #15,000 per month an I will do part time at the poly.He said I shouldn't worry about accommodation and feeding.He also said I will be paying my school fees from my salary.

I haven't worked in a filling station before but I would love to change environment too. I don't want to leave this job and regret later and I don't know if I will do well in the filling station but I also want to further my education too.

I am confused here and I don't know what decision to take.So I came here to seek for a very candid advice on how to deal with the issue.
Please your opinions are needed thank you
Lalasticla.la please help move to front page.Thank you

I don't advise studying at a Polytechnic in this era. It's better you get a Bachelors degree from National Open University. In this case, keep the bank job.